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I am so mad right now. One of my best friends started being a big jerk to me and my friend group before my school break started and that’s not even what I’m really mad about. She knows that I’m transferring schools so I guess that’s why, but she messaged me on roblox that if I transfer schools then she would unfriend me forever. She also made a few of her friends turn against me as well which makes me so so angry. I don’t think my anger can be ranked as mad anymore, I don’t even really want to transfer schools and now she’s mad about it?
Hugs/advice please?
*hugs* I would suggest maybe talking to her or a trusted adult about the situation
*hugs* if she is your friend just because you are in the same class, then she is a fake friend. I know it is hard to unfriend her, but if she keeps being mean to you, then it means you are in an unheathly friendship. You choose, but this is how I think it.
If she is a jerk to you, she doesn’t deserve to be friends with you. Maybe talk to her a bit and try to figure out why she’s doing it?
*hugs* ok now I’m really mad at your friend
*Hugs* I’m sorry. Transferring schools is hard (I know because did it last year) and having a friend like that only makes it harder. Block her on Roblox or whatever site/chat she’s talking to you like that on.
Also, I know you don’t want to transfer schools, but it’s not all that bad. You can make knew friends – better ones that treat you better than your old one. Stay intact with the friends that aren’t turning against you or being terrible jerks just so that you can keep being friends with them even though you aren’t seeing them as much. Transferring schools can be hard, but by the sound of your old friends doing this to you, it’s probably time you make some new ones.
*hugs* Just don’t talk to her anymore. If she is mean, do not feel pressure to keep being friends.
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*huggs* i’d tell an adult, or just ignore her as much as you can. *cookies* 🍪
*hugs* I’m sorry that’s happening blogsis! You’ll make new friends! Love you(platonically)! 💖💖
*hugs* I’m sorry. I’ve been in bad fights with my friend over unreasonable stuff, and I get it. My advice is try to talk to her, but if that doesn’t work, let her unfriend you. While it may seem hard (it was for me) to let her go, if your friend is being a jerk to you, you shouldn’t be her friend. You could also tell a trusted adult, that might make you feel better. *more hugs and cookies 🍪🍪🍪*
*Hugs* Try to understand how she feels, an then tell her how you feel, an then try to work it out.
Why does it always have to be Roblox? /lh
Anyways *Hugs* that sounds like a really bad friend you should definitely unfriend her and go find better people to be around. *Hugs more* <33
I’m a demi-girl but my parents don’t support pride and I have to be a female, which makes me sad I can’t be me.
Anyone reading this: The world is a better place with you in it
*hugs and gives delicious waffles* I’m sorry that’s happening to you. If there anyone you know that you can talk to like the school counselor or a close friend of yours?
I do have my friend, but she says that I’m “Too young to be changing my gender” when it wouldn’t be changing my gender. And I only have a few other friends who don’t really care about LGTBQ+ , so they can’t really help.
It’s also pretty hard because I’ve recently moved from America to Australia, and I know that there are so many more LGTBQ+ people in America then here.
Hey I live in Australia and trust me, the people here are also very supportive <3
Hugs and cookies! What your experiencing must be hard ♥️
🙂 Go the down-unders!
🙂 🙂 🙂
*huggos* that sucks soooo hard <3
*hugs* I kinda get what you mean, I’m a lesbian girl, and for me it’s mostly some of my friends who wouldn’t support me. I know how you feel, and if you ever need to vent to someone about it, remember I’m here for you! <3
🙂 I’m glad that you’re like me!! That makes me really happy
🙂 I’m glad that you’re like me! I don’t know many people like that so it’s a difference.
Oh and everyone else: Thanks for the support!!
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*hugs* That’s really hard. Maybe talk to a school councillor/ trusted teacher about it?
*hugggs*
Repasta cuz page flippo
Misty here to vent about life-
So, I just started middle school, and it’s been very stressful.
All my life, I’ve pretty much been a straight-a student, and I, and the people who know me hold me up to that expectation. But this year, well, I haven’t done so great. The stuff is just, hard and confusing, and not as easy. I have so much HW every day, which takes me a long time, which it never used to, and there’s just so much, of like everything. I’m so busy with school, debate club, swim, HW, and everything that it’s overwhelming. I try to keep up with everything, but I’m not doing as good. My test grades are fine, but not great. And I want them to be great like last year. I, and everyone else expect me to be amazing like every other year, but I’m not. I don’t know why. I’m stressed about my grades, about how busy I am, and I feel stupid. If the other kids can get better grades, why can’t I? I just feel like i’m bad at everything.
Hugs/Cookies (or advice on how to manage so much work/anxiety) would be nice rn
*hugsss* yo you just described my own experience of this term! Last term my grades were terrific and now I’m feeling like WAAAAAH I’M GONNA DIEEEEEE [I still got that darn Australia essay to write 🙄] and I feel like I’m falling behind in a lot of stuff. Okay now I made this all about me lol I’m supposed to be sending you hugs mah friend <3
*hugs* (replied to you on the last page 😄)
Ty!
*hugs*🍪🍪🍪 I replied to you on the last page!
Ty! (I read ur previous comment) *noms cookies cutely*
I’ve just started as well and it’s strange being in control of yourself with no reminders, I think :)) but having friends to help each other helps a lot, because what I do is we sit in the library and work together at break times, which saves a lot of time for studying
You don’t have to study too hard, because it might give you too much pressure … if there are things you need to memorize, my suggestion is read them 2-3 times before you sleep and after you wake up
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*hugs* I also feel it’s harder to get good grades this year in 7th grade! *hugs*
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I felt this pressure a lot in middle school as well, and I don’t have really have too much advice, but i hope it gets better!!
*hugs* I had similar issues going from elementary to middle school (maybe not in full force due to the pandemic, but it was still a hard transition). Middle school is definitely harder than elementary school because your teachers give you more autonomy, and it feels like you have to learn a bunch of new skills all of a sudden. It takes a while to make that transition, and it’s natural to feel overwhelmed. If it’s too much, perhaps you could talk to a trusted adult about it or limit yourself to one or two extracurriculars. Mistakes are the key to learning and you don’t have to be perfect (I have to tell myself this one frequently :P). Just know that you’re not alone <3
(TW: DEATH, POSSIBLY OFFENSIVE)
This is not meant to attack anyone btw
It always makes me so upset to see those Mapleshade defense articles that attack Ravenwing, Frecklewish, and Appledusk and say stuff “they deserved to die” and “Mapleshade was completely in the right to kill them”
One, that’s NOT true, nothing justifies murder and those three cats are all pretty innocent anyway, and two…it brings up something personal I’d rather forget. Rather not have stab at my heart anymore.
In second grade, I had this classmate, I’ll call him Willowkit. Willowkit was pretty mean, he disrupted literally every class and gave me and my best friend Nightkit, now Nightpaw, a hard time, calling us idiots, stupid, and losers, and not letting us play with him. We were seven, so we took it badly, and we hated him. Soon after the pandemic started, and we were forced to switch to virtual school, Willowkit got really sick. He had both pneumonia and covid-19, and we were all really worried and scared for him. After maybe a month or so, Willowkit died. I was so, so, so sad, and cried for hours. But I would have been much sadder if he hadn’t been so mean, and I do remember thinking “I’m glad it isn’t one of my best friends, if it has to be someone”. I feel really, really guilty about that, even now. Because, as annoying and frustrating he was sometimes, he didn’t deserve to die. NOBODY does. Everyone on the planet deserves to live, even the most awful of us. We all deserve to be given a chance. Willowkit deserved that chance just as much as any of my other classmates. And I NEVER, EVER, EVER, EVER, EVER even thought once about even hurting Willowkit. He was still my classmate. I still cared about him. Even if he hadn’t been, even if he was the worst kid on the planet, I still would never want him to die. Because everyone deserves to live.
When these Mapleshade articles are published and people say that cats like Ravenwing, Frecklewish, and Appledusk “deserve to be killed”, it always makes me think of Willowkit. Because just like Ravenwing, Frecklewish, and Appledusk, he didn’t always do the right thing. He made mistakes. But he was not a bad person. He didn’t mean to hurt us. Neither were they. They did not mean to hurt Mapleshade or her kits. Ravenwing could have been an amazing, talented medicine cat for many moons. Frecklewish could have served her Clan well. Appledusk could have lived a long, happy, peaceful life with Reedshine and his kits. And I think I’ll always grieve for Willowkit and the life he could’ve had, the person he could have grown up to be. And right now, after writing this, I’m grieving a lot.
Idk am I being too emotional and sensitive
It’s literally just a fantasy book series it has nothing to do with Willowkit
I feel like I’m being an idiot
I’ve moved on from all this, why am I still affected
*Hugs* I’m really sorry about that Hollypaw.
You are very much correct, and the cats Mapleshade did kill did not deserve it. I’m really sorry that speaking about death in Warriors upsets you like that.
I have never experienced a human death that I was close to in my life, so I can’t (and some others can’t) truly understand how it makes others feel. That’s really sad, and to think that covid could do that to people is just awful.
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Holly, I don’t think you’re either too emotional/sensitive or an idiot. You’re having an emotional reaction based on your experience of life. You understand, as not everyone here does, how serious a matter death is. And it shows how compelling Warriors stories are for some of us that Mapleshade’s actions or other readers’ opinions about them trigger this reaction. I support you fully.
I would encourage you to repost this comment or one like it on the Elders’ Den where a lot of discussion of Mappleshade’s story take place.
*hugs* you are definitely not being an idiot, you’re completely right. nobody deserves to die, and although things that happen in warriors are fictional, that doesn’t mean people should say “he was right to die” or “she should’ve died” or whatever. I’m really sorry about what happened to Willowkit, and I genuinely appreciate that you understand how terrible someone’s death is, when so many people don’t anymore. *huggggs*
*hugs* Firstly, I also feel bad when people say that. For some reason it makes me uncomfortable, maybe indeed cuz I always think people deserve to live.
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Holz, that sounds like such a sad experience you had to have. Mostly what I think of is what an amazing, amazing person you are. Some people would rather have everyone they don’t care about die, but your kindness is too strong to feel anything close to that. I’ve had a similar experience, a person whom I was close to passed away during the beginning of the pandemic. It wasn’t covid, but still really shaking and sad. She was the type of person where if you met her once, she would remain in your memories forever, because that’s the type of person she was.
Also, your not being to emotional. Books are written to make you feel certain things, and sometimes they stir up sad emotions.
May your kindness last forever Holz, you’re an amazing person.
*HUGSSSS* I’m really sorry about Willowkit… he didn’t deserve what he got. And I get that those articles affect you. I don’t like them either. I know how it feels to lose someone, even if they’re not close <3
*HUGGGSSSSSSSS* Holzi, that’s horrible! You’re not being an idiot or too emotional or sensitive at all! I totally understand, although I haven’t had any of my peers die, I still think about that whenever I read the Mapleshade defense articles, and it’s why I hate Mapleshade so much. *Hugs more*
Omg Hollz you are not being too sensitive. What you went through with Willowkit must’ve been so hard, and all these articles must hit way too close to home. If you ever need someone to vent to, I’m here. ♥️ And you’re totally right, no matter what people did in the past, they deserve a second chance.
I’m so sorry, Holz. What happened to Willowkit is devastating, and that makes me so sad. All the huggos in the world, appendix:((
You are CERTAINLY not being too emotional.
I just had a fight with my mom and I feel so terrible now😭
*hugs* Yeah, my mom can be pretty irritating too! Sorry about that Strawberry! *HUGS* 🍦🍦🍦🍦🍦🍦🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪
Tysm! It’s already much better now, turns out we were both just really stressed and took it out on each other🥲
*HUGS* There are few things I can relate to this strongly my friend! Me and my mom aren’t really friends either… hope it gets better soon :’3
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Sorry about the fight you guys had, Fallow <33 Glad everything is better (I read your reply to Dreamsy)
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I’m sorry, Fallows, I can relate:/ The best thing you can do is be the metaphorical bigger person and apologize for what you may have done to her, and she may follow shortly. Really shows maturity:D Giving you all of the cookies in the world!!
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Hey guys… I’m not going to get into why, but I need some hugs. Today was one of the worst days I’ve had all year.
hugs for you hazy <333 whatever happened, take the time to grieve and process it, and keep believing that things will get better 💗
Thanks Piney <333 that helps.
*HUGGOS* I hope it gets better Hazy!! <3
Me too! <33
*hugs* Hope tomorrow will go better
Me too <3 thank you
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Thx <3
I know the feeling…having worst days of your life? They really are the worst, aren’t they? I’ve no idea what’s happened but whatever is, wether it is losing a loved one (or pet), some disease or something that is completely different, I wish the best for you and hope you take some time to heal <33
Thank you Spiri!
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*hugs* Hope things get better!
*hugs* hope you feel better Hazy <3
so um- i really need hugs right now :’)
this morning, i found out that my irl crush started dating someone. And he likes her back. :/ idrk how to feel about this. It is now too late to tell him that i like him because i don’t wanna ruin their relationship… and so yeah :’) so I’m trying my best to move on from this.
And secondly, school started for me like a few days ago and i hate school so much TvT LIKE WHY DO I HAVE A FREAKING EXAM ON THE SECOND DAY???? LIKE I DON’T HAVE ENOUGH TIME TO REMEMBER EVERYTHING I LEARNED IN THE PAST SCHOOL YEAR IN JUST A DAY-
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*HUGGOS* I’m so sorry about your crush, that must suck sooo hard
And what you have an EXAM? fr that’s sooo unfair
yeahh :’)
*hugs* Crushes are hard🙁
Argh that must be terrible! *HUGS*
I find having crushes can be one of those most difficult things a teenager or tween could through it (In my own opinion). The nerve of wanting to tell them (then the anxiety when you do), wondering if they like someone else or if someone else likes them, wondering if they like you, and then wanting to be around them all the time. But when you find out your crush DOES like someone else? It can be so painful. I know a lot of people don’t, but I’m sure you’ll move on quickly.
And school can be such a little bugger. I feel you, an exam the next day? What is up with that? Good luck Silviya <3
*hugs* Having an exam so early sucks. I don’t have any advice about the crush thing but I hope it gets better 🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪
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I’m really sorry about your crush, but I will agree that it’s best not to get in their way now. Try to let it go, and don’t try to think much about it. Just keep thinking positive, because there will be another guy out there for you Silvie!
That sounds hard! Is the exam is just to see what you know alertly and isn’t an actual grade? I had a couple like that this year. *Hugs*
I have tryouts for the school play tomorrow and I’m really nervous. Normally I wouldn’t be but I might be coming down with some sickness and my parents are really thinking I’m getting sick. I just hope I don’t wreck my voice so I’m able to go to the audition ://
*hugs* you got this!! <3
*hugs* If your voice does start to sound different due to you being sick, maybe you could tell them that, and give them a previous recording of your voice? 🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪
*hugs* Break a leg!
Oh jeez I forgot what that means for a sec-
*hugs* good luck Breezo!
*hugs* <3
so there’s this boy that i’ve had a crush on ever since I was in second grade, but after we graduated from elementary school, I only got to see him once in a few months or longer. I still really really like him, and although I know he doesn’t feel the same way about me, I still can’t leave it. he’s going to be 16 soon, and it wouldn’t be weird if he started dating someone anytime now. I keep telling myself, “aren’t you going to regret it later, when it’s too late?” but I just keep cowering away, because I’m too shy irl and i’m scared of our relationship changing if I do confess. only being able to see him once in a few months doesn’t help either. what should I do? hugs/advice are greatly appreciated :’3
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I feel you Ferny, crushes suck. I think you should tell him how you feel, though, because I missed that chance with my crush and I still wish I’d told him, it would’ve changed our friendship then, but it wouldn’t be putting stress on our friendship now. I hope everything turns out okay <333
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ty Seedo <3
*hugs* I understand you <33
if you feel comfortable with confessing, I would tell a friend that you trust first. they could definitely help you, and as long as you like him and he likes you back, I wouldn't be concerned about seeing him every once in a few months. It's the love that matters 🙂
ultimately, it's up to you!
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ty Honi <3
*hugs* Maybe try to give subtle hints? That’s what I hope and kinda think my crush does😛 For example, during the school play, we were together with a bunch of actors, and she said: ‘I’m so happy to have met all of you’ and then she looked at me!
thanks Fallowsy, maybe I’ll try that! <3
*Hugs* I don’t have any advice, I’m not good on this topic.
that’s ok, thanks Icy <33
*hugs* I want to say that you should tell him, and hopefully he’ll be fine with it and you can still be friends even if he doesn’t feel the same. But on the other hand… I know I would never have that courage :’3
Good luck Ferny <33
tysm Jacki, this means a lot <3
I’m really sorry you feel that way, Ferny. Just remember, if you want to tell him how you feel, BlogClan will be right there to support you! And even if you don’t and he finds someone else, there’ll be someone else out there for you, Ferny.
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tysm Mapey, I really appreciate it <33
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in situations like these I tell myself and my friends that it’s really just mind over matter! I remember that I was getting all nervous asking this girl out, and then I just realized that really the worst thing she can say is no, and if they did I would ask if we could still be friends. I think the best thing to do is ask him if he liked you back, and if not, if you two could still be friends! I hope it works out for you ferny :))
thank you Cloudy, that means a lot <3
(Below applies to my sister, Rainpaw/song, I’m pretty sure she is Dreampaw/rose now.)
UGGHHH!!! HELP!!
I…have…a…CRUSH!!
And I’m pretty sure he likes me too. But I don’t know how to tell him how I feel. I’m just gonna call him Ravenpaw. I loved him since 5th grade, and he made me laugh a lot.
Yay! That’s nice that he makes you feel that way. Lots of hugs!
Oof I used to have a crush too but he was annoying haha
you could just drop hints (or maybe tell a close friend to help you tell him? Not sure)
I hate to post twice in one page, but i really need hugs rn.
My best friend…….. (i don’t even wanna say this) died. I don’t even know what to say. She’s been sick for a bit, with pneumonia, but i never knew how bad it was. I can’t believe she’s…..dead. I’m just….sad. I’m still sad. I cried for almost a full hour yesterday, and i still feel like crying. She was the best friend I had. I’ve known her since 1st grade. Now she’s gone. Gone forever. Idk what to say honestly.
Hugs would be nice
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I’m so sorry, Misty. I know what you’re going through is hard, and that no one can make you feel better, but do know that we know how you feel, and will be right there when you need us.
*more hugs*
*hugggs* i’m so sorry for you and everyone who was close to her. it’s always a tragedy when someone passes away, but i’m sure she was happy you cared for her so much <3
Huuuuuuuggggggg times eight billion. I am sooooooooo sorry. I couldn’t ever imagine what I would do if my friend died. I hope you feel better <3333333333333333🍪🍪🍪
*Gives you a million hugs* I can’t even imagine how I would feel if someone that close to me died. I’m so sorry, and I hope you’ll be able to feel better with time. 💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗
*hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs*
*HUGGSSSS* I don’t even know what to say… I’m really, really sorry Misto <3 Sickness is the worst. (Yes now I found something to blame cuz that's how I work). <333333
*hugs hugs HUGS* I’m so sorry Misty! That must be really hard to go through. I would be very lost without mine. My tip: EAT CHOCOLATE!! 🍫🍫🍫🍫🍫🍫🍩🍩🍩🍪🍪🍪🍩🍩🍩🍩 Also we have the same Ivypool quote in our names!
*HUGSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS* *Gives all the cookies and hugs in the universe!!!!!* I’m so sorry! That must be so hard.
*hugsssssss* I’m so, so, so, so sorry Misty. I know how you feel, and it’s so, so hard and awful and nobody should have to be put through this. If you ever need to vent, I’m here <333
Oh no… I’m so sorry. *Hugs* and more *Hugs*
*hugsssssssssssss* im so sorry :(((((
I am so, so sorry Misty, It must be so hard to lose someone so close to you. I know that no one can make the pain go away, but if you ever need to talk, blogclan is here for you
*Hugs* *hugs* *hugs*
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I’m very sorry for your loss, Mist. So young to die. Cry as much as you need to. Everyone has the right to deal with grief in their own way and in their own time. Someday, I hope you’ll be able to look back on all the good times you had together, but now is the time to grieve for your lost friend.
*hugs* I’m so, so sorry, Misty <33
Oh my god Mizzie I’m so freaking sorry. I have no idea what I would do if any of my friends died. You must be feeling so sad, lots of hugs for you and everyone involved ♥️♥️♥️♥️ that must be so hard, losing someone you love.
*Hugs*
I’ve dealt with similar experiences before. When I was little, two of my really good older friends died in a car crash. I was too young to understand at the time. Another time was with my friend Tiger’s Heart that Shines Forever(Heartshine). I wasn’t the best friends with her, but she was the sweetest person ever, I know people that only met her once but still remember her. She was still a kit when she passed away. I understand how you feel because she was the best friend of my now best friends.
As much as I wish I say this, you won’t feel better in a night. Not in a month, maybe not a year. I didn’t know who your friend was, but I’m already trying not to cry for you. This is such a horrible, sad experience, that I wish it had never happened to you.
One thing I think would be a good idea would be to spend time with her parents. If you’re feeling this upset, imagine how crushed they are. Spending time with the person who has been such a good friend(you) might help them as well.
I’m so, so sorry. This is something you have to work through, but it will take time. Many hugs <33
*HUGSHUGSHUGS* That is so terrible, Misty. I cannot image losing my best friend. Grieve for as long as you need to, I hope this gets better!
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*hugs* I can’t imagine losing my best friend, and this must be really hard for you. I don’t think any of us can make you feel better but Blogclan are here to support you. I’m so sorry that this has happened. I suggest seeking support from your family 🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪
*HUUUUGGGGGGGGSSSSSSSSSSS* I am SO sorry for your loss. 🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪
(Hugs to anyone who needs them💗)
Guys I really need hugs and advice right now. So basically, I just feel really lonely and invisible. My class at school is only five people including me, and in 6th and 7th grade we were really close (I’m in 8th now) We’re still close now, but it seems almost like they forget I’m there most of the time. Like I just kind of watch them and laugh at their jokes but they don’t really directly talk to me, I’m just kind of there. Now normally I’d be fine with this because my best friend (who is one of them, we’ll call her Rosepaw) would include me in conversations or we’d just talk together or something. But now she and one of my other friends (lets call her Icepaw) are secretly together. Rosepaw is just constantly with Icepaw and I barely even talk to her anymore. To make it even harder I have a huge crush on Rosepaw, and I told her a few months ago but she said she didn’t like me that way and I said I was fine with just being friends. She said it didn’t bother her, but I’m really worried that we’re drifting apart and that maybe it’s my fault for telling her I like her and she feels uncomfortable around me. Also, here on BlogClan I don’t have any friends and I feel like my comments kinda just get ignored. Idk, hugs and cookies or advice would be very appreciated right now.
*hugs* Sorry about that!
*hugs* That is honestly just like me in my old friend group from last year. When I sit with them now, I feel so ignored, so unneeded… I prefer being with my new friends from this year’s class, maybe you can make some friends at your hobbies or smth?
I have no suggestions about how to deal with Rosepaw, but I promise not to ignore your comments when I see them.
*hugs* Friends are hard. My advice would be to seek new friends that enjoy the same hobbies/activities as you if you can 🍫🍫🍫🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪
mods if you see the previous comment from me on this page, please delete it. It was resolved ^^
I just wanted everyone to know that you are amazing, and that nothing can change that. <333