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Aww thanks Meadow this really helps!
I’m going to share the whole story with you, just read it like a little funny story, ‘kay?
It goes like this. I got a soda from the shop. It fell from a desk and rolled onto the ground. I ask a friend of mine to open it. She shook it instead. I shouted at her “what are you doing?” She said if I open it the soda will spill. Then she left. I’m new to sodas, so I placed it on a desk for 5 minutes, then I asked someone else to open for me. Soda spilled onto not only the ground, but also my helper’s desk and homework. I was very mad at my friend, so I shouted at her for making trouble out of nothing, and this makes no sense. She said if it makes sense it won’t be making trouble out of nothing.
The next day I asked her what she was thinking when she did it, and she looked really mad, and said “What were YOU thinking when you asked me to open the bottle after it rolled onto the ground?” I was generally confused, since I really don’t know about it. I told her I don’t know about it, and guess what, she called me a liar! I stormed off because this is so naive and stupid and irresponsible.
The next class I defeated her talk with facts. (That was the highlight of the whole incident haha) I told her she has no right to assume that I already know that, and she herself has said that her action doesn’t make any sense. (It just came to me during the argument) Last I told her an apology would solve the whole problem and she said good I don’t wanna solve it.
(Si overworking) It probably sounds boring and useless to you. Just treat it like some boring gossip ‘kay? Anyway I figured if she won’t even trust me on small issues like this and just sticks to her pride and acts so irrational I guess I should make some new friends. (Can you believe she’s ISTP??????