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Fading Echoes

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  1. June 25, 2017 at 5:55 pm

    I’m getting very scared by how fast time is passing. My Bat Mitzvah was a year ago today and it seriously feels like yesterday. Graduation was over two weeks ago and my last concert was a month ago and it still hasn’t sunk in. So much has changed in a year and it’s scaring me.




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    • Icy (Iceflower)
      Icy (Iceflower)
      June 25, 2017 at 6:00 pm

      Sometimes time moves really fast. But change isn’t always a bad thing! 🙂 I don’t really like change either, it scares me. But look at it this way – With every passing day, you have the opportunity to do things that you couldn’t have done yesterday, or the day before, or even a year ago. Sometimes time can feel like it’s going so fast when you’re really busy. When things slow down in your life, time might too. 🙂


      ❄ Icy - BlogTeam Moderator ❄




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    • Winterpaw
      June 26, 2017 at 4:41 am

      I even remember when you had your Bat Mitzvah! I remember you commenting about it and the stuff involved! 🙂 😛




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    • June 27, 2017 at 1:10 am

      Time flys sometimes, it seems like I was year seven only last year, but that has passed so quickly. Change can be scary but it’s not always a bad thing




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    • June 28, 2017 at 1:44 am

      I know, time has been passing very quickly for me too. I was listening to songs that I loved when I was 8 or 9 and I almost cried. Nostalgia is real :’)
      *huggles tight*
      Change can be scary, believe me. But you’re going to be an amazing person and you have nothing to do but look forward to the future <3




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  2. Chicken Wings! (Wingpaw)
    June 25, 2017 at 6:26 pm

    I’m just so done.
    I don’t want to go to church but my dad really wants me to go and my coping mechanisms aren’t working and I don’t want to get better. I just want to suffer for the rest of my life, or end it.




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    • June 25, 2017 at 10:12 pm

      WINGPAW YOU ARE AWESOME YOU SHOULD NOT EVEN THINK ABOUT THAT!
      Wing, you really need to know you are worth so much to everyone here, you can’t leave us. Please, stay and don’t try. I know you you feel, I’ve been there. If you need to talk on the wiki chat any time, I will most likely be there.


      Cat puns freak meowt ;)




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    • June 26, 2017 at 12:35 pm

      *hugs* Wing, don’t kill yourself, please, please, please don’t. You mean so much to us, we love you so much. I don’t have any advice about church, but I hope you can find a way to work it out.<3 <3 <3


      🍫CHOCOLATE 🍫




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    • June 27, 2017 at 1:11 am

      YOUR AMAZING WINGPAW AND DONT LET ANYONE TELL YOU OTHERWISE!!

      your an amazing person and if you don’t want to do something they shouldn’t make you




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    • Daisyfrost
      June 27, 2017 at 3:37 pm

      I’m sorry you’re in a rough patch, Wing. 🙁 But please don’t give up. It will never be worth it to give up any of the chances you and everyone else have up ahead, nor will it be worth it for the pain of others. Please, think about it. 🙁 Just as it would hurt you for somebody you love to die, it will hurt many of us on BlogClan, your family, your friends, your girlfriend. Everybody.

      And remember, everything gets better eventually. 🙂 ❤️ And yeah, there will be more rough patches, but we push through them. All of them. It’ll be okay, but you need to really try for that happiness. 🙂 ❤️ Give yourself a break, take a nap, sleep earlier then usual, write in a diary, play a game with some friends, take a walk, just lay around doing nothing; whatever makes you feel better. Friends and family can help, but you’ve got a part to play in being happy too. ❤️

      Best of luck, and I will always be here to help out whenever I can. 🙂 ❤️




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    • June 28, 2017 at 3:58 am

      Please don’t end your life. You’re an amazing person and the world would be at a loss if you did.

      You need to talk to your dad. Sometimes we just have an off day and we need to rest, and he should understand. If your coping mechanisms aren’t working, you might need time to recharge, so to speak. *huggles*


      🌊 Queen of Canon Correcting 🌊




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  3. Unknown 'paw
    June 26, 2017 at 12:59 am

    Hi. My identity is unknown, so people don’t try and attack me with things. Here goes nothing.
    I have been thinking suicide, and almost attempted it. I’m scared of things i shouldn’t be scared of, like my brother. He hits me, and I tell but he just calls me names for doing it. I wanted to die, and I don’t want to tell anyone in my life I know because then everyone will try to help me and I don’t want people to know how my life works.
    My friends and I are partially bullied by a girl at school, she and her ‘friends’ are like apprentices you would say ‘who died and made you leader’ to. They are just bratty.
    That’s it, or that’s all I want to talk about. Thanks for reading, if you even did.




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    • Winterpaw
      June 26, 2017 at 4:42 am

      That’s horrible! I hope you find courage and happiness somewhere. I really hope things get better for you 🙂




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    • June 26, 2017 at 12:38 pm

      *hugs* Do you know of any advice hotline that you could call? I think there are phone numbers that you can call that will offer advice or something like that, and you can do anonymously, if I remember correctly(might want to google that though). I hope things get better for you. <3 <3 <3


      🍫CHOCOLATE 🍫




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    • Eagleclaw
      June 26, 2017 at 3:41 pm

      I hope you find a way to improve the situation. *Hugs*




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    • June 27, 2017 at 1:12 am

      My attempts to hug you through the screen are failing

      Try to focus on what makes you happy, and if anyone hurts you, tell someone you trust




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    • Daisyfrost
      June 27, 2017 at 3:44 pm

      If your brother is abusive, you’ve a right to be afraid of him, don’t feel bad about that. ❤️ I’m truly sorry that he does that, but if he does so and then calls you names for telling about it, he’s being a bully and a coward. 🙁 ❤️ You should tell, it’s what you’re supposed to do, really. I wouldn’t advise getting in a fight, but if ever nobody else is around, and he takes the fight too hard, maybe that’s okay. Still, wouldn’t advise it. Good luck, and I hope he lays off.

      To bratty kids at school, well, usually there’s not a whole lot to do. You could threaten to tell teachers, which I know isn’t so effective usually, but if they think they may get in trouble for it they might lay off. Otherwise, just ignore them and wait it out. Don’t let them know they’re getting under your skin. 🙂 ❤️

      I truly hope everything gets better soon, and if not soon, eventually it will. Just make sure to make time for yourself, do some stuff you enjoy and maybe haven’t done in a while. You can always ask me for help, and anyone else here I’m sure, as well as anybody in real life if you feel up to it. Go to a school counselor if you’re okay with those. 🙂 Ask some friends for advice, maybe go to your parents or guardian. 🙂 ❤️ However much they can help you, you can help yourself too. Good luck. 🙂 ❤️




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    • June 28, 2017 at 3:08 am

      *Huggles*
      I’m so sorry. I can imagine how terrible that must feel 🙁


      STARCLAN SAVE US ALL!




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    • June 28, 2017 at 4:02 am

      Please don’t commit suicide. There is always another way that will work for you.

      If you’re telling people about your brother and nothing is being done about it, you need to tell people who can and will help you. Even the police if necessary. The same goes for the bullies. Try and ignore them, because they’ll get bored and move on if you don’t react. Spend time at friend’s houses to be away from your brother and your parents definitely need to know if they don’t already. *huggles*


      🌊 Queen of Canon Correcting 🌊




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  4. June 26, 2017 at 6:26 pm

    Heyyy sooo I’m a tad bit anxious due to the fact I’m waiting for results from the dance team tryouts, I’m just kinda worried I won’t have done well.

    I’m also worried about my friend. I’ll call her Lightpaw. She’s been trying out for three years now, and still hasn’t made it. She’s really improved a lot, and I think she would do great. I’m concerned about how she’ll do if she doesn’t make it.

    Anyways… looking for good vibes for the two us.


    🍫CHOCOLATE 🍫




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    • Daisyfrost
      June 26, 2017 at 11:31 pm

      Good luck, both of you! 🙂 I’m sure you both did great!! 😀




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    • June 27, 2017 at 1:13 am

      I’m sure you’ll do amazing




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    • Eagleclaw
      June 27, 2017 at 1:40 pm

      Good luck! If you both tried your best, don’t have any regrets. I’m going through a similar phase at the moment having to wait for my A-level results. Just try to accompany yourself with other things and don’t overthink it. 🙂




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    • June 27, 2017 at 8:34 pm

      Good luck to both of you! I’m sure you were both great 😀




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    • Winterpaw
      June 27, 2017 at 11:36 pm

      I hope you get in! You both deserve it.




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    • June 28, 2017 at 4:04 am

      Good luck! I hope both you and Lightpaw get in! That’s amazing, I’m really proud of her for not giving up and improving. I’m sure the coaches will take note of that. Maybe if you don’t make it in it’ll help for your improvement to temporarily join another team. Win or lose, I know you both tried your best and did wonderfully. *huggles*


      🌊 Queen of Canon Correcting 🌊




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  5. Snowbreeze
    June 28, 2017 at 3:58 am

    Hello. First, big hugs to everyone out here, I wish I could help you all magically. Um . . .

    My sister has been – erm – abusing me. Inappropriately. I want to PM someone about it, but I think they won’t like me anymore if I tell them because it’s – it is – ehehaha – eh – bad.
    Another thing, I’ve been struggling with homicidal thoughts. PLEASE DON’T HATE ME!!!! IT’S TOWARD MY SISTER, a – and sometimes it’s there, and sometimes it’s not, but they’re not – too homicidal. Just a little, but I’m still freaking scared.

    Another thing: My family makes comments about me and my clothes everyday, and I just want to rebel. I’m worried that I’m not living as a teenager, and I want to experience that. Thanks for reading. I hope you don’t hate me now.




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    • Icy (Iceflower)
      Icy (Iceflower)
      June 28, 2017 at 4:02 am

      Snow, you can always PM me about anything. I promise. 🙂 You need to tell somebody about your sister’s actions. Can you tell a guidance counselor or a trusted adult? I’m sorry. *hugs* You’re a wonderful, amazing person, Snowy, and you’re going to go on to do wonderful, amazing things. The world is waiting for you. 🙂 Don’t listen to your family. They have no right to judge or tell you how to dress. Everyone has different lives – you don’t have to rebel to be a teenager. Trust me. 🙂 I hope things turn out alright, Snowy, and I’m always open to chat. <3 You can leave me a message on the wiki anytime you want to talk, and I'll try to get on chat ASAP.


      ❄ Icy - BlogTeam Moderator ❄




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    • June 28, 2017 at 4:07 am

      You can PM me, if you’d like. I know I’m not as good at this or mature as Icy or Sunny or Fallen, but if you need me I’ll always be here. Don’t be ashamed for something that’s not your fault, it won’t change anyone’s opinions about you.

      To sum it up, it sounds to me like your family is bullying you. That’s not okay. You need to let them know and if it persists, maybe arrange to spend a month or so at a friend’s so you guys can all cool down. I bet that’ll open their eyes.

      For your sister, you need to get outside help. Many people are abused worldwide, and it’s not okay. There are abuse hotlines you can call if you need it. *huggles*


      🌊 Queen of Canon Correcting 🌊




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  6. Coldice
    June 28, 2017 at 5:22 am

    I haven’t been active for several days and It’s because a few weeks ago, my step father is diagnosed with lung cancer and going through many visits to the doctors and tests and It affected me and I couldn’t sleep well, I couldn’t focus on work, and it’s been terrible so I maybe inactive until I’m able to come to BlogClan again with a clear mind. 🙁


    I let my heart speak loud.




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