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Can I have some hugs please? I don’t feel like explaining much but I’m having some anxiety, I set a lot of high expectations for myself, and my jealousy is coming back.
❤️❤️❤️*HUGS *❤️❤️❤️ 🙁 🙁 🙁
*Hugs*
*Hugs* Pastelpaw…💜
I know what’s it like having high expectations for yourself and being jealous. I deal with those two things as well. Remember to always keep your expectations of yourself on a medium standard.
You can want to be the best self you can be,
but don’t put down yourself for making one mistake.
And with being jealous, it goes rotten to the bone and I know how it makes you feel bitter and distraught.
Idk if it’s with romance, friendship, status, etc.
But if it involves relationships, just be happy for your friends if they have other friends. 💗
Jealousy is hard to beat, but always just try to calm yourself down and be happy for people.
I don’t exactly what to say, but i hope you feel better.
*huggles*
pasty, you will always be enough. even if you don’t think you can meet your own expectations, you definitely exceed ours! also, jealousy is just a part of being human! i personally hate admitting to be jealous, but it’ll pass eventually. everything will be okay in the end. <333
I feel you Pasty! That sucks I’m so sorry. It’s okay to set high expectations, but (and I’m working on this too), one of my songleading teachers talked about something called a realistic expectation. It’s fine to shoot for the stars as long as you keep in mind you have to put in a bunch of work and time, and you can’t expect to reach the stars without putting in that work and time. It’s unfair to compare yourself to others, because they have had opportunities and time to practice that you haven’t. Try to focus on yourself and your own personal growth. Even if you don’t meet your goal, growth is still growth. *huggles*
*Huggles*
I hope you feel better soon Pasty dear ❤️ *hugs* ❤️❤️❤️
I’m just upset right now. For the past two weekends, we didn’t have a night where we stay up late with my friends and eat pizza and watch YouTube (we being my family). I’ve become more disconnected with the people around me, and it doesn’t feel good. It’s like I’m stuck on an island in the middle of a littered ocean.
I understand how you feel Forestpaw. If you’re feeling upset or distraught, angry, you may feel alone, like you’re screaming and no one can hear you. Cause you’re on a island in the middle of the ocean.
But people CAN hear you.
You can always talk to your family, trusted friends, and of course, us,
Whatever you’re going through, we’ll always be here for you!💚
Aw Forest.. 🙁 *HUG*
Aww I’m sorry. Maybe you can talk to your friends and family to arrange one? I’m sure they’d be happy to when they see how much it means to you. I have a similar thing with my family and they used to abandon it all the time until I told them how much it means to me, and they (to some extent) listened! As for the ocean, yeah it’s horrible, but there are always things you can do! Pick a day to go with friends and organize a beach cleanup. There are also special plants that you can plant that are good for the ocean (you just have to get approval). *huggles*
I’m sorry Forest, that really sucks. Can you talk to your parents and set up a time for you all to hang out? If they know how important it is to you, they’ll probably try harder to get everyone together. Even doing it every other weekend is better than nothing. Please remember that there will always be someone there for you – you are not alone. ❤️Talking to your family and friends may really help you. and even if you don’t feel comfortable talking them, we’ll always be here for you. Feel better!! *hugs* ❤️❤️❤️
Having a bad day??,,
This is for you my dudes. ♥️
https://lonely-neko-kitty.tumblr.com/post/151248283316/its-so-cute-if-only-i-had-someone-to-send-it-to
Awww💕
Thanks, Moon <3 <3 😊
I saw this and I thought you were talking to me whoops 😛
Oh! Sorry! XD
New plan; I’ll call you Moon and her Lighty! 😛
I think that might be a good idea 😛
😀
awwww
❤️
I’ve been having some body issues lately. Not all of it is my non-binary gender dysphoria, only some of it. So, I have a skinny body type. I have learned to be ok with my body from the waist up, only uncomfortable slightly. But that makes sense, being nb and biologically female and all. In general, I am UNCOMFORTABLY SKINNY in my upper body. Small waist, small stomach, ribs that poke out at any given opportunity, etc etc. My lower body from my waist down, however, is what you would call thic (in lack of a better word). Wide hips, large thighs, the like. A total mis-match. Basically, I hate how skinny I am, AND I hate how thic (in lack of a better word) I am. I have some feminine curves, mostly in my lower body, and I hate it. And I don’t want to try to be more masculine, both in fear of being obviously queer, and in fear of over-doing it. I don’t want to appear either masculine or feminine.
TL;DR,
I
Hate
My
Body.
I’m sorry, Dapplepaw. I know what it’s like to have problems about your body. Sometimes I think o have a gut, and then sometimes I am skin and bones. ❤️ It’s normal to feel self conscious or awkward about your body while growing up, but while you’re growing, your body is going to be really awkward and off, but later, it will all be well.
I don’t know what to say about non binary gender dysphoria, cause I’ve never gone through that, but know that your body will be awkward, but it’ll be okay! I know it sucks having a female body, but eventually, you might appreciate it cause your body won’t be awkward anymore.
I don’t know if any of this helps, but I hope you feel better❤️
I also have a very skinny body, I don’t know why I eat so much. I have taken a while to accept the way I look and although I don’t truly love myself yet I have learned to be kind to myself. We are always our harshest critics, I’m sure nobody around you notices half of the stuff you see in your body you don’t like, and it’s whats on the inside that counts anyway. We will always face judgement on the way we look by other people but the only thing that proves is their not so nice nature. You need to learn to love yourself and trust me it’s difficult I struggle myself but I remind myself that the best thing to have is a smile and nothing else matters <3 hugs <3
Dappy, all I can say is, don’t hate how God made you 🙁 🙁
Don’t laugh, but autocorrect changes your name to Happy, so be happy with YOU, please!! You are absolutely and utterly perfect how you are. I have plenty of curves too, and I’ve learned to love them. I have thick thighs, and I love them. I don’t want to be a walking stick, and neither should you! It’s part of being human!
And for the other thing, how you’re too skinny higher up, your not mis-match. Your perfect like that <3 *HUG*
(i cant help much with the first part sry)
as a genderqueer/nb person who sometimes deals with top dysphoria myself, there are a lot of posts on tumblr that i found helpful when it comes to dealing w dysphoria!
I’m sorry, I struggle with this a little as well. Sometimes it helps to not look at my body & to not look in the mirror so I don’t think about it. Dress as fast as possible and away from the mirror. Also, we are our own worst critics and other people are usually too focused on themselves to notice what we’re worrying over.
I don’t really have any advice for the dysphoria, because I have no experience, but I hope it gets better. *huggles*
I have been really stressed out about middle school, everything about it! Some of you might not remember me because I left when I got so busy, I’m sorry about that.
Nope, I distinctly remember your name! 😀 All hail the ‘drifts!’ 😀 Welcome back!
I’m homeschooled, so I can’t relate, but I’m also in middle school. I can imagine being nervous having to go to public school 🙁 *HUG*
Uh oh! Starting middle school can be stressful 🙁 I’m on my final year, so don’t be afraid to ask me for advice if you need anything <3 Could you maybe tell me what’s worrying you, say, the most? Is it the changing classes? Or would it be your teachers? Or maybe you don’t have any friends in your math class. Please let me know, and I’ll do my best to help <3
Welcome back!
Middle school can sound scary! But it actually isn’t at all! If you ever need someone to talk to, come to me 🙂
Oof I’m sorry, it is very stressful. In previous years, I put off my homework until the last possible minute and I was always stressing about it and worrying that I wouldn’t get it done. This year, I’m making an effort to finish my homework the night I get it (I have block schedule so for most of my classes I have two days to do the work, but it’s twice as much.) I am definitely a lot less stressed! You could give that a try. Take advantage of any time during class to do homework, ask friends and teachers for help if you need it, and honestly middle school doesn’t matter that much in the grand scheme of things so if you don’t do an assignment here and there to protect your mental health, it’s perfectly okay. *huggles*
Middle school can be scary. I remember being super freaked out on the first day. But it got better! It takes some getting used to, but middle school is awesome! And if you’re ever stressed or scared, we’re always here ❤️
I remember you! And don’t worry, real life comes first. 🙂 Middle school is not that hard! Learning to open a locker might take some time, but you’ll get the hang of it. If you lose your combination, your school’s administrative office will be able to help you. If you get lost while changing classes in the first few days or weeks, the teachers probably won’t be upset since you’re new. *hugs* <33333
UGGHHHHHH my drawing skills are acting up again!!!! Come on, I KNOW I can do better than THIS!!! Why are kittens so hard??
Just relax and calm down. Maybe grab a spare piece of paper and rip it up to let some of your anger out, and then just relax for 10 minutes and try again 🙂
Thanks! I’ll try that 😛 <33
Best of luck Pebble! Just remember, your art is incredible and don’t let anyone else tell you otherwise. And don’t forget to practice if you think you need to improve <3
Thank you Stormy :3 <33
REFERENCE AS MANY PICTURES AS POSSIBLEEEEEEEEEEE
and remember that practice makes perfect <3 🙂
And kittens can be so hard, I feel ya
Oohhhhhhh good idea….. :O I tried referencing one, but your idea is way better!!!! :O Thank youUuUujUuuUuUuUuuuuuuUUUUUuuuuuU
Ooof no problem 😛!
Remember Peb, we are our own worst critics. Try not to look at your drawing and judge it, but just draw. Not every piece we do is going to be our absolute best work, but that doesn’t mean it’s not good anyway. Sometimes, when I get artblock or critical of my work, I just grab scratch or binder paper and make a bunch of silly, random doodles instead of trying to make a finished piece that looks good. It helps get my creative juices out, usually makes me happier, and they usually don’t turn out so bad! *huggles*
Wow, I’ll try that! Thank you, Wavey! <333
No problem! I hope it helps! <3
I’m bad at drawing so I don’t have much advice, but all I can say is to take a break. Do something to take your frustration out on, and try again later. It won’t help to try again and again without success for hours.
That’s a good idea, thank you Star! I could take a walk out back in the forest for a while… Maybe spark some new ideas… 😀 <333 Thanks! <3
What I find helpful are tons of references, like others have said – and then taking a break – I usually do it every other half-hour, draw, break, draw, break – the cycle continues. You can take longer breaks on not much of a cycle if you so wish – taking breaks clear your head and make you more ready to hop back in your project! 🙂 *Huggles*
Thank you Snowy! Your are all helping so much :333
I’m sorry Moon, I can TOTALLY understand ❤️
Ugh
I’m so emotional today
Tonight will be my last meeting at our hall before we go and visit our new one. One of my friend Cloverspark will be there, but what if she is gone one meeting, who can I talk too?!
Bounceheart and Oliveclaw are in my Well, I should say old hall right now.
Bounceheart might come to my new hall later, but I’m afraid of losing everyone. All the people, elder and younger, that were in this hall with me for 6 years. My friends. I don’t want them to forgot about me. Or not invite me to anything cause we’re not in the same hall.
Or we’re too busy to stay in touch, and we forget…
I’m so stressed! Any advice? I need hugs!
I’ve just been feeling like crap lately and I’m afraid my precious hall will be turned into a hall of weirdos!😖
Aw Blossom….. your friends won’t forget about you! And weirdos are good! Ima weirdo 😛 Everything will be great, and you’ll be fine! 😀
Thanks Pebble.
Though I kind of meant PERVY weirdos, but thanks. We didn’t go tonight cause we were busy, but we’re staying for a couple weeks so that’s good😄
Whew! 😅
It’s okay to be emotional! Change is hard, but it’s just something we have to deal with in life. I’m sure there will be lovely new people at your new hall. Let your friends know how much you want to keep in touch and maybe schedule hangout times. I’m sure they want to keep in touch with you too! *huggles*
Thanks Wavesplash! 💜Actually, tomorrow I’m going to hang out with Bounceheart (8
Cool, have fun!
No, I understand TOTALLY AND COMPLETELY. That stuff upsets me all the time 🙁 I hate it when my chance was so close… and then it’s gone :((((
Why is this not a reply? 🤔
I’m not that good at feeling emotions.
I hardly ever feel nostalgia for things anymore, and when I do it’s not that much.
I fear that I have been too stressed frequently, and because of that, it might have affected my release of dopamine, which is why I don’t feel emotions, if any at all.
I was able to get absorbed into the feel of an atmospheric picture whenever I saw one before, but now I hardly bother to feel anything.
Have I been so absorbed into the same things and emotions all the time that now I don’t feel anything?
I wish that I could get ideas for stories and emotions that people come up with based on the same songs as the ones I like, but even if I try to, I don’t feel or think of anything.
I’m saying different situations that all mean the same thing: I unable to feel emotions caused by things like songs and stories.
I’m like a machine that’s made to mindlessly consume media and culture without stopping to appreciate or understand it.
I see people cry because of a song they heard or a book that they read and other people telling their own personal interpretations based on their own experiences in life, and I wish I had such strong feelings to cry because of one song that I listened to and relevant life experiences of my own to relate to a story.
My heart feels like stone.
I can’t empathise. I can’t feel. I can’t love. I can’t even find something in life to really be passionate about.
What can I do?
Every person has their own reactions or feelings to something. Something that brings someone to tears with nostalgia may not do the same to you; I certainly don’t get warm fuzzy feelings when I look at things older than me, like the original Mario game or pacman. If something doesn’t provoke a reaction out of you, it may simply be because you prefer something else or that no personal experience comes to mind.
Many people, all over the world, cannot find something to be passionate about. Heck, I love writing and stories yet apparently not enough to be able to write as much or enjoy as much as I would want to or feel as much as I think I should. Ideas that I make, (usually pretty sad or angsty :p), make others sad, but I don’t quite feel the same way; in fact, while I do acknowledge that this idea might have a particular impact upon my readers, it hardly ever has an effect on me 😛 I’m not sure if that says something about me as a person, but I digress. It could just mean that different things matter more to you than they would to other people and vice versa.
My advice is to just keep living life <3 You'll discover what touches your heart by branching out to experience them, so keep your head up high to look out for them 🙂
Well, first of all, fear and sadness are emotions. You are feeling things, this post proves it. The desire to change is an emotion. So you’re not heartless.
Some people express emotions differently than others. Some people wear their emotions on their sleeve, and others don’t. Not everyone cries at things, and isn’t the only indicator of strong emotions. I cry when I get overwhelmed at school, but I didn’t cry when my grandpa died. I felt a little emotionless and disconnected, probably like you feel now, but at the same time I was still sad and grieving. Sometimes we don’t always express emotions in a way we’re conditioned to understand/is societally accepted as “normal”, and that’s okay. That doesn’t mean we’re not feeling them.
You don’t have to stop and overanalyze your behavior. We are complicated beings and sometimes it’s really hard to understand ourselves, and that’s okay. We don’t always have to have all the answers, and things won’t stay the same forever. That’s the one constant in life.
It’s also okay to not have strong passions either. Most people don’t. We don’t always have time to pursue or discover our would-be passions either, so they don’t actually become passions. People come up with ideas based on lots of different things. Inspiration can strike from anywhere. I have a hard time coming up with story ideas from songs because I either follow the song too closely and the story becomes unoriginal, predictable, and stilted; or I don’t follow the song closely enough and the story is messy and hard to understand. Just because some peoples’ brains work that way doesn’t mean yours, or mine’s, or others’ do. And that’s okay.
Take a step back & a deep breath. You’re not broken and you can feel emotions, and there’s nothing wrong with you. *huggles*
Are any of your favorite football team the steelers?
This isn’t the right page to ask.
You could try on the Tavern or on the Polls page 🙂
Yea, this isn’t something for the Hug Page. Tavern or Polls, like Star said :3
Maybe even for the ‘ I Heart it’ Discussion Page?
I am currently sick. I feel so bad right now . Can I have some hugs please . I’m currently trying to get some
Gatorade at the moment . I need some drink suggestions ( nothing with dairy in it though ) I’ve been feeling bad for the past 4 days . I’ve been having trouble sleeping and a hard time breathing when I lay down . I’m kinda congested so that maybe it . Just having a bad afternoon
*HUG* :(( Poor Thist <333
Try ginger ale, popsicles, minty cough drops to help with your stuffiness, ice cream (if that doesn't make you more stuffy. If so, sherbet?) honey on a spoon if you have a sore throat, and tea. Tea helps lots for me <333 I get sleepy-time tea, and it's a help <33
Don’t forget to blow your nose too and if you are cold, heating a warm bean bag in the microwave is very cozy <333 Feel better! <33333 *HUG*
Also I like making a bed on the couch and watching movies with a blanket, warm bag, and a popsicle when I’m sick (though I often fall asleep somewhere in the middle 😛 ) I hope you start feeling better <33 Take plenty of naps <33 *HUG*
I have lots of experience with getting sick, so I’m here to help <333 ^^
If your coughing don’t eat icecream though, dairy makes it worse…
Asthma gives me lots of experience… and my mom is very careful about it 😛
Yea, I figured that out myself 😛 I wasn’t sure if it was the same for everybody, good to know! 😛
Ummmm maybe for having a hard time breathing while laying, try getting more pillows to prop yourself up more, that’s what my mom does when I cough all night 😛
Ehhhh I don’t know anything about drinks???? My mom read somewhere on facebook or something that grape juice helps keep stomach viruses away so we do that because better safe than sorry 😛
Yes, propping pillows helps a lot!
Grapes do have plenty of Vitamin C and other nutrients, but grapes or grape juice won’t really ward off viruses. However, grape juice is delicious, so I encourage you to keep drinking. 😉
Yeah, my mom wasn’t sure whether it was true or not, but y’know, a tasty placebo is fine to me 😛
😛
*Hugs* Also, I think that you should just be drinking water. Get better soon! 🙂
Aww I hope you feel better soon! Maybe you could take some cold medicine? Sometimes when I’m having trouble sleeping it helps to listen to soft music or a meditation podcast. I love apple juice so there’s that I guess? *huggles*
I need help. I have a crush on a girl and I don’t know how to tell her. Is this the right place to ask?
This is the right place! And I think you should just tell her! The worst is that she doesn’t like you back, and best is she does! 🙂
Exactly 👏 🙌
Awwww I can relate, and even more by the fact I never know how to tell me crushes (im a bi girl who leans towards girls in a basically all straight school)
Just go for it, you never know, she might actually like you back 😀 and imagine how happy you would be if she did ! And if you didn’t say anything you’d never know ! 😀
Yes this is 😀 I don’t know how to help, to be honest… er, bring her a flower? Ask her out? Go ahead and tell her! I know it’s more easy said than done, but you can be brave enough to do it! <333 good luck!! <33 *HUG*