The Hug Page

The Hug Page is here. Because, whoever we are, we still need hugs. This is still the best place to come if you’re feeling sad and need a hug from BlogClan…

Fading Echoes

(Sh! This is a new Hug Page. You can find the old one here)

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  1. September 17, 2018 at 8:28 pm

    RRRRRREPOST! I’m totally not doing this because it’s fun

    Name: Willowrain
    Nickname: Rain or Rainwo, used by Jazzy 😛
    Age: No. :))))
    Gra- No. 😉
    Ships I’ve been in: Sprainah (formerly Chainey), Sprain, Chain, Razzy, Fraino, Brainwo, Brainb, Raple, and someone even created Reese, a ship between me and geese; i think? 😛
    Favorite color: Silver, dark violet, blue
    Favorite food: sUSHI
    Spirit Animal: Wolf 😀

    BlogClan Friends: Cheetah, Spidey, Bri, Frosto, Maple, Rainie, Foxie, Jazzy, Rainy Saney, Rose, Fireyleapy, Bramb, Flamey, Bracken, Owly, Star, Ivy, Wollow , Crater, Shady, Aster, other Aster, Snowbreeze, and all the mods 😉 (I’m forgetting a bunch of you i bet)

    Place I Want to Go The Most: NEW ZEALAND 😮 😮 I’ve been there once and I loved it
    Favorite Pages: NTA, Tavern (duhh 😛 ) , Warriors Games Page, Fan Name Generators, Fan Fiction, and Live Chat 😛


    ~Lost like tears in the rain~

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    • September 18, 2018 at 8:43 pm

      I believe this was for the say hi page? 😛


      BlogClan is life =^6_^=

    • Rainshine 🌸 Rainie
      September 18, 2018 at 9:40 pm

      don’t forget Rainyie 😉


      Wildflowers ~

  2. Sparktooth who is YourFellowNerd on DeviantArt
    September 17, 2018 at 8:51 pm

    I’m not doing well, at all. You all remember my old post on this page about my Dad’s alcoholism, right? Things haven’t really changed much since I posted. I make it my mission to avoid my Dad pretty much where ever I go in the house, cause I hate how he acts like he’s the victim in the situation. My Mom has started keeping a breathalizer (Idk how to spell it, but I think that’s close enough), and for those of you who don’t what that is, it’s basically a tiny little device that when you breath into it, it calculates how much alcohol you’ve recently consumed.
    While this has all been happening, I’ve been going through a bit of an extreme Emo Phase. I’ve been getting horrible anxiety about school, especially now that I’ve been online school and have to be home alone with my Dad, and my grades or suffering thanks to that. I’ve been getting furious over the smallest stuff, and have begun hating myself because I’ve been such a jerk to all of my friends, than just completely shut them out for a while. I’ve even caught myself a couple times having suicidal thoughts, which terrifies me, cause I’ve never considered doing anything like killing myself in my LIFE. And like another cycle, it makes me hate myself more.
    Don’t worry about me actually doing that, though. I would never in a million years drive myself to do that. What scares me is that those thoughts have been repeating themselves over and over in my mind, and I don’t know what to do about it.
    I’ve also been becoming more aggressive, like just this morning I checked my grades, which I mentioned earlier were suffering because of how stressed I’ve been, and well….let’s just say they weren’t the best. The old me would’ve gotten to work on bringing them up again. Instead I got so angry, it almost hit me like an impulse. I began hitting myself and swearing. I was horrified at myself when I calmed down a bit. I know I’ve been stressed, but I’ve never acted out that way before. I even gave myself a couple bruises, which made me more scared. I saw myself acting like my Dad, who is the last person I want to become!
    I don’t know what to do to help myself. I want to tell my Mom, but she is already so anxious about trying to work out things with my Dad and getting a steady job that I don’t want to add what happening to me on top of that. Like I’ve repeated several times on this post, I’m mainly just scared about what’s happening to me and my family. There’s so much tension and distrust in the house. I feel like my Mom and sister deserve so much better, and I don’t feel like myself….


    Never. Stop. Creating.

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    • Icy
      Icy
      September 18, 2018 at 2:50 am

      Oh, Sparky, I am so very sorry. 💜 I can promise you you won’t end up like your dad, because you know you’re having these feelings, you don’t want to have these feelings, and I bet you’re willing to work on feeling better. If you don’t feel like you can tell your mom, what about another trusted adult, or a counselor? I am sure your mom doesn’t want you to feel like this. She would want you to be happy. 🙂

      And please, please, don’t hurt yourself, Sparky. I know you’re angry and need something to take it out on, but yourself is not the right answer. It just isn’t worth it to hurt yourself. ❤ Write your feelings down, punch a pillow, come here and scream and vent if you need to – just don’t injure yourself. You have other options. I’m so sorry, Spark. I hope things get better soon.


      Ambition and strong coffee.

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    • Lupinetail is doomed to learn about photosynthesis forever. Yay.
      September 18, 2018 at 4:15 am

      im not that experienced but

      i think maybe it is because of stress even though youve never had it happen to you before, as a result of the atmosphere you currently live in (which is negative)

      also maybe since you went to an online school? idk

      everyones probably said it a million times but can you maybe see a therapist? i never had one myself but a brother of mine did and holy cow has he turned from problematic negative to positive, so i do have faith that if you tell to a therapist, they will help you as time goes by and you’ll feel so much better

      i can’t say much since ive never been like that (except when i cry as a result of anger directed towards me) but i really hope that things soon get better for all of you, no one deserves to go through bad moments because of others’ actionsss

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    • Spottedspirit
      September 18, 2018 at 5:58 pm

      Please, Sparktooth, don’t commit suicide. That is not the answer. I know I may sound naggy or something, but please, don’t harm yourself. If you can find something to help your feelings, do it. You won’t end up like your dad because he drinks alcohol. It affects people’s brain waves, and it makes them do stuff they regret. You are only angry, not under the influence. Please, don’t kill yourself. You are a great person. BlogClan loves you and so do many other people. Talk to somebody about this feeling. Friends at school, a guidance counselor, or maybe even a trusted family member, but please, suicide is not the answer. I’ve had suicidal thoughts before, and trust me, they go away. I believe in you, Sparky. Also, don’t worry about your grades. I was held back a year and I’m just fine. 😉
      *hugs you very tight* Good luck, Sparky. *continues to hug*

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    • September 18, 2018 at 7:15 pm

      Oh sparky I’m so so sorry ugh I really hate ur dad ya know xxx {hugs}


      ❤️❤️love yourself❤️❤️

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    • Birchfoot
      September 18, 2018 at 7:50 pm

      *huggles* I’m sorry about your Dad, I don’t have a lot of advice about that I’m afraid 🙁 <3

      For school though – your grades, especially in September, are not permanent nor are they the most important part of your life. They're important, sure! But there's so so much time to make up the work and get any extra help right now, and they mostly certainly do not measure your intelligence or anything about you. They're just numbers that show how well you did on one particular test. And trust me, we've all had awful marks at some point <3

      If you don't want to talk to your mom now, is there something else you can do to express how you feel? I know a lot of people play music, draw, or even write about how they feel as a way for feeling better. For me, even just doodling on a piece of paper can really help me at least calm down enough to re evaluate a situation/how I feel <3 I will say, though, if that isn't working, it might be helpful to talk to someone just about how you feel <3

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    • September 18, 2018 at 8:44 pm

      I think what might help is to try and find an irl safe place, away from your dad. And maybe to try some destressing activities like meditation or an art class. Speaking of art classes, since you’re taking online school and your home situation sounds very stressful, it’s very important to get out of the house regularly. Take classes. Join clubs. That sort of thing. It’s just for fun! To get your anger out, you might want to get a punching bag or something? When you feel really upset or angry, try writing your feelings down or telling them to a pet/stuffed animal/someone you’re comfortable with ranting to, to just get it all out.


      🌊 Queen of Canon Correcting🌊

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    • Rainshine 🌸 Rainie
      September 18, 2018 at 9:46 pm

      Sparky, I’m sorry you’re in this situation right now, no one should be put through that. But please don’t hurt yourself, you’re much too wonderful for that. You won’t turn out like your dad because you don’t want to turn out like your dad. Please put in effort to make your grades better if it means you will be happier – it will be worth it. Same thing with your friends, they’re important, try a little harder. You can do it, I hope things get better soon 💕


      Wildflowers ~

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    • Hawthorn is NOT logged in so don't ask
      September 18, 2018 at 10:48 pm

      I’m so sorry about that! I wish I had advice, but I’m horrible at that kind of stuff. I am sorry you have to go through this!

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  3. Anonymous
    September 17, 2018 at 9:01 pm

    Hi.
    I don’t feel comfortable sharing who I am.

    Now let’s hear the problem.

    I’m an active and well-known member around the Blog. I don’t have enemies, I’m generally a nice person, and people like me enough not to deny it. I guess you could call me popular..
    But…
    BlogClan is everything to me right now. School, friends, family, everything is up-and-down, bumpy, hard. This is where I’m supposed to be myself.
    I don’t feel liked enough. I don’t feel like anyone even acknowledges me anymore. There’s one person here who everyone is sucking up to, and it’s frustrating me because I don’t like it. Maybe I’m envious, but I really don’t think that’s what the feeling is. It’s making me grow resentful of that person, but not enough to want to be them.
    Why does BlogClan have this?
    The terrible thing is, one big difference that separates BC from a classroom is that everyone is a different age.
    And if I’m supposedly not, say, 15 years old, no one will like me.
    The girl that’s really “popular” is a teenager, she’s said it multiple times.
    The kits here barely get any attention because they’re not teenagers.
    I’m not a kit, but still.
    And this person is the person EVERYONE wants to be friends with. Literally everyone. Say, on a fanfiction sign-up, if one of the questions was Closest Friends or Pick 3 People for Best Friends, this person would be on EVERYONE’S list.
    It really irritates me.
    Please help.
    I don’t know why this is happening, and I don’t like it one bit.
    Feel free to guess at who I am.

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    • Icy
      Icy
      September 18, 2018 at 2:56 am

      I’m sorry you feel like this! I know the feeling. I felt that way for a while, back when I was new, and sometimes even after that. We all feel inadequate sometimes, but we have to decide if we’re going to let it get us down, or if we’re going to go on with our heads held high, knowing that someday, we will feel awesome, and have more friends than we can count.

      Your feelings are 100% valid, I don’t want to sound like I’m blowing them off! I just want to let you know that it’s very normal. I’m sorry you feel ignored, and I’m sorry if I made you feel that way. I will say that plenty of apprentices and even kits have been very well-known and loved members in the past! Many of my best friends were apprentices when we met. 🙂


      Ambition and strong coffee.

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    • Lupinetail is doomed to learn about photosynthesis forever. Yay.
      September 18, 2018 at 4:47 am

      i have a bajillion guesses since im not very smart but i wont say

      in my two and a half years here ive seen kits that were popular

      it might be since there are less kits in blog (from what ive seen) than apprentices and warriors that it looks like they have less attention
      i dont think anyone really cares about age (i think my young self, lupinekit (the worst imo) befriended a bunch of people and now im akward and shy so i dont befriend too much nor talk as much), as far as what ive seen

      i cant really help with the rest since i havent had this feeling yet (bet you i said that in every reply here, “i havent” or “experienced”), but i hope things get betterrrr

    • Maplepaw (Mapledrift)
      September 18, 2018 at 6:46 am

      I am so sorry you are feeling like this, I don’t know what advice to give, apart from if this person is me, tell me.
      Please, I will not take any offence if what ever you feel like

      I literally found out that I was considered popular yesterday and had a mental break down al most
      But I’m sure whoever it is doesn’t mean to be doing this

    • Spottedspirit
      September 18, 2018 at 6:07 pm

      I’m sorry you feel like this. The feelings are valid. But, I don’t want you to start hating on the people that everyone is “sucking up to”. These people are just popular because they never criticize and always are active around the blog. We just like them because they’re nice and actually respond to what we have to say. I’m sorry about this.
      🙁 Hugs for you.

    • September 18, 2018 at 8:48 pm

      I have felt like this sometimes too! I think I might know who you’re talking about, but I haven’t been super active so I dunno. My advice is to try and put yourself out there as much as you’re comfortable with. If people won’t go to you, go to them! Also, people will be more likely and comfortable with going up to you and interacting with your posts if they already have memories of you interacting with them. And no one is doing this on purpose. We all love and respect you! <3


      🌊 Queen of Canon Correcting🌊

    • Rainshine 🌸 Rainie
      September 18, 2018 at 10:08 pm

      I get the same feelings too sometimes, but i guess I can squash it down easier than you. BlogClan is also different because it’s online, and everyone can see everything. There’s no talking to one particular person without everyone else being able to see it as well. So there aren’t really any private conversations where you can bond together, or get rid of beef between each other.
      I also have this theory, hear me out –
      The ‘popular’ kids are the ones who are the most social. That’s a fact. But the thing that separates different levels of popularity is how much you socialize. Teens are cooler than kids because they’ve socialized for longer. Kids who played on sports teams – teams, not individual sports – socialize every time they practice, or play games, or whatever. And I’m sure this is like 99% accurate.
      And I think it’s different online, but the popular kids are still gonna be popular, I guess.
      On the blog, i feel like it’s more whoever’s active, whoever comments the most, whoever interacts the most. The one everyone sees around, everywhere. idk that’s my theory 😛 Also, they might’ve been around longer, and I have made friends a long time ago, idk who this person is tho!! I’m also kinda confident in my advice (doesnt really happen) but yeah this theory is the smartest thing i’ve done in a while pls trust hopefull you’re life will get better, on the blog and out 💕


      Wildflowers ~

    • Frosto
      September 18, 2018 at 10:09 pm

      I’m sorry, I hope it’s not me you’re talking about, because if it is, feel free to tell me or dm me. 🙁
      I promise that everyone on BlogClan is noticed. I personally have a lot of friends on the Blog (well, I hope) and sometimes I can be forgetful and blank out on a “closest friends” or “friends” question,and I’m sure other people do that too. 🙂
      So, all in all, just know that BlogClan appreciates you for who you are and that nobody is more popular than anyone else here. <3


      Fraino

    • Hawthorn
      September 18, 2018 at 10:54 pm

      I’m sorry you feel like that! I feel loved ke that sometimes on the blog too, and sometimes I feel like I’m still new. Maybe I am still new, I came in May. But it can be true. I always feel sad that there aren’t many kits, because, you know, Warriors is a series for kids. I know others can read it, but younger kids should get to be noticed more. But I ❤️ Blogclan.

    • September 18, 2018 at 11:18 pm

      Aww 🙁 I’m so sorry! Whoever you are, feel free to come to me. I’d love to be your friend, and I know exactly what you feel like ❤ what you’re going through has happened to me, but it wasn’t as bad as what you’re saying. This must be terrible for you! I hope you feel better, and again, I’ll be your friend, if you like 🙁 💕


      ~Lost like tears in the rain~

    • Cheetahspark
      September 19, 2018 at 4:27 am

      I’m so, so sorry. I have no idea who you are but I think I know who you’re talking about. I want to start out by saying this: everyone on the Blog is equal. It doesn’t matter what age, gender, sexuality, etc we are. “Popularity” on the Blog just depends on whoever is the most active at the time; it changes, it fluctuates. Like what pretty much everyone else has said, kits/younger apprentices have been super popular before 🙂 It all just depends on how much time you have to spend on the blog, how much you comment, stuff like that. I promise, no one has any intention to hurt your feelings or make you feel left out. We’re all friends and we all love each other here on the Blog; we don’t want it to be uncomfortable for anyone. *HUGGLES* <3 <3 <3


      gimme dem cheetos

    • Wistep
      September 19, 2018 at 4:30 am

      I’m so sorry that you’re feeling like this. I honestly feel the same often, and I think I have a feeling on who it might be that you’re talking about, but I relate A LOT. I can be your friend if you’d like! You can talk to me anytime, and I’ll try to see if I can help.

      I know that it might not seem like it, but please know that we’re all here for you, anytime. I hope you feel better soon. 🙂 <3

  4. Icy
    Icy
    September 17, 2018 at 9:09 pm

    Please stay safe, friends! ❤ Hurricane Florence is still causing a lot of damage, even if you aren’t really in the path of it. (I wasn’t in the path, and tornadoes have been popping up all day here.) Please be careful, pay attention to the weather, and stay dry!


    Ambition and strong coffee.

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    • Sparktooth who is YourFellowNerd on DeviantArt
      September 17, 2018 at 9:44 pm

      Are you in VA? There’s been so many tornado alerts there today! 😮


      Never. Stop. Creating.

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      • Icy
        Icy
        September 17, 2018 at 9:53 pm

        Yes, I am. ^^ I’m watching the news right now and they showed a video of a building in Midlothian being pretty much destroyed by a tornado. Hopefully nobody was inside at the time.


        Ambition and strong coffee.

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        • Sky
          September 18, 2018 at 12:11 pm

          Same! But I was on the other side of the mountains XD

    • Thistletooth
      September 17, 2018 at 10:50 pm

      I’m under a tornado watch now. Starclan I’m sure watching the radar


      Thistletooth

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      • Birchfoot
        September 18, 2018 at 7:50 pm

        Stay safe <3 <3 🙁

      • Fjord
        September 18, 2018 at 9:05 pm

        The watch ended last night, so I’m safe, I just was terrified


        Thistletooth

    • Spottedspirit
      September 17, 2018 at 11:11 pm

      Thank you, Icy! 🙂 I am in the path of it, but it passed us yesterday so I’m sure I’m safe!

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    • merp de merp merp inactive Minty
      September 18, 2018 at 12:17 pm

      Definitely. I’m not directly in the path but there’s been lots of rain lately and more to come, so there may be flooding and there’s been trees falling.


      When in thorns, look for roses

      • Icy
        Icy
        September 19, 2018 at 2:38 am

        Stay safe! 💙


        Ambition and strong coffee.

  5. Spottedspirit
    September 17, 2018 at 11:07 pm

    My second blog post was posted on the 15th. I was excited to check it out but when I got there, I realized that 75% of the comments were criticism. I hate being criticized. My article is my own opinion, not anybody else’s. Rainstar25’s and Sky’s comments particularly shook me to the core. I wasn’t prepared to find such negative feedback on the blog. I guess that may be because my article was about Hawkfrost. The negative feedback makes me want to cry, still. I really want some advice and some bear hugs. Also, I want to tell you, ever since I started to read an AU when Hawkfrost becomes reformed, I’ve had a slight crush on Hawkfrost. I know, I’m a moron, but I still feel like crying when I read Rainstar25’s comment and all of the other bad vibes on my article. If you’re interested, here’s the link to the article.

    Why I Think Hawkfrost Deserved A Chance by Spottedspirit

    I really want hugs. 🙁 (I wish I knew how to make a crying emoji on the computer)

    • Icy
      Icy
      September 18, 2018 at 11:30 pm

      Aw, Spotted, I’m sorry you’re feeling bad! However, I do not believe they were criticizing you. They are entitled to their opinions about Hawkfrost, and depending on what/who your article is about, debate and criticism is to be expected. But! It does not strictly mean they disliked your article in any way. 🙂 Please don’t let this get you down! All that really matters is that you like Hawkfrost, so keep liking him, and be proud of your article – you put a lot of effort into it! ❤


      Ambition and strong coffee.

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    • September 18, 2018 at 11:35 pm

      💕 None of us mean to be harsh in any way, Spotted! I myself am a fan of Hawkfrost, and I know how you feel. *dodges flying chairs*
      I get that people might seem harsh or opinionated, but really, they’re just not used to seeing a different perspective. 🙁 I hope you feel a lot better, Spotted ❤ (And I’m always up for a chat about how awesome Hawkfrost is!! 😛 )


      ~Lost like tears in the rain~

    • Sky
      September 19, 2018 at 1:28 am

      What Icy said… I wasn’t trying to insult you… I was expressing my own feelings, but if you love Hawkfrost, keep doing that! <3 You are entitled to your own opinions, just as we are to ours.

  6. merp de merp merp inactive Minty
    September 18, 2018 at 12:15 pm

    Do ever feel like all of your real life friends hate you


    When in thorns, look for roses

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    • September 19, 2018 at 3:47 am

      Um, yes!
      This is why the Blog is awesome! Because you don’t have to worry about them! 😀


      ~Lost like tears in the rain~

    • Cheetahspark
      September 19, 2018 at 4:03 am

      Yes.

      All the time.

      I don’t have advice, but we can hug about it together <3 *huggles*


      gimme dem cheetos

  7. Spottedspirit
    September 18, 2018 at 6:25 pm

    I have recently published a new article, called Why I Think Hawkfrost Deserved A Chance, and a certain comment caught my eye. It criticized my opinion and basically told me I was wrong about my opinion. Also, they cussed as they did it. I didn’t think that was right, so I looked at more articles. Turns out, people have been criticizing other people’s opinion on their articles! I think this needs to stop. I was particularly hurt by the comment on on my article and I hope that somebody stands beside me to fix this. Nobody deserves to have their feelings hurt, and criticizing other people’s articles is wrong. I need hugs and support. 🙁

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    • Icy
      Icy
      September 19, 2018 at 2:46 am

      Criticism and debate is to be expected on many articles. Nobody means to hurt anyone – we are all entitled to our opinion. Articles are meant to be fun, to spark conversations and discussions. As I said in reply to your other comment, I doubt criticism is directed at you, it’s just their opinion about Hawkfrost. I will say that the Team will not moderate anything purposely trying to hurt a BlogClanner. 🙂


      Ambition and strong coffee.

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  8. September 18, 2018 at 10:52 pm

    Ugh…

    So as you guys can tell, my two good friends Leafypaw and Silverpaw have kinda stopped using BlogClan. Yes, I know I’m kinda inactive, but BlogClan isn’t really the same without them. And now I’m just all alone, and it really bothers me.

    And on the bus one day, Silverpaw told me that the YouTube channels Bright Side and Be Amazed (Here are the links to their channels: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4rlAVgAK0SGk-yTfe48Qpwhttps://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkQO3QsgTpNTsOw6ujimT5Q) lie about their facts, but NO. A lot of the facts they’ve mentioned I actually already know! And so now I feel discouraged, and I don’t like that.

    IIII NNNEEEEDDDD HHUUGGGGGZZZ!!!

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  9. Dawnflower
    September 18, 2018 at 11:16 pm

    Everyone on the east coast please stay safe! I know hurricane Florence is there right now. Also plz pray for my cousins their house was destroyed and they nearly lost everything.

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  10. Sky
    September 19, 2018 at 1:29 am

    I… something happened. Everything I worked for has been torn apart. I am crying right now, more than I should, probably.

    Hugs? <3

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    • Cheetahspark
      September 19, 2018 at 4:03 am

      Aww Sky, I’m so, so sorry. Whatever it is, I really hope it gets fixed, if it can. We’re here for you, Sky <3


      gimme dem cheetos

    • Wistep
      September 19, 2018 at 4:34 am

      Aw, I’m really sorry, Sky. *hugs* <333

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