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Fading Echoes

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  1. April 18, 2018 at 9:05 pm

    Okay, so can I please say that I have had a bad day?!

    This morning, my Gizmo watch (look it up if you don’t know what it is) wasn’t turning off. I decided not to wear it to school. My mom said that I needed to wear it. But I didn’t want to. I said that I couldn’t call anybody on it (like what it usually does) because the day before, my dad was missing his phone. So he asked me to call it so he could find it. The speaker on the watch said that the phone number wasn’t available. So I assumed that I couldn’t call my mom as well. So I tried to call my mom so I could prove her that it wouldn’t call. But my mom’s phone was ringing. She hung up, but I couldn’t hung up. So I said that it was a stupid preschool toy (which is kinda true. It’s SUPER kid friendly). My mom just took it away, and said that my brother could have it. But my brother might deal with the same things I did.

    This afternoon, we also had a substitute. When there is a substitute, our class is very noisy. She said (well, yelled) that our behavior was poor during our math test. And some kid was fidgeting with his card that was inside his computer case that contains the information if he lost his case or computer. The substitute took it. I don’t think she ever gave it back. Isn’t that card SUPER IMPORTANT?!?!?!?!?!?

    So yeah. I just need HUGZ.




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    • 🌷Cheetah Tumbling into Spring Meadow... uh... Sparkishly (Cheetahpaw/spark)🌷
      April 19, 2018 at 2:20 am

      HUGZ
      We all have bad days 🙁


      The sparkiest of cheetahs 🐆




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    • April 20, 2018 at 4:48 am

      of course you can! this is a place for comfort and ranting 🙂

      I thought of Gizmoduck first lol If your brother experiences those problems, help him work through them and take it to get fixed.

      Yikes. She might have given it back, but when your teacher gets back you should let them know,


      🌊 Queen of Canon Correcting🌊




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    • Snowbreeze
      April 20, 2018 at 2:20 pm

      *Huggles* 🙁




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    • April 21, 2018 at 3:27 am

      *huggles* Don’t worry. I’ve been through similar things. 😉


      Secretly Cleopatra in Space...




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    • April 21, 2018 at 9:58 pm

      *hugz* I’m sorry about the gizmo watch! And the card the substitute teacher took. Here is something that always helps me when I’m feeling down: *hands over bowl of ice cream* <3


      Da best spooder of them all




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  2. Silverstrike
    April 20, 2018 at 1:46 am

    Just need to rant for a bit, don’t mind me.

    So a couple of days ago, I was messing around with my mom’s phone and found that she’d been researching signs of autism in teens (I’m the only teen in my family), too much testosterone/lack of estrogen in teen girls, and hyperlexia (something associated with autism).
    I saw a text from my aunt, saying that she suspected that my cousin had autism, and that my mom should look for signs of hyperlexia or even autism in me. I confronted my mom about it, and she said she was just searching up things.
    I want her to know that I would be okay going to a doctor for tests, or even getting medication. From how she acts, I think she believes that I don’t like her searching up things for me, when really, I’ve been researching things myself.
    I’ve taken several autism tests and got high scores and show many signs of autism, and am very willing to get a professional test.
    I guess I’m just worried that if I did get a high score on a professional test other people would look down on me, or that my mom’ll just deny things and give up.
    Sorry about all this rambling. I just needed to get it out.




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    • April 20, 2018 at 4:10 am

      It’s perfectly okay to ramble! My older brother, Sagefrost, has autism. (Aspergers Syndrome) There is nothing wrong with having Autism. Actually, I think it’s cool, because people with it are usually smarter, and see things a different way than everybody else! 😀 Don’t worry about people looking down on you if you do have it, that shouldn’t happen. And if it DOES, well… tell me so that I can give them a high five. TO THE FACE! Sorry, this is terrible advice. 😛 <3


      Da best spooder of them all




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    • April 20, 2018 at 4:52 am

      hey hey hey I have autism hello 🙂

      honestly this probably isn’t the best strategy in the long run but I just haven’t told anyone I know in real life. It’s up to you and what you feel comfortable with. People probably will look down on you, but there will always be people who look down on you for various things anyway. If you just want to tell people close to you that’s fine. Anything is fine. You might not have it anyway. Giving a part of you a name doesn’t make you any different. You’re just you.


      🌊 Queen of Canon Correcting🌊




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    • April 20, 2018 at 3:59 pm

      Yeah Silverstrilke. Let it all out.




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    • April 21, 2018 at 3:27 am

      Don’t worry. I’ve got aspergers, a form of autism.


      Secretly Cleopatra in Space...




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    • Willowpaw (Wistep)
      April 21, 2018 at 5:04 pm

      It’s okay, Silver. Everything’s going to be alright. <3




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  3. Foxie Spring Butterflies
    April 20, 2018 at 11:53 pm

    My sister needs some help and advice and she’s asked me to ask you all.

    So here’s the story:
    I already knew this cause like I have this instinct or something and I just know what will happen. I know my sister way too well. I was not too surprised when she revealed her secret to me. She told me not to tell anyone (we know). Welp I blew that and told my unofficial boyfriend but he’s super trustworthy. Thankfully my sister also had a feeling I would tell only him and she laughed and didn’t care cause she knew Shredears was fine.

    Ok so let’s get on with it.

    My sister realized last year (but didn’t tell me until a few days ago) that she is gay. She’s liked girls for a while and used to try to like boys to fit in. But anyway, so her friend Russetflower asked her to prom and they went with a group of friends. Hollylight and Russetflower had a sleepover that night too because the prom went super late/early in the morning.

    There was stuff that happened (nothing like “that” but you know).

    Hollylight asked Russetflower what she felt and she said she liked her but said they can’t date because that’s not what God calls us to do (we are Christians). Hollylight was hurt and started to stalk away but Russetflower called out, “Bye! I love you!” to her. Hollylight said “I love you” back and then left. This was Wednesday. My sister now feels super bad and wonders if she should apologize for acting like that. But she doesn’t know what to say. Russetflower won’t answer her texts. Hollylight is scared and doesn’t know what to do. Should she call? What should she say? We don’t know if Russetflower is mad or if she is hurting too.

    BlogClan, please pray for my sister and give her hugs. She feels horrible and wants to follow God but at the same time her heart aches for Russetflower. She can’t do both. It’s not right. Only me, her close guy friend, Shredears, and Russetflower (of course) know about this. My sis and I won’t tell our mom because who knows what will happen. Last time Hollylight, at 14 years old (she’s 17 currently), told our mom she liked Tallcloud our mom got mad and said to my sister to leave her alone. I want to help and protect my sister and that’s why I’m keeping this a secret from everyone we know. But I still don’t know how to help her.

    Anyone who is gay here, what would you do/say Russetflower? Hollylight is torn. Help??

    Thank you so much! Your advice/hugs will be highly appreciated. 🙂


    RoF came out on my birthday 🎉




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    • Sky
      April 21, 2018 at 1:51 am

      So Hollylight’s your sister. Okay.

      I don’t have specific information, I don’t really get how to deal with these things, but I think only Hollylight and Russetflower can choose what they want to do. In addition, even as a non-Christian and non-religious person, I don’t understand why someone can’t be gay and follow their God.




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    • Icy Blue Easter Egg (Icy)
      Icy Blue Easter Egg (Icy)
      April 21, 2018 at 3:16 am

      I can’t say much right now (about to crash into bed 😛 ) but I’m so sorry your sister is going through this. I am not a Christian, but I believe that everyone should be able to follow their heart. Everyone deserves love. 🙂 I will hopefully have more to say soon, but I’m sorry Hollylight is going through this. I know how hard it can be to be torn between yourself and your beliefs/views/family’s views, but no matter what, she is wonderful. She is a good person, she deserves to love and be loved back, and I am so proud of her for telling you. ❤


      ❄ Icy - BlogTeam Moderator ❄




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      • Foxie Spring Butterflies
        April 21, 2018 at 6:46 am

        Thank you Icy ^^ I trust in (my) God that He has a plan for her.

        “For I have the plans I have for you, says the Lord. Plans to prosper you and not to harm you. Plans to give you hope, and a future.”
        Jeremiah 29:11


        RoF came out on my birthday 🎉




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    • April 21, 2018 at 3:31 am

      I’m sorry for your sister. 🙁 I’m not really sure if I’m a Christian or not.


      Secretly Cleopatra in Space...




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    • 🌷Cheetah Tumbling into Spring Meadow... uh... Sparkishly (Cheetahpaw/spark)🌷
      April 21, 2018 at 3:57 am

      I’m praying for your sister <3

      I'm afraid I don't have any advice 🙁 I'm a Christian as well, and I haven't figured out the answer to whether or not being gay is still following God. I do believe that no one should be told what kind of person to love, but I'm still trying to wrap my brain around still being a faithful christian and being gay as well (I'm not gay though). Give Hollylight tons and tons of hugs for me 🙂


      The sparkiest of cheetahs 🐆




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      • Foxie Spring Butterflies
        April 21, 2018 at 6:54 pm

        Thx Cheetah! I’m also still wrapping my brain around it.


        RoF came out on my birthday 🎉




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    • April 21, 2018 at 5:22 am

      I don’t see why Hollylight can’t like girls and follow God, both at the same time. I am Christian myself, and I think being gay is perfectly okay! In fact, I have several friends who are lesbian and are religious, too! I’m sorry Hollylight and Russetfeather are going through this, they must feel pretty confused right now. 🙁
      I hope everything works out! <3


      Da best spooder of them all




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      • Foxie Spring Butterflies
        April 21, 2018 at 6:56 pm

        Of course 🙂 God won’t punish you if you’re gay. It’s just a sin, that’s all. He will always love you for you, no matter what. That’s why Jesus came. He came to die for our sins so that we may have the choice to live with him in heaven. ❤️

        Thanks Spidey!


        RoF came out on my birthday 🎉




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        • April 21, 2018 at 8:16 pm

          Why is it a sin?


          ForOnceIWishICouldSee, Myself




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          • April 21, 2018 at 10:06 pm

            Well, I’m not exactly sure. But I know some Christian saints (Bernard of Clairvaux, St. Boris, etc.!) who were LGBT+. If they were, then why can’t people people today be gay and Christian?

            (I will send my prayers to Hollylight and Russetflower <3)


            Da best spooder of them all




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      • Sunny Bunny
        Sunny Bunny
        April 21, 2018 at 8:57 pm

        PREACH! 🙌
        I’m not a Christian, but I believe it’s perfectly alright to be one AND a member of the LGBT+ community. 🙂 In fact, my mom goes to a very open-minded, forward-thinking church where the pastor is gay and nearly half of the people there are LGBT+ as well! It’s an amazing place. 😀

        I think that many people twist and contort their religions to suit their own personal agendas and manipulate others into backing their hateful ideologies :/ . . . we see it time and again in the world . . . heck, for many years, people said the Bible validated their beliefs that women are inferior to men (and some still say this!) . . . so it just goes to show how the Bible can be interpreted in terrible ways and that one person’s or church’s or entire town’s interpretation is not inherently right. . . . and while again, I’m not a Christian, I agree with what my mom’s church says: that preaching love and acceptance is the most important aspect of being a Christian . . . and that there is absolutely nothing wrong with being gay/lesbian/transgender/etc. LOVE IS LOVE! ❤💛💚💙💜




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    • April 21, 2018 at 3:39 pm

      Honestly, it’s not like someone suddenly thinks, “You know what? I’m going to be gay.” It’s just the way they’re born, they have no decision in it. You think the way you think.

      There’s no reason why she can’t believe in God and be gay at the same time. Anyone who ever tells her they love her, (her parents, you, God, and anyone else) should accept her for who she is.

      I’m not Christian anymore, but I respect all religions. And I respect gay people as well.

      I think she should follow her heart.


      ForOnceIWishICouldSee, Myself




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    • Willowpaw (Wistep)
      April 21, 2018 at 5:10 pm

      Like everyone else said, I honestly don’t understand why you can’t be Christian and be gay at the same time. Does it matter who you love? (sorry, I’m from a non-religious and straight standpoint here)

      Hollylight should be able to follow Christianity and be with Russetflower at the same time. It depends on what they want to do, and if they want to value something over another.

      Huggles for you sister, Foxie. <3




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    • April 21, 2018 at 7:40 pm

      I am not Christian, so I don’t understand why being gay is so bad. But, it is Hollylight’s choice. Just tell her that it is her body, and her right, and her choice.




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  4. Snowpaw (Snowpelt) & (Snow that falls on mountain)
    April 21, 2018 at 2:44 am

    I chipped my tooth whilst eating nachos and I’m also getting braces really soon. ☹️ I need hugggsss




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    • 🌷Cheetah Tumbling into Spring Meadow... uh... Sparkishly (Cheetahpaw/spark)🌷
      April 21, 2018 at 10:06 pm

      *huggles*
      I’m sorry! I chipped my tooth once (very small, and I didn’t tell my parents) and it huuuuuuuuurt. And your braces will be off before you know it!


      The sparkiest of cheetahs 🐆




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    • April 21, 2018 at 10:08 pm

      Oh no. 🙁 I’ve never had braces, but think on the bright side! Atleast you’ll have straighter teeth! 🙂 *huggles*


      Da best spooder of them all




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  5. April 21, 2018 at 3:30 am

    Well, my life has finally settled. People now accept me and I feel nice to have good friends that care so much about me. (If you go on my Discord server, you’ll see people like V-Chan or ButterflyGirl, which are my real life friends. They think I’m a nice person, which reassures me. 🙂


    Secretly Cleopatra in Space...




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    • April 21, 2018 at 4:59 pm

      Awwww, that’s great Libby <3
      I'm really glad it all worked out for you, you deserve it.


      Join my new secret clan!




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    • Willowpaw (Wistep)
      April 21, 2018 at 5:11 pm

      That’s great! 🙂




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    • 🌷Cheetah Tumbling into Spring Meadow... uh... Sparkishly (Cheetahpaw/spark)🌷
      April 21, 2018 at 10:06 pm

      I’m so happy for you Pitt!!!! You deserve people as friends that except you as the wonderful person you are 😀


      The sparkiest of cheetahs 🐆




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    • April 21, 2018 at 10:09 pm

      That’s great Libby! <3


      Da best spooder of them all




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  6. Foxie Spring Butterflies
    April 21, 2018 at 6:50 am

    This goes with my comment about Hollylight’s issue:

    I’m just getting this out, but I would like some Christians here to help answer my sister’s (and mine) questions. Another Christian view point on this would be highly appreciated. I don’t want any conflicts to between non-religious and religious people and since non-religious usually wouldn’t understand what Christians believe, it will be harder for me to tell my sister what she should do (of course she has to make the decision by herself but advice would be gratefully accepted). Sorry! But I do appreciate everyone’s help. 🙂💖 I’m not trying to be mean at all!


    RoF came out on my birthday 🎉




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    • 🌷Cheetah Tumbling into Spring Meadow... uh... Sparkishly (Cheetahpaw/spark)🌷
      April 21, 2018 at 10:07 pm

      My comment earlier is basically what I feel^^ 🙁 I’m sorry if I couldn’t be much of a help.


      The sparkiest of cheetahs 🐆




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      • April 22, 2018 at 3:26 am

        Today is my dead dog birthday this is the first time its her birthday and i am not with her i miss her so much she was so important to me it wasn’t her time to die she would have just turned three today its my moms fault that she is dead i dont think i can ever forgive her the thing is my dog had aggressive problems not to me but to other people she didt know well and animals but she was a sweetheart to my family my mom started thinking about putting her to sleep an i told i wouldt let her do that so she promised me that she would never put my dog to sleep without my permission and i told her she would never get my permission so my mom sends me and my brothers to spain for christmas to see our grandparents but my mom stayed back with our pets three days after christmas she text that she’s going to put my dog to sleep i tryed to stop her ask her to please not to but she did i didt even get to say good bye only when we were leaving to the airport to go to spain i said good bye but i promised her i would come back to her i feel so guilty for leaving her i didt know my mom would do that because i never gave her permissioni didt want her to die but if she to i realy wished i could have said good bye




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  7. Lionpaw (Lionfire) Running for SW! 😀
    April 21, 2018 at 8:49 am

    Hiya everyone 🙂

    I have a few problems, but most of them are fine, and I know what to do about them, but yeah, there’s one, relationships, that idk what to do about.

    I have these two friends that I’ve known basically all my life, we’ll call them Sunpelt and Noodlelune (we roleplay together like that btw, I mean me and Noodlelune 😛)
    I have a crush on Noodlelune, and have done for about 5 years. Apparently according to basically everyone who knows him / me says he has a crush on me too.

    One problem.

    We’re both incredibly shy 😛 Oh, and we don’t see each other very often as we go to different schools 🙁 We pretty much only see each other at each of mine, Noodlelune’s and Sunpelt’s birthday parties, which is yeah, kinda sad 😛

    However, Sunpelt’s birthday party was only a few weeks ago, and we all saw each other then, which was nice 🙂 Until now 😛

    I was chatting a really trustworthy friend – she wouldn’t make this up, (let’s call her Lilyleaf), and she told me that Sunpelt had told another girl, Chameleontail, who then told her, that he had seen me and Noodlelune kissing. Idk who to trust, ik I can trust Lilyleaf, and I wouldn’t trust Chameleontail, but then she doesn’t know me any more, and has no motive whatsoever.

    So I guess it can only be true, and tbh I’m kinda mad at him, but cause I’m shy I have no idea how to bring it up. 🙁I just don’t understand why he’d do this to us, clearly Sunpelt hadn’t intended for me and Noodlelune to find out, but hey I know now, and idk if I should tell Noodlelune, or Sunpelt.

    I was actually going to see Sunpelt today, and I was excited about it, we were going to go ice skating at his younger sister’s birthday party, but I quickly decided I would do horse riding instead, because it’s at that time anyway, and I was only invited yesterday.

    I might see him still today, but I’m just going to try and avoid him 🙁

    I also was going to tell Noodlelune I liked him this weekend, but guess what, change of plan 😛 So I guess that makes me even more silently mad at Sunpelt

    I just need some hugs and advice. 🙂




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    • Willowpaw (Wistep)
      April 22, 2018 at 12:46 am

      Oh dear, Lion. RIP. 😛 I don’t really have any advice, sorry. Good luck with everything, though! *huggles* <3 🙂




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    • 🌷Cheetah Tumbling into Spring Meadow... uh... Sparkishly (Cheetahpaw/spark)🌷
      April 22, 2018 at 1:48 am

      *huggles*
      No advice, but good luck 🙂


      The sparkiest of cheetahs 🐆




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  8. Maplepaw (Mapledrift)
    April 21, 2018 at 9:37 pm

    Umm guys I’m kind of going through a bit of a hard time at the moment I’m having problems with depression like seriously, I have thought about suicide but luckily my anxiety has kept that under control.
    But any way my mum is struggling to accept the fact that I have problems with anxiety and that is never going to change. She can’t under stand that I am scared of pain and there is no reason for that apart from the fact I have a really bad fear of it


    I’ve seen Steelheart bleed ...




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    • Willowpaw (Wistep)
      April 22, 2018 at 12:47 am

      I’m sorry, Maple. Maybe you could ask to see a counselor or maybe take meds?
      About your mom, I have no idea what to do, but anxiety medication might help.
      *huggles* <3




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    • 🌷Cheetah Tumbling into Spring Meadow... uh... Sparkishly (Cheetahpaw/spark)🌷
      April 22, 2018 at 1:50 am

      I have no experience with anxiety, but I’ll give you lots and lots of *huggles* 🙂


      The sparkiest of cheetahs 🐆




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