The Hug Page

The Hug Page is here. Because, whoever we are, we still need hugs. This is still the best place to come if you’re feeling sad and need a hug from BlogClan…

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  30,051 Replies to “The Hug Page”

  1. Littlefang
    May 29, 2019 at 4:10 am

    It’s been awhile since I last came on (again), but I finished my book! Sorta… I’m the end, I decided to split it in half! Now comes the hard part, marketing! This question is for Kate! What should I do? How do I start? Should I be worried? I’m almost stuck at this part now.


    Still heir to the hare throne

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    • Fally
      May 29, 2019 at 1:30 pm

      congrats on finishing your book, and good luck with the publishing! 😀 <3


      geese ftw

    • Plipplop (Snowpuff)
      May 29, 2019 at 3:46 pm

      Hope this helps!
      http://covenantbooks.com/submit-your-book/


      Still waiting for that room...

      • Littlefang
        May 29, 2019 at 9:56 pm

        I’ll try it! Thank you! I had headaches for days about this


        Still heir to the hare throne

        • Plipplop (Snowpuff)
          May 30, 2019 at 11:40 am

          No problem, Littlefang!


          Still waiting for that room...

    • May 29, 2019 at 3:54 pm

      Good luck, Littlefang! 😀


      🍭 Step Into My Candy Store 🍭

    • May 29, 2019 at 6:55 pm

      Welcome back! I was just thinking about you! Congrats on finishing!! Good luck with marketing! <3 I know I’m not Kate, but be careful when looking for a publisher. I’ve heard a lot of horror stories about fake publishers who will steal your book. Just do a quick google search of the publisher’s name/company and see if anything pops up. Best of luck!


      🌊 Queen of Canon Correcting🌊

      • Littlefang
        May 29, 2019 at 9:57 pm

        That’s why I’m worried. Thank you all for this


        Still heir to the hare throne

  2. Shadowcloud (Clo)
    May 29, 2019 at 6:55 am

    I’m just having the worst week.
    I could a full day of fun, but i still feel just.. empty, it’s like nothing helps. Anyway, we went to the beach this weekend, I got heat rash i think, and i definitely got sun-burnt (for the first time) which sucks, ’cause I can’t sleep, it hurts really bad to lay down and i’m always itching but it stings, any tips? I recently moved for the summer to see my mom, and I really miss my friends, we text and all but it’s not the same, they’re going to do something really fun together, and I feel left out, but I’m glad i’m with my mom, and I know family is more important than friends right now, it’s just hard. I’m a shy person, and I hate going to new schools, but i have to next school year, and im not good at making friends… tbh i’m really scared, bc some people are just jerks and being the new kid, i don’t know which people are jerks, my siblings are being home-schooled and i wanna be home-schooled but my dad wont let me which also sucks. One of my other friends is mad at me for trying to help her and someone else get along, which makes no sense, she said them fighting is just life and i need to let them figure it out on there own, which didn’t bother me until she started acting vain like the world revolved around her. She started saying it wasn’t anybody’s fault it was just life and i told her it takes to people to fight and that she could control her feelings, so it’s her and the person she faught with fault so now she’s mad at me which is awesome. On top of that I just heard that my dog (which stayed where I live while i visit my mom) bit my sisters puppy! he bit her head and roof of her mouth, my dad said it traumatized the puppy and my sister who is only 5 and watched the whole thing, he also said everything was fine and not to worry, but you cant tell me something like that and say “well don’t be worried” i’m worried! If my beloved dog bites the puppy or any other dog again, my dad and step mom wont hesitate to get rid of him, and he is technically my emotional support dog and i’m his emotional support human, if they get rid of my dog-just- i’m scared it will happen, bc he was treated wrong as a puppy, and he only has a stub tail bc someone cut it off, so he is really protective of his space, I was very confident and told my dad not to be concerned about him biting the puppy, but he did it, which just isn’t like him. I really love my dog, he usually goes everywhere with me, but here we are he is across the country from me and he did something I never thought he would do. My life is against me right now. I need huggles 😭


    Ask me to draw your purrsona

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    • May 29, 2019 at 12:10 pm

      Awww. Don’t worry. I was the new kid a few years ago, and I was really shy i didn’t know what to do. Now I am one of the most popular kids in the school. Also your dog will be OK. Most dogs are just territorial. Your dog was probably getting annoyed with the puppy. Just keep them separated for awhile. Don’t think of the bad things, think of the good. Your dog probably misses you.

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      • Shadowcloud (Clo)
        May 29, 2019 at 9:22 pm

        Thanks Lightning, that actually helped alot


        Ask me to draw your purrsona

    • Icepaw(stream)
      May 29, 2019 at 12:41 pm

      * Hugs*


      How do you make good siggies

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    • Plipplop (Snowpuff)
      May 29, 2019 at 2:30 pm

      *Hugs* It’s alright! Things will turn out ok. The people at Blogclan will always be there for you!


      Still waiting for that room...

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    • May 29, 2019 at 7:00 pm

      Oh no, I’m so sorry Clo! I know how you feel. Luckily, those episodes usually pass. During those times, I like to try and force myself to be productive, because if I’m not going to enjoy anything, why not do something I won’t enjoy either way? It doesn’t always work, but when it does it usually helps a lot.

      Oof, good luck! Most people are fairly friendly. The media overdramatizes being the new kid. Just be friendly and open, and I’m sure lots of people will want to be your friend! It takes time sometimes though, so don’t be discouraged. Good luck! <3

      It's best not to get involved in other people's drama. But it's sweet of you to try and help them! Maybe she feels mad because she feels out of control. Give her some time, and talk it out when she calms down.

      Your dog is probably missing you! It might help if you call and he can hear your voice. You should call whoever's with him and have them bring the phone to him. I hope you get to see him soon!

      I'm really sorry honey. Life is throwing you a curveball right now, but it will get better. *huggles*


      🌊 Queen of Canon Correcting🌊

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      • Shadowcloud (Clo)
        May 29, 2019 at 9:24 pm

        Thanks Wavey, It makes me feel better that I can always come here, and i’ll at least get some reassurance. Everyone always has great advice and i’m feeling a little better now🙂


        Ask me to draw your purrsona

  3. May 29, 2019 at 12:51 pm

    there are some bullies on animal jam that where saying some not some nice things . I’m told them to get out and now they are going after me . I’m still trying but people are on the bullies side and are telling me to stop bothering them . They are saying not so nice things

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    • May 29, 2019 at 5:31 pm

      I don’t know what Animal Jam is, but maybe you can report them or find a new server? <3


      #Viper4SW!

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    • May 29, 2019 at 7:02 pm

      Oh yikes, animal jam. I’m really sorry about that Thistle. They’re probably just dumb kids on the internet with no life. My advice is to block and report them. I know reporting is basically pointless, but it’s good to get them in there just in case. Also, go to your den and lock it so they can’t follow you. And log off for a while. Bullies thrive on attention, even if it’s just you saying “go away.” If you ignore them and get away from them, they’ll get bored and leave you alone. *huggles*


      🌊 Queen of Canon Correcting🌊

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  4. May 29, 2019 at 1:20 pm

    i survived middle school! 😀
    now i need to survive high school 🙁


    my cate so spoopy

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    • Plipplop (Snowpuff)
      May 29, 2019 at 2:59 pm

      It’s actually easier than middle school, lemme tell you… but good luck! I’m sure you’ll survive it!


      Still waiting for that room...

      • May 29, 2019 at 7:03 pm

        your experiences are not universal


        🌊 Queen of Canon Correcting🌊

        • Plipplop (Snowpuff)
          May 30, 2019 at 4:37 pm

          I know, I just hope that she knows that she is not alone.


          Still waiting for that room...

    • Cedarpaw cries over her cat
      May 29, 2019 at 3:44 pm

      Congrats! Now youre gonna become a warrior! *hugs*


      They keep talkin i keep walkin

    • May 29, 2019 at 5:53 pm

      congrats . I’m a current Freshman about to finish the year . If you need any advice , you can ask me or any other high schooler 🙂

    • May 29, 2019 at 7:02 pm

      That’s wonderful! High school is hard, but it’s not unmanageable. Be sure to ask your teachers, classmates, and counselors for help if you need it. Good luck!! *huggles*


      🌊 Queen of Canon Correcting🌊

  5. Plipplop (Snowpuff)
    May 29, 2019 at 1:54 pm

    I messed up the build up of a mentor/apprentice relationship between Brookpaw and me… I am not painting her as a villain, and if you are reading this, Brookpaw, I am so sorry I could not be your mentor, and I am sorry I upset you for saying that I wanted to be added on the available mentors list. Just so you know, I would happily take you as an apprentice any day. I hope you are able to find a mentor, though! I still hope the best for you and wish you luck. <3 Just know that Plippy is sorry.


    Still waiting for that room...

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    • May 29, 2019 at 7:04 pm

      Okay this feels like private drama. It’s probably best for the two of you to go somewhere private and talk it out. Good luck! I hope you resolve your friendship and feel better. Hugs for the both of you!


      🌊 Queen of Canon Correcting🌊

      • Plipplop (Snowpuff)
        May 29, 2019 at 9:01 pm

        Alright, thanks!


        Still waiting for that room...

    • Plipplop (Snowpuff)
      May 29, 2019 at 7:04 pm

      Does anybody have any advice to fix this? I know that this ain’t as severe as some of the other problems on this website, but this is the first time where I think I broke somebody…


      Still waiting for that room...

      • May 29, 2019 at 9:55 pm

        What happened?


        #Viper4SW!

        • Plipplop (Snowpuff)
          May 30, 2019 at 11:53 am

          Basically, a misunderstanding happened with a user named Brookpaw who didn’t know that she had to send an application in order to be in the allegiances and be my loyal apprentice. I didn’t know her name in the allegiances either so I asked her. She knew mine, but after a little with no answer to the question I needed. She though mentors and apprentices roleplayed in the chat, when we weren’t even listed as apprentice and mentor. She asked me if she was my apprentice where I told her that we were not just yet, and that she should tell me who she is in the allegiances, like how my name is Snowpuff, so I could send an application for me to be her mentor and for this whole situation to be over. She didn’t take it well… she thought I didn’t want to be her mentor, which I did, I would have loved to have an apprentice like her. Now, this is where I feel like my faults come in. After realizing there is a chance I am never going to see her on the allegiance page, I decided to be put on the list of available mentors. She REALLY didn’t take this well at all. I feel really bad for the pain I may have caused her. I still wish her good luck and that one day she finds a mentor, even if it isn’t me.


          Still waiting for that room...

  6. May 29, 2019 at 4:30 pm

    I don’t know why, but whenever I start a roleplay, people either join and go inactive on it but post everywhere else or people just don’t join.

    It sucks because my roleplay Whisplow Blight is dead because of that, and now Rite of Passage (Wings of Fire) is dying as well and it makes me not want to post anymore on them because it’s not like hardly anyone is active on my roleplays. It makes me not want to make the Miitopia roleplay because I bet people are going to go inactive on it there too and not post, and then that one will die too. And in total, so far this year all around I’ve had 4 roleplays die that were mine and it really doesn’t boost my self-esteem.

    Is there something wrong with my roleplays? Or is it me?


    Oui oui

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    • May 29, 2019 at 5:34 pm

      Maybe it’s because some people don’t know those fandoms? I’d join, but I’m afraid I’ll mess something up with my lack of knowledge, would it be ok if I joined? 🙂


      #Viper4SW!

      • May 29, 2019 at 5:39 pm

        It might be that, but the thing was that my Whisplow Blight roleplay also involved Warriors and my Rite of Passage roleplay is Wings of Fire centric, and I know that it’s pretty popular with some members on the blog. And the fact that people just go inactive on it for some reason even though I mention it several times on the roleplay page and sometimes the tavern.

        And yeah, it’d be alright if you joined. 🙂


        Oui oui

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    • May 29, 2019 at 5:45 pm

      Hazy, don’t doubt yourself, roleplays are hard to get right. I struck gold with the tests which I think has given my roleplays a decent reputation since, and I personally think yours are awesome. They are all so well thought out, I really would be more active in them but I don’t really have the time right now. If its any help, over my time running roleplays, 6 have died, and one is just held…. just about to die because I’m inactive. Its not just you
      Huggles !!!!


      Somewhere that’s Green

    • May 29, 2019 at 7:05 pm

      No, there’s nothing wrong with you! People are busy. I used to roleplay a lot in a space where roleplays would go dead really fast. In my experience, posting a lot and advertising helped. Don’t be discouraged! I’m sure people enjoy your roleplays. Once more people get out of school, they might pick up too. Good luck! *huggles*


      🌊 Queen of Canon Correcting🌊

    • Rose from her phone haha
      May 29, 2019 at 7:34 pm

      Oh crap oh frick I was in one of those but I lost the link ughhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

      I’m really sorry Hazy, I don’t really bookmark BC stuff, I just check it everyday and then the device saves it so i can shortcut… then I moved to my phone 🙁

      I personally just didn’t engage well with either of those fandoms, so that maybe why my stupid brain forgot to rp….

      If you want to, you can make the rp. If you don’t, that’s okay too. But there isn’t anything wrong with you or the rps, it’s most likely just people going inactive/forgetting like me. Sorry if this doesn’t make any sense oofity

  7. May 29, 2019 at 5:59 pm

    I have a problem. Someone has a crush on me, but I told them I didn’t like them. They said they are heartbroken and is now dating my best friend. My friend is being so rude about it though. I don’t know what to do. Help?

    • May 29, 2019 at 7:06 pm

      I’m sorry! You did the right thing. It would have been worse if you led them on. They’re probably not really that heartbroken if they immediately turn to dating someone else. That’s not how love works 😛 Maybe take some time away from your friend? It’s not okay for them to be mean to you. *huggles*


      🌊 Queen of Canon Correcting🌊

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  8. May 29, 2019 at 9:04 pm

    I really need some hugs! I just found out I am moving! Talk about worst week ever 🙁

    • Whispering Rain
      May 30, 2019 at 1:22 am

      *hugs*


      Mrrrow.

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  9. May 29, 2019 at 9:56 pm

    Yay my friend wasn’t mad at me and now we are both doing the solo 😀

    Thanks for your love and support, everyone <3


    #Viper4SW!

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  10. May 29, 2019 at 10:54 pm

    someone told me to change my wolf on animal jam’s look . they said change ur look for real u little boy . that infuriates me . I’m not a boy and I like the way my wolf looks . I sent a message back saying no way but its still gets me going

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    • May 29, 2019 at 11:15 pm

      Its OK, thistle. Don’t let them bother you. I have some good news if it will help? I think I found a mentor!

      • May 30, 2019 at 12:22 am

        thats great Lightning ( can I call you that )

    • Whispering Rain
      May 30, 2019 at 1:19 am

      I doubt you’ll still be playing when this gets moderated, but if it happens again, report and block them. They have no right to tell you to change your appearance, especially not that rudely.


      Mrrrow.

    • May 30, 2019 at 4:01 am

      That’s really mean 🙁 I’m sorry Thistle! I know it can be pretty infuriating when people are so rude to you.


      🍭 Step Into My Candy Store 🍭

  11. May 30, 2019 at 2:22 am

    Isn’t it lovely when your friends purposely hide something from you only for you to find out the day before the last day, the thing being so frustrating and horrible that you want to kill yourself?

    Because that’s me right now.


    Oui oui

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    • May 30, 2019 at 5:52 am

      I’m so sorry Hazy 🙁 I understand you don’t have a trusted adult you could talk to about you’re struggles, and that must make things extra hard for you. Please don’t think of hurting yourself. Your friends don’t sound like good friends. Could you try talking to them about it, or trying to meet new people? *huggles* <3


      🍭 Step Into My Candy Store 🍭

    • Raven logged out
      May 31, 2019 at 1:54 am

      Please don’t kill yourself, Hazy, there are people who want and value you, if not in real life, on the blog, and if not now, in the future <3

      Infinite huggles for you <33333333333

      • Viper (Viperfrost)
        May 31, 2019 at 2:18 am

        Hey, Hazy! I’m replying to this comment because I can’t seem to locate your actual comment in my mod place. We all care about you. <3 I'm open to talking anytime, if you'd like. :)


        #Vouch4Viper

  12. May 30, 2019 at 4:07 am

    It’s not really a vent but I heard some saying that Mousewhisker will make a bad deputy. I was like, “ok, what’s your reasoning?” The reasoning was “he is not pure ThunderClan”. Excuse me??? Ain’t the whole series about not judging people from where they come from? I took it as a racist thing to say. Idk, but can I please have some hugs?


    Gotta break the taboo

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    • May 30, 2019 at 5:53 am

      *huggles*
      I know other people can make rude comments sometimes, and I’m sorry that got you down 🙁


      🍭 Step Into My Candy Store 🍭

    • Brightleap
      May 30, 2019 at 7:58 am

      *Hugs* it is if you look at it! What warriors has taught me is not to judge people on where they come from,It’s what’s inside deep down that matters xxx


      🏳️‍🌈DESTIEL🏳️‍🌈

      • Foxtail (Foxie)
        May 31, 2019 at 12:12 am

        I didn’t know Mousewhisker was a candidate. Cool 😛


        What an awkward situation

  13. Cedarpaw cries over her cat
    May 30, 2019 at 5:10 am

    I kinda want my mom to take me to like a psychologist or something. Im very depressed and anxious but at the same time i dont qant to say anything cause its so embarrassing and i dont want my friends to find out.


    They keep talkin i keep walkin

    • May 30, 2019 at 5:55 am

      I would talk to your mom about it, and try and work on improving your mentality. 🙂
      Your friends are the next step – tell them when you feel ready. If they are good friends, they shouldn’t make fun of you and should respect the fact that you’re having a rough time. I hope this helps you!! <3


      🍭 Step Into My Candy Store 🍭

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    • Brightleap
      May 30, 2019 at 7:59 am

      Hey!! It’s alright! You don’t need to tell them if your uncomfortable and it’s not anything to be ashamed of! I talk to my school nurse every Wednesday for an hour! It really really helps! Xxxx I hope you get the help you need *Hugs*


      🏳️‍🌈DESTIEL🏳️‍🌈

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