The Hug Page

The Hug Page is here. Because, whoever we are, we still need hugs. This is still the best place to come if you’re feeling sad and need a hug from BlogClan…

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[image description: gif of a brown bear sitting down and raising its arms with a smile and blushing cheeks. “FREE BEAR HUGS” is written at the top with a red arrow pointing down at the bear.]

(Sh! This is a new Hug Page. You can find the old one here)

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Switzerland: 143
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USA: 18002738255
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A note from BlogTeam: From now on, we will no longer moderate comments on the Hug Page that go into specific detail about events. Instead, commenters will post in a vague manner, such as “I’m having a bad day, I could really use some hugs”, and other BlogClanners are welcome to provide comfort and support. This change is not because of any specific event or person, but because it is extremely difficult to mitigate questionable comments and determine what parts of certain comments are suitable to moderate, as well as making sure that replies with advice are in no way harmful to the original poster or others. If you ever feel like you need advice about a serious situation, you are welcome to reach out to BlogTeam, because your health and safety is our top priority. However, no one on BlogTeam is or has ever been a mental health professional in any way, and all we can do is provide advice. We implore you to always reach out to a trusted adult or hotline (listed above) about a situation that worries you. You are still welcome to come to the Hug Page if you need any hugs or comfort from your BlogClan peers, but the cause of your distress can no longer be explained——no matter the situation. Thank you so much for understanding <3

71,660 comments

  • Not a really big problem, but I still feel I need to say it. 😛
    You don’t have to answer or read this, and I’m sorry for complaining so much! 😛
    So, turns out, I’m lactose intolerant. But I really really love milk. I also kind of see it as a disadvantage, because, like way back in the old times I wouldn’t have survived because they drank a lot of milk. I know, times are different now, but the thought still gets me down.
    Sorry again!

    • a problem doesn’t have to huge for it to be said <3 i'm sorry you're going through this; just remember that there's lots of lovely substitutes for milk that are delciious, and you'll get to try them all. <3

    • try almond milk! it tastes a bit better if i do say so myself

    • My brother is lactose intolerant, and he can still drink lactose-free milk! Try looking for some when you go grocery shopping!

    • There are substitutes for milk that taste really good! 🙂 I personally like coconut milk, and there are many others as well.

      *Hugs* I hope you feel better about this. <3

    • Like Vips said, there are a lot of substitutes for milk you can try! A girl in my class is also lactose intolerant, and she says that almond milk and treats like dairy-free ice cream is delicious! <3 And please don’t worry about posting! We all love you and want to help you as much as we can. <333

  • My throat hurts and I threw up at school today 🙁 I just need some hugs rn

  • I feel horrible and confused. I have broken a cup and no-one in my family has done that for years, and then I caused breakfast to be a mess and confusing, and then mom said I was too shakey to wash dishes because of the accident. I am sad because I broke a dish, and confused because I am feeling about a thousand other small feelings mixed into one big, icky one

    • Aww, I’m sorry.
      *Hug*
      It’s probably just a bad day. They come and go, but you always have more good days then bad! I once broke my favorite cup, which was a gift for my dad, and it was pretty special. I felt horrible. But breaking a cup or a dish does not mean you break the memory…though I am getting off track here. 😛
      So, anyways, all I’m trying to say is that it’s ok, it happens to everyone, and no reason to feel bad about it!
      You’ll feel better soon! 🙂
      *hugs*

    • Breaking a cup is no big deal! It’s just a cup! My sister once dropped a plate at a restaurant, and when she was upset, the waiter said that it happens all the time.

      And sure, maybe no one in your family has broken a cup for a while, but I’m sure you’ve all dropped or messed up something. It’s human and it’s normal! (I once dropped an entire pack of soda cans on the kitchen floor and they spilled everything. So hey, if it helps, I caused a bigger mess 😛)

      *Hugs* I hope you feel better soon! <3333

    • I’m so sorry, that sounds horrible. If it helps, my older sister breaks cups, bowls, and plates all the time. There’s not one bowl in our house that’s not chipped or cracked. I hope you feel better tomorrow, and you have more control. *hugs* <3

    • *Hugsss*
      Accidents happen sometimes! I’m sure we’ve all broken dishes at one time or another, it’s okay <3 I’m always dropping things, I once even managed to drop an open jar of mayonnaise and somehow it got on the ceiling 😛 I hope you feel better soon!

    • its okay to make mistakes <3 every mistake is a little stepping stone to progress. everyone’s broken a dish-I’ve broken a dozen! That has no bearing on who you are as a person. you’re a wonderful person, and we care about you <3

    • Thanks, everyone for your kind words. You make me feel a lot better.

    • I get that. Breaking a dish isn’t gonna matter a month from now or even a week from now. Try to focus on that! Maybe your other icky feelings will feel better too. *hugs*

  • I took a little drive because I was getting too depressed at home. Well, the little coffee shop I usually go to is just making me more depressed because there’re a lot of people here who have friends and I have no friends. One of my best friends is ghosting me and I have no idea why.

    • Aww, I’m sorry.
      I once heard a Native American story:

      “In your heart, there are two wolves. One fights for your joy, the other for your suffering.
      Their battle is endless, their need for victory driving them on, sunshine or starlight. ”
      The little girl stares in awe at the elder telling the story, the gentle rain pattering on a tent outside. “Which one wins?” The little girl asked.
      The elder simply smiled, and answered:
      “The one you feed.”

      Your brain makes you depressed because you think depressing thoughts. Your brain can be your greatest enemy, or your best friend, and you are the one who can control it! These are hard times, and your friend who is ghosting you piles on it even more. But hard times pass, because if you think positive, and feed the wolf who fights for your joy, you can get through anything. You have a bunch of friends, here on BlogClan, who believe and love you. 🙂
      Things will get better!

    • I’m sorry <3 Maybe just give them some space, they may be going through something you don’t know about and just need some time.

      And I get the no friends thing. It took me forever to finally have a functioning friend group that wasn’t toxic. But it did happen. Took about 3-4 years, maybe more, but it happened. You’ll find that soon, it may take awhile, but you will. And honestly, the longer you have to wait, the better the friends are.

    • I have a friend problem too, we’re in the same boat, so I completely understand! Honestly I don’t know how to help, but you’ll always have friends here <3

  • I used to live in Africa for all my life and now I have to live in a new country because of Covid and other stuff. I really miss my life and my friends, they are not talking to me I think they hate me And I really miss my best friend. My new school in really bad, my social life is even worse I feel like people are just nice to me, they are not really my friends. I can’t be silly or have fun like I did in Africa. I’m not really accepted. Soon I have to change schools again so that’s good news, but I’m not sure if I will like it. I’m scared that if I get close to anybody now I will miss them when I leave so I’m scared to make friends, but I’m really lonely. So far my only friend is my mom, isn’t that pathetic….. life sucks

    • Aw I’m sorry Sunpool! I’m very shy and I know that making new friends can be very hard. I completely get the feeling of not being able to be yourself around new people. I also know that because of covid and masks and distancing, it can be hard to get close to anyone, and moving can’t make that any easier. Maybe try to find someone who seems nice, and just start a conversation with them, like about your favorite books and shows and if you have pets. Just do this with a few people until you find someone who seems really nice. It will be hard at first, but things will get easier! And moms are amazing and you are NOT pathetic! Don’t be afraid to be yourself because I’m sure that you are a wonderful person!

    • I’m sorry. It must be terrible. I know how hard it can be.
      I moved about 20 times, not kidding, and one of them was from another continent. I really miss it too, and school was like a horror film, with my teacher’s main goal to ruin my life. It was like hate at first sight with her. I had no friends at all in school, and I was drowning in homework every night. But having your mom as a friend is not pathetic at all. Your very lucky that you have such a close relationship with your mom, which most people (or cats, look at Crookedstar and Rainflower, or Tallstar and Palebird) don’t have.
      If you are moving to a new school, consider it a new start. Kids might be friendlier in a different school. Try introducing yourself to a new person, starting with a compliment, and then tell them a bit about yourself. Soon you will have lots of new friends!
      Meanwhile try and find the joy in everyday, even if it’s little, like eating ice cream or reading a good book. Each day has good in it, even if we don’t always notice it. It can help to snuggle a pet, or have a plant to care for, (It sounds silly, but it works! 😛 ) taking warm bubble bathes, or spending time with those you love. As I always say:
      Things will get better. It might take a while, but you will be just fine. Believe us! 😉
      As for moving away from a place you love, it’s really tough. Try and make a list of everything you love in your new home. Good coffee shops? Good bookstores? Nice hiking places? Good scenery? Friendly people? And I don’t think your friends hate you.
      Parting from a best friend is very hard too. (I’ve been there!) try writing each other letters, either email or become pen pals! You can also talk on Skype, or Messenger, there are lots of options! You can maintain your connection, and one day (soon!) you will she them again! 😀
      Yes, life can sometimes suck. But at other times it can be a miracle and wonder that words cannot describe. Those times will come for you too. 🙂
      Hold you head high, put a smile on your face!
      You have to get through the rain before you can see the rainbow!
      *HUGS*
      (You got this! And every single cat on BlogClan thinks so too!)

    • *hugs* <3
      I’m the same situation as you. I used to live in Australia since I was three but I came to Korea about a year ago. It was really hard adjusting at first, and it’s still difficult for me but I assure you it gets better after a while:) I’m not a a very social person in real life so I haven’t made ay friends yet and I’m also an only child so my sole company is my mom too. I get pretty lonely sometimes, since both my parents are out for the whole day, but after a while, it’s not that bad.
      One tip is to try think positive. It can be hard at times, especially when it feels like your life sucks but trying to think what you have rather than what you don’t have surprising makes you feel a little better. Also, writing your thoughts in a diary can sometimes help clear your mind too.
      Another tip is to try find things you enjoy, like reading, games, writing, role playing and etc:) Doing the things you enjoy can take your mind off things for a while.
      And maybe try setting up a chat between your friends and start a conversation?

      And I assure you, things get a lot better after a while. School will get gradually better and your life won’t seem so bad as you adjust to your new home.

    • It’s not pathetic, and I’m sure your friends don’t hate you- it just may be a little weird for them that you’re not there. With the pandemic we all just have to hang on and bear through it, though it is definitely not easy. *Hugs* <3

    • *hugs* You should still get close to someone even if you might loose them. I’ll be your friend if you want.

  • 🌧️🐍 𝕊𝕟𝕒𝕜𝕖; 𝕊𝕟𝕒𝕜𝕖 𝕥𝕙𝕒𝕥 𝕓𝕒𝕤𝕜𝕤 𝕦𝕟𝕕𝕖𝕣 𝕤𝕦𝕟 || 𝕊𝕟𝕒𝕜𝕖𝕡𝕒𝕨 🐍🌧️ says:

    Sometimes I think this is the only place that keeps me tied to Earth. Thank you.

    • Snuggle up with a fluffy blanket, say 10 very kind things to yourself and come back tomorrow and tell us how you’re feeling. Here’s a hug to keep you going until then. ❤️

    • If that is where your thoughts are headed, call a hotline! They’re at the top of this page. I know it’s hard but think about how much better you’ll feel once you get through this!! We’re here for you anytime, too. *Hugs* <3

    • Let me tell you: You are valued, you are wonderful, you are loved. <3 You can get through this. The hotlines above will help through these feelings, as well as telling a trusted adult. We’re here for you and we love you. <3

    • *ultra hugs* I’d say get in with a counselor as soon as possible. Or call the hotline at the top of the page.

  • dealing with homophobia/transphobia from your family practically everyday gets tiring hhhh especially considering my best friend is trans and i’m probably lesbian :’)

  • Ok so I have a problem. my friends think my choice in shows are childish. They say I need to stop liking owl house and amphibia and start watch soap operas with them (which I don’t like really…..) I just want to meet someone who will like the same interests as me and heck, those shows are the only reason I have Disney they make me happy my comfort character is from one of those shows any advice?

    • Don’t listen to them! Just ignore them, and if they keep on doing it, tell someone.

      ALSO

      YOUR. FRIENDS. DON’T. CONTROL. WHAT. YOU. LIKE. OR. DISLIKE. Don’t forget that!

      also the owl house is literally one of the best shows on earth so they’re missing out big time 😛

    • Watch whatever you want! I watch some shows that probably aren’t targeted to (younger kids TV) 11 year olds, but I watch them anyway. Your friends shouldn’t judge you by what you watch <33

    • I’m sorry you have to go through that.
      I still watch a bunch of shows that other people might think childish, but I like them, and that is enough for me. It will be enough for you too. Don’t worry, I’m sure you will meet someone who gets you and likes the same things as you, but sometimes complete opposite people still become best friends. Don’t stop watching shows you like- You control you, you make your own choices. You are your own person, and your friends need to get that. Try telling them that you do not want to watch operas. If they are mad, it’s their own loss. Good luck! 😀 We believe in you!
      *hugs*

    • 🌧️🐍 𝕊𝕟𝕒𝕜𝕖; 𝕊𝕟𝕒𝕜𝕖 𝕥𝕙𝕒𝕥 𝕓𝕒𝕤𝕜𝕤 𝕦𝕟𝕕𝕖𝕣 𝕤𝕦𝕟 || 𝕊𝕟𝕒𝕜𝕖𝕡𝕒𝕨 🐍🌧️ says:

      Ok Im sorry they don’t like Owl house and Amphibia? Those are like the two world’s best shows ever. Anyways lots of hugs!!

    • As someone who is a longtime-fan of My Little Pony and who’s been recently getting into Steven Universe . . . there is nothing wrong with liking what you like! Your friends should not be holding this against you; they should be appreciating you and what you enjoy. These kinds of shows are produced, voice-acted, animated, and made by adults (more or less – sometimes kids may voice characters), adults who enjoy what they do and bring a healing, positive light into the world. Do what makes you happy! <3

      • “‘Cause when there’s love, you don’t let go; so as long as you’re with me you’re not alone, you’ll never be.” -Alan Walker, End of Time

      YOU are the only person who decided what you like. Don’t let anybody else control your interests and passions. If you find love in something, then you shouldn’t let anything hold you back from pursuing it. I, myself find comfort in watching shows, and even animating myself (side note: FlipAClip is e v i l). Countless creators like Walt Disney created beautiful cinematic works of art which will be cherished for centuries because of the very fact that they didn’t let their “friends” control their interests. If Walt Disney stopped liking children’s shows, then he would have never created the large, iconic company of Disney we know of today. Remember, your mind can only be influenced by others if you let it. YOU can choose to like and pursue the interests you have.

      Physical Advice:

      • Want to find a place where people share your interests? If you’re over the age of 13, try Reddit! There are specific communities you can join with like-minded people. I know for a fact that there’s one for the Owl House.
      • If you want to watch a less-boring Soap Opera with your friends, try Eureka! (Note, you should probably only watch it if you’re above 12.) It is a 1980’s science fiction show which spans 5 seasons. The first two or three episodes are a bit slow, but after those, each 40-minute episode has its own adventure! A sherif gets stranded in a supernatural small town of scientific masterminds, where secrets are kept and experiments create trouble. My favorite character is Marta the Drone, but you won’t get to her until Season 3.

      Good Luck! Remember, No one decided what you like, who you are, and what you feel about something except for YOU.

    • I’m almost 14 and I’m still watching child shows. Tell them to back off, your alud to watch what you want! Their not the boss of you. *hugs* <333 Don’t worry about it!

      ~Ember

    • *hugs* Just don’t listen to your friend about that. You can still be a good friend, but keep your own interests.

      • Those are some of the best shows out there!
        (if you think that this is embarrassing i will claw ur underbelly) My mom watched barney and disney and nickelodien until she was 13

    • Take a nap when you have time!! Maybe sleep in on the weekends, and go to bed early.

    • I’m sorry <3 Try setting your bedtime to a half-hour or an hour earlier and start from there. Unplugging things like your Wi-Fi from your phone/whatever you keep by your bed (if you do) will help a lot, trust me. It helped my mom incredibly! Don’t look at screens an hour before you go to bed (or if you do, put on an orange light (sometimes labeled “Night Light”); this will block out blue rays that keep you awake. Drinking plenty of water throughout the day is also a good idea. 🙂 Best of luck! *huggles*

    • It’s okay to not have the perfect advice, or to not know what to do. A hug and being there for someone always helps <333

    • Sometimes a hug is all people need. 🙂
      Or try to imagine what you would do in their shoes.
      Your apprentice believes in you! 😀
      *Hugs*
      And good luck!

    • What Vipey said, I feel bad about it too sometimes. Just knowing that you’re here for them can make someone’s day <3

  • 🦦 ♥ 𝙼𝚒𝚗𝚔𝚝𝚊𝚒𝚕 𝚒𝚜 𝚁𝚞𝚗𝚗𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚏𝚘𝚛 𝚂𝚆! ♥🦦 says:

    So, I recently came out to my dad as nonbinary. He was very accepting and cool about it, but I’m still struggling a little.
    I don’t know if this is unusual, but I’ve had a huge disconnect from my real name. My friends usually call me Kira, which is the name of a character of mine, and I like that a whole lot better than my actual name. Hearing somebody call me my birth name gives me this huge jolt of discomfort and it makes me feel awful because I got my name from a song that means a lot about the relationship between me and my dad. I feel like if I told him I’d like to go by Kira, he’d be incredibly hurt, and I don’t know if I could deal with that. I’ve got a good relationship with him again finally and I don’t wanna hurt that. Any advice?
    Also, side note, feel free to call me Kira as well as Mink or whatever other nicknames you like- Kira the Fox is my alias on practically everything 😛

    • I’M HORRIBLE WITH ADVICE LIKE THIS SO IGNORE ME

      Maybe just wait a bit before you mention the name to him? Like make sure he’s completely relaxed about you being nonbinary first.

      But maybe you could find a way to make it to where Kira could be important to the both of you? Like maybe the character’s father could be based off of him and they have a close relationship or something?

    • *hugs* Try just telling him you like the name Kira and see how he responds. You don’t even tell him you’d rather be called Kira, just say “I like the name Kira.” If he reacts well, you can tell him that’s what you want to be called.

  • 🌧️🐍 𝕊𝕟𝕒𝕜𝕖; 𝕊𝕟𝕒𝕜𝕖 𝕥𝕙𝕒𝕥 𝕓𝕒𝕤𝕜𝕤 𝕦𝕟𝕕𝕖𝕣 𝕤𝕦𝕟 || 𝕊𝕟𝕒𝕜𝕖𝕡𝕒𝕨 🐍🌧️ says:

    I need help… I think I might be Bi or Pan, but I don’t know how to come out to my parents about it.. I don’t know how they would react or what. My religion says only Female and Male should get married, and yes they are very supportive of LGBTQ+ community but I don’t know what to do… I don’t know if I will be accepted.

    • I feel like I have the same problem. I think I’m Bi but I don’t knwo how to tell anyone. But don’t worry Snakey, you will always have BlogClan and I’m sure your family will support you. It’s hard for people to change but sometimes they have to accpet what other people are. I promise you, everything we be ok, and whenever you tell your family, however long that might take, we, (The Member’s of BlogClan,) will be with you every step of the way!

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