26,926 Replies to “The Hug Page”

  1. Pastelpaw🌸Pasty
    September 19, 2019 at 10:56 pm

    Lately I’ve been thinking of switching friend groups. I love my friends but lately they have been kinda not good friends. I do have 2 not so close friends outside of my group but I do not want to be in their groups.

    1) Some of them made up code words for other people and they keep on shoving it in my face and won’t tell me what they mean. It’s really annoying.
    2) I feel really ignored when I’m with my friends like during chapel my friends in my advisory will all talk together and ignore me. Today I said I might leave the squad and they barely had a reaction.
    3) I haven’t been satisfied with my friends for a while now. I love them a lot but I really want to be in another group but that will never happen because I only have 1 class with someone in the group I wanna be in.

    I hate feeling like I have no true friends. I don’t really want to talk to my parents about this because of some reasons I don’t really know how to explain but they know I want to make more friends.


    And that’s the tea.

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    • Cheetahspark
      September 20, 2019 at 12:56 am

      Aww Pasty, I felt like that for a long time and I know it’s a horrible feeling. You just have to think about who you’re happiest with, and who will/does treat you like a true friend should. You’re the only person who can make the decision, but you have to decide based on what is best for you and what makes you happiest, not to be in the “popular crowd”, not to fit in, or not because you might be scared of change. *huggles*


      Spidey4SW

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    • September 20, 2019 at 2:01 am

      Sorry, Pasty! Just stick with people that you feel true to. Maybe you could talk to them about it? I am kind of struggling with the same thing, so don’t feel alone!

      Infinite huggles for you!

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    • Nighty
      September 20, 2019 at 3:19 am

      I can totally relate. I decided to switch groups, and I hardly knew the other groups members. One of the best decisions of my life, but make sure you know that’s the decision you want to make before you make it. Hugs!

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    • Eaglefrost
      September 20, 2019 at 5:38 am

      I completely relate. I didn’t have any friends in high school, but rather a group of people who (sometimes) let me hang out with them at school, but I was never invited to any after school activities. I don’t really know what to say to help you because to be honest, I didn’t meet my true friends until college. But, I agree with Cheetah: hang out with whoever will make you the happiest and feel the best about yourself.


      Sound of the warrior

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    • September 20, 2019 at 2:58 pm

      I experienced the exact same thing the last few years at dance. Everything’s been better since I changed to hanging out with other friends.(Now I’m pretty much leader of the squad) So if it feel right, then it’s probably right <3


      머리아프다

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  2. Eaglefrost
    September 20, 2019 at 5:41 am

    I feel like death both mentally and physically. My allergies are killing me and on top of that, I’m going a depressive episode. In other words, all I wanna do is sleep. I’ve already missed two classes this week because I’ve felt so crappy. I don’t know if my allergies are heightening my depression, or if my depression is heightening my allergies, or what, but it needs to stop. And on that note, I’m starting to think that I may have a mild form of bipolar because I never have a “normal” mood: I’m always up or down.


    Sound of the warrior

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    • Nighty
      September 20, 2019 at 2:04 pm

      I’m sorry that’s awful…I can’t exactly relate, but for the depression, maybe watch a happy movie or show you really like? Hugs!

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    • Birchfoot
      September 20, 2019 at 9:26 pm

      I’m sorry Eagle love <3

      Don't worry about your classes right now; do you think you can email your teachers and explain your situation? Or contact a guidance counselor at your college if you haven't already so they can help you balance your school and mental health. If not, I'd recommend finding at least one person in your class that you are friends with and make a form of study group so you can share notes with each other - that way, even if you miss a class, you can still get some notes (and the reverse, too! It's mutually beneficial 🙂 <3 )

      I'd definitely talk about your concerns surrounding bipolar to your doctor <3

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  3. Shadowcloud (Clo)
    September 20, 2019 at 12:22 pm

    Guys I think i’m about to go through one of my first periods and I have school today 🙁

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    • 🐍❄Viperfrost, Allegiances Editor Edition❄🐍
      September 20, 2019 at 1:10 pm

      I’m sorry, Clo 🙁 That’s never fun. Stay strong <3


      reality is an illusion

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    • Iceeeeeeeeeee (Icy)
      September 20, 2019 at 3:45 pm

      Awww. 🙁 It’ll be okay! Keep some pads in your backpack and excuse yourself when you need to. ❤


      ᴇᴠᴇʀʏ ᴛᴜᴅᴏʀ ʀᴏꜱᴇ ʜᴀꜱ ᴛʜᴏʀɴꜱ 🌹

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    • September 20, 2019 at 5:11 pm

      Aw I’m sorry, Clo. Periods are no fun… Be sure to have a spare change of clothes and pads though in case of an emergency.


      Ready as I'll ever be!!

    • Birchfoot
      September 20, 2019 at 9:30 pm

      It’ll be okay <3 it's only max one week! Then it's done for a while 🙂

      just make sure you have extra pads or tampons in your bag at all times (even if you don't need one, someone else might. I go to an all girls' school, so there's always people asking if someone has pads or painkillers). If your stomach starts to hurt, that's normal - it's cramps and there's a medical reason why you feel pain due to your period. Most people get cramps with their period, so don't freak out! Just take a painkiller or get a hot water bottle and lie down; it'll go away at some point <3 (though if your pain is really affecting you, you can always talk to a doctor!!)

      I'd also bring a change of clothes in case of an accident. If worst comes to worst, you can tie a sweater around your waste 🙂

      I also get quite dehydrated during it, so i'd recommend keeping a water bottle with you!

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    • September 20, 2019 at 10:00 pm

      Awww, I’m sorry to hear that. Be sure to keep a spare change of clothes and whatever hygiene products you use close by. I wish you luck!


      Oh boy howdy...

  4. September 20, 2019 at 1:31 pm

    I wish my extreme social anxiety didn’t get in the way of talking to other people because having a panic attack is just great, isn’t it :/


    ketchup is a smoothie

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    • Hailpaw/storm-Haillie(hail-ee)
      September 20, 2019 at 9:20 pm

      Aww..hugs.. I am very shy too.


      Hail That Falls In The Night

  5. 🦈The Shark 🦈
    September 20, 2019 at 6:59 pm

    I got my period again 😓 it doesn’t hurt as much as usual but I’m still not used to it . I have supply’s but not the right kind and its annoying . Yeah and I’m coming home tomorrow and traveling so its just my luck .

  6. Hailpaw/storm-Haillie(hail-ee)
    September 20, 2019 at 9:25 pm

    My brother lowers my self-esteem a lot and it is getting in the way of making new friends this year…. So, now in Spanish, I don’t really have any really close friends or friends friends in my class, so I don’t have anyone to talk to at lunch….. My family tries to help, but it just goes right over my brother’s head and it makes me insecure. 😢😰
    (I don’t know why I am posting this now because it has been happening for a while now…..😪)


    Hail That Falls In The Night

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    • September 20, 2019 at 10:03 pm

      It’s alright if you weren’t able to talk about it before, and I’m glad you’re getting the courage to be more open about this problem. My brothers are a bit like that too. Just remember, if all of what he has to say about you is negative, then that says far more about him than you. I hope things get better.


      Oh boy howdy...

      • Hailpaw/storm-Haillie(hail-ee)
        September 20, 2019 at 10:44 pm

        thx!


        Hail That Falls In The Night

  7. Grayfoot
    September 20, 2019 at 10:57 pm

    I don’t usually talk with others about what’s bugging me inside but
    I need to get this off

    For a reason;; I’m sadly rehoming one of my beloved cats tomorrow. I’ve had him since he was little, he’s really cute, playful, energetic and sometimes annoying hehe,,,, and,,,,idk how i feel about this lol
    He’ll be in good hands with someone i know and I’m sure he’s going to be happy with his new home, i just,,,,can’t stop thinking. I’m happy and sad at the same time, like,,,,what if things went wrong?? What if he didn’t get along with his new owner/home??? Get kicked out again? etc etc??????

    Eyyyyyyyy i feel like i wanna cry. Such a big rollercoaster of emotions haha


    Give m e berries

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    • September 20, 2019 at 11:05 pm

      It’s okay <3 Is there any way you can visit him at some point? And I'm sure if it's someone you know they'll take good care of him or otherwise they'll have to face your wrath 😉


      머리아프다

  8. Icepaw(stream)
    September 20, 2019 at 11:00 pm

    I talked with my parents about volleyball, but they said that I needed to do it, and I did say that I found it time-consuming 🙁


    How do you make good siggies

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