The Hug Page

The Hug Page is here. Because, whoever we are, we still need hugs. This is still the best place to come if you’re feeling sad and need a hug from BlogClan…

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  29,657 Replies to “The Hug Page”

  1. Brackenpaw (Brackenlight) really misses you guys 💛
    January 23, 2020 at 2:38 am

    I ALMOST GOT HIT BY A CAR

    So I was walking home from school, like I do every day, and I got to the crosswalk and looked up. Me and the guy in the car made eye contact and I waved at him. He was completely stopped. So I start walking and ALL OF A SUDDEN HE STARTS MOVING AGAIN
    I held out my hand and the car kinda ran into it, but he wasn’t going fast at all so he didn’t hurt me or anything
    I have him a look like “what the heck” and he just drives off
    Then my friend who was walking behind me texted me “THAT CAR ALMOST HIT YOU”
    There’s not really a point to this, it was just scary


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    • January 23, 2020 at 2:57 am

      I’m so angry right now.

      He saw you, he was stopped. He moved on purpose. That idiot needs to rethink life before I make him.

      I’m so sorry that happened to you, I hope nothing like that ever happens to you ever again <3


      #ThankYouWoojin

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      • Brackenpaw (Brackenlight) really misses you guys 💛
        January 23, 2020 at 6:36 am

        Omg, thank you so much <3
        I told this to my mom and after she was done freaking out she said “he was probably high” 😛


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        • January 23, 2020 at 3:51 pm

          No problem <3 I tend to get protective of my friends rip. 😛
          Pfffffffffffft 😛


          #ThankYouWoojin

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    • Emberblaze (Emb) Wants Snow
      January 23, 2020 at 7:51 am

      I’m sorry but there’ll be awful drivers in life, glad you didn’t get hurt.


      Scars~I AM THEY

    • Purple Dusk
      January 23, 2020 at 2:38 pm

      Huggies

      You need them due to shock.

    • Snowbreeze
      January 23, 2020 at 2:58 pm

      Oh gosh, why did he do that?? I really don’t understand why he would start moving again, that’s terrible. I’m glad you didn’t get hurt <3

    • 🎉ᚹⴹ𐌇𐌇ᒪⴹᚹᗅⰞ❄️ (Peb the Gryffindor)
      January 23, 2020 at 6:14 pm

      WHAT THE HECK THAT FREAKING JERK–

      I’m so sorry <3333 >:( Uugghhhh I don't know what was going on in his head but if that ever happens again call the police. *hugs* <333 🙁 I'm so sorry Brackenlight. Some people are simply nuts.


      Ahem.

    • January 23, 2020 at 6:42 pm

      I’m sorry you had to go through that! I don’t know what that guy was thinking, but that made me pretty mad. I’m so glad you didn’t get hurt <3


      The plovers will take over

    • January 24, 2020 at 3:48 pm

      Hugs! <33
      I’m really glad you didn’t get hurt!


      What is sleep again?

    • January 25, 2020 at 8:06 am

      OH MY, WHO DOES THAT JERK THINK HE IS? He stopped and then he started MOVING AGAIN??!! I’m so sorry, I’m glad you’re alright! Hugs <33


      *...what an awkward situation*

    • January 25, 2020 at 6:24 pm

      WHAT?!
      He saw you, and he stopped for you, but when you were walking, he hit you(or almost did)! I’m so sorry Brackenpaw, that’s terrible! I hope they catch him. *huggles*💙
      You should tell your parents, a trusted adult or the police about this.


      ☀️Beep beep! ☀️

    • Goldenfawn
      January 26, 2020 at 10:53 am

      I’m so sorry, Bracken. I’m really glad you’re okay. ❤️


    • Brambleheart is Running for SW
      January 26, 2020 at 3:40 pm

      That happens to me all the time and sometimes my mom is like, “Why can’t you cross the hECKING STREET”


      Try me Beyonce.

    • Silvs
      January 26, 2020 at 8:02 pm

      Once I almost got hit by a car too. When I was pretty little I jumped on the street for some reason and the car touched me. I know how scary it was but, what I did was just thought that I was lucky that I didn’t die and got over it 😛

  2. January 23, 2020 at 7:29 pm

    So my sister has bought some cheap watercolor a couple of weeks ago (after saying that she wants watercolors so badly all the time).
    My parents then asked me to find a good, yet not too expensive watercolor set they can give her for her birthday. I found a set that seemed fine, and they ordered it to her.

    Now we talked a little bit about her artwork and she said she doesn’t actually enjoy watercoloring that much, and didn’t seem motivated to draw with it again.

    And the watercolor set is already ordered? It’s too late. So we can give it to her on her birthday. She’ll be disappointed in getting something that she doesn’t actually want.
    My parents suggested that I’ll take it then, but don’t like watercolor that much, either?

    So idkkkkkkk like it’s not the gift from me but I still feel really sad for her


    Gotta break the taboo

    • January 23, 2020 at 11:13 pm

      Ah, that seems tough. Maybe she’s just not confident with her watercolor skills? What’d I do, though, is order something else (art-based or not) for her, don’t open the watercolors, and after her birthday see if you can return them or sell them. Hope everything works out! <3


      Let it Snow ❊ ❄

    • Thistlepaw (Thistlefrost)
      January 24, 2020 at 1:16 am

      Can you refund?


      BlogClan is gonna own 2020

    • 🎉ᚹⴹ𐌇𐌇ᒪⴹᚹᗅⰞ❄️ (Peb the Gryffindor)
      January 24, 2020 at 4:01 pm

      Ah I’m sorry 🙁 Yeah idk…. what Snowy said? *hug* You could always try watercoloring (again)? if she doesn’t want them. It’s pretty fun!


      Ahem.

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  3. ÅMBÏXÏĘ/ÅMBĘRFRØŠT ŠÅŸŠ ŸĖĘĒÊÈÉËĖĘĒÊÈÉËT 🐯
    January 24, 2020 at 7:23 am

    I was looking at a poster, and I told my mom. But… *cue bad music*
    I got the date wrong.
    Now I feel stupid.
    AND THAT IS NOT ALL!
    My friend and I organized another play date, but the play date is EXACTLY on Chinese New Year, and I celebrate.
    So now I don’t know if I should go to the Chinese New Year festival with my family, or go to my friends house and go to Adventure World with her.
    IT IS SOOO CONFUSING!!!
    Not really much point in this, I just needed to rant about it.
    Cakes to anyone who read the whole thing!
    🎂 🍰 🧁 🎂 🍰 🧁 🎂 🍰 🧁


    我是一个QQ 我是你的QQ 🐯

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    • January 24, 2020 at 3:49 pm

      That sounds rough! I hope everything works out!


      What is sleep again?

    • 🎉ᚹⴹ𐌇𐌇ᒪⴹᚹᗅⰞ❄️ (Peb the Gryffindor)
      January 24, 2020 at 4:02 pm

      Off 🙁 I’m sorry. What I’d do is go with my family, but it’s up to you <3 Oof I've gotten dates wrong on things too, it's embarrassing 😛 *hug* It'll work out!


      Ahem.

    • January 24, 2020 at 5:56 pm

      I think you should go with your family, and possibly reschedule or cancel with your friends. Chinese New Year is a special occasion, but you can hang out with your friends anytime.

      Sorry, I’m biased, I celebrate Chinese New Year as well 😛


      🧧新年快樂!🧧

  4. Potato 🌸(Blueflower)💙
    January 24, 2020 at 5:46 pm

    Sorry just need to kind of rant-
    So I saw this show where this girl doesn’t want to go to the father-daughter dance. Which is fine, I don’t like dances either. But it’s because “Ooooh he’s gonna embarrass me!!”
    So? That’s what dads do- it’s not like he’s doing it maliciously. He loves you.
    Ugh sorry, it’s just that my dad’s not in the picture, and it doesn’t bother me, but it upsets me when people take that for granted.

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    • 🎉ᚹⴹ𐌇𐌇ᒪⴹᚹᗅⰞ❄️ (Peb the Gryffindor)
      January 24, 2020 at 9:39 pm

      Yeah :\ Rip. *hug*


      Ahem.

    • Purple Dusk
      January 25, 2020 at 4:23 pm

      Rant cake

      🍰🍰🍰🍰

  5. January 25, 2020 at 3:33 am

    do you know the feeling when you feel nauseous and about to throw up. I’ve been feeling that for several days as well as a little dizzy. it comes in waves after i eat which means i don’t feel like eating . can i have some hugs.


    He stepped on a Thistle

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    • Forestflame
      January 25, 2020 at 8:17 am

      *hugs*


      I ❤️ Hermitcraft and Anime

    • Purple Dusk
      January 25, 2020 at 4:33 pm

      Did you talk to your Mom or nurse about this?
      They could suggest a helpful aid to solve the problem.
      For right now…

      *Launches slingshot*
      A fluffy pillow lands on Thistle’s lap.

      Purple Dusk

    • Frosted Moona (Moonpaw(leap))
      January 26, 2020 at 4:08 am

      Hugs! I hope you feel better!

  6. Forestflame
    January 25, 2020 at 8:21 am

    Ok so hi! I used to be on BlogClan but then not sooo if you have a feeling like you know me, hi! And also everyone else hi!

    That isn’t the point though. I live in China and some of you may know that this disease virus thingy is spreading around and the people wear masks to not get infected and a lot of people are dying. So I am pretty terrified about this. People have to wear masks on the plane and when going out and it’s not fun. It’s also Chinese New Year and lots of people are flying. So that doubles the problem. Can I gets some hugs please?
    ~Flame


    I ❤️ Hermitcraft and Anime

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    • January 25, 2020 at 3:49 pm

      Yo, I think I remember you.

      Yikes, I didn’t know that was happening. Try to stay healthy, okay? <3 *hugs*


      #ThankYouWoojin

    • Purple Dusk
      January 25, 2020 at 4:25 pm

      Cyber Huggies and Stress Cake!

      🧁🧁🧁🧁🧁🧁🧁🧁🧁🧁🧁

    • 🎉ᚹⴹ𐌇𐌇ᒪⴹᚹᗅⰞ❄️ (Peb the Gryffindor)
      January 26, 2020 at 12:25 am

      Oi. 😬 I didn’t know about that :(( *hugs* Yeah, keep that mask on, and, yeah.
      We ly, Forest! I’m so sorry, that must be terrifying.
      I think I remember you—welcome back!! 😀 * huggies again*


      Ahem.

  7. Moons
    January 25, 2020 at 2:47 pm

    I’m really scared and nervous rn that my dad can see my history and i’m going to get caught here. He just mumbled “live chat” and I know that might have nothing to do with me but he’s a computer nerd so he probably can see my history and i’m dooooooomed.

    wow this makes no sense

    EDIT: Ok he’s paying bills i’m such a paranoid idiot he’s not doing anything with the internet 😛

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    • 🎉ᚹⴹ𐌇𐌇ᒪⴹᚹᗅⰞ❄️ (Peb the Gryffindor)
      January 26, 2020 at 12:28 am

      Oh phewwwww

      *hugs anyway * :3


      Ahem.

    • Frosted Moona (Moonpaw(leap))
      January 26, 2020 at 4:15 am

      Pheeeeeewwwww
      I have definitely felt that:
      Mom: Moona, come down here we need to talk
      Me: oh crap *checks history* oohhhh noooo what if she found me listening to asmr or something and thinks it weird (I don’t like asmr all that much, but sometimes I just go down a weird YouTube train ya know) or saw me looking at shippy cosplays or ahhhhhhhhhhhh
      Me: *goes downstairs* what?
      Mom: it’s your turn for dishes tomorrow.
      Me: pheeeeeewwwwwww
      Mom: uhhhhhhh someone’s guilty
      Me: *runs*

      My advice: delete your search history! I do this after I look up LITERALLY ANYTHING buut I’m just paranoid🙃.

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  8. Anon
    January 25, 2020 at 8:34 pm

    Ok so I’m on the way back from a friend sleepover, she lives a little far away so I’m coming back to the city with another friend that was there. So when I was about to get into the car her mom signaled me to get into he passenger (I think that’s what it’s called) seat. Being the very socially anxious person I am, I didn’t tell her I never sat there before, and got in.
    So the thing is, I’m technically allowed to sit there. Like by law. I’m the right height and age. It’s just that my parents are a lil overprotective.
    So my mother is supposed to pick me up from wherever this girl’s house is, and I’m really scared she’ll see me getting out of the front seat and get mad at me. I’m just hoping that we will get there before her….

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    • 🎉ᚹⴹ𐌇𐌇ᒪⴹᚹᗅⰞ❄️ (Peb the Gryffindor)
      January 26, 2020 at 12:31 am

      Oh I’m sorry 🙁 I hope she won’t be mad. Maybe you’ll get there first and it’ll be fine :)) *hugs*


      Ahem.

  9. January 26, 2020 at 12:06 am

    I just watched the Titanic. I wanted to cry. I feel so so helpless. My dad said that is was… what it was like …. real. Basically what happened. WHY! WHY! WHY! WHY! WHY! WHY! WHY! WHY! WHY! WHY! WHY! WHY! WHY! WHY! WHY! WHY! WHY! WHY! WHY! WHY! WHY!


    🚦Cottonsneeze🚦

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    • 🎉ᚹⴹ𐌇𐌇ᒪⴹᚹᗅⰞ❄️ (Peb the Gryffindor)
      January 26, 2020 at 12:29 am

      Oh I know 🙁 *hugs*


      Ahem.

    • Pastelpaw🌸Pasty
      January 26, 2020 at 1:31 am

      I also wanted to cry when I watched Titanic. It was a very sad event and movie 😭💗


      And that’s the tea.

    • Goldenfawn
      January 26, 2020 at 10:51 am

      I’m sorry, Cotton. ❤️ *hugs*


  10. January 26, 2020 at 1:05 am

    Sorry guys please tolerate my ranting and stressing

    Okay, so the 2cd semester starts on monday and there are 2 things making me stress.

    #1:
    Both of my lunches this semester have both Darkeye (my crush/friend) and Riverpool (my friend and also Darkeye’s girlfriend) in them. They’re both great, and wonderful friends, but also they’re a really snugly couple. So I get to spend that time wallowing in petty jealousy, wishing that the two of them would talk to someone other than each other (not just Darkeye, I want to talk to Riverpool as well), feeling uncomfortable because i dunno couples just make me feel awkward, and trying really hard not to display the fact that I am any of those things I just listed (especially the first one because Riverpool would not be happy with me :[ and then she’d probably also tell Darkeye and then he’d probably along the lines of “We’re just friends” “I’ve known you since we were like ten” and also “You’re not my lover, more like a brothersister” Great Starclan I hate that song at this point. It’s just too accurate ) . Not fun.

    #2
    Gym class……………………………………………..

    I hate it. I hate it so much.
    It’s not even the exercise, I don’t mind exercise.
    It’s the fact that:
    It’s the popular kid’s domain
    Being smart can’t help me here
    There’s a swimming unit and I hate chlorine, swimsuits (Mine has 3 pieces: a one piece, a swim shirt, and swim shorts, but it’s still too tight and I hate it), and also can’t change in front of other people (so I’m gonna have to wait for a bathroom stall……)
    I can’t wear jeans (I don’t like running in sweat pants, and I’m really self contious about my legs for some stupid reason so leggings and shorts both suck. Honestly, having my legs showing just makes me feel ridiculously vulnerable.)
    I feel like everyone is watching me fail. (I know there not but that doesn’t change the way I feel)

    Gym Class just kills all my hard earned self appreciation. I’m not saying I’m stuck up or anything, I’m just saying that for the most part I am accepting of who I am. I’m pretty good about not beating myself up about stuff. (Does that make sense?)
    Once I walk in that gym, all that mousedung I worried about in middle school comes rushing back. “You’re useless, you’re a failure, you don’t try, you’re weak,” and also “You’re fat she’s prettier, you’re awkward, are you really about to cry, they’re looking at you,” it makes me vulnerable and I hate it. I know none of that is true. But when I’m out of my comfort zone, they kind of take over.
    Also, I’m really bad about stress eating. For the most part, I’ve cut down on it. But last year when I had gym, it really spiked up because I would come home in a terrible mood and just eat until I felt better. I don’t really worry about my weight, other than in gym class I’m pretty average there and there are more important things, but it can’t be healthy to eat 2 boxes of mac and cheese a day (which I did for a bit last year).
    Kinda silly, I know, but Gym class terrifies me.


    I am very Earthy

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    • January 26, 2020 at 2:16 am

      Maybe just try talking to them? Just casually start a conversation?

      And maybe you could talk to your coach about gym? In reality though, maybe instead of dreading gym, think something like “Okay, this isn’t my favorite, it sucks, but maybe I can learn something from the horrible experience.”

      Idk just maybe try?


      #ThankYouWoojin

    • Frosted Moona (Moonpaw(leap))
      January 26, 2020 at 4:22 am

      Gosh
      Ya Gym kinda sucks. I happen to be self conscious of my legs too, prob because most girls my age either haven’t started growing hair yet or shave, or don’t have as dark hair as me, but I’m pale with almost back hair in I’m basically a bush. How I handle it is: if someone doesn’t like me or thinks I’m weird (which I kind of already am, and, I don’t really see it as an insult) because of how I look, they aren’t worth my time or attention.
      Hugs!! <33

    • Purple Dusk
      January 26, 2020 at 3:22 pm

      To start off…

      Stress Cake!
      🧁🧁🧁🧁🧁🧁🧁

      If there is one thing I learned in my short life Flamecloud, it is to always accept challenges and to do them well.
      You never know what good can come from it.

      (Like the one time I drove 45 minutes to a place I don’t know to find out the drive was unnecessary. 🙃 I stayed and helped out anyway. Now I got a real job because I impressed somebody.)

      May you see all your challenges and conquer them.
      Purple Dusk

  11. Frosted Moona (Moonpaw(leap))
    January 26, 2020 at 4:42 am

    So, I know you guys have bigger problems, and I know I have it so much better than most people in my situation, but I’m still finding it really hard. I really want to cosplay. I KNOW my parents will be accepting because they’re literally the people who introduced me to cosplay and started bringing me to cons since I was like 6! They were the ones who rose me as a little geeky kid with no clue how anyone can survive being a “normal person”. So I don’t know why it is so hard for me to ask them if they can help me get some makeup, and a wig or two, just to cosplay at home with my friend Goldenpaw, at least. I guess it’s because I feel like I know the answer might be “maybe later” or “not right now” or “we’ll think about it” “I’ll have to talk to dad/mom about it” because they’ve said that before and it basically means “no” or “sure! But, I’m too tired” (they always forget if #2 is the case). And, I’ve asked them if I can do a cosplay before, and they’ve said yes! But, usually that stops at the planning stage.. but, maybe it’s more that other than cons, I’d have no way to share it. Other than my pic collage, but literally no one looks at my posts (oof). I’m not allowed any social media until I’m 13, other than that.

    That was a looot of rambling go have a waffle if you read all of that! *hands waffle*

    Edit: great. Now its lights-out and I’ve just NOW felt better about asking my parents. (Great job, Moona!) but, writing about it did help I guess!

    • Purple Dusk
      January 26, 2020 at 3:27 pm

      Go ahead and ask them.
      If they share the same passion as you, they will be more than willing to help you.

      Just by you mentioning it,
      It will remind your parents for the next con what you want to do.

      Purple Dusk

    • January 26, 2020 at 3:52 pm

      Maybe instead of just going straight up to ask them, find them together and say, “Hey, can we talk for a sec?” and that will get their attention, and let them know it’s important to you. And when they seem ready to listen, ask. If they give one of those answers, nod. And then wait a week, and ask if they’ve thought about it. Don’t ask every day or it will annoy them, but if they haven’t given you an answer, a gentle reminder each week won’t hurt.


      #ThankYouWoojin

  12. Pastelpaw🌸Pasty
    January 26, 2020 at 6:28 pm

    Remember how I said that some of my friends were leaving me out of their club? I’m gonna ask them about it. I made a list of steps and I’m pretty nervous. I’ll ask them about it tomorrow (Monday). If y’all have any advice please tell me because I’m kinda nervous. Anyways here’s the steps
    – [ ] 1. Talk to them about IT. Maybe try talking to them individually about IT individually.
    – [ ] 2. Mention that we should make a Losers club. Make sure to act like you don’t know about their club
    – [ ] 3. If they look awkward ask what’s wrong
    – [ ] 4. If they say there’s already a club ask if I could join
    – [ ] 5. If they say no ask why.


    And that’s the tea.

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    • Star That Rises At Dawn 🌟
      January 26, 2020 at 7:42 pm

      This is Star here with some words of encouragement-Don’t feel stupid, or ashamed of your problems. All issues are valid, and your not worthless. I hope you have a good day, no matter who you are, or what you believe ❤️


      A New Star, For A New Year

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