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Alright I came here to vent (Though I’m not sad or mad, just kind of confused)
So maybe a week after school started, I met this person and we eventually found out that we liked each other. We sort-of dated (idk middle school is confusing even though I’m used to it) but we don’t like each other anymore, and we’re good now. Recently, they’ve been hanging out with this other girl, which is fine, they get to have a life of their own, and them and the other girl are kind-of dating as well (middle school is so confusing lol).
But today at our after-school program, she kind of provoked me for no reason. I let it slide, but she seems jealous of me and I don’t want her to be, because I want her to know that I’m not a threat to her or anything she thinks I am.
Advice/hugs?
*hugs* Try to talk to her about it!
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*hugs* I don’t have any advice, sorry 🙁
*hugs* maybe try explaining that to her <3
*Hugs* Sorry Raven :/
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Repasta bc the page flipped and I need hugs
(Hugs to anyone who needs them💗)
Guys I really need hugs and advice right now. So basically, I just feel really lonely and invisible. My class at school is only five people including me, and in 6th and 7th grade we were really close (I’m in 8th now) We’re still close now, but it seems almost like they forget I’m there most of the time. Like I just kind of watch them and laugh at their jokes but they don’t really directly talk to me, I’m just kind of there. Now normally I’d be fine with this because my best friend (who is one of them, we’ll call her Rosepaw) would include me in conversations or we’d just talk together or something. But now she and one of my other friends (lets call her Icepaw) are secretly together. Rosepaw is just constantly with Icepaw and I barely even talk to her anymore. To make it even harder I have a huge crush on Rosepaw, and I told her a few months ago but she said she didn’t like me that way and I said I was fine with just being friends. She said it didn’t bother her, but I’m really worried that we’re drifting apart and that maybe it’s my fault for telling her I like her and she feels uncomfortable around me. Also, here on BlogClan I don’t have any friends and I feel like my comments kinda just get ignored. Idk, hugs and cookies or advice would be very appreciated right now.
*huggos* I’m sure that must hurt, but i would love to get to know you better! :)))
*HUGS* that sounds really hard <3 I'd love to be friends, and if I recall correctly I said that the first time we met on the introductions page <3 I love to read your comments! Maybe you could come to my chatting page and we could get to know each other better? :3
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*huggssss* I get what you mean Pebblepaw! People don’t talk to me a whole lot at school, so I get what it feels like to feel a bit lonely sometimes. 🙁
I hope that you will figure things out with your friends! 🙂
I thought I had responded before, but I don’t see it, so I’ll try again: I don’t have any advice about Rosepaw, but I promise not to ignore your comments when I see them.
*hugggs* I understand how you feel, i’m also usually kind of left out and just kinda laughing at others’ jokes but not really able to take part in the conversation. as for the blog, for what it’s worth, you seem like an amazing person and I would really love to get to know you! you can come to my chat page by clicking my name if you would like, I’d love to chat with you <3
You’re not invisible to me, Pebble! Personally, I love your fanfic (Flight of Shadows) and am keeping a close tab on it.
I can relate to the lonely feeling. Here’s a realistic quote about loneliness by Anne Lamott: “Loneliness is not the same thing as alone. You can feel lonely even when you’re surrounded by people.”
Remember Pebble, we’re here for you <33
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Awwwww, thank you so much. It really helped to hear that 💗
*hugssssssssss* here are cookies, 🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪and some fries if you don’t like cookies🍟🍟🍟🍟🍟🍟🍟🍟🍟🍟🍟🍟🍟🍟🍟🍟🍟🍟
*hugs* If you ever need to talk feel free to click my name and talk to me on my secret page, I’d love to get to know you better 😄
*hugs and cookies*
No advice, sorry, but I can be your friend
I’ve been feeling kinda lonely irl and I could use some hugs.
Sometimes I just feel like a massive outcast in school— I have friends, but a lot of them aren’t in any of my classes this year, and the ones who do don’t really talk to me. I just feel like I don’t relate to anyone at school and I don’t have many close friends there and it feels like everyone else has this tight knit massive friend group and I just… don’t. I like my own company but sometimes it feels rather lonely. Idk, I just want some hugs. ://
*hugs* I totally get the feeling lonely irl, believe me. Maybe try to find another outcast at school, and maybe you could try become friends? Idk, I’m not good at this kind of thing so don’t take my advice too seriously lol. Anyways, here are some cookies! 🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪
*hugs*
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aw, i know how you feel, and i know how the friend groups can make you feel like an outcast. i don’t have advice for you, but i hope your situation gets better!
*hugs again
*hugs* I’m sorry your feeling lonely Breezo! 🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪
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So, guys, i dont’t really need hugs, but i kinda want some, idrk, but i do need avice, so this is basicly the story.
About a 30 min bike away from our house, theres this place where you can pick your own fruit and stuff, and its really fun. They also have chickens. there are two types, the laying chickens, and the meat ones. I was looking for the meat ones, and i found them. I approached and they all ran away. I squatted down to wait for one to come up, and eventually one did. She layed down in between my feet. I started to pet her, and she was just so calm. I sat down on the ground, and she scooched even closer to me. I picked her up and put her on my lap. She peeped a bit (Yes, PEEPED, as in the sound that CHICKS make) and she then layed down on my lap. She would close her eyes and kinda lay her neck down on my lap. It was adorable. Me and my mom both agreed that she was the sweetest bird that we had ever met. I asked my mom if we could try to buy her, and she said… YES! So of coourse, taht made me VERY happy! we asked the people who worked there if they would consider selling her, and they said no, but that didnt discourage me one bit. We decided that we would write an email expalining the story and offering 50 (YES, taht much) euros. (We are getting chicks in the spring btw) We sent the email on Wednsday, and we got an answer today. Guess what they said. No. But that isnt what made me sad. I am still as determined as ever, i wrote a reply to that email asking what the reason was and seeing if there was another offer we could make that they would except. The thing that makes me sad, is when we will (hopefully not) give up. If they don’t budge, that would mean that Baby (What we named her) would die, and that completely breaks my heart into a trillion little pieces. I’m sure i would have a complete meltdown if that happened. I dont know what i would do. So basicly i just want some advice about how i could convince them and maybe some hugs? idk. sorry for this really long rant, i didnt realise it would get this long 🫠
edit: oh my im seeing tthis comment and its really long im so sorry peeps :’)
*hugs* idk just don’t give up and be as annoying as you can! Hopefully they’ll give in
Yeah, just pester them so much they’ll regret it, that’s what I do 😛
*hugs x 100*
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Thanks, Jack, that’s what I’m doing 🐔🐔🐔
NOOOOO BABY
1 trillion percent do not give up! Why would they kill the sweetest bird on Earth for its meat?!?!?!?! I mean honestly, chickens lay eggs!!!!!!
OOooh idea spark, can you try to convince them to switch Baby from meat kind of chicken to egg kind?
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I’d try, but it would be much healthier for Baby to be in a small flock, since her diet has to be monitored, since broilers (meat chickens) are bred to grow really big, really fast, and that can slash cause health problems, if their diet isn’t kept in check, thanks for the Huggos! 🐔 🐓 🛟
*hugs* No chicken that is loved should die! Just try to keep annoying them? Maybe they’d reconsider? *100000 extra hugs* 🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪
Thanks Honey! <3
Okay…So I haven’t been to BlogClan FOREVER and I know the Hug Page isn’t supposed to be a place in which you can talk about stuff this freely, but there’s literally no one in real life I can talk to, so…Thought I might as well say it to strangers in the internet and see if it makes any difference. Plus maybe you have advice??
Sooooo how do you deal with a fight-craving overly-critical mood-swingy “I’m sure you’re twisting it around/remembering it wrong” kind of mom? Because the having no one to talk to thing is finally getting overwhelming. Like how do you not yell or at least try to explain to her that you don’t want to fight?? It wasn’t that hard to control myself before but it’s kinda started to appear elsewhere. I found out my best friend acts a lot like my mom and it’s like an overdose of gaslighting. Sure I’m glossing over it but it’s not something I can talk to at school (don’t wanna seem whiny), have no adults who take me seriously (dad always makes up some lame excuse like “she didn’t sleep well” or “she’s having a hard time at work” which gets a liiittle unbelievable when you’ve known her for 13 years) & don’t wanna go back to theraphy (mom sent me to it because she thoguht I needed ot be “stimulated” because she I had to study for a test and she checked me with a neuropsychologist to see if I had a disorder but it turns out I didn’t, but whenever the theraphist starts doing…Well, theraphy, she cancels the sessions because it’s “not working” and takes me to a NEW theraphist–send a girl with trust issues to 3 theraphists in a row to see if she studies more, great idea). I literally get straight As nearly every time but a B is so much more of a big deal. I’m not sure if it’s just me getting overwhelmed at school but I’m getting a lot more anxious and just grumpy in general and I’m embarassing myself. That’s it. Just needed to rant and now I’ll wait to see if the cat-book-reading strangers in the internet have an idea of what to do.
*hugs* Maybe try to have like, a serious talk with her?
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I wish I had some useful advice for you, but alas, I don’t. I’m very sorry you have to deal with this situation, it’s a lot for a kid to cope with. It sounds like your mom is the one who needs to see a therapist.
I is there really no sympathetic adult who will listen to you? Aunt/uncle, grandparent, teacher, school councilor, or, if you’re religious, a minister, priest, or rabbi? I hope you can find someone to help.
*Hugs* I know that feeling, sometimes my dad can be like that.
*Hugs* I know how you feel, my brother is very difficult and irrational to say the least lol. Sadly I don’t have any advice, but here are some hugs and cookies 🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍟🍟🍟🍟🍟🍟
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I’ve been feeling a little crappy recently i guess.
For one my friends have been going out and skating and have sleepovers without me, and im pretty sure its bc I don’t have an ebike to get around, and my toe is fractured so i can’t skate. Though that issue will probably be fixed bc the doctor is clearing me next week, and im also buying an ebike soon so I should start going again hopefully, but still i feel left out. Second, I really like this girl but I think she has a boyfriend. If she does I want to stop liking her, but idrk how. And the possible boyfriend is a guy im kind of chill with so I don’t want to ruin our relationship either since im gonna have a class with him for the rest of the year. Again i don’t know fs though.
So any advice/hugs on both are welcome :))
*hugs* Being left out by your friends is horrible, I’m so sorry it’s happening to you </3
*hugs* I don’t really have any advice, but it sounds hard <3
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*huggs* i’m sorry you’re feeling left out, that’s a horrible feeling. sorry I’m terrible at giving advice, but I hope things get better, you’re such an amazing person Cloudy <3
*hugs* I 100% get feeling left out by friends (it’s been basically my life for the last 6 months). It’ll hopefully get better when your toe is all cleared by the doctor.
Okay you guys, my emotions are in a tangle right now so help me sort them out.
1. I feel like my family is overspending on my fencing — over 1K a month!!! I feel really guilty because I don’t want them to be spending that much on me for nothing.
2. I feel like my past mistakes are time-traveling to the present and kind of whacking me in the face??? I dunno why I feel like that but 😛
3. Lately, I’ve been having mixed emotions about TONS of things — fencing, art, you name it. I wish I could either be really happy or annoyed or sad, but mostly I’m just “meh” on most things, and it’s driving me crazy.
Hugs pls :’)
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*hugs* Have some donuts: 🍩🍩🍩🍩🍩🍩🍩🍩🍩🍩🍩🍩🍩🍩🍩🍩🍩🍩🍩🍩🍩🍩🍩
Hey guys, sorry I’m on here ranting a lot lately, but I need hugs lol.
(Hugs and cookies to anyone else who needs them! 💗🍪)
So basically, my family moved to where we’re living now a little over 2 years ago. The school I’m going to that I love only goes to 8th grade so this will be my last year there. I really want to go to this high school most of my friends are going to, but my parents want me to go to this private college prep school because my dad works there, and we’d get a reduced price on my tuition. If I went there it meant we’d move like 45 minutes away from where we are now and I wouldn’t really get to see my friends. I don’t make friends super easily because I’m quiet and kind of anxious, so I’m kind of terrified. (I’m already anxious enough about high school without having to go somewhere without any friends) My parents have told me that they won’t force me to go there, but they’re already looking at houses in that area. Idk, hugs or advice would be appreciated lol.
hugs! <3
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*huggos and cookies*
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My dad just killed a cranefly cuz yesterday I said I thought they were a bit scary. And now I feel bad because I’m responsible for its death. Like, if that was a person, everybody would be shocked, killing someone because your daughter said he was scary. I just feel so bad for it now and I wish I could bring it back to life but I can’t.
*hugs*
I feel you, Fallowz, one time I accidentally crushed a fly and I felt so bad.
Cookies:
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It’s okay, the cranefly is probably in a better place now ^^
hugs!
Oh my gosh I just searched up craneflies and they’re so scary! Please don’t blame yourself Fallowsy, I would have said the same thing if I’d seen one.
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i don’t need huggos right now, my friend does, but maybe if he sees the support you’ve given him, he’ll feel better? (idk this is the only thing i thought of)
so basically my friend who’s the same grade as me (junior in high school) came out to his friends, and he came out to me first, and he was surprised that i supported him. i told him that everything would be fine and i would support him, and then he came out to our other friends, who didn’t take it as well. at the end of the day, he was really frustrated and blamed me for telling him that everything would be okay, when it obviously wasn’t. then, one of my friends (and also his girlfriend ok this is messed up) told her parents that he came out, and that parent told his parents, and they highly disapproved of him being gay. all of my friends told my friend that i was the one who told my parents, and now he’s really mad at me and also in a bit of a dark place.
hugs?
*hugs you and your friend* try talking to him. It might be hard, but it’s possible you can convince him.
*hugs* That’s really hard. Outing someone is not okay at all. Maybe try and explain what actually happened to him, and that you never intended for him to be hurt like this. I personally know how hard it is to come out and be rejected (It’s a VERY long story) Just try and do whatever you can to help him with this and support him 🙂
Also, here are some cookies :b 🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪
*hugs* That is totally not okay for his friends to have done. Everyone should be able to come out to the people they choose in there own time.
hugs and food to whoever needs them!
hello, peeps cloudi here again 🙁
you may notice that I’ve been not on the blog a lot anymore, and I apologize. life’s been busy right now, but I feel a lot of pressure on my shoulders. I hung out with my friends kimchipaw and adderpaw yesterday, and I notice that adderpaw was on her device and not interacting with my and kimchipaw. I looked at her screen, and I saw not blog appropriate things. it continued on throughout the whole day. and then, out of pressure and not being able to speak to anyone, I told my parents.
I feel SEVERELY guilty about that, and my parents already indirectly mentioned it to adderpaw’s mom. kimchipaw said I did the right thing, but I don’t really feel that way.
hugs?
*hugs* you did the right thing. adderpaw should not be looking at inappropriate stuff,and I’m glad you spoke up and told someone.
*hugs* You definitely did the right thing but I understand why you feel guilty. Try to not think about it for a while if you can, or talk to your parents about how you feel?
I feel bad because I’m on here wayyyy too much but I really need to vent 😛
First off, I just feel so… lost. I’m at a very confusing place in my life in this weird stage in between high school and college. On one hand I love HS and the activities I do there and it’s a sense of security and comfort for me, but on the other hand I want to get out into the world and actually find people that I fit in with in college since I don’t have many friends in HS. I just feel so confused with everything that I do, I’m in an emotion tornado between fear and excitement and a confusing blob of other feelings idk how to describe ://
Second is me. Idk why but I feel like a terrible person and a terrible friend. I really suck at reaching out and socializing with others and I have a hard time really talking to people. I feel like all my friends have better cooler people that don’t panic every time they send texts or actually want to go to parties and socialize and stuff and don’t just sit in their rooms reading and watching obscure 60’s sci-fi all day :(( I see all these really social, extroverted people my friends know and I feel like a boring loser in comparison. Not to mention the fact that every interaction, even with friends, is just awkward. I always feel like I’m saying the wrong thing or stringing out a bunch of nonsense that nobody cares about. And I can’t help but hate myself for it— I want to be this confident, social, outgoing person that people actually DO enjoy, but I’m just… not that. It feels like nobody will appreciate the real me.
I could use some hugs/advice. 🙁
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The first part seems pretty normal to me in making the transition from high school to college. Change can be both exciting and scary at the same time. You’re just going to have to ride that emotional tornado for a while until you land someplace solid.
Regarding the second, I’m an introvert myself, but I have gotten along pretty well in life. I have always had a few friends that I shared common interests with. I’ve never been one for going to parties or hanging out in big crowds of people. I don’t have an easy time making conversation with strangers. Being an introvert is no reason to hate yourself, it’s just the way some of us are made. You need to accept yourself for who you are. Of course, if you want to practice the skills of making conversation with others, that can be good too.
don’t feel bad, breezo. vent when you need to. we’ll always be here for you.
first of all, i know how you feel, because i feel the exact same way. i’m only a junior in high school, but i also want to go out, but at the same time, i’m too scared to. as for the friends thing, we’ll always be your friends, and I want you to remember that.
for the second thing, maybe you’re right. maybe you aren’t social and outgoing and maybe you never will be. what’s important is to remember who you really are. what’s important is to figure out who you want to be and try your best to be that. try not to focus on how you aren’t like your friends in a negative way, and try to look at it in a positive way. it can be good that your friends aren’t like you. and-i hate to say this-but maybe your friends aren’t the right friends for you. maybe if you look, maybe you’ll find someone else who likes reading and watching 60’s sci-fi. i’m not telling you to completely give up your friends you have now, but maybe you need to expand your circle a bit more.
i hope this helped, and i hope things go well for you! <3
*hugs
*hugs* For the second part, anyone would be lucky to know you, even more so to be your friend. You’re an amazing person Breezo and I’d hate for you to think any different of yourself.
first of all, i wanted to say that I’m sorry for posting on here kinda often, and hugs/cookies to everyone who needs them. <3
so, irl and online I've been feeling kinda stressed..
1: my friend who I will call Lilypaw has a friend who is going through a very hard time and Lilypaw is terrified for her, and when I tried to comfort Lilypaw, Lilypaw said, quoting her, "Silver is the #1 person that should not try to comfort a person." so i just snapped and started crying, while my other friends Cloudpaw and Riverstream talked to Lilypaw about it. But Lilypaw apologized and it's fine, i guess….
2: One of my irl friends died. I'm not going to say exactly how, but I've been crying even though I wasn't really close to him. But still, I feel so bad.
3: my parents were yelling at me this morning for being insecure and all that and i had a mental breakdown. So um… yeah.
4: I'm on my "." and I am having some very bad cramps, so yeah.
5: I've been debating with myself whether or not to start duolingo again. I think i probably shouldn't because i had a lot of mental problems while using duolingo because i just simply didn't have enough time for it then was stressing out badly when i forgot a day.
so yeah, hugs/advice appreciated. :')
*Hugs* Here’s my advice:
1. I don’t have any advice for this one sadly
2. That’s really hard, I’m so sorry for your loss
3. I get it. Just try to move past it as best u can
4. Period cramps ARE THE WORST.
5. If it’s bad for your mental health, don’t do it.
1. That was mean of her, like she didn’t have to say that, and I understand that it hurts. I don’t agree with her anyway
2. I’m really, really sorry for your loss… I don’t really know what to say but it must feel very hard.
3. That’s… ugh. Some times they just don’t get it do they
4. Oh yeah those suck
5. If you think you could do it without getting mental issues, then why not, but if it would stress you out, you really shouldn’t.
Also *MILLIONS OF TRILLIONS OF HUGSSSS* And you really shouldn’t feel bad about coming here!! I understand theres a lot going on in your life rn and I just wanna say we’re here for ya <3
1. If you don’t truly believe it’s okay, it’s not okay. On purpose or not, it is not right for your friend to make you cry. It wasn’t right for her to say that to you. Try your best to communicate your feelings about that situation.
2. I can’t imagine the pain you’re going through. Take the time to grieve. No one should blame you for feeling sad because of what happened.
3. I’m sorry that happened. Maybe try to speak to them about this situation. (Sorry I don’t have very good advice for this)
4.Ugh that sucks. I hatehatehate cramps. I’d recommend using a heat pad or just anything warm in general and hold it against wherever it hurts the most.
5.If you think Duolingo is affecting your mental health in a bad way, don’t do it until you feel like you can think positively about it.
*hugs
I hope everything gets better!
*hugs* 1~ I think she’s probably just stressed about other things in her life and was lashing out. Maybe leave her be for a while?
2~ That’s devastating. Even if you weren’t close I completely understand feeling bad. Grieving is completely normal and you should take all the time you need. I’m sorry for your loss.
3~ Parents don’t understand sometimes, but maybe they would if you talked to them about it?
4~ That sucks.
5~ If it’s going to affect you badly then you shouldn’t do it. Your mental health needs to come first.
Sending many hugs.
1. not much advice for this one, sorry
2. I can relate so much. One of my best friends died recently, and, it’s . . . terrible. Even if you didn’t know them super well, having someone you know die is really hard. I cant fix it, but i’m here if you ever wanna vent about it
3. I can relate. My dads can be really strict on me, and we have fights sometimes. I’ve had too many mental breakdown’s recently (don’t ask why cuz IDK), so yeah. Just try and get over it? Idrk how to help, but once again, I’m here if u wanna vent.
4. Haven’t gotten mine yet, but I know cramps suck
5. Yes, I do have slight stress problems for duo, so I think that if it’s affecting ur daily life, don’t do it. It’s not worth it.
Hope this helps *sends more hugs and cookies 🍪🍪🍪🍪*
1. What Lilypaw said is rude… she apologized but did you have a good talk with her about it
2. On February 17th, my paternal grandmother passed. I was really close to her. I feel your pain.
3. Sometimes my parents get mad at me. Have a good talk with them (be kind)
4. Those have gotta be terrible
5. Don’t. Do. Duolingo. If it’s bad for your mental health , don’t do it. You matter more than what you speak.
Also…
*hugs times infinity*
Wow, you’re going through a lot 🙁
I really hope things get better, and I sadly have no advice, but I can only send u hugs and give a digital shoulder to cry on <3333