The Hug Page

The Hug Page is here. Because, whoever we are, we still need hugs. This is still the best place to come if you’re feeling sad and need a hug from BlogClan…

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(Sh! This is a new Hug Page. You can find the old one here)

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  33,947 Replies to “The Hug Page”

  1. Ivykit
    July 3, 2020 at 1:51 pm

    Well…. I just ended my friendship with my friend Tigerkit(He really is like Tigerstar) He’s been really annoying and sending hundreds of spam texts and is bullying me about not having minecraft. I don’t know if I did the right thing… before he got minecraft he was my closest friend..


    im b0red

    • July 3, 2020 at 3:24 pm

      *hugs*
      tigerkit was being very mean and that is not what friends do, sometimes people just change .
      *hugs*
      you did the right thing


      warm summer breeze.

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    • Brightpaw
      July 3, 2020 at 3:42 pm

      don’t worry, Tigerkit doesn’t deserve to call you his friend. i can be your friend instead? <3


      Bri ❤

      • Ivykit
        July 3, 2020 at 7:23 pm

        yay!


        im b0red

        • Brightpaw
          July 3, 2020 at 8:23 pm


          Bri ❤

    • 🌼 Pineblossom 🦋
      July 3, 2020 at 5:06 pm

      i think that if he wasn’t truly being a supportive friend who took your preferences into account, then you did the right thing <33 i know how you feel: you might believe that the good times you had with him in the past should be worth fighting for, but times change and people change, and things just can't stay the same 🙁 it'll hurt for a bit, but your other friends and family will be there for you and fill the gap <3


      ✧ running for sw! ✧

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    • July 3, 2020 at 6:19 pm

      Ivykit, you did the right thing. Don’t look back, people change. You just grew. This may seem like you’ve lost a valuable friend at the time, but you’ve dodged a bullet. And one day, you’ll look back and say that if it wasn’t for that event that you wouldn’t have the friends you have in the future. So, yes. You did the right thing.
      *hugs*
      I’m proud of you.


      Aaron Burr, Sir

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    • Ivykit
      July 3, 2020 at 7:23 pm

      thanks! But none of my friends have talked to me since yesterday when I did that..


      im b0red

      • Brightpaw
        July 3, 2020 at 8:49 pm

        I’ll talk to you!❤ Just don’t worry ivykit


        Bri ❤

      • July 4, 2020 at 6:17 pm

        It might just be shocking for them to see that, or they’re afraid maybe that you’ll break your friendship with them, too. Try to reach out to them, and don’t do it on text probably, maybe do a face-time? They might just be giving you some time alone because they don’t know what to do in that situation.
        *hugs*


        Aaron Burr, Sir

    • Rainingbreeze
      July 3, 2020 at 9:20 pm

      People change, you grew. Tigerkit was being mean and friends are NOT mean too each other. He does not sound like a good friend. You did the right thing and if he and you do want to be friends again you still did the right thing. Maybe talk to him about it? Maybe not in person so you can just end the chat if he is mean to you? If your friends don´t like you becuse you don like Tigerkit look past them and find better friends, friends who love no matter if you have minecraft or not. Minecraft should not change someone ike that, and if you say you don´t want minecraft a real friend should respect that. Maybe speak to your family members if you feel comfortable. Sometimes I find it´s easier to explain things to a person around my age and not my parents. Maybe tell a sibling if you have one?

      I can be your friend and we could chat somewhere if you like? I hope you find this comment helpful.


      OoF FrOm YOuR FeLLOw NeRD

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      • Ivykit
        July 4, 2020 at 1:07 pm

        thanks.. I tried talking to him but he was just playing STUPID MINECRAFT and luaghing his annoying laugh that he does when hes trying to be mean


        im b0red

    • Fallenshadows
      July 3, 2020 at 10:17 pm

      Aww, I’m so sorry you had to go through that, Ivy. Losing a friend is never easy, but I think you definitely made the right call. Friends should be supportive, and it sounds like Tigerkit has changed. It might be hard for some time, but you’ll get through this. Remember that your family and friends are here for you, and while some friends may come and go there always new people for you to meet and get to know. *hugs* <3333


      6.022 x 10^23

      • Ivykit
        July 4, 2020 at 1:08 pm

        thanks!


        im b0red

    • Snowbreeze
      July 4, 2020 at 1:45 am

      Like others have said, you did the right thing. If he’s bullying you, then it’s okay to say good-bye. Your family and friends – including us – are here for you <3 *hugs*

      • Ivykit
        July 4, 2020 at 1:08 pm

        aw thanks!


        im b0red

    • July 4, 2020 at 4:26 pm

      You did the right thing.

      Ending your friendship with someone who bullies about something like that—never mind bullies at all— isn’t a friend. I’m sorry, that’s really sad that he changed. I hate how video games do that to people…it’s really not worth it.

      *hugs*


      SrizelFTW

    • July 4, 2020 at 6:57 pm

      GEEZ
      *hugzies*
      why is he so odd about Minecraft? 😛
      its literally just a game


      quietly existing

    • Horsemist
      July 5, 2020 at 1:42 am

      does anyone have guinea pigs? Ive been sort of stressed out because I’m afraid of them (midnight and luna) getting too hot because there Peruvians or about flies getting in and biting them. And one doesn’t drink a lot of water… i usually worry too much whatever the reason.
      Anyone have advice I would be really grateful 🙂


      -thats ruth-

  2. Fallenshadows
    July 3, 2020 at 10:14 pm

    ughhhh I’ve been going through a bit of a rough patch; I don’t want to elaborate right now but I really need some hugs. 🙁


    6.022 x 10^23

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    • falling feather
      July 3, 2020 at 10:21 pm

      *hugs*


      look in the sky

    • Rainingbreeze
      July 3, 2020 at 10:23 pm

      Aww I am so sorry Fallenshadows. I am sorry your going through this. It is fine if you don´t want to elaberate rn, but the blog is always here for you. We can chat somewhere if you like? *hugs x infinity*


      OoF FrOm YOuR FeLLOw NeRD

    • 🏳️‍🌈 Moons 🏳️‍🌈
      July 3, 2020 at 11:51 pm

      aww i’m sorry Fally <3 *hugs*


      Clo4SW

    • Snowbreeze
      July 4, 2020 at 1:39 am

      I’m sorry to hear it <3 I hope everything gets cleared up soon! *hugs* <3

    • M0nkEyfUrPAW 2020🧸
      July 4, 2020 at 9:25 am

      AHHH HUGS TO THE AMAZING FALLY!🧸i hope everything gets better


      i see moky

    • Brightpaw
      July 4, 2020 at 9:34 am

      Here is a hug and a cookie! *hugs* *gives 🍪”


      Bri ❤

    • Ivykit
      July 4, 2020 at 1:09 pm

      not sure what that means but here are some hugs *100 free hugs*


      im b0red

    • July 4, 2020 at 4:28 pm

      I’m sorry Fally <33 *hugs and prayers* God is with you and this will end.


      SrizelFTW

    • Willowstep (Wistep)
      July 4, 2020 at 4:54 pm

      *huggles* we’re here for you <3

    • Shadowcloud (Clo) Running for SW!!! <3
      July 4, 2020 at 6:42 pm

      Aww, I’m sorry Fally, ily and Im praying for you <333
      *hugs*


      Sokeefe all the way

    • July 5, 2020 at 4:17 am

      *gives virtual hugs and cookies*


      open a window you're too hot

  3. July 3, 2020 at 10:47 pm

    Peanut still isn’t getting better, and he has to spend the weekend in the animal hospital. I know that’s what is best for him, but I am so scared. I thought I’d have a break from chaos and bad things at my dad’s, but this year does keep getting worse and worse.


    Try me, Beyoncé.

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    • Rainingbreeze
      July 3, 2020 at 10:53 pm

      What, he still is not getting better?? Oh, I am so sorry Brambleheart. It is what´s best for him, I hope they can help him. This year does seem to be getting worse and worse doesn´t it.


      OoF FrOm YOuR FeLLOw NeRD

    • Snowbreeze
      July 4, 2020 at 1:40 am

      I’m sorry, Bramble – I really hope things become okay! <3

    • July 4, 2020 at 2:52 am

      I’m so sorry about this, Bramble. Peanut will be okay. <3 Maybe try and look to your dad for some comfort? I'm so glad you posted on the hug page, just I want you to get some more comfort!!
      *hugs*


      Aaron Burr, Sir

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    • 🏳️‍🌈 Moons 🏳️‍🌈
      July 4, 2020 at 3:54 am

      my guinea pig is sick right now so i know how it feels. hugs <3


      Clo4SW

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      • Rainingbreeze
        July 4, 2020 at 4:46 am

        *Hugs moons and Bramble*


        OoF FrOm YOuR FeLLOw NeRD

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      • Ivykit
        July 4, 2020 at 1:11 pm

        heres a huggy for you too *hugs*


        im b0red

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    • M0nkEyfUrPAW 2020🧸
      July 4, 2020 at 9:26 am

      I’m sorry Bramble i hope everthing can be solved. i hope peanut will heal fast too🙂
      *HUGS!*


      i see moky

    • Brightpaw
      July 4, 2020 at 10:13 am

      Oh no!😣, but he will be getting the best help at the animal hospital! ❤ *hugs*


      Bri ❤

    • Ivykit
      July 4, 2020 at 1:10 pm

      oh no! I really really really hope he gets better! *hugs*


      im b0red

    • July 4, 2020 at 4:13 pm

      Oh my gosh, Brambleheart, I’m so sorry to hear that! I really hope Peanut gets better!!!

      *hugs, hugs Peanut for the millionth time *


      That man is playing Galaga!

    • July 4, 2020 at 4:29 pm

      I’m so sorry Bramble. <3 *hugs for you and Peanut* I'm praying for him.


      SrizelFTW

    • July 5, 2020 at 4:18 am

      im so sorry bramble, here, have some hugs and cookies <3 *hugs and hands cookies*


      open a window you're too hot

    • Emerald fireworks that light up the sky (Emeraldpaw)
      July 5, 2020 at 4:32 am

      Oh no! That’s really scary, I’m so sorry 🙁 *hugs* I’ll pray for him


      Join the rebels!

  4. ѕℓαтєραω (who needs a mentor)
    July 4, 2020 at 6:19 pm

    I’m getting kind of confused recently…

    Like it’s nothing really bad, but things I used to take pleasure in don’t seem interesting now, and I keep feeling lazier and lazier, to the point where I wonder if humans are illusions. Of course, the probability that we are illusions is really low, and I know that, but even drawing on my new tablet doesn’t make me feel better.
    I’ve had these weird moments before, when I feel rather depressed for no reason, but not to the point where nothing is interesting. BlogClan is fun, drawing is nice, reading is cool, but then after I do a bit of each I just feel blank. Not really sad, not happy, just like a blank whiteboard that can’t be drawn on.
    My mom thinks that it’s probably the coronavirus lockdown getting to me, and I think so too. I cope better than most people because I like staying home and going online, so I don’t know what’s happening…

    Anyway happy 4th of July, fellow U.S friends 🙂


    ♔ Have a nice day ♔

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    • July 4, 2020 at 10:49 pm

      Slatepaw, I’m so sorry you’re feeling this way. I’m so glad you told your Mom about this, too. Maybe try and face-time your friends, or talk to them, and go outside, take regular walks. Social interaction is actually proved to make people healthier!! So, even though they call it social distancing, it’s not. It’s Physical distancing, you don’t have to shut out the social world. And take walks to enjoy the beautiful outdoors! And, yeah, it’s fun to theorize about whether or not humans are an illusion, but you are real. We all are.
      *hugs*


      Aaron Burr, Sir

      • ѕℓαтєραω (who needs a mentor)
        July 4, 2020 at 11:47 pm

        Thankz youz 🙂


        ♔ Have a nice day ♔

    • July 5, 2020 at 4:22 am

      hey slatepaw, i think you’re mom’s probably right, most people are stuck at home , so many other people are feeling this way too!! happy 4th of july to you too, *hugs and gives cookies*


      open a window you're too hot

  5. July 4, 2020 at 7:13 pm

    Blogclan. You guys are seriously the nicest, most friendly community I have ever seen.

    But I’m feeling kinda stressed. You guys have probably, at least once, seen my drawings on the art page. I’m only a kit—which, I’ll be an apprentice once school starts—and I’m still trying to find my art style. The way I draw my ears has changed many times recently, and my art has been changing just barely.

    I also use Scratch. I have drawn stuff for art comps(maybe it was just one tho), and have made animations for maps. Im also working on my own warriors game with my friend. And, I already have one game made! It’s not that good heh

    It’s hard for me to draw on computer, and on Scratch, there aren’t any layers or special brushes. Some of the art on there is not too old, but old enough that my style looked different. And I’m working on a game, so there would be no point in changing that style.
    Blogclan, again, is the nicest community I’ve seen.

    But I’m stressed and kinda scared someone will accuse me of tracing or stealing. It’s never happened to me before. But Im seriously scared. Maybe it won’t be Blogclan. Maybe a Scratcher who’s seen my art here. I really don’t know, but it’s stressing me out.


    Cake alone will save our blog.

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    • Brightpaw
      July 4, 2020 at 9:24 pm

      I’m a little confused on what you need comforting about but I am not here to judge. Just because you have changed up your art style doesn’t you are stealing and nobody will think that! ❤ *hugs*


      Bri ❤

    • Pinestars-and-stripes (Pinestripe)
      July 4, 2020 at 9:56 pm

      It’s okay that you haven’t found your art style yet. <3 You'll figure it out eventually, and there's no rush. You might even decide to use multiple styles, and that's a fine decision, too. It's okay to use different styles for different pictures depending on how you feel like drawing at that moment. 🙂 I draw in different styles, too. I have a realistic style, a cartoonish style, and sometimes I try a completely new style just to see how it feels. 🙂 You don’t have to have one certain style. Drawing is a creative process, and trying new styles and techniques might even help you express yourself better.
      I hope this helped <3


    • ѕℓαтєραω (who needs a mentor)
      July 4, 2020 at 10:39 pm

      My drawing is entirely unbalanced. Like one day I’ll draw amazing things, and the next day I have no inspiration and no skills at all. And styles can be similar! Many people I know who draw imitate someone else’s style or do a spin-off style of something they see. It’s normal, and don’t worry about being accused of stealing because once you draw it by yourself (even if you traced it or something) it’s your drawing. But you could add fun interesting details that make the drawing original if you think some people will be triggered.


      ♔ Have a nice day ♔

    • July 4, 2020 at 10:54 pm

      Hollykit, there’s nothing wrong with tracing, it gives you inspiration! And, that’s alright if you haven’t figured out your art style yet, you’ll know when you find the right one. It doesn’t matter how much you change your art style, how much you’ve been changing the ears, your drawings are absolutely wonderful. As are you. Just keep searching, and soon you’ll find something that satisfies your needs for the art styles, and the websites/apps to draw on! Never doubt your skills, just keep going. Don’t look back. Your art is ABSOLUTELY amazing.
      *hugs*


      Aaron Burr, Sir

    • July 5, 2020 at 4:25 am

      hollykit, changing your style doesn’t mean your stealing or tracing art, i change my style all the time, and thats fine! if you dont have any other softwares/websites that you can draw with apart from scratch, there are other free websites and softwares that you can use, i myself sometimes use flipanim.com which is a website that has a few different brushes and layers, and also an animating app 😀 i love your art by the way, its absolutely amazing!! <3 *hugs and gives cookies*


      open a window you're too hot

    • falling feather
      July 5, 2020 at 4:49 am

      It is okay as long as you know your not doing anything wrong! 🙂
      I have been experimenting with lot’s of different styles and that is completely fine.


      look in the sky

  6. July 4, 2020 at 7:15 pm

    I can’t go to my best friend Lilykit’s birthday because pandemic. ‘Nuff said.


    BLM

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    • Brightpaw
      July 4, 2020 at 9:25 pm

      Why don’t you try having a birthday party at a later date after lockdown?❤ *hugs*


      Bri ❤

      • ѕℓαтєραω (who needs a mentor)
        July 4, 2020 at 10:40 pm

        The problem sometimes is that you don’t know when the lockdown ends… But it definitely is a good and popular idea to postpone things (but at this rate we’re gonna attend a hundred parties a month if we postpone everything lol)


        ♔ Have a nice day ♔

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    • July 4, 2020 at 11:05 pm

      aw im sorry 🙁


      Your's truly,
      ~eBay

    • July 5, 2020 at 4:27 am

      if you can’t go, maybe try get a facetime or a zoom if that makes things better? *hugs and gives cookies*


      open a window you're too hot

    • Rainingbreeze
      July 5, 2020 at 5:05 am

      Hmm…I am really sorry about that Bright. I could not go to two of my friends birthday parties and it sucked. Maybe call them or send them a birthday preasant in the mail? My parents are letting me and friends see each other if we stay at a six feet differnce. I just can´t go in to their house or like hug them. Does that help? *Hugs*


      OoF FrOm YOuR FeLLOw NeRD

  7. July 4, 2020 at 10:51 pm

    Life sucks right now.

    I was invited to a 4th of July party along with my family and was pretty excited to go, only to realize that it was a pool party.
    That wasn’t the bad part, but I was…on my period, so I couldn’t go. I didn’t take the news too well, and am pretty bummed about it.


    I'm a weirdo and I'm proud

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    • ѕℓαтєραω (who needs a mentor)
      July 4, 2020 at 11:52 pm

      I haven’t gotten my period yet, but from all the info adults seem to have on it, it seems very annoying and I definitely wouldn’t want to be invited to a party and suffer a major disappointment when it was a pool party…

      My advice pool is low today, so sorry about that. The hugs pool is open though and it’s full! You can have the whole thing 🙂 it refills pretty quickly unlike the advice pool *HUGS A MILLION TIMES*


      ♔ Have a nice day ♔

    • July 5, 2020 at 1:00 am

      Oh, man! That SUCKS!! Maybe try using tampons? I had to watch my family enjoy the pool while I was on my period once, and it ended the day after, I get it. Only after my Mom offered me a tampon. 😛 You can always go to the party even if it’s a pool party. I’m sure there are some people that are out of the pool!
      *hugs X a million*


      Aaron Burr, Sir

      • ѕℓαтєραω (who needs a mentor)
        July 5, 2020 at 4:24 am

        Yeah, Crooked’s right about some people being out of the pool! There are a lot of games and things you can do together with your friends when someone is out of the pool and some people are in the pool, Goldenberry 🙂 Like 3 flags up with a pool toy thing (idk if you’ve heard of 3 flags up, it’s kinda like this catch game) and you can also splash each other as long as you don’t mind being splashed urself 😉


        ♔ Have a nice day ♔

        • Emerald fireworks that light up the sky (Emeraldpaw)
          July 5, 2020 at 4:40 am

          Is that like 2 flags?


          Join the rebels!

    • Stormlight
      July 5, 2020 at 3:26 am

      🙁
      *hugs*


      be the light inside a storm

    • July 5, 2020 at 4:28 am

      :(( <3 *hugs and gives cookies* hope you feel better soon apparently from what i've heard periods are helll


      open a window you're too hot

      • Emerald fireworks that light up the sky (Emeraldpaw)
        July 5, 2020 at 4:41 am

        Not really just depending on what is happening (like a pool party )


        Join the rebels!

    • Emerald fireworks that light up the sky (Emeraldpaw)
      July 5, 2020 at 4:37 am

      Oh! I know how that feels 🙁 I’m sorry maybe you can have another pool party with your friends later on?


      Join the rebels!

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