The Hug Page

The Hug Page is here. Because, whoever we are, we still need hugs. This is still the best place to come if you’re feeling sad and need a hug from BlogClan…

Fading Echoes

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  1. August 20, 2017 at 9:17 pm

    Ok so we just got an Amber alert and don’t worry we’re home and it was really far away – like 97 miles or something… but it makes me so, so sad that someone would take a child against their will. Just need a hug because there are more and more times like this as I get older where I realize the world is in fact, a horrible place. (ok I know it’s not all bad but like a good 70% of it is)
    Also like send all your wishes and prayers to the kid. Hope they get found soon.. 🙁

    • Embertsar (Emberdawn)
      Embertsar (Emberdawn)
      August 20, 2017 at 9:26 pm


      Writer, photographer, mod

    • Rainpaw
      August 21, 2017 at 1:45 am



    • August 21, 2017 at 2:55 am

      The thing is, we can’t control what other people do. We can, however, control how we react to it and our own actions. It’s terrible that someone would take a child – or anyone, for that matter. But we can’t control it. Moping and being upset about the world isn’t going to help. But there are things we can do. Keep a lookout and keep up with the news. Let people in the area know. Organize a search party. I really hope the child is found safely soon. *huggles*

    • August 21, 2017 at 1:03 pm

      *hugs* I hope she gets found soon <3 <3 <3

      insert siggie here

    • Aquapaw
      August 21, 2017 at 5:23 pm


  2. August 20, 2017 at 9:32 pm

    Ugh. Here’s a little rant for everyone. 😛
    Lately I have been sO tired and getting horrible sleeps. I don’t know whats wrong and it’s very frustrating. I never feel like I got a good sleep, no matter whaT.
    I’m going to bed early for school season, not getting up too early, I’m not doing electronics before bed except for a book, I’m not sleeping on a full stomach, my room is dark like I like it, I try to think peaceful thoughts, my sound machine is on, yet I toss and turn, and when I do get to sleep I wake up for like 10-20 minutes at least 3 times each night, so every morning I don’t feel rested at aLL.
    I really don’t understand why.
    And last night when I was awake at like 3 or something I just.. idk if I was dreaming or something but I just felt weird and kinda unhappy. Like unsatisfied. Idek. I just felt like.. bad. That’s the only way to describe it. Strangely bad.
    And I haven’t had nightmares since we were in the rental, but I had a dream about my dog, Lucy, who I love very much, dying, and some paranormal ghost dream, and when I woke up I was paranoid about ghosts and couldn’t sleep. Idk why my nightmares are coming back either.
    Does anyone have any explanations or advice? This has been going on all week and I just wanna good sleep. I think I’m doing all the right things?? right?
    Idk sorry if this rant is a mess, I just kinda don’t understand this. 😛 Everything else has been great in my life, i’m just very tired, all the time. (also maybe overworked a tiny bit but shhh)
    So thanks for reading <3

    • Icy (Iceflower)
      Icy (Iceflower)
      August 20, 2017 at 9:36 pm

      I’m sorry, Willa, I don’t have much advice. I hardly sleep at all, and when I do, I never sleep for long. I take hours to fall asleep, and I inevitably wake up and can’t get back to sleep. I have some pretty rotten separation anxiety/anxiety in general, and when I’m all alone in my room, it gets so much worse. I keep myself awake for hours because I’m scared. I’m not going to sleep until 1:00-2:00 AM, and not getting up until around 10:00 because I kept waking up. I’m not sure what to do about it, I’m sorry. 🙁 (Also sorry for ranting about my terrible sleep schedule as well, sorry. 😛 ) I hope you find something that works for you. 🙂

      ❄ Icy - BlogTeam Moderator ❄

      • August 21, 2017 at 5:15 pm

        Try cutting off technology earlier, reading before bed, darkening the room, reading for a bit if you can’t sleep, and/or getting out your pent-up energy. 🙂

    • Embertsar (Emberdawn)
      Embertsar (Emberdawn)
      August 20, 2017 at 9:39 pm

      Hm, I’ve never really had anything like this happen to me, but maybe just keeping a small dream journal will help? It might help you understand your dream/nightmare a little better and then your subconscious will be all like “Oki doki back to candyland”. I can’t guarantee that it’ll help, but it’s worth a shot 🙂

      You could also try drinking warm, soothing tea before going to bed. Often, when we’re feeling warm, we fall asleep more quickly due to our instincts being all like “Warm and in shelter, so it’s safe to relax and sleep”. Something similar could be said for feeling cold; when we feel cold (or if our minds think we’re in a cooler climate, like if the walls are painted blue), we fall asleep quicker because of our bodies enacting the whole “conserve energy to keep body warm” thing.

      It could also be that you’re extremely stressed about something that you might not even be aware of, and you’ll have to just sit back and reflect on things to figure out what it is and try and resolve or at least relieve your stress.

      Hope this helps you, Willa <3

      Writer, photographer, mod

    • Bluepaw (Blueheart)
      August 21, 2017 at 1:12 am

      I can relate. We lay down for bed around 10:30… I normally end up asleep around midnight… then wake up around six, doze off and on till eight, fail to go back to sleep, get IPad at 8:30. 😛

      Not a good example. I understand the dreaming part though.A year or two ago I had a terrible dream about Danny, a dog who I love very much. If you say one insult about him I might just break your neck. You don’t wanna ask whether I’m kidding or not. Anyways… ahem. The dream was: I walking around my neighborhood with my Aunt. (who owns him) and around the pool places there is a grill place sorta thing. We went there and these doctor/vet people came up and grabbed him They gave him a shot thing that killed him. My aunt just took my hand and walked me away.

      Then a few nights ago I had a dream about my cousin Foxpaw dying… I wouldn’t even eat… that bad… and it was mashed potatoes and chicken… I won’t go into detail about this dream, although I think he came back at the end… I don’t remember.

      The point is. Dreams like these suck. StarClan make us a scared and depressed by using the ones we love. Wait that sounds more like the DF…. eh who cares. I’m really sorry you experienced that dream. Just try to calm down. Maybe give her some extra cuddles… *huggies*

      I just realized… nobody I know in real know about my dreams… yet I told BlogClan… I have twisted loyalty…

    • Scorched In the West (Lupinepaw)
      August 21, 2017 at 1:26 am

      im probably gonna fail because im not good at understanding but

      i think if youre worried about something a lot itll become a nightmare im not really sure

      also my dad once told me that if i put my hand / arm under my head when i sleep itll give nightmares

      im really no help lolxd but thought i should say about nightmares

      kestrelpaw has the same problem i think about waking at random times in school days

    • Rainpaw
      August 21, 2017 at 1:47 am

      *huggles* I’m sorry, Willa. I don’t have any advice for this. I hope you find a solution soon <3


    • August 21, 2017 at 1:05 pm

      *hugs* I don’t have any advice, I’m really, really sorry. Although, maybe keep a journal about all the things you dream about. It might help you? Idk, I’m really sorry. I hope you can sleep better soon. <3 <3 <3

      insert siggie here

    • August 21, 2017 at 5:13 pm

      I’m sorry. It sounds like you’re doing all the right things. If you toss and turn, try reading for a while. Maybe darken the room a bit more. Or maybe you just have a lot of pent-up energy, so try bouncing on a trampoline for half an hour or so before bed. *huggles*

  3. August 21, 2017 at 2:04 am

    I don’t often come to this page because I just c a n ‘ t give advice/rant, but I do need some hugs.
    Last night, my mom lost one of her friends. I don’t really know what to say here, but I need some hugs for my mom and her friend’s family.

    IKEA meatballs

  4. Birch
    August 21, 2017 at 3:22 am


  5. August 21, 2017 at 4:12 pm

    I just gave up on life a couple nights ago. I can NEVER sleep, and I want to die.

    Ship it like FedEx

  6. August 21, 2017 at 5:24 pm

    If you know me, you might know that I tend to obsess over little social things and I’m kind of paranoid about being alone. Well, I’m starting to feel that way in marching band. I just had a full weekend of band camp and my social situation felt weird.

    So I pretty much have six actual friends at marching band.

    Olivia, who didn’t go to my middle school, and who seems to be friends with everyone.

    Mia and Zoe, who are both really good friends with each other, and are friends with other people that I’m not and feel really awkward around.

    Cassie, who’s been my friend since elementary school, but is always hanging around with another girl during marching band and they seem to be avoiding me a little.

    And then there’s Freya and her friend Tiffany, who I’ve known since sixth grade but never really been friends with. Freya is my closest friend as far as saxophones go, but otherwise she’s with Tiffany a lot and while Tiffany is a lot more friendlier than Cassie’s friend, I still feel kind of awkward around them.

    Everyone is nice to me, but I just feel so awkward… I know I should branch out and make new friends but I’m so bad at that and just social situations in general… arghhhh


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