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Hi. I could use some hugs. (But not cookies cause I had three today) not gonna go into detail.
*HUGGOS*
Thanks!☺️
*HUGGGGS*
Ty!😊
*hugs*
Thanks!
*hugs*
Thank you!☺️
*HUGSSS*
And I’ma still give u cookies (hehe) 🍪🍪🍪
*noms cookies* Mmm, tasty!😋
*HUGS*
okay- hugs to everybody! I feel so bad getting on here with my stupid, idiotic problems, while people come here with actual sad, hard things. anyways, here goes…
i think i’m lesbian.
i came out to a few of my friends today, but i still havent come out to my family. I have literally no idea how.
but heres the really hard part: im mormon/lds (which is a religion). aaaand they kinda have a history of not liking/supporting lgbtq+ people. i dont know what to do, and im terrified of coming out. i searched the internet for help, and i saw terrible stories of gay people committing suicide because of how much hate they experienced from the church. yes, there are also members of the church who are lgbtq and completely fine, but the church still is very strict on same-gender attraction. the website is just like “its fine to have same-gender relationships as long people dont act on those feelings.” but they still dont allow same-gender marraiges at the temple. and a lot of the church seems to be really anti-lgbtq. im scared of comming out, and im scared of being hated by my church. please help me! hugs/advice??
*hugs* no advice tho, sorry… but good luck <3
Also, don't feel bad about going here. Your feelings matter just as much as all others even if it might not feel that way.
*hugs* I can relate, since I’m also a lesbian, and even tho I’m not religious, some of my friends at school are really hateful to LGBTQ+ :(( If your friends participate in the same religion, maybe talk about it with them?
Hugs to you and to everyone else here who needs them. You might seek out an online support group for LGBTQ+ Mormons and ex-Mormons. You are far from the only person experiencing this situation and it can be helpful to know you’re not alone. (I’m an ex-Mormon myself.)
*huggs* sorry I don’t have advice, but you shouldn’t feel stupid about coming here at all, and I hope things work out for you <33
*hugs* You can always come here if you need! I don’t really have any advice but I do have cookies 🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪
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Oh Kessie, that hat be so hard! I’m a lesbian too, but I’ve kinda, idk drifted away from the Catholic Church anyways? Maybe if you have like a trusted person within the close church community like a pastor or priest that you know well, you could try speaking to them about it? Lots of hugs and cookies! 🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🔥
I hope everything works out for you, Kessie. <3
*Hugs* I get you so much. Not to worry you, but my coming out to my parents as lesbian was pretty horrible even though they aren’t religious. (Long story) Honestly I wish I had never done it. My advice is to come out to people who you know for sure will support you (Like friends or certain family members, or even certain church members) If you think someone won’t support you, don’t come out to them until you have a solid support system. I’m really sorry you have to go through this and I totally understand. I’m here to talk if u want someone who understands 🙂
Also, your problems are just as real and valid as any others. Coming out is really hard and complicated, and the hug page was made for getting advice no matter what your problem is <3
*hugs*
I don’t think I have any advice for you, but I hope everything turns out great <3
*Hugs* I’m sorry. As an ex-mormon who started questioning the church due to LGBTQ reasons myself, I kind of understand what your situation might be like. Not to say that I know exactly what you’re feeling, I get some of the feelings that can come with that. I would say, prepare yourself for a wide range of reactions. I know some people in the church that are entirely supportive, some that are not, and some that aren’t directly mean, but pressuring or passive-aggressive. There is a wide range of reactions you could get, and my advice would be to prepare yourself for all of them, prepare yourself to get some comments you probably won’t like, because the reality is you will probably get some.
Also consider if it is safe for you to come out. I don’t mean to scare, but there can be instances where it would be dangerous, and I would recommend carefully considering whether you are in one of them. If you do come out, try to stick to the people that support you, or make new friends that do, so that you can build up a social support network for some of the backlash you could face.
*Hugs* One of my really good friends is Mormon, and her dad is gay. Also, you can probably find a Christian church that supports LGBTQ+
*hugs* Kessie, you aren’t alone. I’m lesbian too. I’m Hindu, though, so I can’t relate with the religion thing.
*huggggggggs*
ok so I recently heard about scary things happening in other states and I keep on worrying that mine might be next. Hugs please?
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*hugs* I get it
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*hugs* same tbh :’) I’m a Missourian
Huggos
*hugggggs*
Hugs to anyone who needs them <3
So, I like a boy.
We have a school football game today, and I'm planning on asking if he's going, but should I ask him if he wants to go to the game together? If not, how can I talk to him and become better friends with him so its not awkward, and because WikiHow isn't helping.
Also, can anyone friend me on Roblox so I can discuss further with them? Here's my user:
Im_inyourwalls (m0thfIight) By the way, the 'L' in 'flight' is an uppercase 'i'
Thanks!
*hugs*
*hugs* I’ve been in a similar situation. Honestly, if you feel comfy with it, ask that boy out! But if not, maybe wait a bit and try again! *HUGS*
*hugs* I don’t really have advice, sorry!
*hugs* ask him if you can go together. Just do it :3
*says the girl who does her best to avoid getting crushes because of these situations*Thanks for all the help everyone! I didn’t get a chance to ask him because he just disappeared after seventh hour and he wasn’t there anyways. But I’ll try again another time <3
So…hey guys. Advice please.
1. I have a crush on a boy, let’s just call him Cloudpaw. I’ve had a crush on this boy since 5th grade(I’m in 7th now) and I’m pretty sure he likes me back. I was planning to ask him out to this Halloween themed party at my school called “Volloween”(It’s basically where you play volleyball and other fun games), and I really want to tell Cloudpaw how I feel, but every time I rehearse the words to say in my mind, I end up getting nervous. BUT I WANNA TELL HIM SOOOOO BAD!!! 😍😩😩
2. My mother spoils my little sister, Lilackit(If you’re Lilackit, I’m sorry, but this is the truth). Lilackit basically gets everything she wants. Last year, I didn’t even have my b-day party because of her!
3. My friend group keeps fighting all the time because of this one guy(Let’s just call him Blazepaw). Blazepaw is SO IRRITATING, and today he shoved me in the hallway because I wouldn’t walk with him! And no, he doesn’t have a crush on me.
4. And then there’s the Duolingo owl. He keeps sending me sus comments like, “What’s wrong babe? You haven’t done Spanish in 3 days! Do it now, or else….” And I get really scared because of it. I don’t feel comfy talking to my parents or teachers about it, and all my other relatives are in Florida!
1. Omg I understand how you feel. I tried telling my crush, Brownkit, how I felt about him, but I always get so nervous!
2. *hugs* Maybe talk to your parents about it?
3. AGHHH BLAZEPAW SOUNDS SO ANNOYING!! Maybe try telling him how you feel?
4. Oh my stars I am scared of Duo as well. That’s why I just stopped doing Duolingo on my IPad. (It’s helped me a lot!) is there a friend you can talk to about it?
*hugs* Yeah, there is a friend to talk to! Thanks for your help my fellow Rosie! 😊
1. Ask him out! If he likes you back, I’ll celebrate with you! If he doesn’t, I’ll offer ya a shoulder and some cookies!
2. That’s just unfair. I don’t have any advice on it sorry, except talking to your parents about it (which I guess won’t help).
3. Omg I can SOOO relate to annoying guys, they’re just so…. well, ANNOYING! I think yall should just ignore him, he’ll probably no longer think it’s fun if you don’t get upset
4. Well… I can tell ya there’s nothing to worry about, but I see it’s upsetting you, so I suggest you inactivate all notifications from Duolingo. If you still want to be reminded of your lessons, you can add a widget, but I don’t think you should keep the notifications if they make you uncomfortable <3
And, finally, *HUGGSSS*
*Hugs*
1. I’m sorry, I don’t really have any advice on that. I am not the best at dealing with romantic situations. But I hope all goes well if you work up the courage to ask him out.
2. That must be really annoying, I’m sorry. I don’t know that there is much that can be done about that situation, unless your mother would be open to you talking to her about it. If she is, you could tell her something diplomatic but honest, like “I feel like Lilackit gets more than I do, and that can make me feel jealous and sad.” Then listen to what she has to say in response with an open mind. But of course, I don’t know your mother, and she may not take well to hearing things like that, so only follow my advice if you think it would go well.
3. If Blazepaw has taken to physical action (shoving you would count), it may be good to have a conversation with your school resource officer about it.
4. I can understand why that might scare you a bit. But the good news is, although it sends semi-threatening messages, there have been no reliable reports of the Duolingo Owl harming anyone. If it really freaks you out, maybe delete the app and get a different language app that doesn’t send creepy notifications. I don’t know much about other language apps and what their notifications would be like, but there are options, such as Babble.
Yeah….I deleted the app. It really helped, thanks Cinders(Can I call you that?)
*hugs and cookies*
1: i think you should tell him :)) you can do it!
2: relatable- my sister who is adopted and just 2 years younger than me gets spoiled ALL THE FREAKING TIME. IT’S ANNOYING.
3: sorry, no advice :’) friend drama sucks
4: yeah, I’ve gotten that duolingo message (and other people on blogclan did as well) and it is CREEPY. You can turn off duolingo notifications in the duolingo settings!
Thanks! I’m gonna try! 😊
*Hugs*
1. Not much advice, but when you find the courage to talk to him, BlogClan is right here to cheer you on.
2. Relate.
3. Tell Blazepaw how he’s rubbing off on the rest of the friend group. If he keeps doing the things he does, tell him you can’t stand him any longer and don’t want to be friends with him. Also, tell a teacher or another adult, shoving is not cool!
4. It just means that you’ll lose your streak or whatever. Duolingo just does that to keep you practicing, or you’ll never remember to practice. I haven’t had any notifications like that, though.
1. I’m going through the same problem right now. I would keep talking to him, maybe wait a while and see if he hints at liking you back.
2. I don’t have any advice, sorry 🙁
3. That’s not okay. I think you should tell a teacher that he’s doing those things to you
4. UM! I don’t have Duolingo but thats just..
1. Just try. You have a 100% chance of being unable to go with him if you don’t ask.
2. I have a younger sister and this is definitely relatable. This year I didn’t get a party at all and she got a big one with her whole year. I think it’s just sort of how it goes 😕
3. Maybe talk to your parents or your other friends about it?
4. For all apps you can turn off notifications in settings, maybe try that?
*huggos*
I’m kind of nervous about this Friday, because I have a Calculus test, a Physics test, and a speech I have to give, and I’m prepared for none of it.
*hugs* You should practice and study some more. Try the training hollow!
*hugs* I get it. Yesterday I went to school and my friend was like “you’re having a test today” and I was like “WHAAAA”
Do your best to prepare in the time you have? *hugs*
Guys, cookies to people who need it. Well my friend officially said that she doesn’t want to be friends anymore. She said that I am too toxic and hurt her a lot. And yeah I realized I did. I said sorry to her and she just hates me more. She is right to. I am an introvert but I love my best friends. But I appear to have some social anxiety that I can’t help. And my friend always gets sad about that and every single time I say that I will change. But I never could no matter how much I tried. But after the 1st- 1 or 2 weeks of middle school. I realized how much I pressured my friend and how I could have been a better friend to her. Guys, I really want at least one last chance. I miss her like so much and I can’t get over it. I can’t believe this day has finally came. I really want her back and try to make up for all the hurt I put her through. But today at Math Class, she gave me a note after I sent her one saying sorry. I was excited cuz I thought she forgave me. But the note just said that she hates me and that I am unhealthy and she hopes I heal… I was just crushed and shattered. I couldn’t also cry cuz everyone was there. I can’t believe I lost her. She was such a close friend for like 2 whole years to me and it was just over like that. We shared so much together- warrior cats, therianthropy, and a bunch of other memories. And now everyone just expects me to throw them all away. I still can’t believe that she’s gone.
Hugs and advice appreciated?
*hugggs* i’m so sorry she’s treating you that way. maybe give her some time, and she’ll be more relaxed and comfortable with you again. I really hope things get better <33
*HUGS* mistakes are in the past. You might have been pressuring her earlier, but she’s being toxic now. She literally sent you a note that said she hated you! You deserve a kinder friend than her.
*hugs* I also had a friend who ditched me. Hang in there, BlogClan’s got your back. You’ll make new better ones!
*hugsss* buddy, you’re not the bad guy here. Or idk, maybe you did some annoying stuff, but no one can help social anxiety and your friend is just being rude. She could’ve written “sorry, but it won’t work” but she decided to write “I hate you, you’re unhealthy, I hope you’ll heal”. That’s disgusting! I think you should stick to your real friends :’3
*hugs* I’m so sorry that happened! 🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪
*HUGGSS*So sorry about what happened. RELATE that social anxiety is not easy to change. There will be a better friend, who accepts your diffrences. And you can always resort to BlogClan
SO. COUGH COUGH- I went to the hospital the other day right- and uhhhh well I got diagnosed with severe depression and anxiety, so that’s something for one- and secondly, istg I’ll sound so ungrateful- but uh, my parents are making everything worse, like literally everything. I had a mental breakdown around three hours ago and well, my dad (who I am definitely not comfortable around) just came and said some unpleasant stuff and made it worse- then he started smoking indoors and welp- my chest doesn’t feel so well now- and uhh my mom basically just says “but we’re family, mom and dad love you the most (and blah blah blah blah I don’t remember)” but like- why couldn’t I choose my family- like, I’d give everything to have for my parents to find some way to like, sorta understand and respect, my current state, I guess. And uhh, my mom keeps saying that her n my dad aren’t my enemies, but well uh- SO THERE WERE SOME THINGS THAT HAPPENED- WHEN I WAS LIKE 6-10, KINDA UNFORGETTABLE YEAH- SO I DONT GET WHY THEYD EXPECT ME TO JUST PUT THAT DOWN- WELP ILL STOP HERE ITS LIKE THREE AM. HUGS TO ANYONE WHO NEEDS EMMMM <3
*hugggs* i’m so sorry you don’t feel respected by them *hugggs*
Hi! I don’t have any advice about your parents, but I do get the mental health stuff. I’m undiagnosed with probably depression and OCD or anxiety or smth, Idrk. Anyways, hopefully your parents will stop being mouse-brains and try harder to help you. You are not alone! <3
*huggos* I’m not gonna ask you what happened a few years ago in case you don’t wanna talk about it, but I certainly would bring that up in your situation. They have no right to disrespect your state. Maybe talk to a counselor?
*hugs* I wish I had advice but I do have cookies 🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪
(77 cookies to be exact 😀)
Hey *hugs to everyone who wants them!*
I’ve been having a SUPER hard time lately…and I just kinda need some moral support 🙁
1. – So I skipped a grade (from 7th to 9th) and I moved entire school districts, and my parents didn’t want me talking to my friends anymore. I’ve literally had the hardest time ever making friends and also trying to stay ‘happy’ a lot. It’s just kinda hard to be younger than everyone, and high school is hard enough already
2. – I had a IDENTITY CRISIS about a year back, and for a while I thought I was pan and non binary- now i’m not too sure, and I feel more like genderfluid and bisexual! I’m really scared to tell my parents because they’re kinda…ehh…not too big on changes with sexuality and stuff
3.- IM OVERALL PANICKING EVERYDAY AND DON’T KNOW HOW TO COPE BECAUSE PEOPLE ARE MEAN! (Cries)
*hugggs* i’m so sorry you’re feeling stressed, I hope things get better <33
*hugs* MORAL SUPPORT IS HERE 🙂
1. Idk why your parents don’t want you talking to your friends bc I don’t have any context lol, but I hope it was for a good reason, and if not maybe try to stay in contact with them? Idk. I get the trying to stay happy thing SO MUCH. I know how hard it is and how it feels, but maybe try to vent to a pet or smth? Idk, I have weird coping methods.
2. I get your sexuality crisis lol, I only realized I was lesbian a year ago. My coming out went…ehhhhhh….not great, but maybe try to explain to your parents that sexuality and gender aren’t set in stone and that you changed. Idk
3.Oooof I understand. Sadly I don’t have advice, but I’m here if you want to chat or vent about anything 🙂 <3
1. That sounds really hard! Your parents have no right to keep you from your friends!!
2. Well that’s relatable. I think you’ll find out eventually, just give it time. Also, it’s okay to be unsure.
3. RELATEEEE
Also *HUGSS*
*hugs* I’m sorry your not feeling great 🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪
I need hugs right now.
I literally just found out (I’m literally in homeroom right now) that my friend from elementary school is moving halfway across the state the day after tomorrow, to Miami.
I’m obviously crushed, but I just don’t know how to feel. I’m just sad I won’t get to see him maybe forever, and the only contact we’ll have will be texts and calls between a time difference.
Hugs?
*hugggs* I understand how you feel, it’s really hard. I hope you and he can stay in contact as much as possible <3
*hugs* My friend moved away too, so I’ve felt who you feel now. Hope things get better!
Across the country, not the state. Sorry, that was a brain fart on my part. Maybe it was all of the learning from today.
*hugsss* that sounds really tough! Maybe you can see each other during school break??
*hugs* Having a friend move away is really hard. One of my closest friends is moving to the US next year (I live in Australia) and I’ll really miss her. 🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪
So, we have sides in our class and I’m not in the side with my closest friends.
I’m not totally alone, as I have other side friends that I know and talk to in class and work with on projects, but they got to be together on the other side, and they met a new student that comes to our school. My really close friends made friends with the new student, and now they’re acting like they’re apart of the friend group. They do things with my close friends that only we used to do together, and I feel like they’d rather spend time with their new friend than with me.
The second thing about being on different sides means that we aren’t in our extra classes together, either, meaning that we only see each other at recess and lunch. But lunch is the main thing I feel upset about. At lunch, I’d like to spend time with just them. But they want to invite the new student to our table at lunch every day (along with others; some that I don’t know too well). I get that it’s nice, but they often talk with them, and I feel really left out when this happens.
I haven’t been talking with them, hanging out with my close friends in another class at recess. I know I’m upsetting them by not talking to them, but I feel they won’t understand why it upsets me, and call me rude for not wanting to invite others to sit with us.
*HUGGOS* I understand the feeling, it sucks being left out <3
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*hugs* that is really annoying!! I don’t have any advice, just, try to speak with the closest friend about this, and probably they will understand, and they will spend less time with the new one? Idk, but here are some cookies
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Okay, so this isn’t a big deal or anything, but I’m in the house alone for like ten minutes every Wednesday. I know it’s not that bad, but it’s scary! Especially since I usually end up hearing noises that aren’t there and scare myself.
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*huggs* noises can be scary! <3
*hugs* Maybe try to listen to music at those times? Sometimes it can help to have some noise that you know.
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Hello! I can definitely relate. Being home alone is super scary, even if it’s only for ten minutes. I recommend going to a room and locking the door. It will help you feel so much safer. I also recommend doing something you love to distract yourself from the fact you’re home alone. I hope this helps. <3
Yeah, unfortunately, the only rooms that lock in our house are bathrooms.😓but thanks!☺️
Hey BlogClan, hugs to anyone who needs them <3
Last week I was absent from school and I missed a health assessment. My dad sent in the missed assessment form but I didnt know how to complete them until this morning at 7:00 when I asked my friend. She said to go to the place at 7:30 today or tomorrow. So I rush my dad, I'm crying cos I'm gonna be late, I get there 2 mins late and they let me in cos no one else is doing the assessment, but my assessment isn't THERE because apparently I have to complete it within 2 days of being back to school before it gets sent back to my teacher and I get a zero. So unless my teacher somehow lets me do it i'm failing, and I've never failed a test before 😭😭😭
I know this isn't really a big deal, but I'm legit at my locker rn almost crying. Some hugs would be appreciated
Edit: what the heckity heck is all those random symbols in the middle of my words huhhh can y’all see thattt
Also I spoke to my friend, she says I MIGHT get the class average. I’m still worrieddd
Ooof that sound difficult 🙁 Sadly I don’t have advice but I have hugs and cookies and hope you figure it out 🙂 🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪💗💗💗💗💗
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*HUGS* I’ve never failed a test either [I hope], and I don’t think I’d feel great if I did, so I get it.
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*hugs*. That sounds really stressful! I hope that your teacher lets you take it.
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that sounds hard :(( *hugggggg* <33
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I’ve been there before, and I absoluely DESPISE when things like that happen. I dont know why you were out, but I’m sure it wasn’t your fult and it looks like you tried your best to make it up so you shouldn’t have to fail. I hope you manage to make it up! <333/gen