The Hug Page

The Hug Page is here. Because, whoever we are, we still need hugs. This is still the best place to come if you’re feeling sad and need a hug from BlogClan…

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A note from BlogTeam: From now on, we will no longer moderate comments on the Hug Page that go into specific detail about events. Instead, commenters will post in a vague manner, such as “I’m having a bad day, I could really use some hugs”, and other BlogClanners are welcome to provide comfort and support. This change is not because of any specific event or person, but because it is extremely difficult to mitigate questionable comments and determine what parts of certain comments are suitable to moderate, as well as making sure that replies with advice are in no way harmful to the original poster or others. If you ever feel like you need advice about a serious situation, you are welcome to reach out to BlogTeam, because your health and safety is our top priority. However, no one on BlogTeam is or has ever been a mental health professional in any way, and all we can do is provide advice. We implore you to always reach out to a trusted adult or hotline (listed above) about a situation that worries you. You are still welcome to come to the Hug Page if you need any hugs or comfort from your BlogClan peers, but the cause of your distress can no longer be explained——no matter the situation. Thank you so much for understanding <3

72,465 comments

  • idk how to start this but

    my day was tiring, and sad

    so i was moving out from my apartment and when one of my close friends came, in defense of her name we’ll call her Cookiewing ( since i bake stuff with her sometimes ) Cookiewing’s dog, Lucy had to be put down due to cancer. i cried alot and even tho im not crying right now i still miss her, so im in need of some hugs 🙁

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    • Just try doing something that makes you happy right now to get your mind off of her dog right now 🙂 Crying can or can’t be the best thing. We love you, don’t worry 🙂🙂

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    • Oh no, I’m so sorry! That sounds very terrible and sad. Maybe you could draw or paint a picture of Cookiewing’s dog for her? I’m sure it will mean a lot to Cookiewing.
      Lucy had the best life possible and now she’s in a great place, and very happy.

      Warm bear hugs for you and Cookiewing.
      *Hugs*
      *Hugs*
      *Hugs*
      *Hugs*
      *Hugs*

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    • Oh no im so sorry! *hugs* I would feel the same way if my cat died *hugs* maybe you and Cookiewing could do lots of things together to get your mind off of it *hugs 3 more times*. I hope this helped

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  • Hi so this may sound ridiculous but me and my two bffs called eachother everyday but ever since they went on vacation and even after they came back and we called each other every once in a while and even more now that they started school i dont know why but I’ve felt like they dont wanna be my friends anymore and my other friend who I call a lot well it feels like she doesn’t want to either

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    • I hate to say this, and I know you’ll hate to hear it, but sometimes friends grow apart, and it’s okay to feel upset. I’m sure you’ll still be friends 🙂 My friend who moved away a few years ago came back and we still talk and hang out. Don’t worry, I’m sure they’ll come back and you’ll be friends again 🙂🙂

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    • I’m sorry you feel that way. You need to talk to someone about how you feel 🙂 Hopefully you can get some help on why you feel this way 🙂🙂 Love you Loneheart, I hope you feel better soon

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    • I’m sorry about that. You should talk to someone about it, I’m sure they’ll understand!
      *hugs*
      *hugs*
      *hugs*
      *hugs*
      (I really wanted to give you a cheer-up meme but I have no idea how to do it)

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  • This whole gender thing is real confusing, huh?

    Like, I’m pretty sure I’m cis and that I just like she/they pronouns, but also am I cis??? I definitely like being a girl and feminine and stuff, but the thought of being nonbinary also… makes me feel nice??? But I’m also worried that I’m just cis and trying to be “cool” (not that enbies aren’t the coolest, but you get what I mean 😛)

    HElp?????

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    • Listen, there is no one holding you back from what or who you want to be, and even if you cant choose what you want to be, then first of all, I dont think you have to categorize what you are if you dont want to, and second of all, I also dont think it matters, because either way you’ll still stay your awesome and beautiful self you are, and thats really what matters.
      Just remember, people love you for who you are, not what you are, and we do too.
      *sends many virtual hugs*

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    • When I was in middle school, I thought I was gay. And sometimes you may or may not be, and sometimes you’re just curious. You most possibly are cis, but you’re going through a lot of changes in your life. Hope this helps 🙂🙂

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    • I’d suggest talking to a trusted adult, writing down your feelings in a diary/journal, or just sit back and enjoy the ride! There is plenty of time to figure out who you are.
      Everything will be okay, and we’ll love you no matter what. You are awesome.
      *Hugs*
      *Hugs*
      *Hugs*

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    • Maybe you can make your pronouns just be nobinary and your gender be female? I have no idea how this whole thing work though. 😛

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    • identifying as female and using she/they pronouns completely works!! or i think demigirl or deminonbinary or girlflux are also gender identities that kinda sound like what you’re saying? (so maybe check them out or maybe you’ve already heard of them!! <3)
      i think it's fine to try out non-binary labels and they/them (and other) pronouns even if you're worried that you're only doing it to be "cool", because if you try them out you might find that you do identify with the gender/pronouns or you'll find out you don't and that's fine too.
      + since you seem really worried/anxious abt this, i doubt that if while trying out nonbinary labels you found out you didn't identify with them, you would keep using the pronouns or label just to be "cool"
      *hugs*

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    • School is an emotional rollercoaster. People like to find new ways to hurt others. Just don’t let them get to you 🙂

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    • Ugh, I know what that feels like. 😛 Try takings lots of deep breaths. You’ve got this! You can do this! Because you are amazing, smart, brilliant, brave, strong and beautiful. You can do this! And Winter break will be here before you know it!
      Everything will be okay, Spot!
      *Hugs*
      *Hugs*
      *Hugs*
      And lots of good luck! <3

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  • Ok this seems really stupid but I’m reading rise of scourge(the manga) and I’m reading the beginning….and I started sobbing. I’m too sensitive about animals that don’t even exist.
    Thanks for listening to me and my stupid problem

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    • Aw, floofmist, it’s ok. I get sensitive about that kind of stuff too. Don’t worry 🙂🙂🙂🙂

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    • Its not stupid to care about animals! It just shows the kind heart you have. Whenever I read a sad part in Warriors, I bawl like a baby.

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    • It’s not stupid. It just shows how loving and kind and wonderful you are.

      I probably cried at every single Warriors death. I think everyone cried at least once over a fictional character. Maybe after reading something sad you could do something that makes you happy so you can feel better again?
      *Hugs*
      *Hugs*
      *Hugs*

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    • *Hugs*
      It’s not stupid to be sensitive! In fact, your sensitivity can be a good thing since it’s part of how kind and compassionate you are, which is wonderful! <3
      Something that helps me when I feel sad for fictional characters is to imagine myself in the scene, helping and protecting them.

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    • It’s not stupid at all, Floof! I personally cried when Hollyleaf died, so it’s a very normal thing. It just proves that you’re empathetic and kind, and also that the writer of the book is a very good writer :p
      Sending lots of hugs your way! <3

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  • Ok so this is gonna sound stupid but listen, my two best friends let’s just call them Foxstream and Lynxstorm i called them everyday but ever since they went on vacation and after they came back I’ve felt like they don’t want to be my friends anymore

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    • It’s ok to be concerned about it. Just tell them how you’re feeling-make sure that the way you’re saying it doesn’t sound like you are blameing them-and hang out with them a bit more. Lynxstorm and Foxstream will understand how you’re feeling, even if they don’t know why you are feeling it.

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    • It doesn’t sound stupid.
      I suggest talking to a parent, because they have probably been through a lot of friend- problems and know how to deal with them. Or you could try talking to your friends about it!
      Don’t worry! Everything will be okay! <3
      *Hugs*

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  • Sometimes I really, really hate women’s clothing 😛

    Tl;dr: fashion does not support flame’s career as a modest jellyfish

    Things that irritate me:
    – not enough loose clothes that still fits. 9/10 days, I really don’t want my clothes to draw attention to anything. I LIKE BEING A SHAPELESS JELLYFISH.
    -I like my clothes to be covering. my definition of too short is probably a lot different than a lot of people’s, since my chest/back/shoulders are kind of a mess. (ty dermatillomania, I hate you so much <33) I also just like my shorts to go down to my knees.
    -I want pockets that are real and actually big enough to put things in. Like a whole hand :0 imagine that.
    -too many thin & see through fabrics

    Of course, it's not impossible to find things that avoid all of these things, but it is tricky. Layers are an option, but I get warm really easy and often don't find wearing a t-shirt under something comfortable enough for casual wear. With T-shirts, I can just go unisex or mens and pretty easily find something I like, but with lots of other stuff it simply doesn't fit. I'd also like to give a shout out to societal norms for making me feel like a weirdo for wanting clothing that makes me comfortable with myself.

    and this is the story of why flame only owns t-shirts 😐

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    • I can relate so much!!
      I basically only own jeans (ones that reach my ankle and ones that teach my knees) and t-shirts. Plus some long sleeved cloths for Winter.
      I also struggle a lot with shoes. I can never find one that’s comfortable but a running shoe.
      But don’t give up on your quest to find good clothing! I know you will find something that suits you one day 🙂
      *Hugs*
      *Hugs*
      *Hugs*
      And lots of good luck!

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    • Ahh same! I just hate it when people think the only clothes that look good are see-through or really short!

      Tbh I think just be yourself and don’t worry about what others think. As long as you’re comfortable 😀

      *hugs* <33

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  • Hey my class came out. AND I am not happy.
    I am with classmates that don’t know me very well, and none class I was with my best friend. I am not used to socializing, so I can’t make new friends that fast. I need some hugs. :(((((

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    • Look, even if you’re not great at socializing, I’m not either, and I’m sure many other people in your class feel the same. Once people can see who you really are, I’m sure they’ll want to be your friends. And even if you don’t find people who love you there, you’ll find many who do here.
      *sends many virtual hugs*

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    • Everything will be okay Fawnpaw. You are awesome and I’m sure you’ll make friends with some of the kids in your class. Try to introduce yourself by asking them about their favorite food, color, book, etc.
      Everything will be okay! 🙂
      *Hugs*
      And lots of good luck! ^^

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    • Aw, I’m so sorry, Fawny! (wait… can i call you that?)
      I’m not great at socializing either. Almost all the friends I’ve had approached me first, or our parents knew each other, or they were friends of my friends. Anyway, I know how it feels to get a class in which all of your friends are in a different class. But I’m sure that at least some people in your new class feel exactly the same as you do. You will find a person who love you for who you are, and then it’ll be so much easier! I wish you the best of luck in your new class!
      *hugs* *hugs* *hugs* *hugs*

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  • I need hugs, it’s really private and I trust you all lots, but… you know? Just- I cried a lot last night… it’s private. Thank you all, love you all!

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    • Your problems aren’t stupid *Hugs* You aren’t stupid *Hugs* You are strong and brave and smart and awesome and you’ll get through this *Hugs* You aren’t alone *Hugs* You have us, your family, your friends *Hugs* Talk to a parent about your feelings *Hugs* Try writing a diary *Hugs* We love you *Hugs* Everything will be okay *Hugs*
      *Warm comforting bear hug*
      *Floofy cat hug*
      And an extra hug:
      https://images.app.goo.gl/8gwBsoXbsbb4pZ757

      Do you see my profile picture? How I’m holding out my paw? Can you say cheese and give me a high-five? Because you can do this and you’re gonna get through this! Go Silverstorm! <3

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    • Hey Silverstorm, (am I right in thinking that your problem is that you feel like your two best friends don’t want to be your two best friends anymore?),
      First of all, your problem is absolutely not stupid. I’ve felt the same way myself, and it’s terrible to feel rejected by your friends. So here are your hugs: *hugs* *hugs* *hugs* *hugs* *hugs* *hugs* *hugs* *hugs* *hugs* *hugs*
      Here’s some advice: If they’ve actually done something, e.g. said they don’t want to be your friend, purposefully ignored you, etc, then they aren’t nice friends! If they’ve actually done something hurtful or mean, you should probably find friends that will be there for you. But if they haven’t done anything, I advise you to wait a bit. They might just be tired from vacation, maybe not used to the new lifestyle, etc. Whatever you do, you are and always will be an amazing person, and everything will be okay! <3

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