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  1. February 16, 2018 at 1:38 am

    Ugh. Swim practice is getting very awkward for me.

    At swim, Leafpaw (formerly Lilypaw), Lionpaw, Juniperpaw, Applepaw, and this new guy, Cedarpaw are always talking about the drama at their school. They all go to the same school, they all live in the same town, but I live like 20 minutes away from all of them in a different town. Anyways, they always talk about crushes that they have with each other, the teacher, what it’s like there, pretty much everything.

    Every. Day.

    It’s getting super annoying for me, because I want to hang out with Leafpaw and get involved with them, but all they talk about is their school drama. Nothing else. They talk about a bunch of names, and I’ll just be sitting there while they are all talking, not knowing who ‘Leo’ or ‘Abby’ is at their school.

    I have no one else to hang out with, literally no one.They are the only other kids that are my age, and I definitely don’t want to hang out with the stupid annoying boys. It feels like that I’m just no longer a part of their friend circle, just because I don’t go to their school.

    They always talk about drama, over and over again. Like there is nothing else to talk about. Everytime I start to try to talk about a different topic, it always ends up with the same thing: drama at their school. It makes me uncomfortable to be around my friends, because of that.

    So yeah, that’s my rant.




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    • February 16, 2018 at 3:32 am

      Wow

      Completely understood


      ReginaXRobin Forever




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    • February 16, 2018 at 3:42 am

      Aww I’m sorry. Maybe talk to them about dropping the drama talk when you’re there, or them telling you what’s going on so you can participate. Or talk to other people during swim.


      🌊 Queen of Canon Correcting🌊




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      • February 19, 2018 at 12:09 am

        I try to, but when I ask what’s going on, Leafpaw always replies with, “You won’t understand.” It’s a bit… hard to, because Leafpaw always asks me when I talk to other people, “Are you mad at me? You’ve been awfully quiet.”

        Leafpaw really cares for me, but she’s a bit blinded by all the drama.




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    • ❤️Spiderpaw(song)❤️
      February 16, 2018 at 7:08 am

      I feel almost the same way when my friends talk about tv shows or movies that I haven’t seen. Just ask them to explain what’s going on, or try to talk to some other people on your swim team, even if there’s a bit of an age difference. Hopefully this helps! 🙂


      ~Spidey!




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    • February 16, 2018 at 8:41 am

      Wow, I totally feel you. 😛
      I’m sorry, Ottie. <3 Maybe you could make friends with people who are older/younger than you? For some weird reason, I find making friends with them easier than making friends with people my own age. I hope this helped. 🙂


      no rain
      no flowers




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    • Fallenpaw
      February 16, 2018 at 3:10 pm

      *hugs* I feel the exact same way, Ottie. I hope you feel better; ily. <3 <3 <3




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    • February 17, 2018 at 2:09 am

      Yup, completely understood. I so get that Ottie. *huggles*


      Click my name!




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    • *insert amazing Iris related name here* (Irismist/Irispaw)
      February 18, 2018 at 2:00 am

      I’m so sorry Ottie! i completely understand, you have no idea how many times this happens to me w/ gymnastics. 🙂
      My advice, find a reader. Try and talk to someone and see if they have ever heard of Warriors, or Percy Jackson, or The Selection. That’s how I start off most of my friendships and keep chat going, with books 😛 . Also, sometimes boys aren’t so bad. Three of my best friends are boys, and I sat with my brother and his guy friends at lunch for a good part of the school year in 5th grade because there was so much drama with the girls in my own grade, and I was sick of it. An extra bonus, boys are almost always drama-free. 🙂
      I’m sorry that this is happening Ottie, and I hope that this helped 🙂


      DIVERGENT IS AMAZING 😀




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      • February 19, 2018 at 12:15 am

        The funny thing is, no one wants to talk about books. 😛 They hate reading, for some reason. And, Lionpaw and Cedarpaw are boys, and they like drama. And there is not many boys on my team, the girls out number the boys 5-1.

        Thanks Iris. <3




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        • *Insert amazing Iris related name here* (Irismist/Irispaw)
          February 19, 2018 at 2:30 pm

          😮 THEY DON’T WANT TO TALK ABOUT BOOKS!!!! 😛 How dare they!!! um, um, *racks brain for more advice*, maybe you should just focus on swimming and bring a book for during breaks and stuff 🙂 I normally don’t mind not talking to anyone because I tend to daydream or just think about my books if no one wants to talk to me, but I don’t know if you are like that 😛 (although I’m better with friends, it’s just I’m okay being alone) 🙂
          I hope that this helped, and I’m sorry that you have to go through this at swimming 🙂 No matter what, you will always have your drama-free Blogclan friends! 😀


          DIVERGENT IS AMAZING 😀




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    • Redice
      February 19, 2018 at 3:43 pm

      Your name is awesome
      Sometimes i understand how you feel. It sucks to be left out because your different. *hugs*. I’m sorry, no advice here because i am dumb




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  2. ❤️Cheetahpaw is Gorging Herself on Chocolate❤️
    February 16, 2018 at 1:51 am

    I’ve been crying. I feel very overdramatic (which actually makes sense since this is about theater). But feel horrible.

    So. Today was the last day of the week because of a four day weekend, which is awesome. So I thought today would be a great day. It wasn’t. I got my math test back, and I got a 66. Everyone else in my class all got A’s except for me. So that made me pretty sad. Today was the second day of auditions for the middle school play, and I was really hoping to get a good role. If you’ve seen my other hug page comments, I’m struggling with the fact that my dad might be forcing me to go to a different school next year. But I don’t want to leave my friends, or the amazing things I have going on at my school. I’ll be a freshman there next year. And I don’t want to miss that.

    The second day of auditions is the most important because it involves everyone reading different scenes from the play and is the most important in what role you get, so you have to be there for as long as possible. Anyway, I went to the play auditions with my friend Dramasong (yes that’s her name). We both skipped choir to go to the auditions, and assumed that it would be okay since our choir teacher is part of the audition process and Dramasong and I are both the two best sopranos in the choir and catch up very fast.

    A little background history about my choir and theater history: I’ve been in the middle school choir the longest out of everyone in middle school, including Dramasong (who is our choir teacher’s favorite). I’ve also been in every single one of our middle school and elementary school plays/musicals. This makes me one of the most experienced actresses and singers. So you’d think that I’d get a good part every once and a while. Nope. Every year, I’m always in the Ensemble or have a super small role (excluding me being The Lorax in our fourth grade play, which barely counts). And I’m a pretty modest person, but I can honestly say that I’m a good actress and singer, so I don’t understand why I never get good roles. And the main ones usually go to people who are younger than me or don’t have nearly as much experience.

    So in the beginning of auditions, the head of the Fine Arts department at our school told me and Dramasong that we had to go back to choir or she would cut us from auditions. We both freaked out, so we raced all the way across campus to get to the music room. Choir lasts an hour, so everyone that wanted to be in the play would lose an entire hour of auditions. Me and Dramasong noticed a few other people in the choir that were also nervous about auditions and were forced to go to choir. I spent the whole time during choir freaking out about my math test grade and if I would be cut from auditions for trying to skip choir. So I held back my tears.

    When it was near the end of choir, I noticed that us theater people had to run all the way across campus to get to the theater, and I didn’t want to lose any more time than we already had. Dramasong (ever so helpful) kept pressuring me to tell the choir teacher to let us go when she was perfectly capable of doing it herself. I freaked out, because I didn’t want to get behind in choir, or auditions. So when there were only about two minutes left in choir, I asked my teacher if the auditioning people could leave early. Then she gave me this death glare and slammed her books on her desk, rampaging about how no-one cares about choir. I got really sad because she was mad at me about this when I’m the one who’s been to choir the longest, always goes to choir unless something comes up, and am one of the best sopranos. Yet Dramasong always gets the solos, even though she’s been in choir a year less than I have.

    Then my choir teacher just dismissed everyone early and looked really mad. I went up to her and apologized, but she just yelled at me. That’s when I started crying. My teacher still looked mad, so I ran to try to go to auditions. When I got about half way there, I just broke down. Luckily, my choir friends were there and gave me a group hug, telling me how rude our teacher was being. That cheered me up a little. Until I told them the reason I wanted a good role in this play.

    If this is my last play at this school, I want it to be a memorable and fun experience. I don’t want to be just another extra. Theater is one of the only things I’m passionate about. And even if my choir teacher was mean today, she’s usually nice most days and is one of the reasons I love music.

    I calmed myself down and went to auditions. And then I saw my choir teacher talking to the director of the play. She looked fuming. I thought she was telling our director not to cast me. Then when we started reading scenes, the director and choreographer barely looked at me the whole time and made me read the worst roles. Now I’m scared that I won’t even get into the play, and this horrible year will get even worse.

    I just need a hug. I feel like I’m being overdramatic, but I’m really really stressed and sad. And dang this comment is long.


    --Cheetah




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    • February 16, 2018 at 3:45 am

      Aww I’m sorry Cheetah. Talk to your choir and drama teachers about how you feel. Your teacher was probably just caught up in the moment and I bet she understands that you do care about choir. *huggles*


      🌊 Queen of Canon Correcting🌊




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    • ❤️Spiderpaw(song)❤️
      February 16, 2018 at 6:21 am

      *hugs* I think maybe your choir teacher was just having an off day, that’s why she seemed so mean. And your director probably just wants to give the younger students a chance at the main theater roles. Even if you don’t get a main role at your play, the only thing that matters is that you have fun!
      Wow that last bit sounded cheesy Don’t worry, everything will end up fine! 🙂


      ~Spidey!




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    • February 16, 2018 at 8:45 am

      That is totally, totally unfair. 🙁
      I am so sorry, Cheetah. Your choir teacher isn’t being reasonable, at all. Could you please explain everything to the play director? <333 *huggles*


      no rain
      no flowers




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    • Fallenpaw
      February 16, 2018 at 3:14 pm

      *hugstightly* I’m really sorry about how that went, Cheetah. Maybe you could explain what happened to the director? <3 <3 <3




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    • February 16, 2018 at 3:52 pm

      *huggles* There’ll be many more opportunities to get into more plays whether it’s for school or something else. If those people don’t see that you’re good enough to get a major role then they’re mouse dung!




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    • February 17, 2018 at 2:12 am

      THAT IS SOOO UNFAIR! I’m so sorry Cheetah! Tell that drama teacher what happened and tell your choir teacher, when you are both in a better mood, how hard it is for you. *huggles* GAHH I NOW HATE DRAMASONG AND YOUR CHOIR TEACHER 😛


      Click my name!




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      • ❤️Cheetahpaw is Gorging Herself on Chocolate❤️
        February 17, 2018 at 3:15 pm

        Dramasong is kinda sorta a little bit my friend, but she annoys me so much and is constantly being rude without even knowing it


        --Cheetah




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        • February 17, 2018 at 8:37 pm

          Doesn’t sound like a good person to be around.


          🌊 Queen of Canon Correcting🌊




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          • 🐆Cheetahpaw(spark)/Cheetah🐆
            February 17, 2018 at 9:28 pm

            Yeah I don’t hang around her very much during school, but we stand next to each other and she’s the only soprano in my grade in choir


            --Cheetah




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    • *insert amazing Iris related name here* (Irismist/Irispaw)
      February 18, 2018 at 2:12 am

      Oh, Cheetah. I’m so sorry about that 🙂 I know how you feel about not knowing whether or not you will have to switch schools, and leaving you’re friends, and especially about mean choir teachers, because I’ve been through all of that. And I’m still alive! I spent my entire year last year with the fact that I might be moving to a different state hanging over my head, and not being able to tell my friends or anyone because my mom wanted to keep it private. Also, I have one of the meanest choir teachers ever, who just so happens to hate me. The same thing happened to me once when I asked to go finish an ELA test during my study hall with her (we were practicing for the concert, but it was still a study hall), and she started screaming at me in front of the whole middle school. I feel like the only thing that kept me alive last year (since I hadn’t joined blogclan), was friends. They cheered me up after my music teacher yelled at me, they called me after school if I was sad, and they reassured me about my grades and gave my studying advice. In times like this, you need to talk to your friend and be close to them. Also, maybe if you talked to your mom or dad about how you feel it will help. I often find that talking to my mom helps. And remeber, whatever happens, you will still have friends on Blogclan 😀 *huggles X 100000*
      ~Iris


      DIVERGENT IS AMAZING 😀




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    • Flickerlight
      February 19, 2018 at 2:17 am

      Hey, Cheetahpaw. I understand where you’re coming from. I really enjoy acting and being onstage, but I’m not so good at singing and am also super self-conscious. I’m really nervous because, like you, it’s my last year in middle school, and I have a friend (her name is Writerpaw) who seems to be way better at this kind of thing than me. Unlike me, you’re way more experienced, and are better at singing, so you probably have a better chance of getting into yours, plus getting a good role.
      I also do ballet, and have been stuck with these really small ensemble roles for years, so I can understand where you’re coming from. But I always take them, because I just want to be onstage. Is that how you feel, too?
      You seem like a really kind, sensitive, and energetic person. I hope you know that. I think its really brave of you to post this here without knowing what kind of a reception you would get.
      Here’s a hug, just for you. (>^_^)><(^.^<)

      Love,


      Flickerpaw




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  3. Daisyfrost
    February 17, 2018 at 6:14 am

    I am guessing that most people, if not everybody reading this, already know about the shooting at Marjory Stoneman Douglas High School that happened a few days ago, 02-14-2018. There’s no excuse for what happened, and I’m not going to forgive the person that killed 17 innocent people for his own selfish reasoning. I’m upset that people think they can do this sort of thing, and that after so many of shootings like this, there’s nothing done to stop anything.

    I had to tell my friend today that somebody he knew at Douglas was dead. I want to know where people think it’s acceptable to let this keep happening when everybody’s afraid to go to school and when everybody’s having to tell each other who’s dead and whoo’s alive. No amount of praying, wishing, or hoping is going to change what’s happening and what will happen. People control themselves, and, honestly, as long as we have such easy access to guns and we’re all so used to this happening, things will probably just get worse.

    It’s even more awful because we’re so USED to this. It’s NORMAL. But… it really isn’t normal.

    In the past two days, in two schools, mine and Douglas, I know the names of twenty people who have died. Two high schools in one county, in one state, in one country, in two days, and there are twenty people dead, the majority because of one person. I want to know who bloody thinks that’s okay.

    -Sorry for a bit of a rant. Just… yeah.-




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    • A Kate for All Seasons
      February 17, 2018 at 7:43 am

      Daisyfrost, I’m glad you ranted. Don’t apologise for your anger. It is beyond belief what is being allowed to happen in US schools. We watch from outside, stunned and helpless while it happens over and over again. I’m so sad that you know the names of twenty people who have died. That it too much for one person, especially a young person who lives in a country where she should be able to feel safe and happy and proud. I feel so angry on your behalf that this has happened and keeps happening, and that nothing is being done to solve this terrible terrible blight on your wonderful country’s peace and security.


      BlogTeam Administrator, Leader




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    • ❤️Cheetahpaw is Gorging Herself on Chocolate❤️
      February 17, 2018 at 3:18 pm

      It’s so horrible what’s happening right now. I’m so sorry you have to go through telling your friend that… All of the people that died didn’t deserve what happened to them. I’m really sorry. *hugges*


      --Cheetah




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      • Daisyfrost
        February 18, 2018 at 2:45 am

        No, they didn’t deserve it, you’re right. It’s awful.




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    • February 17, 2018 at 4:05 pm

      *Hugs*

      My mom told me about it. That was like the 18th since school started back up in January. I’m not in Public school, so I guess I don’t have anything to be worried about, well, for my own life.

      I am scared beyond belief that one of my friends at dance will be put in danger in that way. I can’t even begin to imagine…


      ReginaXRobin Forever




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      • Daisyfrost
        February 18, 2018 at 2:39 am

        I hope that nothing else happens and that your friend will also be okay! Hopefully, this never happens again.
        It’s probably fortunate that you are not in public school, with the USA’s current situation and all.




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        • February 18, 2018 at 3:06 pm

          Yeah…

          It’s just that if something does happen, and it’s at one of my friend’s schools, I won’t be there. So I wouldn’t be able to protect them. Even if I was in Public School I wouldn’t be in the same district.


          ReginaXRobin Forever




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    • February 17, 2018 at 4:11 pm

      I’ll admit I don’t really know the full extent of what happened there (nor do I want to), but I completely agree with you. This is all so much more horrifying and terrible than I can express. I’m afraid I don’t have any advice for you on this one. It’s such a horrible situation we’re in. 🙁


      🌊 Queen of Canon Correcting🌊




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      • Daisyfrost
        February 18, 2018 at 2:37 am

        I agree, you probably don’t want to know all of what happened. There’s no need to advice, and I know there’s not much we can do (“we” a BlogClan), I just wanted to rant about it a bit — sorry.
        It sure is horrible. :/




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    • February 17, 2018 at 6:38 pm

      I am so sorry. It’s okay to rant, I’m glad you chose to. I hate this too and wish that it could all stop, that it never could have happened . . .


      No act of kindness is wasted.




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      • Daisyfrost
        February 18, 2018 at 2:36 am

        Me too.




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    • ❤️Spiderpaw(song)❤️
      February 17, 2018 at 9:50 pm

      I feel the exact same way! It’s absolutely terrible that these type of things happen so frequently that they started to become almost NORMAL. People aren’t as surprised by school shootings as they used to be, and that isn’t good 🙁 I feel really bad for the victims in the last shooting in Florida. It’s okay to rant about it


      ~Spidey!




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      • Daisyfrost
        February 18, 2018 at 2:35 am

        I feel really bad for them too. 🙁




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      • Spashwhisker
        February 18, 2018 at 5:27 pm

        I really bad for the victims too but I’m also scared for my life cause I go to public school and I had a bad anxiety attack at school on Thursday cause I was afraid someone was gonna attack my school . I’m out in trailers most of the time and I’m really jumpy now and nervous . I want to be a police officer and keep people safe but now I’m scared . Is it ok for someone that wants to be a cop to be scared for their life . I just need a hug or a a lot of hugs .




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        • Daisyfrost
          February 19, 2018 at 12:08 am

          It’s fine to also be scared for yourself and feel bad for what’s already happened. Everybody is sometimes afraid, so don’t worry about that. Hopefully this never happens again.




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          • Spashwhisker
            February 19, 2018 at 1:45 am

            I hope it doesn’t happen again either




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    • *insert amazing Iris related name here* (Irismist/Irispaw)
      February 18, 2018 at 2:18 am

      omsc Daisy, I’m so sorry. I don’t know what could really help right now but hugs, so… *hugs x 1000000*
      It’s okay to rant, I feel the same way. I learned about the shooting when I went on my computer 2 days ago and it just showed up in the news section. 🙁 I really don’t know what to say except that I hope you feel better,… *hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs* 🙂


      DIVERGENT IS AMAZING 😀




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      • Daisyfrost
        February 18, 2018 at 6:13 pm

        Thank you, Iris.




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        • *Insert amazing Iris related name here* (Irismist/Irispaw)
          February 19, 2018 at 2:31 pm

          🙂


          DIVERGENT IS AMAZING 😀




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    • Whispering Rain who's apparently sane
      February 18, 2018 at 3:47 pm

      Ugh.

      I can’t express my feelings on this. It’s just so terrible and to think that it happens so frequently in the US that people just consider it normal… ugh.

      *huggles*


      Mrrrow.




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      • Daisyfrost
        February 19, 2018 at 3:52 pm

        I agree, and thank you.




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    • Fallenpaw
      February 18, 2018 at 7:41 pm

      *hugssupertightly* <3 <3 <3 <3 <3




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      • Daisyfrost
        February 19, 2018 at 3:52 pm

        Thank you.




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    • Redice
      February 19, 2018 at 3:45 pm

      This is why i don’t go to public school, quite frankly.
      People should do something about this. Just because it’s “normal” doesn’t mean people should get away with this.




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  4. Rosepaw/song/Rose with Sharp Thorns
    February 18, 2018 at 12:55 am

    Right now i’m just feeling down 🙁
    Can I just get a hug?
    (And yeah you can ignore me and go hug the other people who need it more. I’ll wait here.)


    Cupco is Real




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  5. Loudfern
    February 18, 2018 at 11:59 am

    Oh I want to squeeze you all, I feel AMAZINGGG

    There’s this guy I know, and he’s funny and nice and sarcastic and purrrrrfect and AGGGHHHHHHHHH

    Is this what love feels like? I feel so dazed, like I’m falling through the clouds and my happiness levels just burst every time I think about him. I could talk to him forever and ever; every time I get a text, I jump up to see if it was him! And ahhhh it is! He wants to talk to me! He likes me! Which is more than any guy has done for me in ages.

    How can I sleep when I feel so wonderrrrrfulllll??????? Aaaaaahhhhhhh someone help me this can’t be real!

    *squeezing yall*

    I think I need to be punched extra hard




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    • Loudfern
      February 18, 2018 at 9:10 pm

      *reading over this the next morning*

      Yes I do need to punched i am absolutely, disgustingly idiotic




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    • February 18, 2018 at 10:59 pm

      That’s so amazing Loudy!


      --Cheetah




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      • Loudfern
        February 19, 2018 at 8:16 am

        Lel well I haven’t felt like this before but it feels great so I guess it is 😛




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    • ❤️Spiderpaw(song)❤️
      February 19, 2018 at 1:58 am

      That’s awesome! 🙂 And , no, you don’t need to be punched I have like 57 crushes on different guys so does that mean I deserve 57 punches? *punches self in face 57 times* 😛


      ~Spidey!




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    • February 19, 2018 at 3:17 am

      Oh Loudy… that’s amazing!!!
      Totally doesn’t have a crush and knows how that feels 😛


      Click my name!




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    • Kinkpaw
      February 19, 2018 at 3:25 am

      I don’t know what you did there but you’re certainly more talented than me 😛


      Defying Society since 2004




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    • Spashwhisker
      February 19, 2018 at 4:19 am

      That’s awsome , I have a crush on this guy that’s in two of my classes but I don’t think he likes me or if he does he won’t admit it . But having a crush is great and I hope it works out with you and that guy




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    • *Insert amazing Iris related name here* (Irismist/Irispaw)
      February 19, 2018 at 2:37 pm

      That’s awesome Loudy! I had about 1 crush when I was in 3rd grade, but now he is one of my good friends but it is really more of a friendship than anything. 😛 So yeah, most of my experience with love comes from books, although my super annoying friends told me that they shipped me with one of my best friends (not my crush) on my first day back at school, and we got paired together in science they screamed it again for the whole class to hear. I don’t think he cared, but I was diffidently blushing, *sigh* Yeah, well ..
      YAY FOR YOU LOUDY I’M SO HAPPY THAT YOU ARE HAPPY 😀 enjoy love 😛 😀


      DIVERGENT IS AMAZING 😀




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    • Redice
      February 19, 2018 at 4:01 pm

      That’s great! Congrats to u

      I wish girls liked me LOL




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  6. Redice
    February 19, 2018 at 4:01 pm

    Sorry if this is dumb, ahead of time.

    I’m so sick of everywhere i go, most people hate me. I’m sick of being harassed. I’m sick of being bullied. I’m sick of not being taken seriously. No matter where i go, martial arts class, online games, forums, communities/wikias, everywhere everyone hates me.
    It feels sometimes like I’m a walking punching bag, and people think they should take out their saltyness on me.
    I wish i had friends somewhere other than my family.




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  7. February 19, 2018 at 6:55 pm

    I know this is stupid but I’m kind of scared of going out right now since I don’t speak much French and I know the French can be kind of rude towards Americans and my parents are really obvious tourists and ugh if I stay inside the hotel room no one can hear my terrible one semester French but my parents will hate me :/


    🌊 Queen of Canon Correcting🌊




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