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:0000 NEW POLLS PAGE! wow!! please be on the first pageeee ahhhhh
uhhh what’s your favorite holiday?
New Years Eve, and I have a holiday unique to myself, that honors all of the cats who have come and gone from my life.
DANG IT SECOND PAGE >:000
My birthday /jk Christmassssss (Splash who is wearing reindeer sparkle antler headband with hair done and mascara on and is ready to do christmas band concert)
Well I like Eid, which is basically a Muslim Christmas!! Halloween is pretty cool too, I don’t really trick or treat (this year was my first time ever doing it) but the aesthetic is nice :p
Ayyyyy good job hazyyy!
Hmmmm honestly even tho it’s not that big here I love Halloween cos I can hang out with friends :3
O thought it was on first page ;-;
Christmas!
halloween!
…I don’t really like holidays as much as I use to-
that is to say I don’t have one (except maybe my birthday… but I know nobody cares about that but me)
I care!! <3 When is your birthday?
uh, yesterday 😛
OMG HAPPY BDAY CLOUDOOO!! 🥳🥳🥳
Christmas!
christmas!!
definitely christmas! november/december are my absolute FAVORITE times of the year and I just love all of the holiday cheer and happiness that you can see so much of during december <3 I also absolutely ADORE the decorations (at my house we go all out! we have maybe 12 inflatables in our front yard currently 😛 ), the music, the sweaters (I have a whole collection, my favorite probably being this 'tree rex' light up sweater I got a few years ago! <3), the break from school, the fun traditions my family and I have (for example, every year a few days before Christmas, my dad takes my siblings and I to this Christmas light show!), and I absolutely love picking out gifts for my friends, family, and loved ones <3 (this year I got my brother a taylor swift t-shirt along with the new eras tour book, I'm probably going to get my sister a French cookbook or some 'french-looking decorations', as she's currently obsessed with France and now wants to be french😭, I'm probably going to get a lot of my friends some chocolates, although I'm planning on making one of my friends some swiftie bracelets as she's a die-hard swiftie, and I'm still deciding on what to get my parents and grandparents!)
however, I also love Halloween very much, and april fool's day is always a holiday I very much look forward to, especially on the blog <3
Seeing how much you love Christmas is really heart warming, Flam!! Can I come join your family, you get great gifts for people and your family traditions sound great!
yes ofc silv! although then you might become a victim to my annual april fools’ pranks🥰
I meant to phrase this as a joke but it looks like I’m being serious 😭 ^^
french looking decorations ;-;
talk to my sister about it😭😭😭 I swear she’s going crazy–she literally said today that the only thing she wants for Christmas is a passport and plane tickets to France💀
I’m unsure. I used to enjoy Seollal, the Korean New Year, but it’s been a little exhausting for me nowadays. /lh
Uh um good question either Rizzmas or Spotify Wrapped lmao
christmas !
halloween
Halloweeeeen!!!!!
The vibes make me so happy
Halloween! 🎃 👻
Wait this is crazy a whole new polls page????
Do you guys ever want children and if so, what genders and how many? (For example, two boys and one girl, three girls, etc).
I wouldn’t want more than three and ideally all or mostly girls. I wouldn’t mind a son but I’d want him to be the middle or oldest, not the youngest, because my family has two older girls and a younger boy and I don’t like it 😛 /lh I’m not really sure if I even want kids though 😛
I’m already the exhausted parent to three wonderful feline children :P/j
My default answer is usually no. I don’t think I’d be an effective parent for…a myriad of reasons. I’d want my children to grow into strong confident members of society who can stand up for what’s right and don’t take mouse dung from no one. The the world-shakers who will lead humanity into a better tomorrow and change the world forever. I’d want them to be passionate motivated people who know who they are. I don’t think I’d be able to give them what they need to grow into that. However, I often hear parents describe the powerful emotion you get when you see your off-spring for the first time, and hear stores about the lengths parents went to protect their son/daughter.
I’ve often wondered what it’d be like to love someone that fiercely, to feel the warmth of that fire. And I wonder what it’s like to feel proud of a child, or watch them walk for the first time, say their first word etc.
As to the second question: I’d be satisfied with three-one boy and two girls.
two, an older boy and a younger girl 🙂
That’s so perfect! I also ideally want two – either two girls, and one older boy and one younger girl, like you. (Though I wouldn’t care if the girl was older).
I definitely want kids, and though I’d be happy with whatever God gives me, ideally I’d like to have two boys and two girls, preferably with a girl as the oldest
I’m kinda leaning towards no kids, though I’m not entirely opposed to the idea. I’ve had a lot of fun working with them in the past as a camp counselor/assistant youth librarian/assorted volunteer positions, but I think I like being able to return them to their parents at the end of the day 😛 ideal situation would be that my brother has some and lets me be the cool aunt.
i want 0 children :p
Lowkey real 😭 idk if I want kids yet, it kind of flucates :p
I don’t know, probably like one or two at most 😛 though idek if I want kids soo
I wouldn’t want children, no. I quite enjoy my freedom, and I don’t feel like I’d have that anymore if I had children to nurture, you know? Now, I wouldn’t mind having, say, a niece or nephew or sibling-in-law I could take care of, but certainly no kids of my own.
That makes so much sense! I feel like you’d just never be as carefree and independent again. Your kids just kind of become your life. Kind of stresses me out to think about 😛
no 😛
1183041048 kids /jk
I want twin boys that are older by 3 years and another boy and another boy 2 years younger than the last one
I definitely don’t plan of having kids, but if by chance I end up getting a spouse (which is very unlikely) and they want to have kids I’d be willing to adopt a child, however I absolutely never want to have to give birth to a child ever 😛 (plus, y’know, I’m ace…)
and if on that very slim chance my partner were to give birth or we were to adopt a child/children, I honestly couldn’t care less their gender or how many children, I think what would matter is that they feel comfortable and happy in their own skin <3
I get the feeling that I'll most likely end up being the cool uncle of the family who tries to get their nieces/nephews into Hamilton at like age 5, and that sounds most ideal to me let's be real💪👌💯🔥✨
I CALL BEING YOUR NIECE/NEPHEW’S GODAUNT BC THEN WHEN THEY ASK YOULL BE LIKE OHHH ITS ONE OF MY ONLINE FRIENDS 😛
well, we’ll see how it goes…/ref
yES ABSOLUTELY 100% >:DD
I can imagine you putting on your own Hamilton play for your nieces / nephews but you’re all the characters at once and you just somehow make it work 😌
oh ABSOLUTELY! I’m sure my siblings will be positively thrilled when at age 8 my nieces/nephews are now begging them for hamilton tickets🥰🥰🥰🥰
however if I do end up performing on Broadway one day perhaps I can just shove ’em in my bag while going to work and BOOM, they have free backstage tickets!No. I don’t go along with kids, and I don’t want to give up so many of my interests to raise children. I do desire to form a close relationship with someone from the younger generation in the future, like being a mentor to younger people.
I don’t know, I want to have children some time but I also don’t want to lose the feeling of being young. Responsibility and structure isnt really my thing :’3
However I guess two boys would be nice, with an age gap of maybe 2 years?
I generally think no, I wouldn’t really want to have children myself, but I’m a bit interested in adopting one. and although I’d be happy with any gender child, maybe an older girl and a younger boy :3
I don’t think I want kids later! (But that can still chabge lol) I have three reasons:
1. I’m lesbian so I’d have to adopt a kid, so chances are they’re totally nothing like me😭
2. I don’t get along well with little kids, so I’m afraid that I’d get mad at my kids way too often and I’d want to be a nice mom
3. I wouldn’t be able to handle the responsibility I think :PP
AND bonus reason: They take up so much free timeeeeeeeeeee
Nope. I’m gonna be a crazy cat guy and live in the forest with slightly too many animals
reallll
I don’t really want kids. I think I won’t ever be ready to love something so much that I could sacrifice myself for it.
if i were to have children at any point in my life (planned at least) i wouldnt want to have them till at least my thirties and in a stable income. i would want 2 (at most 3), gender wouldnt really matter too much.. tHOUGH the pregnancy part is extremely unappealing if i were to want a blood related baby.. (pregnancy for either me or my partner)
BUT i would make a lovely cat dad yes yes i love my babies
Tbh its a no for me, I’ve been around young-ish kids and have done some work as a counselor at summer camps but being able to stay unattached and send them back to their homes is much more preferred and there’s a myriad of reasons why I don’t think I’d be a nice parent and I really dont want to give birth (I’m aceflux anyways) but I’m up for being a family friend or close relative lol
I don’t want children because I know that with a mother like me they’ll grow up into ungrateful brats who hate me— /lh
I don’t want children unless I adopt or smth, and I’d want a girl but only one otherwise I’d die, my god kids are crazy my uncle has 4 kids and they are all INSANE apart from the girl who’s not even one yet and THREE CRAZY BOYS UNDER THE AGE OF SIX is chaotic enough for me 😭
I love em tho, my cousin’s are fun lol 😛
Yes and No
No:
Pregnancy >:OOO
I would need a partner… and I don’t really like any of the boys around (At the moment- that could change)
Adoption sounds like a pain in da butt
My insomnia will be active 24/7 now
Yes:
klvjwibneibk cute baby pictures!!!!
continuation of family line
If I were to, I’d preferably have one (so they can’t blame their sibling) or two so they won’t be lonely.
I’m honestly unsure due to a bunch of personal reasons 😛
If I did, I’d want like twins or triplets, either a boy-girl combo or two girls and a boy! :))
HELLO NEW POLLS PAGE
(Yes as a mod I’m still stunned by it, what can ya do 😛 /lh)
Joining the trend: If you met me irl, what would you want to do with me?
Learn French, proper etiquette and all that prim and lady-like jazz we can pass as French nobility and crash a party of French nobles.
Oh I would so be on-board for this, this sounds like a blast oh my gosh
Two fun things in one! 😉 /gen I can test my party-crashing skills :0 /lh
i would be so down can i join
But ofc you can, the more the frenchier
why does that sound exactly like something my sister would say lol😭
ADJVHJRKGJG
I’M COMING AS WELLLLLLL
HECK YEAH LET’S GO BUST THIS JOINT
That’s what posh people say right
Ahum *fancy accent*
G’day, mrs. Snowy, how are you doing on this fine day? *slurps tea*
*fancier accent* /lh /j
Why good day to you as well, madam Fallow, I’m doing just splendidly. How are you? *slurps tea*
Boba while talking abt hazbin bc ✨yes✨
Oh heck yes 😛 Which flavor of boba is your favorite? I like lychee and taro and the classic black tea, and honeydew is good too!
TARO MILK TEA SUPREMACYYYYYYYY
WHOOOOOO
Cook you /jk
Nah I would take you to the movies and we can eat all the snacks together
😰 /lhj
Sounds like fun!! What are your favorite movie snacks?
Twix bars whats yours
Peanut M&Ms and popcorn! Sour Patch Kids are good too ^^
Uh um idk 😭 I’d let you come with suggestions lol
We would HAVE to buy a bunch of soda, especially the weird flavours like Oreo flavoured coke, and try them together, then rate them 😛 Then we would bake cookies and buy candy, then watch a movie and chat!!
Oh my gosh, a soda rating would be such a dream to do 😛 /gen And I can imagine how wild it’d get, did I ever tell you I saw incredibly weird flavors such as pickle at the hardware store nearby?? 😭 And the rest sounds so lovely!!!
PICKLE???? That’s insane 😭 there’ll be mayonnaise flavoured juice next istg 😭
Isn’t it???? 😭 Also EW nOO if that existed that would be the one soda in our taste test I wouldn’t touch with a ten-foot pole 😭
pls this sounds so fun T-T
WATCH LE COLLEGA’S!!!!!! :DDDDDDDD
And also learn you to sing some Dutch songs from my choir :DD
That sounds like so much fun!!! 😀
We could go by shoes together, and every time you tried a pair on I could say “Snowy stop stepping on yourself” :>
AJSfhjgdshj oh my God, perfect 😛 I’d end up buying fifty >:)
Go shopping and probably stop at a cafe 😛
Sounds great! ^^
hmm… perhaps we could make soup together! although I suppose it’d have to be dodo-free soup in this case😔 BUT THEN WE COULD WATCH HAMILTON AND HAZBIN TOGETHER :DD
HAMILTON AND HAZBIN WHOO and with warm soup!! Sounds lovely 😀
new polls page!!
If you could experience one tv show or book for the first time again, what would it be?
TV Shows: Dr. Who, Once Upon a Time, Rainbow: Nisha Rokubō no Shichinin, Mushishi, Haikyuu, oh dear sweet Haikyuu, how I miss your magic, Hunter x Hunter, Monster, Banana Fish, Haibane Renmei, Phineas and Ferb, and I’m sure there’s more I’m not thinking of
Books: The books that shaped my writing [the second and last on the upcoming list definitely made me feel very deeply, and think about good and evil, morality, and just…the duality of everything which definitely are themes heavily prominent throughout my writing today] and made it what it is today:
Warriors, Darkstalker: Legends, and the Jack Blank trilogy
The Amazing Spider-Man 2
I’d cry, again, but it’s so good
skandar and the chaos trials, all the way
Stormlight archives!
Hazbin Hotel so I could remember what it was like finally having a not-real crush (it only lasted a day lol, and before anybody asks, it ain’t Alastor)
GASPGASPGASP ANOTHER HAS-BEEN!!! (thats what i call hazbing fans :3) JOIN THE CULT
https://blogclan.katecary.co.uk/The-Alastor-Worship-Page/
I have quite the list
Keeper of the lost cities
The Hunger Games
Divergent series (specifically Allegiant that book ahhhhhhh)
Wings of Fire
Percy Jackson
Warrior Cats
and basically every other book I’ve ever read
I would want to experience Prison Playbook or Misaeng, both opened my eyes to the ambivalence of society.
Hmmm They Both Die At The End, it was truly amazing and I think that book in particular wouldn’t really be the same if I reread it :’3
Warriors or Five Survive!
dead poets society, because my first time around watching experience was kind of interrupted because at the very climax of the movie, my mum came in and asked me what i wanted for dinner ahaha, then i felt like i wasn’t able to experience the full scope of emotions after that. and even though i love rewatching it, i wish i could watch it without knowing the story before i started ahah
definitely wc because there is SO MUCH content to consume and now im older id understand the content in a much more neurodivergent way (aka dedicate my life to it LOL)
I read wings of fire completely out of order so rereading it for the first time IN CORRECT ORDER would be great 😀
WHOAAAA NEW POLLS PAGE!!! love the picture lol 😛
apparently this is a trend sooo
if you met me irl, what would you want to do with me?
hmmm just handing out at a cool restaurant sounds fun!
Jojo I would talk to you and we can play games
Play basketball.
Play basketball, tho I suck at it (and I’m like 5’0 as well so yeah 😭)
Or play soccer cuz I luv soccer idk if you do but uh yes
Not JoJo BUT ILL PLAY SOCCER WITH YOU
maybe listening to music while drawing / colouring, eating cookies, and talking?
YIPPEE NEW POLLS PAGE >:0 also the cat picture is so cute XD
waffles… or pancakes?
or french toast /jpancakes :]
French toast > waffles > pancakes
But, tbh, I prefer a sausage or ham sandwich with cheese, tomato, and lettuce for breakfast or a breakfast burrito with sausage, cheese, egg, and mashed potato to any of those three.
french toast fr
Waffles
WAFFLES OFC
uhhh waffles and pancakes
no French toast 😛
FRENCH TOAST
Waffles duh
Honestly both taste the same to me, they just look different.
Waffles but French toast is superior based on the images that appear when I Google it-
pancakessss but they’re all good 😛
WAFFLES AND FRENCH TOAST I CAN’T PICK
all of the above 😛
Pancakes, though I was born on Waffle Day
WAFFLES
I can’t eat French Toast bc I’m allergic to eggs 🙁
Wafflez
new polls page :0
ikr :0
edit: I had to post this three times because I got the ‘you are posting comments too quickly’ twice-
I hate that message omg 😭😭 like I’m on a ROLL right now, get out of my face 😭
SAMEEEEEEEEEEEEE
Stop bringing us down, stupid error :PP
yess :0
Aaaaa ikr?!!
repasta bc NEW POLLS PAGE WTHH??
spam till tenth question :>
https://buddymeter.com/quiz.html?q=wDsLxnG
done
actually please do it here: http://poll-maker.com/poll5355898x039d46bb-160
if you filled it on the buddymeter, you dont have to do it again, i added your responses to the other site 🙂
Lol ofc I voted the Hamilton one because yes
Question for yalls: if you have a phone, when did you get it, and how young are people usually when they get their first phone where you live? Cause I’ve seen a lot of peeps on the blog saying they don’t have a phone, which always takes me by surprise cause in Sweden most kids get them at 8 or 9 years old 😛
i’m in 9th grade (14-15 years old where I live), and I still don’t have a phone. in the state I live in, I think the average is about 11 years old :3
Waaaay to young imo 🙃 I got my phone at 10 because I was home alone after school, and I don’t think that you should be getting it any younger than that
I received my phone when I was older then 15 and younger then 20. Not giving a more specific age. I think in my area the age kinda varies? Some parents don’t care what age their child is before they access technology [I mean, I’ve seen kids like 8 or 4 years old with tablets and phones…] some are adamant that children shouldn’t receive a phone until their 18 or 16 and very unyielding about it.
I got an Android phone when I was nine, but I got a new iPhone for my 12th birthday.
I got mine when I started high school, at 14, but before that, I shared a locked-down phone with my brother from about age 12, just so we could text friends and be able to call our parents if we needed to. Most of our friends got parental controlled phones around 11, I think that’s reasonable, but that restrictions should be lifted sometime in high school
In the us most kids get phones at 10 years old I got mine at 11
I got my phone when I was nine or ten. I think that’s the average for my country? I’ve seen plenty of first and second graders with phones, and by middle school age pretty much everyone has a phone
got a phone like last christmas and most people here have phones by 5th, if not 4th grade (and by seventh i was one of the only ones who wasnt allowed to bring my phone to school)
I got my first phone when I was 14 and it was a flip phone. I got my first smart phone when I was 18 😛
Uhh does an Apple Watch count? If yes I got it in the summer before 7th grade, people usually get phones when they’re in elementary which disturbs me
In the US area I’m in kids tend to get a device of any kind at about 8 and a phone at around 9-11 with parental controls but some people get theirs in high school as well
I think I got my phone when I was like 12?? a little before eighth grade iirc :)) and frankly I have no idea how old kids are when they get their first phone around here, I don’t pay enough attention 😭
I’m in 8th grade, and I don’t have a phone :/
Where I live, most people get their phones near the end of elementary school, I even know some people who got them when they were like 5 XD
I’m not allowed to get a phone until I’m 16 :C Even then I’m probably still gonna have to have parental controls on it. My parents are just really strict lol 😛
I don’t know when they usually get them, all I know is before 7th becuz half the kids in my school have a phone with them :0
I do have a phone… well sorta- it was a pass me down, and I think I got it at 10 or 11? Also the youngest person I’ve known with a phone… was 4… FOUR YEARS OLD >:0 –
WHEN I WAS FOUR I WAS PLAYING WITH SCISSORS AND DEATH-GLARING AT PEOPLE TRYING TO TAKE MY PICTURE, NOT GETTING BRAINWASHED BY A PHONE /J
i got my phone last year december, and it was a cracked hand-me-down iphone 6 😛 i got it because i had to stay home alone after school. around where i live, i think the age kids get a phone varies a lot. like i see some 9 year olds with phones and then i see 8th graders without one, so i guess it depends on the parents
My ‘phone’ is only available for calling and messaging, and I barely use it. I remember that I got my first flip phone when I was 7 years old. Looking back almost a decade later, it seems that was too young.
I’m not too sure about this, but kids in South Korea get flip phones or mini phones at an age as young as 6-8, and almost everyone has a smartphone by age 10-11.
Right now, I’m so glad that my parents enforced a no smartphones rule.
I’m in year seven rn and I got my phone last year on the second last day of year six for graduation, o remember in year five a feeewwww kids has phones and by year six a bunch of ppl did but now in high skl like everyone has one 😛
I mean I’m sure there are a few ppl who don’t but like pretty much everyone
I actually just got a phone over the summer! however I feel like where I live most kids have them probably by age 9 or 10, whereas I’m 13💀
I got mine when I turned 11! Though my parents have repeatedly said “It was a hard choice” 😛 I think the average around here varies, but maybe like between 8-13?? Though I know someone who got a phone when she was 5 LIKE WHAT
I got mine when I was about 11-12? I’m not sure when people generally get their phones, it varies.
If you met me irl, what would we do?
Firstly we would grab Italian sodas together, have fun hanging out in a town and chatting, and then we’d bake gingerbread and cookies! And then at night we’d go swim out in an ocean or a river in the moonlight for as long as we wanted ^^
That’s sounds soo lovely! I love how it all correlates to conversations we’ve had, that’s so sweet <33 we need to meet up and do this fr
Yes, and I’m so glad! <333 Also totally agreed we'd so make a day of it
hmmm wed hang out and um youd be the chaotic one and id be watching silently because im just like that :p in all seriousness tho id love to just watch a movie with a bunch of snacks or smth
YAYYY THIS SOUNDS GREATTT and I love the sound of our dynamic 😛
literally anything and everything
I can’t wait! 😛
Are you somewhere that talks during movies, or are you silent? How annoyed do you get when people talk during movies?
I can be quiet during movies, like if I’m in the movie theatres, but otherwise trust I’ll be yapping. I don’t really get annoyed when people speak during films, if it’s in moderation.
if it’s a serious movie that i care a lot about, then i rlly hate people talking. but if it’s something like the bee movie, then i’ll be yapping the entire time lolll
exactly 😭
I’m quieter then a cat stalking during movies usually, though if I’m with the right people I’ll start making all manner of commentary. Or sometimes I’ll be quiet then suddenly blurt out the most random thing and everyone gives me a look like ‘wut’…
But my default is stony silent.
People chattering over a movie is quite noisome to me. A few years ago I attended this MCU marathon with my elder brother and a few friends of his and my gosh…they were constantly joking the whole time. I did not appreciate that one bit. I tried talking to the adult in charge about the situation but her attitude towards the matter was basically ‘get used to it and accept it’
At least I managed to have some fun, I even made a friend there.
But gosh…I definitely discovered my dislike of people blathering on while I’m trying to enjoy MCU.
I tend to yap so much to movies that my parents have to tell me to shut up or I’ll miss the whole movie :PP
I try to be quiet when I’m in the movie theaters and it annoys me when other people talk there, but at home I don’t really mind 😛
In movie theaters, I’m quiet and I want other people to be quiet. Outside of a theater I am regrettably incapable of not keeping a running commentary 😛 I like when other people chat with me, me and my brother often critique or theorize about movies when we watch them as a family. My parents don’t appreciate it much
I am both 😛 If there’s something cool or funny happening in the movie that I want to point out or talk about or share with someone, I will, but I also think movies are such a cool and immersive experience, so it’s nice to just be plunged into them. That being said, I love it when people want to share things with me about the movie and we end up talking and laughing and stuff! Same as you, I don’t get annoyed as long as it’s in moderation.
I usually stay as quiet as I can, and normally everyone else is (reasonably) quiet as well. Except, I can’t stand people who kick the back of your seat 😛
I love making commentary on all sorts of movies but especially MCU since I know everything about the MCU and the comics so I can’t help but blurt out how xmen days of future past missed the entire plot point in the comics and then say how it should have gone but with other movies I’m pretty quiet
I don’t really mind when someone’s talking during a movie unless its so loud that I can’t hear the movie at all but even then I just read the subtitles lol
I am a yap machine. Even in movie theaters, I am the kid who can’t stop whispering to their mom
BUT AT HOME I AM A MONSTER OMS ESPECIALLY IF I’VE WATCHED THE MOVIE BEFORE-
you will hear about every reference every Easter egg every detail I will not stop until you yell at me
… I think I make some commentary, but most of the time, no
How annoyed when others talk?
Annoyed levels = Maxed
I hate other’s talking when I’m trying to watch a movie, or God forbid, do homework- So yeah
Anyways, now is a good time to say I’ve never ever seen a movie in a movie theater before (The only time I was in one was in the Collage lol, during some speech for 4H)
I think I’m quiet when watching movies at a theatre. But I usually just watch them at home. In that case, I do try to keep quiet but pauses the movie every time I don’t understand a joke or haven’t heard something correctly.
Yeaahhh in theatres I’m quiet typically unless the person next to me isn’t which is mainly when its not at the cinemas, like in my drama class for the last two lessons we watched the greatest showman in the schools theatre and the first time was good and the second time we had a relief teacher and she wouldn’t turn off the lights so my friends and I just made stupid jokes the whole time😛
Movie at home with family I’m quiet, with my friends I yappp
In movie theaters the only noises I make are popcorn munching and shushing my brother
At home I will not stop talking the entire time (even if it’s only me watching it), but only about the movie. I will comment on every aspect of the movie and make predictions out loud and everything. Except the tense parts, you can’t get a sound out of me other than excited squealing then 😛
depends 😛 If I’m feeling talkative I talk quietly, but if I’m not I’m completely silent
I don’t really care if people talk tbh
Sometimes I comment on crazy scenes and stuff, but if everyone is talking all at once or if someone is talking to the point where it’s distracting or too loud, trust me, I’ll be the first person to yell “SHUT UP” 😛
What’s your sexuality and can you explain a bit about it? I’m trying to learn more about labels so I can figure out my own sexuality better 😛
I’m bisexual, which is a label used to describe someone who feels attraction to two or more genders, but not necessarily all of them. In my case, it’s men and women!
I may also be on the aromantic spectrum (I am pretty sure I’m on there somewhere) or possibly lesbian!
And on a scale of one to ten, how confident are you with your sexuality? I’d say 5 or 6 out of 10 for me. I’m kind of confused 😛
all i know is that i’m not a lesbian or ace ahaha, i’ve certainly liked guys, but idk if i’ve liked people of other genders before or not lolol
i don’t rlly feel the need to label myself tho? but thats just a personal preference, and i don’t rlly want to be in a relationship atm
I’m an aceflux lesbian! You probably know what lesbian means but yeah, it’s that I feel attraction to other female people, and aceflux mean that my sexual and romantic attraction vary sometimes! Sometimes I feel like I’m aroace, sometimes I think I’m asexual, sometimes I think I’m demisexual, sometimes I think I’m aromantic and I just couldn’t figure it out until I discovered this divine label lol :PP Now I think I’m pretty sure about my sexuality, like, a 9
(aceflux is only related to the asexual spectrum ^^ from what i hear, what youre experiencing would be aroaceflux, which applies to both the ace spectrum and the aro spectrum /info /nm)
Oops, I googled it and it said it was both for asexual and aromantic :PP Bad Google :PP Then I’m aroaceflux! :DD
I experience what’s commonly known as gender detachment, another term I’ve seen for it is agender. I don’t see myself as a certain gender or having a gender. I see myself as just myself and have no attachment to a gender identity. When people meet me I want them to see me for me, not see me as a woman, or a man or any other gender.
My romantic orientation appears to be biromantic [romantically attracted to all genders], and demi-romantic [experiences romantic attraction only after forming a strong bond]
I generally stick with grey sexual or ‘asexual with exceptions’ as far as my sexuality goes because there are times I truly am asexual and have zero interest in anyone in that kind of way and then…well, there are exceptions where I’ll meet someone and find that I feel that type of way about them and I’m like ‘wait weren’t you supposed to be asexual?’. The feelings usually fade as fast as they arrive though and tend to fluctuate.
(I think you might be panromantic instead if you’re attracted to all genders, correct me if I’m wrong)
(you are correct c:)
(That does fit better)
I’m Aromantic and Asexual, or Aroace for short, which means I don’t experience any romantic or sexual attraction! It’s honestly such a relief, romance sounds like a nightmare (barely even joking lol). Some may think that it sounds boring or sad, but it’s the best thing I’ve ever discovered about myself, and I can’t imagine identifying as anything else.
Idk if this is going to help you at all, but I personally never think about it 😛
I’m definitely straight, because I love girls but not like that lol, but I’ve also only ever thought one guy was attractive at all (Hiccup from HTTYD doesn’t count because I was twelve and he’s animated lol) so I usually just think of myself as “vanilla with standards” 😛
I’m straight (heterosexual is the fancy word ig), and as a girl that means I’m attracted to only guys 😛
I’m also as far from the aro/ace spectrum as you can be lol, I look at guys all the time and semi-crush on like 4 boys in my class atm-
Jacki, why does that sound as the opposite of me :PP Look, I’m lesbian, am aceflux (so on the aroace spectrum sometimes, in any way :PP), have one huge crush (for those who read my confused hug page a while ago, I figured it out and I’m defo still crushing on her :PP), but yeah, I do look at her way too much lol :PP
Oh well… 😛
Oh and also I’m 10/10 sure 😛
Ok so I was born a female but I have always wanted to be a male since 3 years old I hung out with mostly males until 5th grade I still have friends that are males like Ninjapaw (Who is in a room with me rn) and Purrpaw also Makepaw, Cellpaw, Copperpaw, Chickenpaw are all boys. I always have liked boys but I was forced to date a girl against my will. I relized that I was trans when I was 11 years old so in 6th grade I relized I was gay in 6th grade too but when I was 12 but I have always viewed myself as a guy because I am more into guy things like i like playing with mud and rough playing with Ninjapaw. So tenccly I have always been trans and gay
I am 10 out of 10 bc I have been like this since I was three
I think I may be omniromantic (did I even spell that right? 😛) I think I’m attracted to people who are just attractive to me, no matter what their gender is. But the attraction kind of varies and fluctuates depending on the gender.
I’m grey aro + grey ace!
For the most part I don’t experience attraction, but every so often there’s some sort of something there. It’s not very frequent, nor very strong and usually doesn’t stick around, so I have trouble matching it to the different labels for kinds of attraction (and I don’t care enough about it to lend it much thought regardless).
I also had a crush(?) about 5-6 years ago. At the time I definitely considered it to be a crush but at this point the experience feels very distant to me.
I’m pretty confident that I’m at least aspec! I find the grey labels very comfortable as they leave a lot of wiggle room, so I think I’ll likely stick with them for a while.
I’m unlabeled as of now because fitting directly into labels feels nonsensical at the moment! I know I like men because I’ve had a crush on one before, and that’s about it. I suppose I could put myself on the grayromantic scale or the demisexual scale somewhere if I wanted to, but the reason why I don’t is because I feel like I’d always have to stay within the lines of those. So if I had feelings coming up or something that somehow defied the label even a little bit, I’d talk myself out of them or smush myself further into being only like how the labels say I should be, if that makes sense. Plus, there was a time when I had attraction towards some animated women, but I’ve never felt any attraction whatsoever to a woman in real life and the thought of being in a relationship with one just feels like it doesn’t click with me, like two puzzle pieces that just cannot work together. I don’t name myself as bisexual for that reason, but can you say I’m completely straight? I have no clue 😛
So on a scale from one to ten . . . the number’s probably non-existent, I just live not thinking about it fjhghfjsjf 😛 It took me until I don’t know when, seventeen? Eighteen? to feel comfortable with having no label and to stop my constant questioning. If I ever have any feelings in the future that make me feel certain about what I want to identify as, then I’ll label myself. If I want to stay unlabeled, that’s fine too! I’m just playing it more by the moment. Right now I just want to live life without worrying about it and see what happens to me, if anything.
i am demisexual! which means im attracted to whoever as long as im close to them, regardless of gender (like i dont develop crushes on randos i hardly know) and since on the topic of labels im also genderfluid (masc leaning though) which means my gender fluxuates all across the spectrum!
ohhh my
greyromantic: see flame’s comment
gay: i think we all know what this means but in my case i only partially fit the label but i still identify with it if that makes sense?
asexual: i dont experience sexual attraction
panromantic: romantically attracted to any person regardless of their gender
aegoromantic: i like the idea of romance (like romance books and other people’s romances and stuff like that) but dont really want to be directly involved in romance with another person
am i aware that these all contradict each other? yes. do i care? no.
i think maybe an 8
btw my discord dms are always open if you need any advice c:
Is panromantic the same as omniromantic? 😛
While they’re definitely similar, being pan means you’re attracted to anyone of any gender regardless of, well, their gender 😛 , however if you’re omni, then you still experience attraction to any gender, however the person’s gender might have a bit more of an effect! (for example, someone who’s pan might like a guy, however someone who’s omni might like a guy, but how much they like them compared to another person they might have liked in the past might differ because of their genders!) hope this helps!
Ah okay! This helps a lot, thanks Flamilton!
ofc! more than happy to help <3
They are similar, but there is one key difference.
Panromantic means you feel attraction to all genders, and gender doesn’t really affect your attraction. You don’t really have a preference; you don’t care what someone’s gender is. You like who you like.
Omniromantic means you feel attraction to all genders (like pan), but with a strong and notable preference. Gender does affect your attraction. For example, maybe you like all genders but you are more likely to develop a crush on women because you like women more than other genders. That’s omniromantic.
Hope this helps!! <33
Omg thank you 😭
youre welcome :p im such a label hoarder
Entirely aromantic & asexual, so far as I know. (And while I’m aware orientation can be a fluid thing, I’m not sure I’d want to experience anything else. The idea of a relationship of any kind doesn’t appeal to me ^^”)
I’d also consider myself a loveless aromantic, which is a fairly niche label but essentially boils down to the fact that I don’t think I really experience love as an emotion, or at the very least that I have a different experience with it than what’s standard. This threw me off for a long time, because a common sentiment in the aro community is that you “still have platonic love” (not a fan of that idea, not that I don’t think other brands of love should be considered important!), but I’ve never felt that way about my friends, or my family, or even my pets. Which isn’t to say I don’t care about them or enjoy their company. Love’s just not the word I’d use, I don’t think. If that all sounds vague and nebulous, that’s probably my fault rather than the label’s haha. A nifty way I saw it written down was to imagine it like search engines à la: if experiencing the world by loving things is the same as using Google, then I’d be using Bing. Still searching things up and having a grand old time, just not in the same way as other people.
(I will say that I do think I experience platonic attraction in that I’ll fixate my social efforts on certain people I’d really like to be friends with, although I wouldn’t consider that to ever have reached squish levels. But that attraction doesn’t equate to love.)
Huh, that fits me surprisingly well
IIIII AM A LESBIANNNN so as a (mostly) girl I’m attracted to women/femme-aligned/presenting people :)) I’ve never had a crush on a man before but I’ve had many many many on the women!! basically the label of ✨lesbian✨ describes me to a t, I’m just a girl who likes girls and yeah 😛 I’d say a 9 in terms of confidence, I don’t see it changing but if my brain decides differently at any point in the future it’s whatever haha
ohhhh boy lemme pull out my labels (basically all of them have been described but I still want to yap lol)
FIRSTLY, I’m biromatic!! Which basically means what you said but only romantically. I pretty much like everybody, but I do have a preference for guys 😀 (so many people have called me straight but i’m actually genderfluid…. who’s masc most of the time… so it’d be more like gay LMBO)
Now for the sexuality labels!! First one is asexual, which means I experience no sexual attraction :3 I typically use this label when telling people irl but I do use other labels to just describe it a little more since it is an umbrella term 😀
The second one is Fictosexual (which is a bit controversial, I’ve gotten into quite a few fights about it 😛), which means I only feel sexual attraction for fictional characters :p But then I saw that many people wished their fictional crushes were REAL and I was still like NOPE NOPE IN MY HEAD IS FINE THANKS which leads me to my last label, Ageosexual!
Ageosexual, in my words, is having sexual attraction towards someone but having no interest with actually having a relationship like that with them in real life. For me, this is exclusively with fictional characters, but for most people it’s for irl people ;-;
and that’s all of them!! There are quite a couple but for some reason labeling myself makes me feel really comforted, like i’m not crazy and there are actually other people who feel the same that I do that they had to make a label XD
On a scale of 1-10, I would probably place it at an 8.5!! Whenever I feel comfortable with my labels I always find another one lol ;-;
Uh, I think I’m Asexual (Although I could be Autosexual? I don’t know tho.)
Also for romance, I think I’m Biromantic, but also I could be Frayromantic?? (That applies to fictional characters too, btw, as I had learned when I first watched Ep 2 of HH) 😭 I’m more confident with somewhere in the middle of Fray and Bi-
I also don’t understand the difference between Bi and Pan (Oof)
The only thing I’ve come up with (that could be very wrong) is that Bi are attracted to male and female (Bi = 2), and Pan is All All or something. So far, not attracted to Non-binary or others
Confidence = 4
Anyways, I’m going to refer to myself as Bi-Aro probs lol (At least until I’m for sure for sure, the Bi test said I was maybe Bi) (or maybe Fraybi-Aro lol)
Bisexual means attracted to two or more genders
Pansexual means attracted to all.
So I bi person could be attracted to multiple gender but not necessarily ALL, pan people don’t care about gender at all (in regards to attraction)
Hope that makes sense :b
I’m a demisexual lesbian!
Me being a lesbian means I’m attracted to non-male people, although I’ve only ever had one crush that I’ve recognised soooo that could change but rn 9/10 sure
Being Demisexual means I can only form sexual attraction once I form a close bond with the person. So I look at girls on tv and go daaang theyre pretty but I don’t actually have any full fictional crushes because I need to know the person before I can experience sexual attraction.
Basically I’m ace until I know the person. Demisexual is on the ace spectrum. Again 9/10 sure on this one since I’ve only had one crush to go off of ;-;
I’m on the aroace spectrum, which means I experience little to no romantic and sexual attraction! for me, I experience absolutely no sexual attraction (I’m just about the proudest asexual you’ll ever find >:)) and I’ve only really experienced romantic attraction towards people I’ve formed a close bond to!
aka my best friends💀essentially, I’m most certainly asexual, but I’m also demiromantic, meaning that I only experience romantic attraction towards people I’ve formed a close bond with, and in my case it tends to be good friends of mine 😛 I’m also panromantic, meaning that I experience romantic attraction towards anyone regardless of their gender! however I’ve noticed that a majority of my irl crushes/squishes have been towards females 😛 but if you’re counting fictional and/or celebrity crushes/squishes then it’s definitely very mixed!
as for my gender identity, I honestly don’t care much for how people view me or my gender! I currently identify as pangender, meaning that I identify as all genders and don’t really like to just identify as a single one, however I don’t mind the label agender either! agender essentially means you don’t really feel any attachment to a specific gender and would rather identify as none :)) I think both of those could fit me, but I’m definitely cozy with either, as they’re both on the nonbinary spectrum, which is definitely where I feel like I fit the best :DD
for sexuality I’d say about a 9.5, and for gender identity either a 9 or 9.5!
what you said because I’m bi 😛
uhhh maybe a 7/10?? I’m considering looking more into but I’m pretty sure I’m bi
bisexual or omnisexual i think?
4/10 :PP
I’m straight and I’ve only ever felt attraction towards guys. I’ve honestly never really thought about it, kinda just always knew in the back of my mind that I’m straight, so I’d give it a 10 out of 10! However, I will say I’m not interested in a relationship atm :))
I’m Grey-Asexual which means that I feel no sexual attraction towards anyone regardless of gender MOST of the time, but I’m Hetero-romantic which means that I am romantically attracted to the opposite gender to mine.
When I have a crush on someone, it’s always romantic, and I’ve only felt sexual attraction a handful a times in my lifetime. 🙂
As for my confidence regarding my Grey-Asexuality, I’d rate it a 7 or 8/10 because I’m glad to be Grey-Ace, but some people still don’t understand it; I’ve heard some people say that they believe that “being Ace is the same as being straight” and I’ve been told a few times that “I’ll change my mind when I find “The One” eventually.”
I’ve met a few fellow Ace/Ace-Spec people in real life (which is surprising because I thought us Ace people were rare) and that has helped me to connect with other Ace/Ace-Spec people and talk about our experiences, plus I always wear an Ace Ring on my right hand which helps me to express and accept my identity as a Grey-Ace person. 🙂
If you met me irl, what would you want to do together? :DD
Anything… hang out, draw, watch a movie, just talk??
Run around and play games also do whatever
Binge watch tv shows!!!!