The Hug Page

The Hug Page is here. Because, whoever we are, we still need hugs. This is still the best place to come if you’re feeling sad and need a hug from BlogClan…

Fading Echoes

(Sh! This is a new Hug Page. You can find the old one here)

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Childline UK: 0800 1111
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  34,273 Replies to “The Hug Page”

  1. July 13, 2020 at 2:03 am

    I just wanna say…
    (this won’t happen often so…ill try my best u.u)
    Ithinkyouguysareamazingandimhappytobeapartofanamazingcommunity! +.+
    I.
    said.
    it.
    ^.^
    blurp. O.=
    that gives a little weight off my chest…

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  2. Sweetie is now Sweetberry
    July 13, 2020 at 5:04 am

    My diabetes are acting up again. I almost passed out the other day

    • Ivykit
      July 13, 2020 at 4:02 pm

      oh no!! I hope that doesnt happen again! Do you feel better? *hugs*


      im b0red

    • July 13, 2020 at 7:36 pm

      Aw, I’m sorry Sweetberry. Are you feeling better? Remember to take good care of yourself!!
      *hugs*


      Yes, that was you I just ate

    • July 13, 2020 at 10:22 pm

      I’m so sorry, Sweetberry! How are you feeling? I hope you feel better❤️


    • July 14, 2020 at 7:35 am

      I hope you feel better! <3


    • Your worst nightmare (Lavenderkit) who wonders who she is :(
      July 14, 2020 at 6:18 pm

      Oh no!! I hope you’ll be okay *hugs*


      Mario: Itsa me! Mario! Me: NO!

    • Snowbreeze
      July 16, 2020 at 5:18 am

      I do hope you’re alright! <3

  3. Ivykit
    July 13, 2020 at 1:54 pm

    I’m a bit worried about myself. Sometimes I just randomly feel like I want to stab something. I’ve ruined a pencil and a pen and hurt my foot in 2 days because I was so mad for no reason. my sister calls me a wild animal. I just can’t control it! what can I do? 🙁


    im b0red

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    • July 13, 2020 at 8:13 pm

      I really wish I knew. I hope it gets better! *hugs*


      That man is playing Galaga!

      • Ivykit
        July 13, 2020 at 8:17 pm

        𝒯𝒽𝒶𝓃𝓀𝓈


        im b0red

    • July 13, 2020 at 10:27 pm

      It sounds like you may have some anger problems, but there are plenty of things that can help temper problems. Before you act, try and take deep breaths. Hold your middle finger to calm down your anger through your nervous system. Or maybe just go and sit in your room for awhile or go outside for a bit and just calm down.
      I have anger issues too sometimes, and doing these things helps me calm down and control them.
      Hope you feel better!❤️☀️*huggles*


      • Ivykit
        July 14, 2020 at 1:33 pm

        thanks..


        im b0red

    • July 14, 2020 at 7:35 am

      Taking deep breaths might help.


  4. July 13, 2020 at 3:52 pm

    Mom-Daisystar
    Dad- Redhawk
    Sister 1- Frog feather
    Sister 2- Brightgaze
    Me- Dewfeather
    Brother 1- screechpaw
    Brother 2- snowpaw

    I am back from a road trip. About half the tine i would rather be here.
    I had to sit next to my brothers, and one throws up every road trip.

    I feel like i have no friends. Only one person im friends with is going to my middle school. And in the past year, she has began to stop talking to me. So has everyone else i called my friends. The only people i am around with are my brothers who try to destroy as much of my stuff as they can.


    My name is Inigo Montoya

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    • Ivykit
      July 13, 2020 at 4:00 pm

      I hope you find someone to be friends with! but remember everyone on blogclan is your friend! *hugs* ❤


      im b0red

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    • July 14, 2020 at 7:36 am

      *Hugs*


    • Snowbreeze
      July 16, 2020 at 5:17 am

      I’m sorry. <3 We're all your friends, I can tell you that – perhaps join clubs or groups or something, to make new friends? And maybe talk to your parents about your brothers? *hugs* <3

  5. Willowkit who thinks moons rocks
    July 14, 2020 at 4:43 am

    RELIGIOUS STUFF. YOU HAVE BEEN WARNED





    So i talked about this before, about how I didn’t feel welcome in the youth group. And somebody suggested i leave. Sounds like a good idea, right? Well it is, and i might do that if I didn’t have anxiety. Im worried that if i leave (other than going to mandatory church classes) God wont love me. Sounds kinda petty, but this is for seven years. It is a big chunk of my life. So im worried that if i dont go to them until i am an adult and take the grown up classes, God may not love me as much…….

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    • July 14, 2020 at 7:38 am

      Whatever you decide to do, God will love you.


    • July 14, 2020 at 10:43 am

      I’m not religious myself but I went to a Christian school and the gist of what I was taught is that God loves everyone, no matter what. You don’t have to go to a youth group or a church. If you feel uncomfortable in your youth group then I think he’d understand that.


      That pfp is my cat Misty

    • Ivykit
      July 14, 2020 at 1:34 pm

      I don’t really know… *hugs*


      im b0red

    • July 14, 2020 at 6:24 pm

      God loves you, no matter what! And you’re still going to classes, so you’re still learning about Him, right? And that’s what matters. You’re still learning about and having a relationship with Him!


      That man is playing Galaga!

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    • July 14, 2020 at 6:37 pm

      Willow, God will love you no matter what. God looks at the heart, remember? Leaving a youth group doesn’t define God’s unconditional love for you. Stay, God will love you. Go, God will love you. He cares more about that you love and follow Christ than if you go to a youth group or not. <333 Don't worry, and I suggest talking to your parent(s). <3

      *hugs*


      SrizelFTW

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      • Shadowcloud (Clo) Running for SW!!! And who also loves Moons! <3
        July 14, 2020 at 10:26 pm

        Pebble is very right ^^ God looks at your heart and will always love you <333


        Moons4SW

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    • July 14, 2020 at 8:29 pm

      God will love you because you’ll be brave enough to do whatever you need to do. And, I know that some people cherish God’s opinions, but remember they’re just opinions. Just follow where your heart leads you, and you’ll be fine. Do what will make you comfortable, and what will make you feel better.
      *hugs*


      Yes, that was you I just ate

  6. Your worst nightmare (Lavenderkit) who wonders who she is :(
    July 14, 2020 at 6:23 pm

    I’m unsure about who I am as a person :(… I thought I was straight, but I think I have a crush on my friend who is also a girl like me. I wish I knew who I was… I feel like labels are silly, I am just me. I’m confused and don’t know who I am. I might be bisexual, I have thought boys were cute before, but I have a crush on my friend who is female also…
    I’m sad and confused right now


    Mario: Itsa me! Mario! Me: NO!

    • July 14, 2020 at 6:46 pm

      *hugs*
      i don´t know what to say but i can give lots of hugs
      *gives lots of hugs*


      warm summer breeze.

    • Ivykit
      July 14, 2020 at 6:59 pm

      I have no idea.. (this is really new to me) *hugs*


      im b0red

    • July 14, 2020 at 8:32 pm

      Well, sometimes crushes are just crushes, and it doesn’t mean you have to change your label. If you don’t feel comfortable with labels, then throw ’em out of a window!! It’s your choice as of whether or not you want to be called straight or besexual, or nothing at all! It’s alright if you’re uncomfortable under a label. If you want to figure out a label for yourself, then go ahead, no one’s stopping you.
      *hugs*
      Good luck. 😀


      Yes, that was you I just ate

      • Lavenderfox who isn’t logged in
        July 14, 2020 at 11:18 pm

        Really? Thank you for telling me that Crookedmoon, I’m still young anyways.. so how I feel right now might change. I am after all 10. I guess I will just wait and see who I will become. (Although I’m basically a tween, so soon I will become a teenager which then I probably will decide who I am).

        • July 15, 2020 at 2:24 am

          You might also have a squish, or a strong desire to be very close friends with someone. I had a lot of those when I was a tween, even though I didn’t know the word for it at the time. So in a way, I had feelings for girls… but only as really close friends, whereas I my only crushes were on boys.
          But if you are bi, we will still accept you. And it’s totally okay to use labels (or NOT use labels) as long as it makes you comfortable!


          be the light inside a storm

    • Snowbreeze
      July 16, 2020 at 5:16 am

      It’s alright! There are tons of labels out there – there’s things like hetero-flexbile/homo-flexible if those may describe it, or, as Crookedmoon said, you could just choose not to have any labels – or go with bicurious or questioning 😀 It’s all a matter of feeling comfortable, so there’s no rush to pick one. *huggles* <3

  7. 𝔼𝕞𝕓𝕖𝕣𝕓𝕝𝕠𝕤𝕤𝕠𝕞/𝕡𝕒𝕨 (𝔼𝕞𝕓𝕪)
    July 14, 2020 at 7:34 pm

    hey, i just wanted to say, if you are going through hard times, you’re not alone. life is hard and sometimes it might feel like self harm or suicide are your only options, but i’ve been there and know how that feels, and i’m always here to talk if you need. also remember that we are all here for you, and please don’t hurt or kill yourself. i love you ❤️


    ugh

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  8. July 14, 2020 at 9:51 pm

    Alright, so I’m kinda freaking out right now. I feel like I’m in a fight with my friend Lilypaw, and it’s really scaring me!
    So I just started a book club with my friends through Zoom and we have a group text with all of us in it. Lilypaw texted me a few days ago asking if she should invite Jadepaw(this is after we made our group text).

    I agreed with inviting her and Jadepaw said yes. So I decided to make a new group text because Lilypaw couldn’t add Jadepaw to our old group text. So when I made my group text, including Jadepaw, when the book club replied, it created a new group text excluding one or two people on accident.

    So I looked and saw that Jadepaw wasn’t on the group text and asked if Lilypaw could make a new one. I was starting to feel like I was being annoying at this point, but Lilypaw made a new one. When I went on there, I realized it was our old group text, with all our old messages, and excluding Jadepaw. I asked if this was the old group text and Lilypaw said it was the new one.
    I started to get worried that I was being annoying, but I couldn’t see Jadepaw’s contact(which I have) on the group text.

    So I privately texted Lilypaw and said ‘Hey, sorry, I don’t mean to be annoying, but on my end of it, Jadepaw doesn’t show up on the group text and all our old messages are up above’ with a little shrugging emoji to lighten it up. So I suddenly get a text from Lilypaw on the group text, saying, ‘This chat has EVERYONE in it so respond to this one and delete the other chats this is the book club chat🙂😀’.

    So this was when I really started freaking out. Everyone in all caps? I’ve never fought with my friends and Lilypaw does not seem like a passive aggressive person, but i had a really sick feeling in my stomach that this message was passive aggressive and she was getting angry at me. So I respond with an ok, and leave it. That same night, Lilypaw texts on the group text, something about a book series and a quiz you can do or whatever. I reply, and we talk about it for a bit.
    Since it was a phone number, i asked what it was. She said it was fine and seemed nice about it. I said I’d take the quiz in the morning and let her know who I get. I took it and told her, and she was like awesome or whatever.

    She’s being nice, but I’m afraid that I irritated her and this whole book club was a bad idea cause it’ll just ruin my friendships. COOKIES and Ice cream and popcorn if you read all of this😅🍦🍪🍿


    • July 15, 2020 at 12:00 am

      *pours cookies and icecream over popcorn* >:) mmm

      Everything should be fine. Maybe you can talk to her about it? I know how it feels to be scared of being annoying. I have high functioning autism, which, on that wide spectrum, I’m pretty awkward. Very. Very. Socially awkward.

      And when I feel I’m annoying someone, it just.. happens? And then, it’s in the past. It’s not like Im scarred for life! 😛
      One day, it’ll just be a little thing you don’t even remember. Lilypaw probably will forget it too. Again, maybe talking to her would help, though. Is she understanding? If so, she should be fine with the topic. Otherwise.. she probably will be fine with the topic 😛
      And if she’s one of your best friends, she should definitely understand.


      Cake alone will save our blog.

    • July 15, 2020 at 1:16 am

      *Hugs* I understand how you feel! <3

      It is possible that she didn't mean to sound frustrated. 🙂 Maybe she meant it in a different way and didn't know it would sound that way.

      Even if she was frustrated, the fact that she seemed nice later on means she doesn't hold it against you. Sometimes people get frustrated on impulse, and then realize that they shouldn't have been. Maybe that's what happened with her.

      If you're comfortable with it, talking to her about how you feel might help. Most likely, she'll tell you it's fine.

      The book club was definitely not a bad idea, and it won't ruin friendships.
      Doing things on Zoom and group text can be difficult and frustrating, but most often it's the devices and the programs that are not cooperating, and not the people doing it! 😛 Your friends should understand that.


      • July 15, 2020 at 3:12 am

        Thanks Pinestripe! I was kinda relieved when her further texts seemed nice. You’re probably right. Thanks for the hugs❤️


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  9. July 14, 2020 at 11:48 pm

    Just need to rant a bit because I really slipped up yesterday and I’m feeling pretty mousedungy about it :[

    Operation save my face isn’t going super great :[ I know I shouldn’t be expecting immediate results but I just keep getting frustrated with myself. I think I need to start putting bandaids on all my fingers because I keep catching myself picking at the scabs with my thumb, ring and middle fingers as well so wearing them on my pointer fingers really isn’t enough. I’ve been trying to get into the habit of fidgeting with my rope that I use for learning knots instead of killing my face, which sort of helps, but it’s just really frustrating because I’ll forget the rope at the kitchen table or something and the next thing I know I’m back at square one. It doesn’t matter if I have a good day, because if I fail the next I have to wait for the scabs to heal all over again. Yesterday I forgot to put the band aids on my fingers before bed and ended up breaking up pretty much all of the scabs and getting lots of little bloodstains on my pillow and sheets because I didn’t realize they were bleeding. I wish they could just magically heal, because then it would be so much easier to leave my face alone, but alas I have to let them heal. I’m just so tired of looking like I’m part zombie or something. :[

    On the plus side, I’ve found one nice thing about covid. Masks give me a way to hide my face, which honestly it’s remarkable how much more confidence hiding behind a bit of fabric gives me.


    🔥 💛 🌛🌛

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    • July 15, 2020 at 12:03 am

      I don’t know what’s going on, but *huggles*!


      Cake alone will save our blog.

    • July 15, 2020 at 12:55 am

      First off, you don’t need to be frustrated with yourself. <3 You're making an effort to get rid of this habit, and that alone is something you deserve credit for.

      Using the rope to fidget with is a good idea. Maybe you should also try having something you can wear, like a bracelet, for the same purpose. That way you don't have to worry about forgetting it.


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  10. ʟᴇᴀғɪᴇ/ʟᴇᴀғsᴋʏᴘᴀᴡ
    July 15, 2020 at 5:05 am

    Here’s a message of support to everyone who needs it. Hope it boosts your confidence. ^^

    Hey there. If you’re reading this, look at yourself in the mirror. If you think you’re ugly, look again. You’re beautiful on the inside and outside. We all have our imperfections. If you suffer from depression or anxiety… just know that others are alongside you. Dinner is always waiting at home, you know. If you’re insisting to yourself you’re fat… you’re not. Take a look at yourself outside the box. You’re absolutely perfect. Others are waiting to meet you, love you, and care for you. Trust yourself. You’re always perfect in many, many people’s eyes. Just know that you’re beautiful. Unique. Outstanding. Remarkable. You will always matter, no matter what happens. People will love you. Just trust yourself… and control the darkness seeming to control you. Push it away. You will get through whatever you’re going through. You just have to believe.

    ily guys! Stay strong <3

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  11. Anon
    July 15, 2020 at 11:15 pm

    a friend told me all abt astrology and /rising/mercury signs and stuff and it just . . didn;t connect with me at all, I don’t connect with what I’ve been told and I don’t want to either, cause like . . . I thought I knew who i was. and now I feel like that has to change because I am not who I thought and I will change to grow like what the things said over time and I just don;t want to, it makes me scared

  12. July 16, 2020 at 12:26 am

    Izzy got put down today. She had a tumour in her stomach and liver failure. I feel bad because I didn’t get to properly say goodbye to her. 😿

    I feel bed for my dads girlfriend because she isn’t taking what happened too well, and my dad and I are far away in Michigan right now. Any warm wishes to her would be appreciated so we can support her.


    Try me, Beyoncé.

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    • Snowbreeze
      July 16, 2020 at 5:13 am

      I’m sorry, Brambleheart. I really hope everything is okay – maybe phone calls would work? – and I’m sending all of you well wishes. <3 *huggles*

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