28,854 Replies to “The Hug Page”

  1. The wolf that snaps bone
    December 11, 2019 at 7:24 pm

    Hay any know how to post things


    wolfbone

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    • December 12, 2019 at 12:17 am

      Hi there! If you mean post comments to the blog, all comments must be moderated by a member of BlogTeam (the blog’s moderator team) first ๐Ÿ™‚ Then, it’ll be public!


      Moderator, BlogClan's Deputy

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  2. The wolf that snaps bone
    December 11, 2019 at 7:25 pm

    Hay any know how to post things
    i dont know how help please


    wolfbone

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    • December 12, 2019 at 12:17 am

      Hi there! If you mean post comments to the blog, all comments must be moderated by a member of BlogTeam (the blog’s moderator team) first ๐Ÿ™‚ Then, it’ll be public!


      Moderator, BlogClan's Deputy

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  3. December 11, 2019 at 10:25 pm

    Iโ€™m really sorry for my friend right now. We are in the same dance group for this unit in gym, and she worked harder than anyone else and was basically the leader of our group, and it was like we had our dance perfect. But, we still failed. She stayed positive, but I still feel sorry. We still have to re do it now and we had to rethink a lot of our dance, and my friend choreographed the entire thing!
    Oof I made a new page


    Brrrrrr

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    • December 12, 2019 at 2:51 am

      Just keep telling her, “If we didn’t fail once in a while people would start getting bored of us!” or just basically make it sound like she’s awesome and that you’re going to kick butt next time. ๐Ÿ˜› If that makes sense? ๐Ÿ˜›


      #ThankYouWoojin

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  4. December 12, 2019 at 3:19 am

    Not really upset, or angry, or anything, just… Embarrassed ๐Ÿ˜›

    So, I do an hour long ballet class twice each week. On Monday and Wednesday(today). On Monday, we had to be in the smaller room(because it’s parent observation week. and the other class needed the big room to perform) and I got into class 2 seconds late because I had to go to the bathroom. So every one else was on the high barre and me and my bratty friend were at the low barre. So my teacher brings out the center barre so we can actually… Dance ๐Ÿ˜› We were doing… Agh French I can’t spell it. Fwettaes ๐Ÿ˜› That’s what it sounds like ๐Ÿ˜‰ At the barre. On the left. When I landed it I couldn’t keep my balance and grabbed the barre. Of course I massively pull it and my teacher notices and says “Don’t pull the barre.” It wasn’t mean just embarrassing because I was already thinking, “Crap.” Because if I pulled just slightly harder I would have fallen and it would have fallen on me ๐Ÿ˜›

    And then today, we were doing botmas(again, French. Just how it sounds ๐Ÿ˜› ) at the barre. Before going to the left, my teacher asked what we thought the correction was going to be for the botma to the back. Of course I had to decide to get brave and say “Lead out with the knee.” And she was like “Uhh kinda but we aren’t doing develapes.”(sounded out again I should really study this-) And omc it was the worstttttttttt because DUH. Yeah, that’s a normal correction with develapes but not botmas??? Just gosh I felt so stupid ๐Ÿ˜›

    And each time when we went for water break I expected my bratty friend to say something(she didn’t) and I was just so tense because each time I just felt so stupid and the last thing I needed was for someone to try to tease me ๐Ÿ˜›

    I don’t know why I’m putting this here, I don’t really need hugs or advice I just needed to get it off my chest.

    In other news, the level 7 girls watched our parent observation dance and two of them told me I did a really good job. One of them we both tried to get a drink of water from the fountain at the same time like awkwarddddddddddddddddddddddddddd. But yeah that felt awesome I saw them watching me at some points and I DIDN’T MESS UP ๐Ÿ˜›

    EDIT: Woah, this was wayyyy longer than intended sorry guys ๐Ÿ˜›


    #ThankYouWoojin

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    • ๐ŸŽ„ Pineblossom โ„๏ธ
      December 13, 2019 at 3:28 am

      Spelled fouettes, battement and developee I think rip searched up all of them except fouttes ๐Ÿ˜› but oh gosh fouttes at the barre are my worst nightmare I’d rather do them in center and they were SO BAD when I couldn’t hold the barre with my left hand so I relate ๐Ÿ˜› and all of that’s fine! 70% of the time when I use the barre in center on pointe I pull it so much it almost falls over rip ๐Ÿ˜› great job at your observation dance though!


      ~itโ€™s the most wonderful time~

      • December 13, 2019 at 4:03 pm

        Watch me forget this in two minutes.

        Thanks, Pine ๐Ÿ˜› I’m glad it isn’t just me ๐Ÿ˜› I was so sad because I did them really well on the right and just failed on the left ๐Ÿ˜› (I’ve been having issues with left pirouettes for a while though so fouettes are.. Actually a bit easier since it doesn’t include the problem but still ๐Ÿ˜› (I’m having issues with pushing off of both feet on my left turns))

        Ballet is harddddddddddd ๐Ÿ˜›


        #ThankYouWoojin

    • December 13, 2019 at 9:03 pm

      Yep, I have been embarrassed at karate a lot ๐Ÿ˜› Since I am one of the only two girls there, I feel like I’m under a lot of pressure to be the best ๐Ÿ˜›
      Like yesterday or the other day I kept getting things wrrrrrooonnnggggg and yeaaaahhhh I felt quite stupid ๐Ÿ˜›
      Soooo I can relate but just relax! And go with your gut, don’t overthink it ๐Ÿ˜› I’m sorry probably not great advice. Good luck with next time!


      Bring on the Festive Food!!

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      • December 13, 2019 at 11:26 pm

        Thanks ๐Ÿ™‚


        #ThankYouWoojin

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    • December 14, 2019 at 11:27 pm

      Sorry you feel this way, Blueheart! All of us can sometimes have those embarrassing moments that we can’t stop thinking about. I don’t do dance or anything like that, but I bet you’re really good at that!

  5. blacki
    December 12, 2019 at 7:15 pm

    i think iโ€™ve been sick for a month which is really annoying ๐Ÿ˜› where i live itโ€™s summer right now and iโ€™ve got hay fever oof

  6. Plipplop (Snowpuff)
    December 13, 2019 at 1:58 am

    School has been taking a lot of time up that I’d rather spend with you. Not really major, and I do know that my future is also crucial, but I miss ya’ll!


    I like ShadedMoss way too much

  7. December 13, 2019 at 10:12 am

    Final exams are coming up and honestly I’m more stressed about the study guides in my classes than the exams themselves

    I really don’t enjoy having it piled up on top of my regular work I’m losing enough sleep as is


    ๐Ÿ’– Serenade Ship Captain ๐Ÿ’–

  8. Butterflyflower
    December 13, 2019 at 4:31 pm

    I haven’t been very active on here lately, and I feel bad about that, but I’m also just really angry and upset about some things that I’ve read on the internet about people abusing animals, like recently I saw someone comment on a YouTube video saying that they really badly hurt (probably killed) a cat, and that just made me soooooooo ANGRY, like why would you treat an animal that way? And their comment had four likes, and someone even responded with “Good man.” Like WHAT? And I’m just really upset and sad about a lot of things right now.

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  9. Navy but sad version
    December 13, 2019 at 6:32 pm

    help…the UK is probably going to lose the NHS…we’re doomed…

  10. Anon
    December 13, 2019 at 7:07 pm

    So I believe my period started
    And the only pads my mom had to give me were quite big
    So now I’m kinda uncomfortable
    And we won’t be able to buy new ones until umm Sunday, since everything is closed
    And my mom wants me to go up to see my cousin But I still feel kinda uncomfortable since the pants I’m wearing are quite tight so I feel like everybody can see that I’m wearing a pad

    Also, I’m going on Anon on here, but I told a couple of my friends in private about this, so please don’t say who I am. I kinda like need adjusting to the idea if it makes any sense.
    Also, I have quite an important day tommorow, any advice on how to not let period ruin my day?

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    • Iceeeeeeeeeee (Icy)
      December 13, 2019 at 8:29 pm

      Hi, Anon! First off, congratulations. Periods can be wild, but it is a rite of passage in some cultures! ๐Ÿ™‚

      I also want to start off by saying do not let ANYONE shame you or tease you for having a period. It is normal, it is natural, and anyone who gives you a hard time needs to come right to me so I can set them straight! Menstruation is a normal bodily function. Nothing weird or inappropriate about it.

      I totally relate to the issue with pads! I’m very small so all pads I’ve tried are too large for me. I use pantiliners and they work pretty well for me, maybe look into them. ๐Ÿ™‚ I also use tampons, which can be scary at first, and I do recommend them for times when you’ll be active (like swimming or running), but it is totally up to you.

      Even if people can see you’re wearing a pad, it isn’t a big deal, really. Just a normal part of life. โค Just know you’re more aware of pads because you’re the one wearing them. Passersby are unlikely to notice. If you’re too uncomfortable, it’s okay to postpone. For tomorrow, make sure you have extra pads in your purse/backpack/etc, and take a sweater or something with you to tie around your waist, just in case of a leak!

      Finally, I want to say that if you have any questions, any at all, please feel free to reach out to me on Discord. Women’s health is something very important to me and I am happy to be there for you if you need someone. I will never turn you away, so please don’t hesitate to message me. โค ๐Ÿ™‚


      โ„ BlogTeam Mod, Medicine Cat โ„

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    • December 13, 2019 at 8:58 pm

      Dang I know how this feels ๐Ÿ˜› I got mine this March. The only start off pads I got where huge (from my mom), and I felt EXACTLY like that when mine started!!!!!! But in a few days I just learned that, hey, nobody notices ๐Ÿ˜› What Icy said! Seriously, no biggie <3


      Bring on the Festive Food!!

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    • December 14, 2019 at 3:54 am

      The first time I got my period, I was 10 years old and very small (13 now but still on the smaller side), and the pads my mom gave me were so huge I felt like I was wearing a huge diaper ๐Ÿ˜›

      Maybe wear looser pants? Also, no one really notices whether or not you’re wearing a pad, even if your pads are big. <3


      #Vouch4Viper

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      • December 14, 2019 at 8:18 am

        I totally agree! It’s been some 5 years since I first got my period (wee I was a bit of a late bloomer ๐Ÿ˜› Got mine when I was… 14? 15? One of those two ๐Ÿ˜› ) and basically no one will notice you wearing pads, even if they’re gigantic ๐Ÿ˜› I used to wear really large and long ones because my flow was c r a z y as my body tried to figure out what it wanted to do, and nobody batted an eye! Even if they do notice, those who have periods have this silent sort of “I understand the struggle and I won’t bring it up” thing ๐Ÿ˜›


        Moderator, BlogClan's Deputy

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        • December 15, 2019 at 4:24 am

          Luckyyyy I thought I was dying the first few times I had my period and I was tormented in elementary school for starting early ๐Ÿ˜›


          #Vouch4Viper

    • That's right it's shivy
      December 14, 2019 at 2:33 pm

      aw anon I’m sorry <3
      Starting your period can be a really scary experience and the first few always feel strange. I was 13 when I started (almost 5 years ago aha) and I felt a w f u l at first. Like i felt like my childhood was over and my mum would never love me again (which i realise is SO S T U P I D but yknow I was petrified)
      Pads are weird and may feel weird, but if you try different brands and sizes youre bound to find one you feel comfortable in!! And I promise no one will ever notice that you're wearing one ๐Ÿ™‚
      The first 2 days or so are the worst, so make sure you always have extra pads on you just in case ๐Ÿ™‚

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    • December 14, 2019 at 6:11 pm

      Like the others have said, no one will notice! And even if they do, they’ll keep their mouths. I’d say for tomorrow, (although that’s today isn’t it?) bring lots of extra supplies and also some advil in case you get bad cramps.


      Hello fellow Earthling

      • December 14, 2019 at 6:12 pm

        There’s supposed to be a “shut” after mouth. (Yes don’t worry you won’t cause anyone to loose their mouths ๐Ÿ™‚ )


        Hello fellow Earthling

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  11. December 14, 2019 at 6:44 am

    idk i’m just a little frustrated right now

    i’ve been playing viola for 4 years (this is my 5th year) and i’ve just felt really down about it lately. It was never my choice to start playing, since my mom made me, and sure i’ve felt down about it before but this is different. I guess there’s a few things. First, I was practicing Wednesday because I have to otherwise my mom won’t give me my allowance (which is fair) and it just went really badly? I couldn’t get it right at all, and the piece was notably worse than it was the day before. I couldn’t figure out why. On top of that, my bow hand starting slipping for some reason? My teacher always says my right hand is my weakest point, which makes sense, but it was to the point where I’d start the piece with a good bow hold and two pages later it would be a full inch too high up and extremely uncomfortable. I don’t know how or why that happened. I cut my practice session 5 or so minutes short because I was getting really frustrated, and that’s when things get the worst. I didn’t practice Thursday because I felt terrible about my playing, and I pretended I forgot when my mom asked. I promised myself I’d practice the next day. That was today. I just finished “practicing,” and I want to cry. I swear to StarClan I’m just getting worse. You’re probably going to say that isn’t true, but it’s terrible. The piece is progressively getting worse, my bow hand is doing the same thing no matter what, both my shoulders hurt, and my right hand fingers hurt from gripping the bow because I’m trying to keep my hand in place but things are just getting worse. My teacher always tells me to relax my right hand and I try so, so hard but now I’m going against all of that effort because my stupid hand keeps slipping up and I don’t know how or why. I cut my session 10 minutes short today. I tried to play the second piece I was supposed to start this week yet haven’t touched (and my lesson is tomorrow) and things went horrendously. I couldn’t play it at all. It wouldn’t bother me as much if I hadn’t been able to play it last Saturday, during my lesson, just sight reading. Somehow my practice is making me worse. I tried to end today on a good note, but I just wasn’t playing well, and I gave up. For the millionth time, I just wanted to be so done with this whole viola thing, but I can’t do that until this year ends.

    And then my teacher is forcing me to do this competition thing I really don’t want to do. I did one last year, at her request, that was a school thing. It’s for soloists, and it went fine – I didn’t win, but I wasn’t disappointed. I was happy that I didn’t mess up, and that was all that mattered. Now she wants me to do a county competition in March. I would be totally fine to do it if it weren’t for one thing. I’m turning 14 in a week, meaning I’ll be in the senior age group, which is 14-19 by the time the competition rolls around. My teacher says I’m good, and that I can still win, but I know I can’t (realistically, I’m not even being pessimistic here, I’ve heard the other kids play and I admire them a lot), and my recent practice session fails haven’t helped. If I was just three months younger, I could be in the 10-13 group, and I’d do it. But there’s no point in me preparing and stressing over a competition I don’t want to do nor one I can win. Plus, I really don’t want to pay $25 (USD) for a piece I don’t even want because it’s required for the competition. I told my mom I really don’t want to do it, but she’s not going to do anything about it. I told my teacher, and she doesn’t care at all. She says it will be a good experience, and I get that. I’m trying really hard to see where she’s coming from. But this really is not something I’m interested in. She doesn’t realize the only reason I’m playing is because I have to, and the only reason I practice is because I want my allowance, because horseback riding gear is not cheap and I need all the money I can get. She expects me to go into music as a career, and I really don’t want that. But that’s besides the point. Bottom line, I hate my playing lately, I’m being forced into a competition that’s stressing my out even three months in advance that I have no chance of winning, and I can’t quit until the end of this year at the earliest. Just hoping for some hugs and maybe advice, if you got through this whole thing. Sorry I’m so upset about something so small, but I’m tired of dedicating so much time to viola when I really don’t like it and it’s an extremely negative experience.

    Thank you to who ever reads this <3


    ๐Ÿญ Step Into My Candy Store ๐Ÿญ

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    • December 14, 2019 at 3:59 pm

      Maybe during your next lesson, sit down with your teacher and tell her your frustrations during your practices? Maybe ask for some help in fixing the “issues”. And if you can, try to explain that you aren’t looking for music as a career, and maybe hint at the fact that everything is because your mom told you to?

      I hope things get better, Moon. <3


      #ThankYouWoojin

    • December 14, 2019 at 4:10 pm

      I am so, so, so sorry. This is not small, you have a big reason to be upset. Nobody should be trying to force you into doing something you absolutely do not want to do, never mind think about running your life with it. I’m really sorry. You should sit your mom down and tell her all of this. It isn’t fair she is trying to force you to do this, which clearly makes you miserable, and not giving you the money you need to do what you enjoy if you don’t. You are trying it to see from your mom’s and teacher’s perspective, right? It isn’t very fair that they aren’t doing the same for you. *HUGS* I’m sorry Moon, I hope you try to work it out with them <3


      Bring on the Festive Food!!

    • December 14, 2019 at 5:40 pm

      Hugs! Try talking to your teacher about how you donโ€™t like playing the instrument? Talk to your mother about how you really donโ€™t like it? Hopefully you being happy is more important to her than you playing the viola! I canโ€™t relate, if I could I probably wouldnโ€™t be playing the bass! But Iโ€™ve definitely seen a few kids who are forced to play certain instruments. Honestly, being forced doesnโ€™t do anything. You wonโ€™t get better if you donโ€™t love the instrument and playing it. Try asking your mom why she wants you to play Viola, then tell her why you really donโ€™t like it or want to. Remember, BlogClan is always here for you! Hugs!! <333


      Brrrrrr

    • December 14, 2019 at 11:39 pm

      Sorry, Moon! I can relate a bit. Back then, I hated doing piano, but my mom forced me into doing it more, but I like it better now. Main reason is because I can play a bunch of legendary songs (Office theme song, viva la vida, some of the Simpsons theme song, etc), which really impress my parents. Perhaps you could make an agreement with your parents of you playing a different instrument? I’ve heard that playing string instruments are pretty tricky. Piano is pretty simple, at least for me. I don’t know, you could do some research, perhaps. Hope this helps!

      Infinite huggles for you!

    • ๐ŸŽ„ Pineblossom โ„๏ธ
      December 15, 2019 at 3:24 am

      Oh gosh, Moon, I can relate with that from gymnastics. Sometimes it’s just an off day or two, where your body just decides not to function. I’d suggest going back to the basics and doing lots of repertoire and drillwork, to realign your muscle memory and give your muscles some break as well. You will get through this Moon, one day at a time. And Moon, if you don’t enjoy it, remember you always have a choice. Hugs, hope everything gets better, love you <3


      ~itโ€™s the most wonderful time~

  12. December 14, 2019 at 4:45 pm

    The house next door to ours got broken in to last night for car keys, and my Mother just saw some people checking other cars outside.

    I’m quite scared.


    ...and Plume in a pear tree!

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  13. Pastelpaw๐ŸŒธPasty
    December 14, 2019 at 7:19 pm

    I found out that my crush Sorrelpaw is dating another girl named Cinderpaw. Iโ€™m really upset, angry, sad, and jealous. Iโ€™m really jealous of Cinderpaw because sheโ€™s super pretty, popular, and everyone loves her. I donโ€™t know what to think. I really loved Sorrelpaw and know sheโ€™s with somebody else ๐Ÿ’”


    And thatโ€™s the tea.

    • December 14, 2019 at 9:14 pm

      *Hugs* I’m sorry ๐Ÿ™ can’t say I have advice, but I certainly know how it feels.


      Hello fellow Earthling

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    • ๐ŸŽ„ Pineblossom โ„๏ธ
      December 15, 2019 at 3:26 am

      *hugs* I’m so sorry Pasty, but remember that most middle school relationships uhhh don’t last long to say the least ๐Ÿ˜› You will get a chance with Sorrelpaw! Just show her that you’re just as good as Cinderpaw and don’t be nervous ๐Ÿ˜‰


      ~itโ€™s the most wonderful time~

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