The Hug Page

The Hug Page is here. Because, whoever we are, we still need hugs. This is still the best place to come if you’re feeling sad and need a hug from BlogClan…

Fading Echoes

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  1. November 14, 2018 at 7:39 pm

    I have really bad self-esteem and anxiety/paranoia issues. I’ll mope and stress about the pettiest things for days on end and literally think of nothing else. But I was just about getting through that, mainly as I had just about ticked off my list of dumb things to worry about, until the Warriors fandom suddenly became overrun by petty and whiny jerks. If I try stating that I dislike Mapleshade/like Appledusk online anywhere (save for BlogClan), I instantly just get bombarded with passive aggressive and sometimes just downright rude responses. I try my best not to take it to heart, but I still end up dwelling on everything they say for days on end, and it’s like torture. I just want to have civil debates and share opinions, but it literally just turns into an edgy lynch cult hhhhhhhhh.

    Angry Appledusk defender

    • Hungry Foxies Chasing Turkies
      November 14, 2018 at 11:19 pm

      While it’s good to let your anger out, I think most of Blogclan knows that you love Appledusk. And that is totally fine! But you’ve posted a lot about this subject and while its ok to rant, sometimes too much is overwhelming. Blogclan is a safe site and people usually aren’t rude so hopefully you aren’t taking all of this out on us. We try our best to respect other people’s opinions and I am perfectly fine with yours. I never hated Appledusk. I hope you understand where I’m coming from 🙂 Blogclan should at least be a safe place where you can express your opinion. Yes there are people who hate Appledusk and that is fine. There are people who hate Mapleshade. That is fine too. And while both sides of this debate may get fired up and angry, don’t take it out on the person (I am speaking to everyone here). Hate the character, not the person who likes the character you hate! There will always be people though who don’t listen to this and take it out on the angry fans/haters. And that is normal. But for a future lesson, this would be good. For example, you disowned me as your “child” because I love the FeatherxNight ship. I don’t know if you were joking or not but I felt kind of hurt. However I try not to dwell on it. People’s opinions can hurt. I understand that. It hurts and it’s annoying when someone doesn’t agree with you. Especially when they like to shove it in your face and rant about it. That’s tough and it’s rude. I hate debating because I know I suck at it and I probably won’t be able to defend my opinion. But I lash out anyway sometimes. And it puts me in a big mess, believe me. As the saying says, “Don’t fight fire with fire.” If an argument is about to break out, stop it as soon as possible. And by that I mean don’t argue if that person doesn’t agree with you. Of course you can say a few things in defense but if the argument starts to build, then there’s no point in talking any more because no one will change the other person’s opinion. That is their opinion and they most likely will stick to it unless some miracle happens. People probably won’t do this cause they want to get THEIR opinion out. And that’s normal but I totally agree that it’s kind of rude and hurtful when angry fans or haters swarm you constantly. You are only trying to express your opinion freely (what happened to freedom of speech, am I right?). And that’s great. You go girl you tell them what you think! But there is a limit. Too much of your opinion can be annoying sometimes. This goes for others as well. So overall we all should tell ourselves to think before we speak. Now there are lots of people who don’t do this lol. But we should work on it, ya know?

      T = is it Truthful?
      H = is it Helpful?
      I = is it Inspiring?
      N = is it Necessary?
      K = is it Kind?

      I never knew the Warriors fandom could get so….edgy 😛 But of course I think every fandom has a lot of haters and fans of different characters (and ships) in that fandom.

      Hopefully I didn’t sound mean! That was not my intention at all. I hope everyone calms down a bit though in the debate 😛 But ya know as they all say, “The haters gonna hate, hate, hate…..” (sorry I had too haha). Huggles!!

      “I’m not scared to be seen, I make no apologies, this is (my opinion)!” 😛

      Count Your Blessings

      • November 17, 2018 at 4:29 am

        my school’s obsessed with the ‘THINK’ theme 😛

        * sips tea *

      • Spottedpaw/stream
        November 17, 2018 at 1:29 pm

        Yes, my school has the ‘THINK’ thing too 😛

    • ❄️Chilly, Silly Dawnpaw❄️
      November 14, 2018 at 11:48 pm

      I’m so sorry! It’s definitely not ok that people are being aggressive about your opinion! If they do this again, try and say, ¨Can you please not be so aggressive, it is just my opinion.¨ After all, everyone should be able to express their opinions freely. Also, I’m sorry I’m not the best at giving advice!

      Don't worry, be happy

    • Spotted Turkey's Spirit After Being Eaten
      November 16, 2018 at 12:00 am

      It’s okay. I want to let you know that the real villains in Mapleshade’s Vengeance are Mapleshade and Frecklewish. *hugs* I love Appledusk. 🙂

      Spoto, at your service

  2. Wolfpaw (Wolfie)
    November 14, 2018 at 8:22 pm

    One month ago we were playing a pushing game with my class (don’t ask why) and I pushed one of the girls and she tripped over her legs and fell. Everyone got over it, she didn’t really hurt herself only a little on her arm. They went to the doctor because her parents are over protective and took two X-rays which both showed it was alright and not broken or sprained. She got better, then two weeks later she broke her arm and said it was my fault because of her fall. My whole class started calling me killer. Today a psychologist came into our class and talked about self esteem. She made everyone go out to the front of the class and the others had to say a good thing about them. When it was my turn 4/10 was: You’re a great killer, you’re great at pushing others and I just wanted to get out of class and cry. I never cry in school and always show a strong front. I went to the girl’s bathroom to cool down, wash my face after class but then the girls of my class followed me and acted like I had no right to be angry at them. I’m feeling both angry and sad right now. I hate being blamed for something I didn’t do. Plus in every class the girl says she can’t write because she broke her arm because I pushed her and she waits for the teachers to start pitying her and being angry at me.

    • November 14, 2018 at 11:24 pm

      ARGH!!! Sorry, Wolfie! I know how you feel. Can you possibly talk to your teachers about the situation???

    • ❄️Chilly, Silly Dawnpaw❄️
      November 14, 2018 at 11:44 pm

      I’m so sorry Wolfpaw. I understand what its like to be blamed for something you didn’t do. But as long as you know your innocent, just try to ignore your classmates. If they start to bully you, even more, talk to an adult, no one has any right to treat you like that.

      Don't worry, be happy

    • Leafsong (Leafy Greens That Decorate Thanksgiving Table)
      November 16, 2018 at 2:46 am

      Aww man this sounds horrible. That sounds so disrespectful of those other people…Honestly I wouldn’t do no better than you in this situation. I also keep a strong front at school (or like to at least) and try my best to never cry. But if you did cry, maybe people would realize how much you felt hurt by this. I really suggest apologizing to the girl that broke her arm. Let me get something straight: I think that girl is being honestly kinda petty but if you act like it was your fault and feel bad instead of sort of denying it, I feel like it’ll make the whole thing sorta calm down. Sometimes what people really want is an apology but they haven’t got the guts to ask. I know you have the guts to do whatever you feel is right 🙂 Also tell other people if they call you killer, “Hey. I feel really bad that I broke her arm, and it makes me feel worse when you call me ‘killer’. So please stop.” I hope you get what I’m trying to say and hopefully this is okay advice. Good luck and *huggles!!* 🙂

      ✦You're not ugly. Society is.✦

  3. they logged me out again
    November 15, 2018 at 2:30 am

    so, uh. got the cast list for my school’s musical back today. they didn’t even cast me in the chorus. and EVERYBODY i’ve talked to says that even if you’re a bad singer they will cast you in the chorus. so i must have done REALLY BADLY. i knew i screwed up my singing audition, but i didn’t screw it up that badly. everyone i’ve ever sung for tells me i’m not a crappy singer. which means they were lying. so what else have people been lying to me about?

    sorry this is dumb, i’m just pretty upset rn

    • Pumpkin SpICY Latte
      Pumpkin SpICY Latte
      November 15, 2018 at 10:18 pm

      Hey, you’re probably an amazing singer! ❤ I know it’s hard, but please don’t beat yourself up about it. You are great at so many things. Don’t immediately jump to the conclusion that everyone is lying to you – because I am sure they’re not. ❤ I’m sorry I can’t help more, Kinky, but I can tell you that you are awesomely kinktacular. 🙂

      Ambition and strong coffee.

    • Shivy
      November 15, 2018 at 11:43 pm

      Don’t be so hard on yourself, Kinky ❤️ To be honest, it takes a lot of guts to actually have the courage to audition. Many of the people auditioning will have had years of vocal coaching and experience. If you want to improve your singing, try a singing teacher or online lessons. Also, many good singers don’t start at a young age. For example, I think George Salazar who plays Michael in Be More Chill started singing and all that when he was 16, and he’s a fab singer?? 😀 Also, I’m sure that people aren’t always lying to you, we always assume that people are harsher and judgier (is that even a word) than they really are most of the time 🙂
      I’m not the best at advice but I hope you feel better soon :))

    • Cheetahspark
      November 17, 2018 at 2:10 pm

      I’m so sorry, Kinky 🙁 But please don’t let this get you down! I know a lot of talented people who auditioned for stuff but didn’t get in. And think about it this way — why would people go to the trouble of ‘lying’ to you about your voice when they could just say nothing? (did that make sense?) Point is, please just remember that you’re an amazing person, and never give up <3

      gimme dat eggnog

      • A Kate for All Seasons
        November 17, 2018 at 3:33 pm

        Never give up! And don’t ever take rejection personally. It only takes one yes and if you keep trying the yes comes eventually! 🙂

        BlogTeam Administrator, Leader

    • November 17, 2018 at 4:37 pm

      Aww Kinky <3 You're probably an amazing singer! Don't let them get you down, don't take the rejection to heart. I bet you'll do amazing next time! *hugs* <3

      * sips tea *

  4. lunaheart
    November 15, 2018 at 4:45 am

    Things have been bad lately with soccer, basketball, school play, PT, strings, color guard, and friend drama. Oh, my dog just died and my grandma is very ill and will pass away very soon.

    • ❄️Chilly, Silly Dawnpaw❄️
      November 16, 2018 at 10:20 pm

      I’m so sorry Luna! I know what its like to lose a dog, but just know he/she is in a better place. 🙂 Also, don’t give up hope for your gramma, even if she does die, she will always be with you. I miss my gramma every day, but I can always feel a part of her is still with me.

      Don't worry, be happy

  5. Wolfpaw (Wolfie)
    November 15, 2018 at 9:54 pm

    I know I rant alot but I really messed up. One of my friends is dating a boy but only their parents and I know. (She is my friend from another school from where we moved out 2 years ago.) I was chatting with one of my other friends and she asked if they are dating. I totally forgot that she didn’t know if it was true and said yes. Right after I sent it I realised that she must have only heard it as gossip. I told my friend (the one who is dating) and she said fine, and that she doesn’t care but I still feel awful. She trusted me with her secret and I told someone else.

  6. Spotted Turkey's Spirit After Being Eaten
    November 15, 2018 at 11:51 pm

    To everyone worried about being kidnapped:
    I recently read Percy Jackson and I started to think of it as all the kid who go missing as demigods going to Camp Half-Blood. Think of it this way. 🙂
    My dad gets the newspaper everyday but the missing kid section seems to be growing. 🙁
    But they’re all demigods learning to kick butt and fight monsters! 😉

    Spoto, at your service

  7. lunaheart
    November 16, 2018 at 12:54 am

    My grandma passed away this morning. My dog passed away last month. I broke my foot.

    • November 16, 2018 at 2:41 am

      *Hugs* May your grandma and dog Rest In Peace. I hope you feel better and your foot heals!

    • Lapispaw
      November 16, 2018 at 5:29 pm

      I’m sorry Lunaheart! Sometimes things in this world seem mean and awful, and like everything is out to get us.
      When you start thinking about your grandma, or your dog, think about how lucky you were to know them when you did!
      I never met my grandma, she died when I was a baby. So I take every moment I can to spend time with my other grandma.
      You are amazing and you will make it through! It hurts now, I know.

      😀 Happy Thanksgiving! 😀

  8. Thistletooth
    November 16, 2018 at 11:09 pm

    My emotions are building up. Schools hard as always. I’m stressed. It seems like no one cares. I’m kinda thinking of running away ( I’m most likely not gonna) take all the stuff I care about most and leave. I’m leaving the blog several days or more and come back or not. These emotions have been building up for days. I want to cry but I don’t want to look weak or have people asking me what’s wrong. I’ve only cried once of all my years school and several times this year at home. Idk what to do. It kinda seems like people don’t respect my feelings or my space. I just need hugs and advice.

    " tell Tigerstar I'm sorry "

  9. November 17, 2018 at 4:35 am

    “Don’t let them shake you, don’t let them break you, don’t let their words and their harm take you, make you hate who you are…
    …you’re enough, reality’s rough, the times are tough, but you’re good enough.
    The world’s bent you and you think you’re spent but you’ve got a lot of strength still left…
    …so be strong, know you belong, and I’m writing the lyrics to this song for all the wrong in the world.
    You are enough. ”

    yeah…spurt of inspiration and I kept writing and came out with a 5-second terrible piece, so here you go 😛 hope this cheers up some of you <3

    * sips tea *

  10. November 17, 2018 at 5:11 pm

    i always feel like a big joke at my school and that nobody at school really cares about me and i know that some people don’t like me i don’t know why though and yesterday on friday while we were waiting in line to go back inside from recess and i thought i heard some of the boys in the back say to one boy, “go hug *insert what the last sounding of my name is*” they were snickering also and i don’t know if they meant me because i only heard what the last sound of my name sounded like but i’m sure it was about me and that they were daring this boy to go hug me just for laughs and to make me confuse. i’m the very quiet kid in the class who doesn’t even hang out with any students out of school and i do have school friends who i hang out with but most of the time during lunch i sit alone and some of the school friends i do hang out with come to my table but sometimes they don’t and whenever i do hang out with people i always feel like i get too weird and they see me as weird and not in a fun way. i feel like my family, the three friends who don’t go to my school who i rarely hang out with because they are also my two older siblings’ friends, and blogclan are the only people who respect me.

    i can't hear you it's too dark

    • 🦃Pasty doesn’t eat turkey🦃
      November 17, 2018 at 7:39 pm

      I know how you feel. There are some people who don’t like me for whatever reason. *huggles* I have advice but it is too salty to share. I hope everything gets better. 💙

      Ivypool 2.0

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