The Hug Page

The Hug Page is here. Because, whoever we are, we still need hugs. This is still the best place to come if you’re feeling sad and need a hug from BlogClan…

Fading Echoes

(Sh! This is a new Hug Page. You can find the old one here)

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Anxiety UK Infoline (Text): 07537 416 905 Samaritans UK Helpline: 116 123
Samaritans UK Charity Email: jo@samaritans.org No Panic UK (Charity that offers support for panic attacks and OCD): 0844 967 4848 Beat UK (For eating disorders): 0808 801 0677 (adults) or 0808 801 0711 (for under-18s)

International suicide hotlines
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  33,042 Replies to “The Hug Page”

  1. 🏳️‍🌈Brightleap 🏳️‍🌈
    May 30, 2019 at 4:15 pm

    Hey guys!! Nothing important just the fact I need to get a zinc injection then another one then a blood test tomorrow at the hospital so yeah


    🏳️‍🌈DESTIEL🏳️‍🌈

    • Viper (Viperfrost)
      May 30, 2019 at 4:45 pm

      Oh, no! I hate shots and blood-draws. 😛


      #Vouch4Viper

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      • May 30, 2019 at 4:46 pm

        Same 😛

        I have shot-needle-phobia 😛


        I cannot stop twinkling!

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        • Emberblaze (Emb)
          May 30, 2019 at 6:09 pm

          hey me too


          Scars~I AM THEY

        • May 30, 2019 at 6:20 pm

          I’m the opposite 😛 I don’t mind the needle, it’s what’s in the needle that they’re putting into you that I hate 😛

          • May 30, 2019 at 7:58 pm

            My shot-needle-phobia is strange in the sense that when they put in the needle I have to look 😛


            I cannot stop twinkling!

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          • Shadowcloud (Clo)
            May 30, 2019 at 8:44 pm

            SAMEE Frosto

            • May 31, 2019 at 2:21 am

              the other day I got injected with saltwater in my blood through an IV and it made my arm cold
              grhhhhhvvvvv it gave me the heebie-jeebies

    • May 31, 2019 at 2:54 am

      Oh no! I’m sorry, that sucks 🙁


      🖤 Fall Into The Darkside 🖤

  2. May 30, 2019 at 6:36 pm

    I have a problem. I like this boy at school, but don’t know if he likes me. He is giving me mixed signals. Help?

    • Emberblaze (Emb)
      May 31, 2019 at 1:04 am

      Well, don’t worry if he likes you or not, it doesn’t really matter. good luck


      Scars~I AM THEY

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    • May 31, 2019 at 2:56 am

      Oof not really sure how to help. Maybe try and play it cool for now, and pretend you don’t notice. If he likes you, I’ll assume he’ll start trying harder to get you to notice him. I hope it all works out for you! 😀


      🖤 Fall Into The Darkside 🖤

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  3. May 30, 2019 at 6:42 pm

    I really need some advice. I have MAJOR anxiety and it’s really infecting my life, enough where I can’t go to the movies cause I can’t breathe in there & have to storm out.
    I also have anxiety about concerts, & cities & everything. I’m really afraid it’s going to make me a timid hermit & I really need advice on how to control it…

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  4. Brambleheart
    May 30, 2019 at 10:46 pm

    I had a bad day today. Like, really bad. It all started in Drama Class. We have to make anthologies in groups of 5. Today my group picked a theme. It was peace. Things went really well until I realized everything they were picking was of war, not peace. AND when i tried to give ideas on historical peace movements in the 1960s, they tuned it down. Eventually they came to their senses and decided to change the topic to war. I spoke up and thought it wasn’t a good idea, as our teacher told us not to have a broad topic and war was kind of broad. Another kid said conflict. I agreed and expanded on that idea saying that we could do many kinds of conflicts such as school conflicts, work conflicts, internal conflicts and major conflicts like WAR. They didn’t listen to me. I decided that if my ideas weren’t heard I would not share them at all, and sat farther from the chromebook. One of my groupmates, we’ll call her Tulipleaf, came over and asked me for my idea. I told her clearly and she said she didn’t understand. I said if she didn’t understand it was probably a garbage idea, even though I knew it was a good idea. My teacher came and asked what was wrong. I expressed my concerns and feeling of anger. He said, “Welllll… it’s a group of 5 and people need to express their own opinions so not all of your ideas will go in.” I knew that, but the problem was NONE of my ideas were getting in. Nobody understood what I felt had happened, no matter how hard I explained. The bell rang before I could say more.

    Then French class. I liked it before May. This past month has been bad for me. The jerks that were saying Marvel was bad just to upset me still bother me. I even somewhat feel that this is turning into bullying at this point. but this might be my sensitivity after being bullied in grade 7 coming in. Today, one of them was glaring at me. I asked him to please stop looking at me like this. (Just want to give him a name: Gorsefang, He was the main kid bothering me and the only one who still does it today.) He still did it and when I slightly raised my voice to get my point across my french teacher flipped and just yelled at me. My French teacher is REALLY biased towards certain kids and Gorsefang’s group of friends is definitely one of them. In fact, nowadays I am the only kid she yells at for incredibly stupid reasons such as drawing (she was perfectly fine until one day I was just HOLDING my art without doing anything and she yelled at me). I only do it when I have finished my work so I won’t disrupt the class. Two: Talking to Stoattail while everyone else is talking to their friends as well (by the way I resolved the spying issue and everything is fine between us now), and Three: standing up to Gorsefang. Also we are starting a new unit after doing the EXACT SAME THING EVERY CLASS FOR TWO MONTHS. We have to write the same verb over and over again, probably until the end of time.

    I also had a dentist appointment and got to leave school early (yay? I was in my favorite class btw) and it went well. The dentist said my gums were red and my mom FLIPPED. On our way home she told me that the dentist said that i might have to get my gums surgically cleaned. I don’t believe her because after she made a speech that i was selfish in March (all of the points were wrong and misunderstood but she wouldn’t let me say my side of the story. I am not at all selfish and probably care more about other people than I should) , when she told me things my dad said that he later told me he absolutely would NEVER SAY AT ALL about me, I have trouble believing what she says to me about other people, and what she says to my dad and family about me. Another reason is that my gums had been much, MUCH worse before to the point where my orthodontist said that we had to extend my braces treatment. My mom yelled at me in the car and made me call my dad to tell him what she told me. I pleaded for her to say but she made me but luckily gave me privacy (I wanted to talk to my dad tomorrow when I see him and we could talk ALONE) but privacy for 1 minute was the least my mom could do I guess. She came back in the car and proceeded to say I could choose my punishment before she chose it herself: no Animal Jam for 4 days, which is fine. I don’t know if my mom wants me here either but who cares she never said I can’t. She then said I am going back to the dentist in August (even though right before we left she said I could make the choice for August or December and I chose December) and if my teeth weren’t better she would permanently ban me from playing the game. She isn’t even recognizing that the dentist said TWICE that ,y back teeth were done really well with VERY LITTLE PLAQUE!

    So yeah, that was my day and I need to go do what I need to do or I will get yelled at more so bye

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    • May 30, 2019 at 11:14 pm

      You poor thing! Nothing should happen to someone like that. You should definitely tell someone. I know I talk to some people about stuff like this (maybe) and no one deserves that. Tell someone how you feel, what’s going on, and let all your anger out. Tell your mom what’s going on. Hope this helps, brambleheart!

    • May 31, 2019 at 3:02 am

      That is a horrible day. I am so, so sorry 🙁 Is there a school counselor you could talk to? At least the year is almost over, and you won’t have to deal with mean teachers anymore. I would recommend talking to the drama teacher again, and kindly pointing out that your group is completely disrespecting you and ignoring your opinions. Point out that each member of the group should be helping, but you aren’t getting the chance, and it makes you feel horrible. I’d try and stay calm with her.

      Is there somebody you could talk to about the French teacher? That is exceptionally rude of her. That is definitely a tough one 🙁

      As for your mom, please talk to a counselor or other trusted adult. That is really mean. Maybe when you’re in a good mood, kindly ask if you could go for an appointment in December? Or bring up that you’ve been trying extra hard to take care of your teeth and gums? I hope everything turns up for you, Brambleheart 🙂 <3


      🖤 Fall Into The Darkside 🖤

    • 🏳️‍🌈Brightleap 🏳️‍🌈
      May 31, 2019 at 3:35 pm

      Oh bramble! You poor poor thing mom amie! <3 I’m sorry about all that xxx my Maths teacher is biased towards me as well xx I’m sorry if this is a bit late,I wish I could help you! Maybe calmly explain to your mum that you are going to improve on everything and you promise it won’t happen again,And about the bullying-Talk to someone about it.Do you have a head of year? Tell him/her/them or tell a trusted adult xxx My wishes are with you mon amie ♥️♥️


      🏳️‍🌈DESTIEL🏳️‍🌈

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  5. Cedar is anxious
    May 31, 2019 at 7:15 am

    Its almost 11 30 pm and i need yo go to sleep but i cant cuasr im too hot


    forever you are my star☆

  6. May 31, 2019 at 12:23 pm

    Do you know the feeling when you do something stupid and you know your gonna get in trouble. I let my anger get the best of me and squeezed my glasses frames. Now they won’t fit and I really need them and I regret it. I need a new pair badly but I’m most likely gonna deal with it.

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    • May 31, 2019 at 1:46 pm

      Well, I don’t really know what to say about that, but if your anger ever slips again, just talk to me

    • May 31, 2019 at 7:59 pm

      oh I know how you feel. I’m really sorry about that Thistle! Everyone gets angry. Try not to beat yourself up. You might be able to get them fixed instead of getting a new pair entirely. And if you feel angry, you can always punch a pillow. That usually doesn’t cause destruction. You can also always rant to me if you need to. *huggles*


      🌊 Queen of Canon Correcting🌊

    • May 31, 2019 at 11:37 pm

      Wait, what got you angry in the first place

    • ®å√éñ
      June 1, 2019 at 5:44 pm

      Oh, I can relate. I’ve done dumb things I’ve regretted when I’m angry too. Hugs <3

  7. 🏳️‍🌈Brightleap 🏳️‍🌈
    May 31, 2019 at 3:46 pm

    Hey guys!! I’m sorry if this is a bit ridiculous but if you didn’t know,My girlfriend broke up with me and I still love her-She broke up with me and I think it’s my fault. She’s blocked me on everything and I want to talk to her-Should I just let go? I also made a article on why I relate to bristlefrost and greywing But I’m worried that someone is gonna get angry at me because my Headcannon is that bristlefrost has anxiety and I’m scared someone is going to take offence.


    🏳️‍🌈DESTIEL🏳️‍🌈

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    • May 31, 2019 at 4:56 pm

      Its not ridiculous that you still love her. It might just take some to!e to get over it. If somebody does take offense, don’t let it bother you. I am here if you wanna talk about it.

      • 🏳️‍🌈Brightleap 🏳️‍🌈
        May 31, 2019 at 6:01 pm

        Thank you lightning xxx Your a nice person ♥️


        🏳️‍🌈DESTIEL🏳️‍🌈

    • May 31, 2019 at 8:02 pm

      awww I’m so sorry Bright. Relationships are fickle like that. You should give her space. Breakups are tough for everyone. If she blocked you, she’s probably hurting and doesn’t want to talk to you right now, so reaching out might make it worse. Idk i’ve never been in a relationship don’t listen to me 😛 I honestly don’t remember who Bristlefrost is but I have anxiety and I headcanon lots of characters to also have anxiety! Besides, the community here is really great and chill and people probably won’t get upset. If they get offended, they’ll understand you didn’t mean it and it will only be a learning experience. Besides, there’s no guarantee people will get offended anyway. However, you could always ask someone else with anxiety to check it and send an updated version to Embix and Birchy. *huggles*


      🌊 Queen of Canon Correcting🌊

      • 🏳️‍🌈Brightpaw🏳️‍🌈
        June 1, 2019 at 3:19 pm

        Thank you! Xxx


        🏳️‍🌈DESTIEL🏳️‍🌈

    • ®å√éñ
      June 1, 2019 at 5:46 pm

      No one will be offended by a headcanon that Bristlefrost has anxiety! In fact, many people are interested in characters with anxiety and/or depression. 🙂 I’m sorry about your break-up, hugs <3

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      • 🏳️‍🌈Brightpaw🏳️‍🌈
        June 1, 2019 at 7:11 pm

        OH RAVEN!!! I’ve missed you
        *Huggles while crying with happiness*


        🏳️‍🌈DESTIEL🏳️‍🌈

        • June 1, 2019 at 11:48 pm

          Yay!!!

          *Infinite huggles*

          <333333333333333333333333333333333


          I cannot stop twinkling!

  8. June 1, 2019 at 1:05 am

    I’ve barely eaten since Tuesday because of my kidney infection and now some problems with my ears I don’t have the energy to explain but I just don’t feel that good and my mom said my eyes look a little sunken in because of it I just don’t know what to do :/

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    • June 1, 2019 at 3:25 am

      Feel better Frosty! 🙁
      I have a cold right now so I don’t feel great either 🙁

    • Cheetahspark
      June 1, 2019 at 4:52 am

      awww I’m sorry, frosto <3 🙁 can you not eat because it hurts or because you don't have the energy? if it's the former I suggest ice cream 😉 in all seriousness, I hope you feel better soon!

    • Rush/Rushfire
      June 1, 2019 at 6:26 am

      Feel better soon!😆


      The power of friendship

      • Plipplop (Snowpuff)
        June 1, 2019 at 1:49 pm

        Good luck, and I hope you recover soon!


        Snowpuff for senior warrior!

    • June 1, 2019 at 2:59 pm

      it hurts a little less today, but it’s still painful to swallow anything that isn’t pills, water, ice cream, or soft cheese

    • ®å√éñ
      June 1, 2019 at 5:47 pm

      I’m sorry Frosto, I hope you feel better soon <3

    • Eaglefrost
      June 1, 2019 at 11:00 pm

      Have you tried cranberry juice? I’ve akways found that helpful when I’ve had UTIs (and I’ve had quite a few.) I’m sorry you’re not feeling well. Get better soon!

  9. Rose from her phone haha
    June 1, 2019 at 3:48 am

    chest dysphoria sucks

    • Viper (Viperfrost)
      June 1, 2019 at 4:00 am

      Aww, I’m sorry you’re not feeling well. 🙁


      #Vouch4Viper

    • Honeypaw
      June 1, 2019 at 3:13 pm

      *hugs*

    • ®å√éñ
      June 1, 2019 at 5:47 pm

      Huggles <333333

  10. Rushfire
    June 1, 2019 at 6:55 am

    Ever since I’d joined BlogClan I’ve enjoyed every moment here because everyone’s so kind and it like we’re all a big family!😊

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    • 🏳️‍🌈Brightleap 🏳️‍🌈
      June 1, 2019 at 8:36 am

      I know!! I love blogclan so much! Your all like my brothers and sisters and I love you all!! ❤️❤️♥️


      🏳️‍🌈DESTIEL🏳️‍🌈

    • Shadowcloud (Clo)
      June 1, 2019 at 9:35 am

      I felt and still feel that way. Everyone here so nice and helpful and once you’re on for awhile you wanna be nice and helpful to other new cats because everyones kindness spreads to you. Blogclan is just an awesome place, you can come here if you’re sad, happy, and mad, i’m going to go ahead and just say thank you everyone, for making Blogclan the best<3<3<3


      Clo4SW

    • June 1, 2019 at 1:01 pm

      I feel the same way.

    • Silverpaw(sky)
      June 1, 2019 at 1:58 pm

      Ik!
      That’s what I love about BlogClan. Unlike real life, nobody is mean.

    • Honeypaw/cloud (Honey)
      June 1, 2019 at 3:13 pm

      I feel the same way!

    • Cheetahspark
      June 1, 2019 at 4:40 pm

      <3

    • ®å√éñ
      June 1, 2019 at 5:48 pm

      Same! <3 😀

  11. June 1, 2019 at 8:21 am

    Ayyyy I have an acrobatic show coming in some time and I need to an element which I half of the time do and half of the time I’m scared to do. And I really wanted to be in the first line. All my friends are there. But no, I’m second line. Oooooooooooooof
    And on the acrobatic things I’m in the back so no one will see me. Guess what my mother said to comfort me? “It’s fine, because I’m not coming anyway, so it doesn’t matter”
    My parents are not coming because my sister has something really important so they’ll go to that. I don’t care about that. But what my mother said bothered me. She acts as if the only reason for me to be in the front is so she can see me. She’s not there, bam, I can be in the back, but it doesn’t matter. Things are not like that. I don’t care who is in the crowd. Just….. Hard to explain. Do you guys have advice?


    Gotta break the taboo

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    • June 1, 2019 at 11:55 pm

      I can relate. In elementary school we had Winter Sing, which I missed one year because my parents and I were going to their home country early. I was upset about this, and then when the bleachers we stood on were to squishy, the teacher made me sit out because since I wasn’t going to be there, I apparently wasn’t very important. I’m sorry your mom said that. <3

      Good luck at the competition! 🙂


      I cannot stop twinkling!

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  12. June 1, 2019 at 4:47 pm

    update on my current situation:
    I guess it wasn’t just a kidney infection – it was a bacteria that contaminated something I ate, but it’s gone now. anyway during it I guess I had doubly bad cramps from both things so that’s great. turns out I have some kankar (however that’s spelled) sores in my throat, which it why it stings to eat. I gargled with some hydrogen peroxide, which seems to be helping 😀

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    • 🏳️‍🌈Brightpaw🏳️‍🌈
      June 1, 2019 at 5:31 pm

      Starclan! Get better soon
      *Snuggles*


      🏳️‍🌈DESTIEL🏳️‍🌈

    • Pastelpaw🌸Pasty
      June 1, 2019 at 6:45 pm

      I’m glad your feeling better 💙


      Welcome to the losers club

    • June 1, 2019 at 6:58 pm

      I just gargled with some apple cider vinegar
      the taste is
      foamy and very, very sour

    • Birchfoot
      June 1, 2019 at 8:18 pm

      *huggles* I really hope you feel better, Frosto <3

    • June 1, 2019 at 11:57 pm

      Hugs <333


      I cannot stop twinkling!

  13. June 1, 2019 at 7:07 pm

    I don’t know if I’ve talked about my rabbit, Sugar, a lot on BlogClan so you may not know him, but he’s dead. I was at my friend Goldenpaw’s house for a sleepover and I had to go straight to my first softball game on the new team in the morning. After it was over (we won 17-16) my parents pulled me aside and told me that Sugar had passed away in my mom’s arms. I’m currently in the car on the way home from the game and both my parents are here so I don’t want to curl up in a ball and cry in front… but man, am I in the mood to. At least he’s in a better place and isn’t suffering anymore.

    • 🏳️‍🌈Brightpaw🏳️‍🌈
      June 1, 2019 at 8:45 pm

      Ohhh! Don’t worry xxx I’m sorry about sugar but he’s in a better place now-My cat passed away and I know how that feels but you have the memories and that’s a precious thing *Snuggles*


      🏳️‍🌈DESTIEL🏳️‍🌈

    • Hawthorn 🦄🦄
      June 1, 2019 at 9:10 pm

      Oh I’m sorry Darkpaw. Rest in Peace Sugar.


      Stay happy and calm

    • June 1, 2019 at 10:40 pm

      Aw Darkie I’m sorry RIP sugar 🙁

    • June 2, 2019 at 12:03 am

      I’m so sorry <333

      What did Sugar look like? I'll draw him. 🙂


      I cannot stop twinkling!

      • June 2, 2019 at 4:09 am

        Ohhh my gosh Raven that’s so sweet of you lsjlfksdjfls
        He was a white dwarf rabbit with one dark blue and one dark green eye and a bit of dark gray fur by his left eye. thank you so much omgg <3

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