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Fading Echoes

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  1. Brightstorm (Bright Flash In Storm Cloud)
    March 26, 2017 at 8:01 am

    I feel bad I only come here when I have a problem ๐Ÿ˜ž But I care about you all and please take care of yourselves!

    My friend, who I’m going to call Blackclaw, became very depressed yesterday and I texted him to try and help him and he was very cruel to me, kept telling me to cut him out of my life because he wasn’t worth it, said he didn’t care about whether I was sad if died, etc.

    It’s just really hurtful and upsetting to hear from him, because he helped me when things were bad, and even though I’m made at him for saying those things I’m also still worried about him ๐Ÿ˜ž

    • March 26, 2017 at 12:21 pm

      *hugs* I’m so sorry, Brightstorm. I don’t really have advice… I hope you’re both feeling better soon.


      ๐ŸซCHOCOLATE ๐Ÿซ

      • Brightstorm (Bright Flash In Storm Cloud)
        March 29, 2017 at 2:24 am

        Thank you Fallenpaw ๐Ÿ’Ÿ

    • Snowbreeze
      March 26, 2017 at 2:24 pm

      I’m so sorry. I have nothing else to say, but you have my sympathy. *Hugs*

      • Brightstorm (Bright Flash In Storm Cloud)
        March 29, 2017 at 2:28 am

        Thanks Snowbreeze ๐Ÿ˜ฝ

    • Starlingpaw (Starling that sings in moonlight
      March 27, 2017 at 1:18 am

      I’m so sorry. I don’t have much advice but that you should just stand by him. Huggles!

      • Brightstorm (Bright Flash In Storm Cloud)
        March 29, 2017 at 2:28 am

        Thanks Starlingpaw ๐Ÿ˜Š

    • Frosty the Snowman (Frostpaw [Frostfeather])
      March 27, 2017 at 2:11 am

      Oh no! I don’t really know what to say, but I hope everything turns out better soon! *huggles*

      • Brightstorm (Bright Flash In Storm Cloud)
        March 29, 2017 at 2:28 am

        Thank you โค

    • Owlheart
      March 27, 2017 at 6:43 am

      *huggles*

      • Brightstorm (Bright Flash In Storm Cloud)
        March 29, 2017 at 2:30 am

        Thanks Owlheart ๐Ÿ˜ฝ

    • Foolish Foxey
      March 27, 2017 at 7:34 pm

      I feel like you should give him time, let him come back to you. But if that it’s serious, and he’s really depressed, tell a trusted adult.

      • Brightstorm (Bright Flash In Storm Cloud)
        March 29, 2017 at 2:30 am

        Unfortunately he’s an online friend and I can’t get in touch with his mom but I did tell his girlfriend and she promised to watch over him. He’s better now, but things are just really awkward.

    • March 27, 2017 at 8:42 pm

      I’m really sorry he treated you that way. He’s probably just upset. You should probably tell an adult, like his parents, and stay away from him for a bit. If he acts like that, don’t let it get to you. *huggles*


      ๐ŸŒŠ Queen of Canon Correcting ๐ŸŒŠ

      • Brightstorm (Bright Flash In Storm Cloud)
        March 29, 2017 at 2:26 am

        He’s cooled off now. I’m not the only one he did it too, so there’s that at least.

    • Daisypaw
      March 27, 2017 at 9:23 pm

      Brightstorm I am so sorry! He was just lashing out. He’s upset. He doesn’t think that you would care maybe, or that he doesn’t want to hurt you. you have a right to be worried. <3 Just let him now that even if he doesn't want to be your friend that you will always be there for him. even if you're mad sometimes it's best to just try to help him. he's in a bad place right now. look maybe i am wrong and maybe others will say other things, but i think it's best to stick by him. he obviously cares about you, even if you guys argued. he is trying to do what he thinks is best. don't try to get him worked up. let him calm down. <3 it's gonna be okay. <3 give him some time. in a better place things heal better. including friendships. <3 \

      • Brightstorm (Bright Flash In Storm Cloud)
        March 29, 2017 at 2:26 am

        He’s calmed down but never apologized and is acting like he didn’t lash out at everyone, so now it’s just awkward but at least he’s okay.

  2. Snowbreeze
    March 26, 2017 at 2:40 pm

    This might be a rant, this might not be. Iโ€™m so angry. Really, really angry. My Mom is sick and acting like a weakling and that just makes me SO ANGRY. I know Iโ€™ve said this MANY times, but I want to be tough, and I was thinking I could be more out there about it, but then I asked my SICK MOM about it and she told me that my tutors, who Iโ€™ve acted happy and sweet around before (Iโ€™m being home-schooled now!) would find it really weird if I started wearing outfits like this: http://www.forever21.com/Product/Product.aspx?br=F21&category=top_blouses&productid=2000208924

    So what can I do for people to take me seriously? And NOT think itโ€™s weird and sudden, this has been bouncing around in my mind for a long time. Also, anger shortens your life, but Iโ€™M JUST SO ANGRY AND NOBODY UNDERSTANDS ME IN MY LIFE AND I JUST โ€“

    I kinda burst. I’ve been bottling it up for two weeks, maybe more, and I started crying REALLY HARD and blubbered it all to my parents. I feel so ugly and embarrassed. Ugh, I HATE it when I start to cry. I’ve been trying to suck it up and figure it out for myself, but I couldn’t . I’m just not destined to be mature and tough. And I still hate my Mom, for some reason, I just get so angry when she’s sick OH WHY CAN’T I FIGURE OUT MY OWN FEELINGS?!? I HATE MYSELF!

    • Darkpaw(Ivy)
      March 26, 2017 at 9:11 pm

      *Huggles* oh Snowy Friend! I’m sorry. If you want to wear those clothes, try explaining it to your parents, but remember you are a,aging, and you don’t need those clothes to prove that. *huggles*

      • Snowbreeze
        March 27, 2017 at 12:09 am

        Thank you.

    • Frosty the Snowman (Frostpaw [Frostfeather])
      March 27, 2017 at 2:14 am

      Oh no! Maybe try to explain to your parents the problem, but even so you’re still you no matter what you wear ๐Ÿ™‚ *huggles*

    • Owlheart
      March 27, 2017 at 6:48 am

      *huggles* Try talking to your parents about it, and it doesn’t matter what you wear, you’re still the same amazing person on the inside. I hope things get better. <3

    • March 27, 2017 at 2:29 pm

      *hugs* I’m really sorry, Snowy. Hating yourself will not help you. And if you want to wear those clothes, wear them! <3 <3 <3


      ๐ŸซCHOCOLATE ๐Ÿซ

      • Snowbreeze
        March 27, 2017 at 8:05 pm

        Thank you all.

  3. Wingpaw
    March 26, 2017 at 6:17 pm

    I feel like such a fox-heart for complaining about my problems.
    My ‘motto’ always has been “Someone has it worse then you” and I’ve been screaming that at myself mentally more often now.
    I just want to scream but I can’t. I just want to unleash my frustrations, pains, anger on someone but I can’t and in turn that makes me even more frustrated.

    And people tell me “suicide isn’t the answer” but they don’t give YOU A BETTER ONE! THEY JUST SEND YOU OFF TO THERAPY AND STICK YOU ON MEDS AND SEND OFF TO INPATIENT AND IT DOESNT HELP!!!! ITS NOT WORKING FOR ME!!!!!! AND I CANT FREAKING SPELL TO SAVE MY OWN LIFE!

    • Wingpaw
      March 26, 2017 at 6:18 pm

      I… I’m sorry…

      • Darkpaw(Ivy)
        March 26, 2017 at 9:15 pm

        Don’t apologize Wingpaw, you needed to do that. Your problems are important, I used to have a similar motto, until I realized it was just making me feel worse, and unimportant. You are amazing Wingpaw. We love you <3

        • Wingpaw
          March 27, 2017 at 1:17 am

          Thanks Darkpaw. ๐Ÿ™‚

    • Frosty the Snowman (Frostpaw [Frostfeather])
      March 27, 2017 at 2:23 am

      Oh no! You don’t have to apologize! If you’re ever frustrated, you can always talk to us. We’ll be here for you ๐Ÿ™‚

      And suicide is never the answer. But there are answers out there, like life. Love. Friendship. Remember that we’ll always love you and we’re always here for you <3 *huggles*

    • Lily That Shines Like Dawn
      March 27, 2017 at 4:56 am

      Wingpaw, no! Thats not the answer! *sits down to have a chat with Wingpaw*

      Listen. I used to think about death a lot. It scared me to think that some people did that, and it scares me now that one of my clanmates might hurt themselves. I love all Blogclanners, including you, which is why I want the best for you. Maybe therapy isn’t working for you, but don’t apologize. Is it a “sit down and talk about our feelings” therapy? Maybe physical therapy is more your style, like running, or swimming. Just never apologize for you feelings, okay?
      Love, Your Friend, Dawnlily. <3


      Be-claws I Said So

    • Owlheart
      March 27, 2017 at 6:52 am

      Don’t apologize, if you need to rant we’re here for you. Things will get better even if it doesn’t seem like it right now. Just remember that you’re loved. *huggles* <3 <3

    • March 27, 2017 at 2:31 pm

      *hugs* You don’t need to apologize. Scream into and punch pillows, that’s what I do when I’m frustrated. You aren’t a fox-heart, Wingpaw. I really hope you’re feeling better soon. <3 <3 <3


      ๐ŸซCHOCOLATE ๐Ÿซ

    • Duskpaw (Duskblaze)
      March 29, 2017 at 3:39 am

      Don’t feel like a fox-heart, and don’t be sorry… it’s okay to complain. You need to tell someone.
      When you hold a small pen out, with your arm extended, then it’s really light. But if you keep it out like that, then it seems to get more heavy as you arm gets more tired. Eventually you’re forced to stop.
      Eventually you explode.
      If you don’t talk about it soon, then you’ll explode with the stress, the pressure, the intense feelings. Because your problem isn’t a pen. It’s a brick. If a pen is hard after a while, imagine a brick
      Don’t do that to yourself. Tell people. Let it out.
      Try not to think about others. In a situation like this, YOU need to get better first, because how can you help others if you can’t help yourself? I have empathy problems (I know that sounds so weird, just go with it) and it’s hard to do this, but you HAVE to.
      BECAUSE YOU MATTER <3
      unleash your frusterations on us because we can be there for you.
      We'll listen, it's okay
      But suicide is NEVER the answer
      Please don't
      please please
      please

      to quote ‘A monster calls’
      ‘If you need to break things, then by golly break them’
      take it out, don’t keep it in
      don’t feel bad about it

      Be strong, stay strong, and you'll come out stronger
      If you can deal with this then you can deal with just about everything
      I know it's so easy to just type out those words, and so much harder to act them out, but try
      let it be your motto or something <3
      When your leg's broken, you need a crutch.
      If you don't use the crutch, it'll get worse.
      We can be one part of your crutch
      we'll be here every step of the way
      try to enjoy the small things.
      think of what you'll miss.
      tasting an amazing meal, even if you're having a bad day
      seeing the sun through the clouds on a rainy one
      that one bird chirp
      that one small patch of grass showing through the cement
      us <3

      I hope it gets better
      I really do
      <3
      we love you
      *hugs*


      Dusktape ๐Ÿ˜›

  4. Stoatkit Isn't Logged In
    March 27, 2017 at 6:29 am

    So there is a second-grader on my bus, let’s call him Sunkit, and he is annoying me {like most kids on my bus}
    He claims to have watched many innapropriate movies and shows, and when a couple of kids and I were trying to tell him the Rules of the Back, when I got to two: no sitting behind someone older than you without their permisson, he interrupted me and made a bad poop joke.
    He also sits where fourth graders usually sit and has even sat in the waaay back in a sixth grade seat. Remember, he’s in second grade .
    My week on the bus won’t improve with the sixth grade boys but oh well.
    Sorry if I complained a lot or sounded negative, I’m tired and want to get my feelings out.

    • Echofeather
      March 27, 2017 at 4:29 pm

      I know how you feel the school year’s almost over at least


      ๐Ÿฑcats๐Ÿฑ

    • Duskpaw (Duskblaze)
      March 27, 2017 at 10:33 pm

      Hey, It’s fine! I have kids like that on my bus. I just stare straight ahead and ignore them, and they’ll lose the fun of annoying you. Most times.
      I usually have to stick it out till the end.
      It’s okay that you’re complaining, It’s fine!
      *hugs*


      Dusktape ๐Ÿ˜›

    • Clover Fox (Steppy)
      March 27, 2017 at 11:49 pm

      Oh little boys. My advice would be to just tell an adult about him and then ignore him

    • March 28, 2017 at 1:20 am

      *hugs* Kids can be very FRUSTRATING! Good thing there’s only a few more months in the school year.


      ๐ŸซCHOCOLATE ๐Ÿซ

    • Frosty the Snowman (Frostpaw [Frostfeather])
      March 28, 2017 at 1:40 am

      O noes! I know some sixth graders who act like that ๐Ÿ˜› Just try to ignore him, at least the school year’s nearly over *huggles*

  5. Duskpaw (Duskblaze)
    March 27, 2017 at 11:01 pm

    oKAY Y’ALL
    here’s the first rant of my carreer as person of this blog… *dun dunna DUUUUUUN*
    not really looking for hugs or sympathy or anything, JUST NEED TO RANT TO SOMEBODY and then I’m good.
    but before you read this you should go read the other rants on this page because some people just are so lost and are in such horrible positions in life it scares me because they’re all so awesome and think they’re not. So stop reading now and go hug them and let them know that even if others don’t care, WE DO
    ๐Ÿ’™’s and hugs to all!
    now you’re back?
    GOOOOOOOOOOD
    That’s all just go love on them

    jk jk but seriously

    So Ima taking a french class at the moment. Most people when they hear that are like ‘UGGGH POOR YOU! FRENCH?” but I’m USUALLY just like YAY FRENCH because the
    teacher we HAD was awesome. But now, a P.S 2 student teacher person is coming in…
    FOR 6 WEEKS
    let’s just say she HATES MY GUTS
    and I don’t particularly like her either…
    so anyway, we’re learning the tough stuff. Usually the other teacher explains it in english, so then we can understand how to do it in french (like explains the french, and the rules in english, and then works with us in French) BUT NOPE this teacher says basically everything in FRENCH (I know it’s french class, but we’re beginners so we only now simple phrases, and she doesn’t use simple phrases) So when she asks a question, I just usually nod and say oui because we don’t understand, and that doesn’t usually turn out to well. I know you’re all just like DUSKTAPE JUST ASK AND YOU’LL GET THE ANSWER
    but hold on there’s more
    When you ask a question, you either get two answers
    “You should know this” (which I OBVIOUSLY don’t)
    Or
    “You tell me” (GAAAAH SO ANNOYING)
    It’s usually the latter. She says it all the time.
    And I’m just like
    I DON’T KNOW THE ANSWER
    THAT’S WHY I’M ASKING YOU
    THAT IS THE WHOLE POINT OF THE QUESTION
    IS TO ASK
    BECAUSE IF I COULD TELL YOU
    I WOULDN’T BE ASKING, NOW WOULD I?
    ALDFJEAIWLJTGILHALKSDJFAIEWTUOIREHGNLKDFJGAKLAWERHGIAEJTALEJLKDALJGSDLJTOUEWTH
    except in my head because ME NO WANNA GET DETENTION
    sorry

    and on Wednesday, we have a ‘petite’ test
    nothing big
    10 questions
    that’s all
    It would be fine
    If I knew what was going on

    so anyway we have to use article le partitif or whatever (sorry I’m too lazy to remember spelling – actually I don’t know the spelling)
    and in order to use the correct thingy, we have to know whether it’s feminine or masculine.
    So we don’t know how to do that…
    and I’m like
    “hey, how can we tell whether it’s feminine or masculine?”
    and she’s like
    “There’s really no way to tell. Use your vocab sheets”
    and then two seconds later she’s like
    “You’re not allowed to use the vocab sheets on the test”
    and I’M LIKE WHAT THEN HOW HOW HOW
    except all of this is in my head because SOMEBODY doesn’t want to get detention.
    And I know you’re all like
    DUSKTAPE STUDY
    I cannot memorize all 200 vocab words AND whether or not their feminine or masculine, because I’ll only be using ten I just don’t know which ten
    maybe I should just try to memorize them
    amidst my math and science and humanities and science fair…
    But I probably should try
    I’ll try
    anywhoo
    and you’re like
    DUSKTAPE GET A TUTOR
    but nope, my parent’s ain’t paying for that

    anywhoo that’s me making a mountiain out of a 10 question test
    so bye y’all thanks for watching

    Please don’t hug on me in the comments, that’ll just make matters worse (I don’t like sympathy, I just need to RANT and then I can usually take it from there), it’s fine
    plus there’s really nothing you can say
    “I’m sorry for your situation, Dusky”
    WELL I AM TOO
    ๐Ÿ˜›
    or
    “I’m sure it will get better, just do your best”
    Thank’s! I’m sure it will get better soon, I’ll try hard, and then the old teacher will come back :D, I just needed to get this out of the way! I’ll try my best!

    so now you have nothing to say ๐Ÿ˜›
    It’ll be over soon anywhoo
    I just needed to get that out of my system so I could focus ๐Ÿ˜€
    I’ll roll with the punches and do the best I can ๐Ÿ™‚
    I just needed to rant, now I’m good so
    bye
    forget you ever read this ๐Ÿ™‚ ๐Ÿ˜›
    #schoolproblems


    Dusktape ๐Ÿ˜›

    • Darkpaw(Ivy)
      March 28, 2017 at 6:29 am

      Okay, since you don’t want hugs, here! *pat pat* ๐Ÿช๐Ÿช anyway, I know me and Daisy are both learning French, so we might be able to help you if you want, I’m not very good yet either since I don’t have enough time to do it, but Daisy is good! ๐Ÿ™‚ and id be happy to help in any way I can! ๐Ÿ˜€

      • Daisypaw
        March 29, 2017 at 12:21 am

        I HEARD MY NAME.
        Anywho… ๐Ÿ˜› I can help if you want!

    • Drizzleflash
      March 28, 2017 at 4:44 pm

      What a coincidence- THE EXACT SAME THING IS HAPPENING TO ME!!! I used to have this amazing French teacher, and I used to LOVE the language. Now, I’m stuck with this horrible teacher who at the end of a lesson asks everyone if they have any questions and just skips my turn “by accident”. AND she gave me a bad grade in term one, even though I did well in the tests and handed in all the assignments on time. Unfortunately, she’s gonna be my teacher next year too.
      Also, genders are THE worst. Some people just assume that words ending with e are feminine but that just annoys me since words like stade, canape, etc. don’t follow the rule anyway. I could go on forever about my French problems but you pretty much summed it up. ๐Ÿ˜›

      • Daisypaw
        March 29, 2017 at 12:23 am

        there are easy ways to tell what is feminine and masculine. la is feminine, and le is masculine. ๐Ÿ˜› sorry about that drizzle! do they not teach you guys that?
        also, it should say either le and la in front of anything like that, the store, the apple, etc.

        • Duskpaw (Duskblaze)
          March 29, 2017 at 1:20 am

          Well I was taught that, but we don’t get the la or le or les or du or des or de la, we have to right that part down, (that’s part of what we’re being graded on) so it’s kind of hard…
          And we have to memorize all the irragular verb thingys for Je, Tu, Il/Elle, Nous, Vous, and Ils/Elles…
          for the verbs avior, etre (I forget spelling) aller, and faire
          Thanks for trying to help though! I appreciate that your being encouraging even everything going on in your life <3


          Dusktape ๐Ÿ˜›

    • March 28, 2017 at 5:23 pm

      I REFUSE TO FORGET

      Aaanywayz… I don’t really have advice. I hope you pass your test! And fingers cross the old teacher returns!


      ๐ŸซCHOCOLATE ๐Ÿซ

      • Duskpaw (Duskblaze)
        March 29, 2017 at 1:21 am

        <3 thanks ๐Ÿ˜€


        Dusktape ๐Ÿ˜›

    • Foolish Foxey
      March 28, 2017 at 7:21 pm

      I know you wanted to rant but I have advice if you want any. You could translate words you don’t know into Google Translate when you’re studying since your teacher doesn’t show you how to do it? And I think Duolingo teaches French too and it’s a good site ๐Ÿ™‚

      • Duskpaw (Duskblaze)
        March 29, 2017 at 1:21 am

        thanks


        Dusktape ๐Ÿ˜›

    • Flowerstream
      Flowerstream
      March 28, 2017 at 7:33 pm

      WordReference. It will be your best friend.
      BlogClan could also be a good resource in some cases, because a whole bunch of us take French!

      As for telling whether a word is masculine or feminine, memorization is key, but there are patters. Feminine words will quite often end in “ette” “elle” or something like that. This may help you! http://grammarist.com/french/french-noun-gender/ If you need any help, you can ask me ๐Ÿ™‚


      BlogTeam Moderator

      • Duskpaw (Duskblaze)
        March 29, 2017 at 1:28 am

        Thanks for the link! and for the support <3


        Dusktape ๐Ÿ˜›

    • Shadow of Shiny GREEN IPhone With a Clover Phonecase (Shadowpaw)
      March 28, 2017 at 8:03 pm

      I know how it feels to have a horrible long term sub…
      Don’t worry, you can get through this and ace your test!

      • Duskpaw (Duskblaze)
        March 29, 2017 at 1:28 am

        oh ya, it’s not fun…
        Thanks <3
        now you have to share your story of long-term sub… ๐Ÿ˜›


        Dusktape ๐Ÿ˜›

    • Shellpaw
      March 29, 2017 at 3:03 am

      i’m learning french too. I’m as good at it as Alderpaw is at hunting in TAQ

  6. Clover Fox (Steppy)
    March 27, 2017 at 11:57 pm

    So…school’s been fine. Just the usual. But for a science project, my friend wanted to do it together. She said she’d bring the milk and I’d bring vinegar. But I realized we hadn’t covered who would bring the other items so I brought everything else and the next day…I found out that she forgot the milk. And the project was due the next day and now we couldn’t do it. I asked her why she forgot it since she only had one thing to bring and she just shrugged and watched YouTube for the rest of class, I SAW her computer screen.

    The next day, she completely shut me off and went off with other people and when I told her I did the project at home, she just snapped at me and gosh I wanted to punch her. But I didn’t ๐Ÿ˜‰ Then spring break happened and I thought she got over it after a whole week and we could be friends again but she just avoided me again so I avoided her too. Then I asked her if we should present to the class, she just rolled her eyes and snapped again. I told her she was wrong and she turned away and sighed. I feel like I’ve done something besides what I suspect I soooo wrongly did (just asked her why she didn’t bring one thing)

    What should I do about her? I am done with always being the bigger person, be the one to give up and crawl back. SHE will be the one to do that and I’ve already talked to her twice which is bad on my part. She is such a whiny drama queen and I’m done with her but she can also be really kind and what she did for my birthday was awesome. Seriously, should I ignore her because that is what I’m doing.

    A hug is needed.

    • Flowerstream
      Flowerstream
      March 28, 2017 at 2:30 am

      I’m not good at advice cause I’m really petty, but *hugs*
      She doesn’t sound like a very good friend :/ If she does this a lot, I’d recommend starting to find maybe a new partner to work with.


      BlogTeam Moderator

    • Duskpaw (Duskblaze)
      March 28, 2017 at 3:20 am

      *hugs* I’m sorry I’m not the greatest at friendship advice, but maybe find a new friend! You deserve better…
      It may be something she’s going through, or maybe she’s just feeling crabby, but she shouldn’t treat you like that
      Yes, this time, don’t go crawling back. She could be using you… if she really wants to be your friend, then she’ll come on her own.
      I hope it works out, and good luck on the project!


      Dusktape ๐Ÿ˜›

    • March 28, 2017 at 5:25 pm

      *hugs* Hmm… I think that you should find a new friend. Drama people can cause a lot of problems.


      ๐ŸซCHOCOLATE ๐Ÿซ

  7. March 28, 2017 at 1:13 am

    So this might not be much of a problem compared to what lots of people are going through, but I’ve got an issue.

    Now this is going to sound like bragging of the highest order, but whatever, I stopped caring a long time ago. In my class, I am one/the best writers.
    Our English teacher is also our math teacher. The problem here is that HE DOESN’T TEACH ENGLISH EVER. I’m not just saying that. We’ve done maybe three projects max.
    This is hard for me because English is and always has been my favourite subject. My parents don’t really get why I suddenly don’t want to go to school anymore.
    He spends all our time on math. When we do English, it’s just reading and reading response questions, which is super annoying, since EVERYONE IN OUR CLASS CAN READ.
    He’s really not a very dedicated or inventive teacher. His ideas of fun and interesting projects usually involve him typing up a page of some ridiculous story that somehow ends with a math question that he tells us to do for a couple hours while he plays Clash of Clans on his phone, even if the question will only take us half an hour max. (Which it usually does)
    We had one major english project due today and we had no less than three hours in his class. WE SPENT EVERY MINUTE ON MATH. This was not a small project. We’d been working on it for weeks and weeks.
    Then again, SINCE NOBODY DID ANY WORK IN MY GROUP EXCEPT ME, I wasn’t too upset. Then again, I was looking forward to having him make that confused and annoyed face as our six-person group told him it wasn’t done, because I could step in and say that I’d done half of it, then tried to organize a time for the group to get together and finish the rest, even though they were being uncooperative and annoying.
    He knows I know what I’m doing, and he takes that into account when he makes groups. He always puts me with people that don’t work well, and it’s frustrating. He expects me to somehow solve everyone’s working habit-related problems on little sleep since I’m stressing so much about the projects that I have to carry!
    All you Hamilton fans, you know that line in Nonstop about the 85 essays, how John Jay wrote 5, Madison wrote 29, and Hamilton wrote 51? More like I wrote 85, then tried to coordinate a time for us to rehearse those 85 essays, but nobody else was helping! I’ve half a mind to say, ‘Whatever!’ I have no idea how he’s grading us in English since he doesn’t have nearly enough material that any of have written to properly assess our writing skills!

    How do I tell him that I’m done with carrying group projects and doing math for three hours a day?

    • Duskpaw (Duskblaze)
      March 28, 2017 at 3:23 am

      AAAAAAGGGGGGGUUUUHHHHHHHHH that sounds annoying, I’m sorry
      Especially when it’s about a subject that you love AND are good at!
      maybe have your parents talk to him? but make it seem like they’re concerned, not that you told on him….
      *hugs* but with the uneven work and group placements, your parents should definitely have a chat. He shouldn’t put ALL that pressure on you, that’s not fair making the kid who works do more than teaching the kids who don’t work to do more. If he continues, then he’s basically promoting and rewarding their bad behaviour and punishing your good behavior
      *hugs*


      Dusktape ๐Ÿ˜›

    • Goldenpaw (Goldenfawn)
      March 28, 2017 at 4:15 pm

      I’m sorry about all of that. *huggles* Maybe you can ask him if you can maybe be in some groups with some higher level people and ask if you could do a bit more English? I’m sorry if this isn’t much help, I hope things get better soon. <3

    • Drizzleflash
      March 28, 2017 at 5:03 pm

      Well. There was a time when I used to take full responsibility for group projects, and then, one day, I realized it just isn’t worth it, and I stopped. Most of the time the others in your group aren’t doing anything just because they know you’ll have done all the work, or, they’re just really careless/forgetful. On graded assignments, just let them know that they’re going to be the ones responsible for their own grades, not you. It’s hard, but just sacrifice perfection to teach them a lesson. Do your own part, but make sure you assign work to everyone beforehand. And constantly remind them when projects are due. At times, it’ll be more irritating, making everyone else work instead of just forcing yourself to cover up for them, but it’ll pay off. As for how to convince your teacher to stop doing math, I don’t really have much advice. I’m sure you could work something out If you talked to a classmate who loves English just as much as you do, or just anyone who hates doing math all the time. Good luck!

    • March 28, 2017 at 5:28 pm

      *hugs* Perhaps talking to the principal and/or your parents could help? I don’t really know… sorry, Pondfrost. (Is it okay if I call you Pond?)


      ๐ŸซCHOCOLATE ๐Ÿซ

  8. Robinwing
    March 28, 2017 at 2:07 am

    StarClan I am going to die.
    I really like this boy, I will call him Jaggedpaw, he was feeling really bad yesterday, and he was sweating more than most people on the track team. I asked him if her was OK, and he said yea. When I saw him next, hbe was worse. I told him he was not OK and he said he wasn’t. It is well know that a girl will be very conserned if her crush is sick, and I think he might know I like him… AHHH


    • Clover Fox (Steppy)
      March 28, 2017 at 2:33 am

      Ooooh la la! You two should get together!

      • Duskpaw (Duskblaze)
        March 28, 2017 at 3:13 am

        agreed ๐Ÿ˜‰
        JagxRo
        ๐Ÿ˜€ Our little Ro is growing up
        *tear*
        make sure he’s good enough for you!


        Dusktape ๐Ÿ˜›

        • Robinwing
          March 28, 2017 at 10:33 pm

          Funny, and no one is really liking him right now cause a new apprentice came to our clan in and one girl lit called dibs on him.


      • Lily That Shines Like Dawn
        March 28, 2017 at 3:49 am

        XD hahahhahahhaa Steppy omigosh that was perfect.

        I think you should spend some more time with him. He sounds like a nice boy (one of the only ones i’ve heard of)

        Sorry to all the boys on blogclan, you’re cool guys. (I dont like you that way or anything- oh gosh. You’re all my friends, got it!!??

        Haha just look at my signature. ๐Ÿ˜›


        Be-claws I Said So

      • Robinwing
        March 28, 2017 at 12:09 pm

        Oh no… Jaggedpaw and I? We do have a few ships together…But no!!! He…Gah…he likes his ex.( don’t know who it is so I can’t confront her) so…I am about to give up trying


    • March 28, 2017 at 5:30 pm

      *hugs* I hope he’s feeling better soon, Ro. I don’t know any advice, but I hope he doesn’t hurt himself, or that you end up with problems about liking him.


      ๐ŸซCHOCOLATE ๐Ÿซ

  9. Ropinpaw
    March 29, 2017 at 12:09 am

    GAHHH!
    I am so mad right now. So, I was just playing MC and bed wars. So I was playing with a jerk. He kept destroying everything anyone built. So i asked him to stop. no answer and he kept going. Then i asked him to ‘Please stop.’ His response, ‘No. ‘ and so I just left in frustration. I now have a headache over how this even happens, and why a jerk is playin MC. Now I am just waiting for the round to end.
    GAHHH!

    • Duskpaw (Duskblaze)
      March 29, 2017 at 3:28 am

      GAAAAHAHHHHH annoying MC jerks! Maybe try joining a new server?
      I wanna play bedwars, but I can’t play on PC for the life of me. I tried to feed a horse (having no idea how) and ended up killing all of them!
      Anyway… hope you win the round anyway


      Dusktape ๐Ÿ˜›

    • March 29, 2017 at 3:35 am

      Well…… there are a lot of jerks online, and MC is not an exception, I’ve had my own personal experiences. Sorry, I’m not very good at giving advice, but I usually just join a new game ๐Ÿ™‚ But once I was playing SkyWars, and my teammate kept stealing all the stuff in the chests after I had built to the islands alone, and didn’t leave me anything. The next time I started building a bridge, they were following me and trying to get the stuff in the chest, and I took a lava bucket that I had and placed it on the block the were standing on.

      in short, I teamkilled

      but don’t teamkill, most multiplayer servers have teamkilling as against the rules, but I was very short-tempered and easily butthurt back then, as well as me not reading the rules


      NOOT NOOT LEVELS OVER 9000

  10. Shellpaw
    March 29, 2017 at 3:42 am

    WARNING: RANT AHEAD

    idk why but right now i feel very unmotivated to go to school. In my class we have a community circle, where people anonymously write their problems down and people in the class give indirect advice. Today somebody wrote that all the serious comments that ever surfaced were fakes. I wrote the week before about how my step-grandpa was diagnosed with ALS, which is incurable and nobody knows how fast each person who has it will deteriorate down to death. People in my class besides my friends barely even make an effort to talk to me, and my teacher keeps wanting to change the timetable to suit HIS needs and not the class’s, and he won’t even listen to suggestions that I try to make, in an effort to make both parties happy. He just tells me to be quiet and sit down. Out of the three main teachers that I have, only one of them is actually nice to me. My homeroom teacher runs the community circle in my class, and he’s the one that wants to change the timetable, the second is kinda scary because he makes jokes with a very straight and solemn face, so you never know when to laugh or to shut up, The third teacher is always really nice to me, (ok this will sound weird but i would die for her) I lost a tournament once and she coached team, the next day at school we were hugging in class and i felt a lot better. Even in my group of friends I feel kind of isolated, like i’m always third-wheeling, except it’s a group of 5 so I guess fifth-wheeling? The two friends that are in my class ALWAYS choose each other for group projects, and I don’t think they know how rejective they are being. Tomorrow I’m going to confront them about it. All of this besides the thing about my step-grandpa relates to being at school. The only reason I feel like I come to school is because of that one teacher. My only escape: listening to Hamilton. The catch: with so many assignments piling up right now, on top of extra-curriculars, I have no time to.
    HELP

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