28,687 Replies to “The Hug Page”

  1. Emberblaze (Emb) Wants Snow
    December 3, 2019 at 6:06 am

    Here’s a quote for anyone that is having a hard time. “It is possible to commit no mistakes and still lose. That is not a weakness; that is life.” ~ Jean Luc Picard


    Scars~I AM THEY

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  2. Mapledrift
    December 3, 2019 at 6:53 pm

    I just feel awful today ugh it started off well until about like,,,,, I don’t know about 9 ? Then it just went really, really downhill. I just feel so stressed and upset and frustrated and ughhhhh all of the time
    I don’t want to talk to anyone but at the same time I do…Ugh yeah, I feel like foxdung

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    • Birchfoot
      December 3, 2019 at 11:24 pm

      Maple, I’m going to say this because I love you. You need to talk to someone. We love you so much and want to help you but we can’t help as much as a trained professional like a therapist. If you can’t access a therapist, please call one of these hotlines; the people running them are trained in how to help those who felt like they’ve reached rock bottom. They know how to help and they want to help you <3

      For a quick list, here are some hotlines that I've found for people in the UK (just in case!):
      – 111, option 2 (National health Services' First Response Service; not available in all areas of the country, but I imagine that if you live near concentrated areas of population like London, it's likely available for you);
      – 116 123 (Samaritans Helpline)
      – 85258 (Shout; 24/7 crisis text service)

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    • Secret Gift Potato shhhhh 🌸(Blueflower)💙
      December 4, 2019 at 3:36 pm

      What Birchy said! Please Maple, talk to someone. We all love you so so much and we want to help you!
      <3<3<3

    • Festive Fallenshadows
      December 4, 2019 at 6:39 pm

      Aw Maple, I am so so sorry that you’re feeling this way. You are a truly special and wonderful person, and you deserve so much better. ❤️ Please listen to what Birchy said – you need to talk to someone. We can only do so much. I know it might feel scary or awkward, but it will really help. You can do this! Stay strong. *hugs* ❤️❤️❤️


      geese ftw

    • December 4, 2019 at 8:35 pm

      You can also call childline.

    • December 4, 2019 at 10:40 pm

      I truly don’t know what to say…

      Love you, Maple <3


      #ThankYouWoojin

    • December 5, 2019 at 12:50 am

      Please, Maple! This isn’t okay. Please get help- there’s only so much BlogClan can do. We all love you and want you to be happy- so do what Birchy said!
      stay strong, Maple <33333333


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    • Dovestream loves snow
      December 5, 2019 at 5:14 pm

      Hope you get better, maple!
      P.S its nice to hear from you again!
      I came back from inactive yesterday!
      It’s ok if you are having a bad day1
      Hop this makes you feel better!

      View post on imgur.com

      • December 5, 2019 at 9:06 pm

        Thanks Dovey 🙂
        Its less I’m having a bad day and more depression and stuff, but the picture made me smile, thank you <3


        Somewhere that’s Green

    • December 5, 2019 at 6:34 pm

      What Birchy said, Maple :(( *loving hugsss*


      Bring on the Festive Food!!

  3. December 5, 2019 at 12:47 am

    so guys… i’m really worried
    i’m probably overreacting (i tend to do that because i always come up with the worst-case scenario) but my friend pikachupaw hasn’t spoken to me or peacockpaw… since friday
    no, she’s not avoiding us, but she hasn’t texted us all weekend and didn’t show up to school on tuesday or today. she doesn’t text that often anyway, but she at least does it a few times a weekend. even the teacher’s a little concerned now, because she hasn’t had a single day absent yet
    and what really unsettles me is that the last text she sent to me was
    “ok if you’re wondering why i deleted a bunch of messages it’s because they were really depressing and might make you depressed too
    only after i sent them i realized how depressing it sounded”
    that really put some thoughts into my head
    at first i responded in my normal playful tone while asking her why she sent them
    then after she didn’t respond, the next day i said “pikachupaw it’s okay you can tell me i won’t mind”
    then i started to get worried and was soon spamming “PIKACHUPAW WHAT HAPPENED” in the group chat and private chat
    the teacher says that if she doesn’t come tomorrow she’ll call her parents and ask
    peacockpaw keeps saying she’s probably *more likely scenario here* but the worst case scenarios are staying in my head and i really doubt her for some reason
    help guys i’m more worried than i should be


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    • December 5, 2019 at 3:06 am

      Do you have contact with her parents? Or a sibling of hers? Do your parents have contact with her parents? If so, try getting information from those sources. If not, or you are getting this too late, just wait calmly for an answer when your teacher calls her parents. If you don’t get anything from that, maybe try going to her house or actually calling her instead of text.

      It’s probably not the worst case scenario, but it’s better that you’re worried rather than completely uncaring. At least if you embarrass yourself because you were so worried, she’ll know you actually really care for her.

      I hope everything’s alright <3


      #ThankYouWoojin

      • Shadow
        December 5, 2019 at 3:21 am

        Thank you Blue <3
        no I don’t have contact so I’m just going to wait for the teacher to call or she if she shows up tommorow
        and peacockpaw is starting to get worried too- more than she was at school today
        I hope everything’s fine too

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    • Monkeyfur
      December 5, 2019 at 5:11 am

      Hmmm maybe you can try asking her parents like the teacher said and maybe instead of spamming her “Pikachupaw what happened,” maybe you can change it to, “Pikachupaw, I am here for you and if you need help, you can always talk to me about it.” Or something like that but I hope she is okay!


      Moky by Gold

    • December 5, 2019 at 6:31 am

      ^What Blue said. I hope she’s okay, Shadow. I’m sorry to hear that! <333333333


      ❄🍃🌙❄🌳

    • Festive Fallenshadows
      December 5, 2019 at 2:55 pm

      I’m so sorry Shadow. ❤️ I think you’re right to be worried; something doesn’t seem right. Do you have contact info for Pikachupaw’s parents/siblings or even another relative? If you do, get in touch with them and explain that you’re worried. If you can’t, then maybe ask the teacher who’s going to call her parents for updates. In the mean time, make sure Pikachupaw knows that you are there for her. Hopefully it isn’t the worst case scenario! *hugs* ❤️❤️❤️


      geese ftw

    • December 6, 2019 at 3:29 am

      okay guys so update
      she still isn’t responding and isn’t reading texts either
      peacockpaw is just as concerned as i am now
      the teacher says she got no useful information- i think she means that her parents didn’t pick up
      which is really strange- and pikachupaw not coming to school when she worries about missing a single period is strange enough
      we might have a lead though- she has a sister in grade 4
      i think we’ll check if her sister comes to school tomorrow- is she doesn’t, something REALLY fishy is going on with the whole family…
      if she does, then we SPAM HER WITH QUESTIONS SAYING “WHERE’S YOUR SISTER IS SOMETHING WRONG”
      and if pikachupaw doesn’t come to school tomorrow, she’ll have not spoken to us for over a week
      the fact that her parents didn’t pick up either is really worrying me
      i don’t know what happened
      i don’t have much hope she’ll come tomorrow, either… or find her sister…
      and yet my days and lessons go on normally
      oblivious to the fact that my friend just disappeared and i’m getting worried every hour or so
      guess we’ll have to see tomorrow- to (likely not) find the answer to The Mystery Of The Missing Pikachupaw™ (worked better with her real name because it started with an M)
      wow update longer than i intended


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  4. December 5, 2019 at 3:17 am

    Ughhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh I don’t go on the hug page too often, because usually I don’t feel like I’m qualified to give any advice to other people, especially when I can’t even dig myself out of own sad little cave.
    I just…. uuuuugggggghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

    Lately I just feel like such trashhhh. I’ll be drawing or playing with my doggos, and I’ll be happy and it’ll be all good, but then it’s like the world flips a switch and my brain activates sad mode. I don’t know how to get out of it, and my normal coping methods don’t seem to be working lately. It’s like I’m having these insane mood swings but it only becomes sad. It’s not like 24/7, but it’ll happen maybe a few times a week with different intensities. High school is stressful and I can start to feel the toll that it’s taking on me. I used to be the earliest bird in the morning, but now I can barely get myself to get out of bed, and I’ll mostly just lay in bed awake until I have to get up or until I need to go to the bathroom.

    Basically, my brain is having sad boi times, I have no motivation, and I lay awake at night while becoming filled with existential dread. :’)


    Vouch4Fawny <3

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    • December 5, 2019 at 3:51 am

      ahhhhhhhh i’m sorry fawny *hugs* <3
      i can't give any advice either- i’m so sorry


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    • Monkeyfur
      December 5, 2019 at 5:04 am

      You can do this! Maybe you can ask your friends to help you with your homework. Try to have a growth mindset and think that you can do it! But if you need anymore help you can always come on the blog!
      HUGS!


      Moky by Gold

    • Festive Fallenshadows
      December 5, 2019 at 2:58 pm

      I’m sorry Fawny dear. ❤️ If you haven’t already, talk to your parents/a teacher/a trusted adult. I really hope you better soon! *hugs* ❤️❤️❤️


      geese ftw

    • ❄️ Frost on Winter Fireplace (Frosto | Frostfire) ❄️
      December 6, 2019 at 12:46 am

      I relate to this too much 🙁 I’m so sorry you have to go through this, Fawny. Since I’ve experienced similar things, I think it may be depression, which I have. Sadly, depression (or any mental illness, really), is very severe, so I’d recommend getting help – it’s definitely something no one person can deal with alone, and you shouldn’t have to. The only advice I have is to do something you really love doing a lot, and maybe looking forward to that activity will offset the sadness a bit (it did for me.) As for not falling asleep, which I also relate to, I recommend researching some drinks like tea that will help calm your brain. Stay strong *hugs* 💕


      a frosty wonderland

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  5. December 5, 2019 at 6:55 pm

    Not really a problem but…

    I posted my fanfic back in september and nobody’s replied. it feels like everybody hates it or they couldn’t be bothered to read it.
    It’s called Littlemoon’s Journey

    • December 6, 2019 at 3:32 am

      ahh no Snowpaw! a lot of us don’t go on the fanfic page because we’re lazy, but your fanfic is absolutely amazing! there are a bunch of times a comment will go unnoticed
      to avoid this, you can put it on the wiki or on a secret page- if you want one, i’ll be happy to give you one <3


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  6. December 5, 2019 at 9:37 pm

    Hey ! I just thought I’d make a little thing because I’m bored / I think this’d be great , so here’s Maple’s Little Guide to Pronouns !!!! I won’t touch on gender topics too much as I’m not very knowledgeable !!!

    , lets talk about pronouns !!!

    Pronouns are the words people use when they talk about you ! So its like, she walked down the road, he went to the shops, and all that ! You’re probably very familiar with he and she ! But did you know there are other pronouns ?

    There’s a wide range of more gender neutral pronouns out there, the most common one being they/ them. Now you may be wondering, how do I use these pronouns, and here is a handy little guide !!!!

    Examples :

    He walked down the road.
    They walked down the road.

    That jumper is his.
    That jumper is theirs.

    I love him !
    I love them !

    Another pronoun some people use (including myself) are xe/xem pronouns. Now these take a little bit of getting used to, as at first they do seem very odd. Hopefully my examples can help you understand how to use them.

    He walked down the road.
    Xe walked down the road.

    Now, the equivalent to his is a little harder. I have found two versions, either xer, or xyr. I would recommend just asking the person who uses these pronouns which they prefer. (I’m chill with both personally), for this example we will use xyr

    That is his jumper.
    That is xyr jumper.

    I love him
    I love xem

    Now there are many more pronouns, but I don’t feel experienced enough to speak on how to use them. Now, lets talk about why people might use these.

    Firstly, pronouns can help with those struggling with gender dysphoria, as using pronouns that traditionally match their gender can really help with that. For example, a trans boy might request you use he / him pronouns to make him feel more comfortable, and an enby might ask you to use they/ them pronouns.

    Another reason is simply certain pronouns might feel more comfortable. I know someone who identifies as female but wishes to use he/him pronouns because he feels comfortable with them. Whilst pronouns can equal gender, they don’t necessarily have to. I identify as female and use both xe/xem and she/her pronouns ! Pronouns are weird and wacky and feel free to experiment and use whichever you like !

    How do you know what someone’s pronouns are ?

    The easy question is to just ask, and then they can confirm what pronouns they would like you to use. And please, be respectful and try and use them, whether they are pronouns you are used to or not.


    Somewhere that’s Green

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    • Cheetahspark
      December 6, 2019 at 4:15 am

      This is very helpful, Maple! <3


      ❤️ Queen of Speed (& Xmas) 💚

    • December 6, 2019 at 1:18 pm

      honestly I’m so glad finnish is my native language and I’m sure all the nb and trans etc finns feel the same. We don’t have genderized pronouns so everyone is just “hän” and it’s the hugest help. I remember when we learned that english and many many many other languages have two pronouns and none of us got the logic behind it – it took a long time getting used to oh gosh I even remember asking my teacher what do the people say when talking about someone they’ve never seen or met and I think the reply was along the lines of “you just have to know it” and what all of this confused my nine year old brain 😛

      in conclusion w h y do genderized pronouns even exist 😛


      #ThankYouWoojin

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