The Hug Page

The Hug Page is here. Because, whoever we are, we still need hugs. This is still the best place to come if you’re feeling sad and need a hug from BlogClan…

Fading Echoes

(Sh! This is a new Hug Page. You can find the old one here)

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🌊🍬Gracepaw(splash)/Gracey the Candy Crazy🍬🌊
🌊🍬Gracepaw(splash)/Gracey the Candy Crazy🍬🌊
September 21, 2020 6:19 pm

To everyone, and especially to those who are feeling suicidal..
This is just a little present to thank BlogClan for being so kind to me 🙂


Crystalsight's ap, Sasha's BFF

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Lavender is here to scare you with Halloween powers!!!! (Lavenderkit)
Lavender is here to scare you with Halloween powers!!!! (Lavenderkit)
September 21, 2020 7:26 pm

Thank you Gracesplash (hope you want to be called that :P)! That’s so sweet of you to post these, I’m sure they’re helping others


Read this signature now!

🌊🍬Gracepaw(splash)/Gracey the Candy Crazy🍬🌊
🌊🍬Gracepaw(splash)/Gracey the Candy Crazy🍬🌊
September 21, 2020 11:00 pm

Thanks, Lavenderkit!!
(And I have no problem at all with being called Gracesplash, or anything else as long as it is appropriate!)


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Lavender is here to scare you with Halloween powers!!!! (Lavenderkit)
Lavender is here to scare you with Halloween powers!!!! (Lavenderkit)
September 22, 2020 5:19 am

Ok


Read this signature now!

♥️ѕιиgιи' ιи тнє яαιи/яαιиѕσиg♥️ (яαιиу)
♥️ѕιиgιи' ιи тнє яαιи/яαιиѕσиg♥️ (яαιиу)
September 21, 2020 11:18 pm

awww thank you, gracey!!! This made me feel really goood.


sʜᴏᴡᴇᴅ ᴜᴘ ᴀᴛ ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴘᴀʀᴛʏ

🌊🍬Gracepaw(splash)/Gracey the Candy Crazy🍬🌊
🌊🍬Gracepaw(splash)/Gracey the Candy Crazy🍬🌊
September 22, 2020 12:20 am

No problem!!


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Crystalsight
Crystalsight
September 22, 2020 1:31 am

Aww. Gracey, this is so nice of you.


Mentor-of-Gracepaw

🌊🍬Gracepaw(splash)/Gracey the Candy Crazy🍬🌊
🌊🍬Gracepaw(splash)/Gracey the Candy Crazy🍬🌊
September 22, 2020 1:45 am
Reply to  Crystalsight

^^ 😀


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Shadowwing
Shadowwing
September 22, 2020 3:21 am

good quote. thank you


break scouter-"ITS OVER 9000"

🌊🍬Gracepaw(splash)/Gracey the Candy Crazy🍬🌊
🌊🍬Gracepaw(splash)/Gracey the Candy Crazy🍬🌊
September 22, 2020 3:50 am
Reply to  Shadowwing

No problem 😀


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Lionpaw(pool)
Lionpaw(pool)
September 22, 2020 1:48 pm

You’re awesome Gracey! Thank you, it’s the sweetest thing I’ve seen all week, I need it.


The leaves are already falling

🌊🍬Gracepaw(splash)/Gracey the Candy Crazy🍬🌊
🌊🍬Gracepaw(splash)/Gracey the Candy Crazy🍬🌊
September 22, 2020 4:06 pm
Reply to  Lionpaw(pool)

^^


Crystalsight's ap, Sasha's BFF

🍃leafyshadow-leafykit-you can call me as a leafy🍃
🍃leafyshadow-leafykit-you can call me as a leafy🍃
September 22, 2020 2:15 pm

Yeah it made me feel better ,beacuse one of the my fav stray cat was picked up(adopted) other people at august.I realized that today.so I feel sad about it.😕


Cat is everything to me OwO

🌊🍬Gracepaw(splash)/Gracey the Candy Crazy🍬🌊
🌊🍬Gracepaw(splash)/Gracey the Candy Crazy🍬🌊
September 22, 2020 4:06 pm

<3


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Snowbreeze
Snowbreeze
September 22, 2020 2:50 pm

I love this quote, thank you! <3

🌊🍬Gracepaw(splash)/Gracey the Candy Crazy🍬🌊
🌊🍬Gracepaw(splash)/Gracey the Candy Crazy🍬🌊
September 22, 2020 4:06 pm
Reply to  Snowbreeze

😀


Crystalsight's ap, Sasha's BFF

🎃𝕻𝖚𝖒𝖕𝖐𝖎𝖓𝖇𝖑𝖝𝖘𝖘𝖔𝖒𝖕𝖆𝖜 || 𝕿𝖍𝖊 𝖄𝖊𝖑𝖑𝖔𝖜 𝕻𝖚𝖒𝖕𝖐𝖎𝖓 𝕱𝖑𝖔𝖜𝖊𝖗🎃 ~ 𝕭𝖑𝖔𝖔𝖒𝖎𝖊 𝖙𝖍𝖊 𝕲𝖑𝖔𝖔𝖒𝖎𝖊
🎃𝕻𝖚𝖒𝖕𝖐𝖎𝖓𝖇𝖑𝖝𝖘𝖘𝖔𝖒𝖕𝖆𝖜 || 𝕿𝖍𝖊 𝖄𝖊𝖑𝖑𝖔𝖜 𝕻𝖚𝖒𝖕𝖐𝖎𝖓 𝕱𝖑𝖔𝖜𝖊𝖗🎃 ~ 𝕭𝖑𝖔𝖔𝖒𝖎𝖊 𝖙𝖍𝖊 𝕲𝖑𝖔𝖔𝖒𝖎𝖊
September 22, 2020 4:16 pm

Thank you Gracey <3 I really needed this


✨don't take my big candy bars✨

🌊🍬Gracepaw(splash)/Gracey the Candy Crazy🍬🌊
🌊🍬Gracepaw(splash)/Gracey the Candy Crazy🍬🌊
September 22, 2020 5:49 pm

No problem!


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Whitepaw (Whiterabbit)
Whitepaw (Whiterabbit)
September 22, 2020 6:41 pm

I love it!


Let the cat out of the bag!

🌊🍬Gracepaw(splash)/Gracey the Candy Crazy🍬🌊
🌊🍬Gracepaw(splash)/Gracey the Candy Crazy🍬🌊
September 22, 2020 9:16 pm

:))))))))))

Vortexkit likes ravens!
Vortexkit likes ravens!
September 21, 2020 11:58 pm

If anyone is feeling sad or a little depressed,
remember:


Milk before cereal?

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🌊🍬Gracepaw(splash)/Gracey the Candy Crazy🍬🌊
🌊🍬Gracepaw(splash)/Gracey the Candy Crazy🍬🌊
September 22, 2020 1:45 am

yessss


Crystalsight's ap, Sasha's BFF

Silverpaw (shadow)
Silverpaw (shadow)
September 22, 2020 1:51 am

lol, good inspiration ya got there hobbit dude


Shadowwing
Shadowwing
September 22, 2020 3:22 am

lol funny quote


break scouter-"ITS OVER 9000"

Snowbreeze
Snowbreeze
September 22, 2020 2:51 pm

Awww 😛

🎃𝕻𝖚𝖒𝖕𝖐𝖎𝖓𝖇𝖑𝖝𝖘𝖘𝖔𝖒𝖕𝖆𝖜 || 𝕿𝖍𝖊 𝖄𝖊𝖑𝖑𝖔𝖜 𝕻𝖚𝖒𝖕𝖐𝖎𝖓 𝕱𝖑𝖔𝖜𝖊𝖗🎃 ~ 𝕭𝖑𝖔𝖔𝖒𝖎𝖊 𝖙𝖍𝖊 𝕲𝖑𝖔𝖔𝖒𝖎𝖊
🎃𝕻𝖚𝖒𝖕𝖐𝖎𝖓𝖇𝖑𝖝𝖘𝖘𝖔𝖒𝖕𝖆𝖜 || 𝕿𝖍𝖊 𝖄𝖊𝖑𝖑𝖔𝖜 𝕻𝖚𝖒𝖕𝖐𝖎𝖓 𝕱𝖑𝖔𝖜𝖊𝖗🎃 ~ 𝕭𝖑𝖔𝖔𝖒𝖎𝖊 𝖙𝖍𝖊 𝕲𝖑𝖔𝖔𝖒𝖎𝖊
September 23, 2020 4:19 pm

nice quote 😛


✨don't take my big candy bars✨

Feathers of a Lark (Larkfeather)
Feathers of a Lark (Larkfeather)
September 22, 2020 3:04 pm

Ok its WAY to early for me to be typing another thing, but something happened yesterday and it made me really mad, but i didnt have a chance to write it yesterday so here we are.

Ok, so this guy, Lets call him Mouseheart, (my friend has requested stupid head lol 😛 ) is such a jerk. Its gym class, and my other friend is being… herself. And im completely fine with that dont get me wrong!! I act like an idiot with her all the time, we are like, best friends. But she runs out of the room, and Mouseheart says, “I feel bad for you.” and of course, i ask, “why?” and he says, “Because of her.” and internally, i flipped out and really wanted to smack him, but i remained cool and said, “well don’t be.” Does he feel bad because i have to ‘deal’ with her, or because of the way she acts…? And ive been thinking about it ever since then. I love my friend, and would never be sorry for being her friend. It just makes me feel really sad that other people think like Mouseheart. My friend is so nice and sweet once you get to know her. I couldnt imagine what id do without her.

Anyways, this is my newest rant. There might be more tbh, but idk becuz i havnt seen Mousheart today, and my friend is at home now. but yeah, thx for reading my rant


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🌊🍬Gracepaw(splash)/Gracey the Candy Crazy🍬🌊
🌊🍬Gracepaw(splash)/Gracey the Candy Crazy🍬🌊
September 22, 2020 4:09 pm

You shouldn’t care about what Mouseheart thinks. If you’re happy being your friend’s friend, you just enjoy the time, not worry about what others are seeing. Hugs! *hugs*


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streampaw
streampaw
September 22, 2020 5:05 pm

i’m sure that mouseheart feels both ways, but it’s still not ok and he might also just feel jealous of u bc he has no friends (which he doesn’t deserve any haha) but the best u can do is to be urself, or talk to a parent or teacher about it

🌊🍬Gracepaw(splash)/Gracey the Candy Crazy🍬🌊
🌊🍬Gracepaw(splash)/Gracey the Candy Crazy🍬🌊
September 22, 2020 7:58 pm
Reply to  streampaw

Everyone deserves friends…


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streampaw
streampaw
September 22, 2020 11:15 pm

well mouseheart was mean to larkheart’s friend which isn’t acceptable, but who knows there could be a good trait in him idk

🍐Pear🍐
🍐Pear🍐
September 22, 2020 6:15 pm

Don’t listen to Mouseheart. Hugs!


Reply with Halloween name!

Vortexkit likes ravens!
Vortexkit likes ravens!
September 22, 2020 6:49 pm

My advice (that most people wont follow) is to treat others the way they treat YOU, not how they treat someone else. I know that sounds a little stupid, but if your friend is amazing but Mouseheart doesn’t think so, you should treat your friend amazingly because, well, she treats YOU amazingly! This advice doesn’t even make sense!! 😀 *Huggies!*


Milk before cereal?

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🌊🍬Gracepaw(splash)/Gracey the Candy Crazy🍬🌊
🌊🍬Gracepaw(splash)/Gracey the Candy Crazy🍬🌊
September 22, 2020 9:15 pm

Oh, the Golden Rule! “Do unto others as you would want them to do unto you.” Definition: Treat others as you would want them to treat you. That’s awesome advice, Vortexkit!

Feathers of a Lark (Larkfeather)
Feathers of a Lark (Larkfeather)
September 23, 2020 1:26 pm

It makes perfect sense! ^^ im always nice if someones nice to me


Larkie-ba-Darkie... idk

Shadowwing
Shadowwing
September 22, 2020 9:10 pm

*hugs*


break scouter-"ITS OVER 9000"

🎃𝕻𝖚𝖒𝖕𝖐𝖎𝖓𝖇𝖑𝖝𝖘𝖘𝖔𝖒𝖕𝖆𝖜 || 𝕿𝖍𝖊 𝖄𝖊𝖑𝖑𝖔𝖜 𝕻𝖚𝖒𝖕𝖐𝖎𝖓 𝕱𝖑𝖔𝖜𝖊𝖗🎃 ~ 𝕭𝖑𝖔𝖔𝖒𝖎𝖊 𝖙𝖍𝖊 𝕲𝖑𝖔𝖔𝖒𝖎𝖊
🎃𝕻𝖚𝖒𝖕𝖐𝖎𝖓𝖇𝖑𝖝𝖘𝖘𝖔𝖒𝖕𝖆𝖜 || 𝕿𝖍𝖊 𝖄𝖊𝖑𝖑𝖔𝖜 𝕻𝖚𝖒𝖕𝖐𝖎𝖓 𝕱𝖑𝖔𝖜𝖊𝖗🎃 ~ 𝕭𝖑𝖔𝖔𝖒𝖎𝖊 𝖙𝖍𝖊 𝕲𝖑𝖔𝖔𝖒𝖎𝖊
September 23, 2020 4:18 pm

Don’t listen to Mouseheart! Ignore him and just enjoy the time you have with her friend.
*Hugs*


✨don't take my big candy bars✨

Stream that Splashes Under Twilight Stars (Streams
Stream that Splashes Under Twilight Stars (Streams
September 22, 2020 6:06 pm

I don’t have much time anymore to be on the blog and reply to everyone’s comments but I just want to say thanks to everyone for the kind words. It made me feel better and realize that being atheist is not a big deal. I will probably tell my friends eventually but it probably won’t matter to them. Thanks to everyone again

🍐Pear🍐
🍐Pear🍐
September 22, 2020 6:16 pm

No problem! We are always here for you <33


Reply with Halloween name!

🌊🍬Gracepaw(splash)/Gracey the Candy Crazy🍬🌊
🌊🍬Gracepaw(splash)/Gracey the Candy Crazy🍬🌊
September 22, 2020 6:21 pm

That’s what the hug page is here for! *hugs* <3


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Turtle 💚🐢🐢🐢💚
Turtle 💚🐢🐢🐢💚
September 22, 2020 8:58 pm

<3
You’re welcome, Streamy. Also, I’m an atheist as well!

Raining who can't sign in
Raining who can't sign in
September 23, 2020 11:16 pm

Your welcome Streamy! <3 I haven’t done anything bc with school starting i haven’t been the most active.

I’m an atheist too!

streampaw
streampaw
September 24, 2020 4:10 pm

i dont really know u bc i’m new but i’m atheist too so ur not alone but i’ll be here for u 🙂

Fawny With The Freckles (Fawnspots)
Fawny With The Freckles (Fawnspots)
September 22, 2020 10:29 pm

I just need a hug.


I'm dying

falling feather
falling feather
September 22, 2020 10:45 pm

hugs 🐥 🐣 🐤 🐱 🐥 🐥
How’s your drawing of your new oc coming? 😊


✧ vouch for foxie! ✧

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🍐Pear🍐
🍐Pear🍐
September 23, 2020 12:04 am

Hugs! And a cookie! 💖🍪


Reply with Halloween name!

🌊🍬Gracepaw(splash)/Gracey the Candy Crazy🍬🌊
🌊🍬Gracepaw(splash)/Gracey the Candy Crazy🍬🌊
September 23, 2020 12:10 am

*hug* Don’t die!


Crystalsight's ap, Sasha's BFF

Flameling the Earthcloud
Flameling the Earthcloud
September 23, 2020 12:24 am

*hugsss*

🌲Pinestripe🐿️
🌲Pinestripe🐿️
September 23, 2020 7:19 am

*Hugs* <3

Shadowwing
Shadowwing
September 23, 2020 9:50 am

*hugs*


break scouter-"ITS OVER 9000"

Turtle 🐢🐢🐢ships RavenXBarley forever and ever
Turtle 🐢🐢🐢ships RavenXBarley forever and ever
September 23, 2020 9:18 pm

*hugs* Here, have a cookie as well! 🍪

Snowbreeze
Snowbreeze
September 24, 2020 2:50 pm

*Hugs* Whatever’s bothering you, I hope you feel better soon! <333

Crystalsight
Crystalsight
September 23, 2020 2:03 am

My little sister gets all she want, she even gets mad when something doesn’t go her way. But she’s not like 7 years, she’s 2 years younger than me. My parents don’t get mad at her for crying over anything. But when I get stressed or mad my parents get all angry with me. I feel they don’t love me. I feel no one understands me. On top, I have many school home work. I get stressed easily, and my parents keep telling me off about that.


Mentor-of-Gracepaw

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🌊🍬Gracepaw(splash)/Gracey the Candy Crazy🍬🌊
🌊🍬Gracepaw(splash)/Gracey the Candy Crazy🍬🌊
September 23, 2020 3:08 am
Reply to  Crystalsight

Little siblings…… Ugh, they can be so annoying. I have a little sister, 3 years younger (so 8 because I’m 11), who can get her way with anything.
(Bloomie has more siblings though so I shouldn’t complain)
(Fun fact: Bloomie and I are writing about how little siblings are annoying lol)
BlogClan understands you. They love you, almost like family. I know we can never replace family, but everyone will be right here for you if you need us 😀 *hugs*


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Feathers of a Lark (Larkfeather)
Feathers of a Lark (Larkfeather)
September 23, 2020 1:42 pm
Reply to  Crystalsight

i COMPLETELY understand. My little brother is 7 years younger (yes, 7) and its AWFUL. he almost never gets in trouble for anything he does, and when he does, its not that bad of a punishment, so i get where you’re coming from. My grandma always tells me to try and do the right thing in the situation, if your sister is being annoying, just ignore her. If you get in trouble for something she did, dont try and complain that you did nothing wrong, it will only get you in bigger trouble, just accept it. If your sister sees she cant get on your nerves like that, then maybe itll stop. (tho i know theres a high possibility it wont, i do exactly this and its still pretty bad, just not as much. but every family is different.) And my parents get angry with me as well for no reason. I just do what im told and hope for the best. As for hw, i have a ton of it to. If its math and chat is open, i know Embix, Viper, and Goldi could help you! as for other subjects, maybe message your friends for help. And if your parents keep telling you off for being stressed, why dont you talk to a trusted adult at school? i know one of my friends does that and it helps her a lot.

No one doesnt love you! Your parents are hard on you BECAUSE they love you. i know it doesnt seem like it right now, but its true. You probably hear this a lot as well, but still. and everyone here in BlogClan loves and supports you! ^^

anyways, this wasnt supposed to turn into this super long comment, but i hope it helped


Larkie-ba-Darkie... idk

Raining who can't sign in
Raining who can't sign in
September 23, 2020 11:19 pm

I completly agree! And I completly understand what your going through Crystal, I’ve got the same problem, In my cas it’s little brother (ugh).

🎃𝕻𝖚𝖒𝖕𝖐𝖎𝖓𝖇𝖑𝖝𝖘𝖘𝖔𝖒𝖕𝖆𝖜 || 𝕿𝖍𝖊 𝖄𝖊𝖑𝖑𝖔𝖜 𝕻𝖚𝖒𝖕𝖐𝖎𝖓 𝕱𝖑𝖔𝖜𝖊𝖗🎃 ~ 𝕭𝖑𝖔𝖔𝖒𝖎𝖊 𝖙𝖍𝖊 𝕲𝖑𝖔𝖔𝖒𝖎𝖊
🎃𝕻𝖚𝖒𝖕𝖐𝖎𝖓𝖇𝖑𝖝𝖘𝖘𝖔𝖒𝖕𝖆𝖜 || 𝕿𝖍𝖊 𝖄𝖊𝖑𝖑𝖔𝖜 𝕻𝖚𝖒𝖕𝖐𝖎𝖓 𝕱𝖑𝖔𝖜𝖊𝖗🎃 ~ 𝕭𝖑𝖔𝖔𝖒𝖎𝖊 𝖙𝖍𝖊 𝕲𝖑𝖔𝖔𝖒𝖎𝖊
September 23, 2020 4:14 pm
Reply to  Crystalsight

Yeah, sometimes I have similar problems. I have four younger siblings who always seem to get better treatment than I do and a LOT of homework, so I understand what you’re going through. But BlogClan is here for you! We’re here to support clanmates through tough times. We’ll be here if you need us 🙂 *huggies*


✨don't take my big candy bars✨

Shadowwing
Shadowwing
September 23, 2020 5:54 pm
Reply to  Crystalsight

*hugs*


break scouter-"ITS OVER 9000"

Stripekit
Stripekit
September 24, 2020 12:20 am
Reply to  Crystalsight

Same! Well I’m the youngest(by 2 minutes). My older sister and brother get there way every time. When I play on my phone I get in trouble for being on electronics,but my sister and brother are sitting there playing on a phone or computer. I understand and lots of people do. Take Larkfeather’s advice,it’s good. *hugs* 🙂

Flameflower
Flameflower
September 24, 2020 6:42 pm
Reply to  Stripekit

I’m with Stripekit. I am 1 minute older than my twin brother. He can sit on his iPad and play Xbox all day, but then when I try to get on my iPad to check BlogClan for ten minutes, my parents freak. Apparently I’m supposed to be able to sit in my room for five hours with nothing to do. There was a point where apparently we always had to watch TV together, and most of the time it wasn’t even stuff I wanted to watch. I might’ve had an hour until a dance class, and I wanted to get my homework done and read for a bit, but no, we had to watch two shows so I was completely rushed. With us, it just kinda went away (nvm, it’s still sorta there), so I don’t have a whole lot of advice, but maybe talk to your parents about it, or just ignore them when they tell you to get off okay, maybe don’t do that. I tried it. It totally went so well.


He’s adopted. -Thor

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Lionpaw(pool)
Lionpaw(pool)
September 24, 2020 4:12 pm
Reply to  Crystalsight

I know its hard, but really remember that being stressed isn’t worth it. It will waste the time that you could have spent being happy. Homework is hard, but making plans really helps me. Remember that it won’t matter in 10 years, and one bad grade isn’t the end of the world. I’m not trying to tell you not to do your best, but I’m telling you don’t worry. Maybe no one does understand you completely,no human is over complexity, I promise. I know for sure that if you open yourself to people they can try to understand. I know your parents love you. Deal with your sister as she comes, I’ve got a similar problem with my little sister, but that’s a different story.
*Hugs* The Blog will always be there for you.


The leaves are already falling

streampaw
streampaw
September 24, 2020 4:13 pm
Reply to  Crystalsight

yeah i deal with something similar. if she ever annoys u at all, just try to ignore her. i know it’s ridiculously hard but psychologists have proven that it works. if u ever stress over schoolwork, listen to some music or take deep breaths

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September 25, 2020 3:31 am
Reply to  Crystalsight

Siblings can be annoying sometimes, and I have felt like that. I’m sure your family loves you *hugs!*

🎃🦇🖤Heart of Dark Thorns (Brambleheart)🖤🦇🎃
Heart of Dark Thorns
September 23, 2020 2:27 pm

I got a B- on a math quiz. I usually get As. And I have a test on Friday. I hate my life.

Update: I got an A on a history assignment so at least that’s going well. But my mom wants me to aim for an 80 on the test. I hate aiming for marks that I know I won’t reach because when I don’t reach them I beat myself up inside.

Last edited 1 day ago by 🎃🦇🖤Heart of Dark Thorns (Brambleheart)🖤🦇🎃
🌊🍬Gracepaw(splash)/Gracey the Candy Crazy🍬🌊
🌊🍬Gracepaw(splash)/Gracey the Candy Crazy🍬🌊
September 23, 2020 4:14 pm

Don’t hate your life! B- is still better than nothing. You can’t be the top student all the time. Don’t be hard on yourself. (This isn’t the best advice sorry) *hugs*


Crystalsight's ap, Sasha's BFF

Leafeon that can't wait to get out of quarantine (Leafpaw/growl)
Leafeon that can't wait to get out of quarantine (Leafpaw/growl)
September 23, 2020 4:15 pm

I think you need to read “One does not simply understand how awesome you are” and “You were given this life because you were strong enough to live it.” Because you are more then awesome and way past strong enough and a very good friend and clanmate.


🌊🍬Gracepaw(splash)/Gracey the Candy Crazy🍬🌊
🌊🍬Gracepaw(splash)/Gracey the Candy Crazy🍬🌊
September 23, 2020 7:07 pm

Wow you got some good advice Leafpaw


Crystalsight's ap, Sasha's BFF

Leafeon that can't wait to get out of quarantine (Leafpaw/growl)
Leafeon that can't wait to get out of quarantine (Leafpaw/growl)
September 23, 2020 7:52 pm

Thanks! Your’s is great, too!


🌊🍬Gracepaw(splash)/Gracey the Candy Crazy🍬🌊
🌊🍬Gracepaw(splash)/Gracey the Candy Crazy🍬🌊
September 24, 2020 3:58 am

Awww ty


Crystalsight's ap, Sasha's BFF

Lionpaw(pool)
Lionpaw(pool)
September 24, 2020 4:14 pm

B’s are not bad! I’ve got a friend who thinks b’s are bad, but they are fantastic! Of course shoot for A’s but don’t flip if you get B’s because it isn’t the end of you life. You should love your life, it is a gift. Hugs


The leaves are already falling

♥️ѕιиgιи' ιи тнє яαιи/яαιиѕσиg♥️ (яαιиу)
♥️ѕιиgιи' ιи тнє яαιи/яαιиѕσиg♥️ (яαιиу)
September 24, 2020 4:25 pm

I understand how you feel. I usually always get As, but Bs are the end of the world. Besides, the B isn’t the overall grade, you can always try to bring it back up.


sʜᴏᴡᴇᴅ ᴜᴘ ᴀᴛ ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴘᴀʀᴛʏ

🎃🦇🖤Heart of Dark Thorns (Brambleheart)🖤🦇🎃
Heart of Dark Thorns
September 24, 2020 12:29 am

On Monday my mom has a meeting with my math teacher on my progress. If my mom so much as SUSPECTS that I am being “lazy” with my work, she will be mad and I will be in trouble. And my dad will be, too! But what if my mom finds out I am doing badly and punishes me even though I’m trying? What will I tell her? I’m panicking! And she wants me to get an 80 on my test which I know I can’t do and she will think I’m lazy. And if I tell her I’m struggling, she will be mad as well since I’m not going to math help… even though my teachers assign me work during that time. I’m doomed, I say. DOOMED!! I haven’t had school for a week and I am so, so tired and stressed and alone. WHY CAN’T MY MOM BE MORE SUPPORTIVE??!!

Leafeon that can't wait to get out of quarantine (Leafpaw/growl)
Leafeon that can't wait to get out of quarantine (Leafpaw/growl)
September 24, 2020 12:48 am

Where in StarClan is your confidence, Bramble?! *hands barrel of confidence*
There, now, You Are STRONG! You CAN DO This! You are not doomed, you WILL get a good score ’cause you are AWESOME. And if you don’t, which is highly unlikely, you did your best and BlogClan will be proud and that’s all that matters. You Can Do This. *Hugs*


Feathers of a Lark (Larkfeather)
Feathers of a Lark (Larkfeather)
September 24, 2020 3:59 pm

Well first off, your parents should NOT be putting pressure on you to do good in school. If anything, it makes it worse. And second, why dont you try telling your mom how you feel? I know this isnt the easiest thing to do, trust me, i know, but itd still be good to try.

And your not doomed, BlogClans always here to support you! ^^


Larkie-ba-Darkie... idk

Flameflower
Flameflower
September 24, 2020 6:45 pm

As someone once said, “Life is a storm. It might be a hard storm, but it is a storm you can survive. You have a choice: you can either stand strong against the wind and rain, or you can let it sweep you away forever.” *hugs*


He’s adopted. -Thor

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Cinderpaw
Cinderpaw
September 24, 2020 1:06 am

So today I was at girl scouts and everything was going fine until it was time for us to go home. I texted my mom to come pick me up, and waited to leave. That was when I realized something. My ENTIRE girl scout troop, that is right the entire thing, twelve other girls, was going out to get ice cream. And I wasn’t invited. I was the only one who wasn’t. The only one. Now it wasn’t this alone that irritated me. It has happened before. Most of the girls in my girl scout troop are part of the same friend group, they hang out outside of girl scouts, and do stuff like that. I have my own friends to do things like that. What irritated me, and hurt me, was the fact that they didn’t try to hide it. Before they at least had the decency to do it discreetly, to try to not let me know they were doing this. I figured it out eventually, but still. But here, these girls that I have know since kindergarden, (And for context I am in 7th grade) blatantly did not include me in a fun activity with people I am friendly with.

I was fuming, and hurt.

When my Mom found out, it did not go over well. She was furious, and strait up asked me if I wanted to quit. I said no, because I liked the activities enough to put up with these girls. But my Mom than asked me if it was Ok if she emailed the troop leader. I said no because I didnt want to escalate it further, but am still really hurt and just need hugs.

P.S: I have also been wondering if that this continues to happen, maybe I should quit. Advice on this would be greatly appreciated.

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Shadowwing
Shadowwing
September 24, 2020 8:16 am
Reply to  Cinderpaw

*hugs*


break scouter-"ITS OVER 9000"

Stripekit
Stripekit
September 24, 2020 12:55 pm
Reply to  Cinderpaw

I’m so sorry that happened 🙁 Have a hug. *hugs*

♥️ѕιиgιи' ιи тнє яαιи/яαιиѕσиg♥️ (яαιиу)
♥️ѕιиgιи' ιи тнє яαιи/яαιиѕσиg♥️ (яαιиу)
September 24, 2020 1:58 pm
Reply to  Cinderpaw

that sucks :C I’m sorry for what happened. Huggless*


sʜᴏᴡᴇᴅ ᴜᴘ ᴀᴛ ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴘᴀʀᴛʏ

Lionpaw(pool)
Lionpaw(pool)
September 24, 2020 4:17 pm
Reply to  Cinderpaw

Oh, Cinderpaw, I am so sorry. Do you have any friends in your troop you can confront? Maybe you should have your mom email your troop leader. If it hurts you that much you should do something. If you don’t enjoy the troop, quit. Weigh the goods and bads, you can make a decision, I know it.
*Hugs*


The leaves are already falling

Feathers of a Lark (Larkfeather)
Feathers of a Lark (Larkfeather)
September 24, 2020 10:42 pm
Reply to  Cinderpaw

Well, first, thats not nice of them. But i understand. And its good of you to not want to escalate it further. I know people that would just to get ‘revenge’ and to stir up trouble.

And no, i dont think you should quit Girl Scouts! If its something you love doing, who cares what other people think? i dont wanna sound insensitive or anything, but dont waste your time trying to be friends with people who dont want to be friends with you. Trust me, it save so much effort and emotional pain down the road. As long as its what you want to do, dont let anything hold you back!


Larkie-ba-Darkie... idk

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September 25, 2020 3:34 am
Reply to  Cinderpaw

Aww I’m sorry, that’s happened before to me. Once all of my friends were invited to a party, and I wasn’t. That is really mean of them, and I would also be hurt

Dovepaw
Dovepaw
September 24, 2020 2:13 pm

A message for everyone;
Hello all! I just wanted to tell you that you are awesome! Don´t let others say anything else about you! If they do, then they are just jealous!!! Remember, your an amazing person, and you wouldn´t have the life you do if you weren’t good enough to have it!! Everyone is here for you here, whether it be a small issue or a big one! We are all human, so if you have a problem, feel free to tell us all about it. No human being on this planet is perfect. We all mess up sometimes. Your loved by everyone, whether they tend to show it or not. Lastly, Hugs to everyone who needs them most! *Huggsssss*
Remember to stay safe out there, and you got this!!! <33


You were born to shine! :)

🍐Pear🍐
🍐Pear🍐
September 24, 2020 5:56 pm
Reply to  Dovepaw

aww thank you! <3


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Stripekit
Stripekit
September 25, 2020 12:36 am
Reply to  Dovepaw

*HUGS!!* That’s amazing advice 😀

Leafeon that can't wait to get out of quarantine (Leafpaw/growl)
Leafeon that can't wait to get out of quarantine (Leafpaw/growl)
September 24, 2020 6:52 pm

This is a very small problem compared to everything else on here but I need to get this off my chest. So.
My friend’s (I’ll call her Musicpaw) birthday is on Saturday and she asked for something Hamilton themed. Turns out our friend group needs extra credit for Theatre in school so we said we would put on play except online at a crowded role-play game with a chat that we put every song into. That instantly tumbled a million terrible things into my head: What if I mess up? What if I forget something? What if I type to slow? What if I give my friend the worst birthday ever? I’m getting a headache from it and to make it worse we also decided to put the little hidden details in one of us is even going to play ‘the Bullet’. Thankfully Musicpaw gave us the roles that fit our personalities best so one lucky break. But, we have to get onto a zoom call with each other to eat breakfast and talk and wish Musicpaw happy b-day. Then more things popped up in my head: What if I don’t get up in time? What if I miss everything? What if I have to do homework and miss it? I’m trying to blow through my homework but it’s more like plowing through snow just to get stuck in drifts every five seconds. My teachers are giving me no straight answers for what is happening on Friday so that slows me down on homework and adds to stress. I’m wondering if I should say I can’t make it but that’ll make it harder on my friends and then Musicpaw will have a terrible birthday. Some advice would really help.


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