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To everyone, and especially to those who are feeling suicidal..
This is just a little present to thank BlogClan for being so kind to me 🙂
Crystalsight's ap, Sasha's BFFThank you Gracesplash (hope you want to be called that :P)! That’s so sweet of you to post these, I’m sure they’re helping others
Read this signature now!Thanks, Lavenderkit!!
(And I have no problem at all with being called Gracesplash, or anything else as long as it is appropriate!)
Crystalsight's ap, Sasha's BFFOk
Read this signature now!awww thank you, gracey!!! This made me feel really goood.
sʜᴏᴡᴇᴅ ᴜᴘ ᴀᴛ ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴘᴀʀᴛʏNo problem!!
Crystalsight's ap, Sasha's BFFAww. Gracey, this is so nice of you.
Mentor-of-Gracepaw^^ 😀
Crystalsight's ap, Sasha's BFFgood quote. thank you
break scouter-"ITS OVER 9000"No problem 😀
Crystalsight's ap, Sasha's BFFYou’re awesome Gracey! Thank you, it’s the sweetest thing I’ve seen all week, I need it.
The leaves are already falling^^
Crystalsight's ap, Sasha's BFFYeah it made me feel better ,beacuse one of the my fav stray cat was picked up(adopted) other people at august.I realized that today.so I feel sad about it.😕
Cat is everything to me OwO<3
Crystalsight's ap, Sasha's BFFI love this quote, thank you! <3
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Crystalsight's ap, Sasha's BFFThank you Gracey <3 I really needed this
✨don't take my big candy bars✨No problem!
Crystalsight's ap, Sasha's BFFI love it!
Let the cat out of the bag!:))))))))))
If anyone is feeling sad or a little depressed,
remember:
Milk before cereal?yessss
Crystalsight's ap, Sasha's BFFlol, good inspiration ya got there hobbit dude
lol funny quote
break scouter-"ITS OVER 9000"Awww 😛
nice quote 😛
✨don't take my big candy bars✨Ok its WAY to early for me to be typing another thing, but something happened yesterday and it made me really mad, but i didnt have a chance to write it yesterday so here we are.
Ok, so this guy, Lets call him Mouseheart, (my friend has requested stupid head lol 😛 ) is such a jerk. Its gym class, and my other friend is being… herself. And im completely fine with that dont get me wrong!! I act like an idiot with her all the time, we are like, best friends. But she runs out of the room, and Mouseheart says, “I feel bad for you.” and of course, i ask, “why?” and he says, “Because of her.” and internally, i flipped out and really wanted to smack him, but i remained cool and said, “well don’t be.” Does he feel bad because i have to ‘deal’ with her, or because of the way she acts…? And ive been thinking about it ever since then. I love my friend, and would never be sorry for being her friend. It just makes me feel really sad that other people think like Mouseheart. My friend is so nice and sweet once you get to know her. I couldnt imagine what id do without her.
Anyways, this is my newest rant. There might be more tbh, but idk becuz i havnt seen Mousheart today, and my friend is at home now. but yeah, thx for reading my rant
Larkie-ba-Darkie... idkYou shouldn’t care about what Mouseheart thinks. If you’re happy being your friend’s friend, you just enjoy the time, not worry about what others are seeing. Hugs! *hugs*
Crystalsight's ap, Sasha's BFFi’m sure that mouseheart feels both ways, but it’s still not ok and he might also just feel jealous of u bc he has no friends (which he doesn’t deserve any haha) but the best u can do is to be urself, or talk to a parent or teacher about it
Everyone deserves friends…
Crystalsight's ap, Sasha's BFFwell mouseheart was mean to larkheart’s friend which isn’t acceptable, but who knows there could be a good trait in him idk
Don’t listen to Mouseheart. Hugs!
Reply with Halloween name!My advice (that most people wont follow) is to treat others the way they treat YOU, not how they treat someone else. I know that sounds a little stupid, but if your friend is amazing but Mouseheart doesn’t think so, you should treat your friend amazingly because, well, she treats YOU amazingly! This advice doesn’t even make sense!! 😀 *Huggies!*
Milk before cereal?Oh, the Golden Rule! “Do unto others as you would want them to do unto you.” Definition: Treat others as you would want them to treat you. That’s awesome advice, Vortexkit!
It makes perfect sense! ^^ im always nice if someones nice to me
Larkie-ba-Darkie... idk*hugs*
break scouter-"ITS OVER 9000"Don’t listen to Mouseheart! Ignore him and just enjoy the time you have with her friend.
*Hugs*
✨don't take my big candy bars✨I don’t have much time anymore to be on the blog and reply to everyone’s comments but I just want to say thanks to everyone for the kind words. It made me feel better and realize that being atheist is not a big deal. I will probably tell my friends eventually but it probably won’t matter to them. Thanks to everyone again
No problem! We are always here for you <33
Reply with Halloween name!That’s what the hug page is here for! *hugs* <3
Crystalsight's ap, Sasha's BFF<3
You’re welcome, Streamy. Also, I’m an atheist as well!
Your welcome Streamy! <3 I haven’t done anything bc with school starting i haven’t been the most active.
I’m an atheist too!
i dont really know u bc i’m new but i’m atheist too so ur not alone but i’ll be here for u 🙂
I just need a hug.
I'm dyinghugs 🐥 🐣 🐤 🐱 🐥 🐥
How’s your drawing of your new oc coming? 😊
✧ vouch for foxie! ✧Hugs! And a cookie! 💖🍪
Reply with Halloween name!*hug* Don’t die!
Crystalsight's ap, Sasha's BFF*hugsss*
*Hugs* <3
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break scouter-"ITS OVER 9000"*hugs* Here, have a cookie as well! 🍪
*Hugs* Whatever’s bothering you, I hope you feel better soon! <333
My little sister gets all she want, she even gets mad when something doesn’t go her way. But she’s not like 7 years, she’s 2 years younger than me. My parents don’t get mad at her for crying over anything. But when I get stressed or mad my parents get all angry with me. I feel they don’t love me. I feel no one understands me. On top, I have many school home work. I get stressed easily, and my parents keep telling me off about that.
Mentor-of-GracepawLittle siblings…… Ugh, they can be so annoying. I have a little sister, 3 years younger (so 8 because I’m 11), who can get her way with anything.
(Bloomie has more siblings though so I shouldn’t complain)
(Fun fact: Bloomie and I are writing about how little siblings are annoying lol)
BlogClan understands you. They love you, almost like family. I know we can never replace family, but everyone will be right here for you if you need us 😀 *hugs*
Crystalsight's ap, Sasha's BFFi COMPLETELY understand. My little brother is 7 years younger (yes, 7) and its AWFUL. he almost never gets in trouble for anything he does, and when he does, its not that bad of a punishment, so i get where you’re coming from. My grandma always tells me to try and do the right thing in the situation, if your sister is being annoying, just ignore her. If you get in trouble for something she did, dont try and complain that you did nothing wrong, it will only get you in bigger trouble, just accept it. If your sister sees she cant get on your nerves like that, then maybe itll stop. (tho i know theres a high possibility it wont, i do exactly this and its still pretty bad, just not as much. but every family is different.) And my parents get angry with me as well for no reason. I just do what im told and hope for the best. As for hw, i have a ton of it to. If its math and chat is open, i know Embix, Viper, and Goldi could help you! as for other subjects, maybe message your friends for help. And if your parents keep telling you off for being stressed, why dont you talk to a trusted adult at school? i know one of my friends does that and it helps her a lot.
No one doesnt love you! Your parents are hard on you BECAUSE they love you. i know it doesnt seem like it right now, but its true. You probably hear this a lot as well, but still. and everyone here in BlogClan loves and supports you! ^^
anyways, this wasnt supposed to turn into this super long comment, but i hope it helped
Larkie-ba-Darkie... idkI completly agree! And I completly understand what your going through Crystal, I’ve got the same problem, In my cas it’s little brother (ugh).
Yeah, sometimes I have similar problems. I have four younger siblings who always seem to get better treatment than I do and a LOT of homework, so I understand what you’re going through. But BlogClan is here for you! We’re here to support clanmates through tough times. We’ll be here if you need us 🙂 *huggies*
✨don't take my big candy bars✨*hugs*
break scouter-"ITS OVER 9000"Same! Well I’m the youngest(by 2 minutes). My older sister and brother get there way every time. When I play on my phone I get in trouble for being on electronics,but my sister and brother are sitting there playing on a phone or computer. I understand and lots of people do. Take Larkfeather’s advice,it’s good. *hugs* 🙂
I’m with Stripekit. I am 1 minute older than my twin brother. He can sit on his iPad and play Xbox all day, but then when I try to get on my iPad to check BlogClan for ten minutes, my parents freak. Apparently I’m supposed to be able to sit in my room for five hours with nothing to do. There was a point where apparently we always had to watch TV together, and most of the time it wasn’t even stuff I wanted to watch. I might’ve had an hour until a dance class, and I wanted to get my homework done and read for a bit, but no, we had to watch two shows so I was completely rushed. With us, it just kinda went away (nvm, it’s still sorta there), so I don’t have a whole lot of advice, but maybe talk to your parents about it, or just ignore them when they tell you to get off
okay, maybe don’t do that. I tried it. Ittotallywent so well.He’s adopted. -ThorI know its hard, but really remember that being stressed isn’t worth it. It will waste the time that you could have spent being happy. Homework is hard, but making plans really helps me. Remember that it won’t matter in 10 years, and one bad grade isn’t the end of the world. I’m not trying to tell you not to do your best, but I’m telling you don’t worry. Maybe no one does understand you completely,no human is over complexity, I promise. I know for sure that if you open yourself to people they can try to understand. I know your parents love you. Deal with your sister as she comes, I’ve got a similar problem with my little sister, but that’s a different story.
*Hugs* The Blog will always be there for you.
The leaves are already fallingyeah i deal with something similar. if she ever annoys u at all, just try to ignore her. i know it’s ridiculously hard but psychologists have proven that it works. if u ever stress over schoolwork, listen to some music or take deep breaths
Siblings can be annoying sometimes, and I have felt like that. I’m sure your family loves you *hugs!*
I got a B- on a math quiz. I usually get As. And I have a test on Friday. I hate my life.
Update: I got an A on a history assignment so at least that’s going well. But my mom wants me to aim for an 80 on the test. I hate aiming for marks that I know I won’t reach because when I don’t reach them I beat myself up inside.
Don’t hate your life! B- is still better than nothing. You can’t be the top student all the time. Don’t be hard on yourself. (This isn’t the best advice sorry) *hugs*
Crystalsight's ap, Sasha's BFFI think you need to read “One does not simply understand how awesome you are” and “You were given this life because you were strong enough to live it.” Because you are more then awesome and way past strong enough and a very good friend and clanmate.
Wow you got some good advice Leafpaw
Crystalsight's ap, Sasha's BFFThanks! Your’s is great, too!
Awww ty
Crystalsight's ap, Sasha's BFFB’s are not bad! I’ve got a friend who thinks b’s are bad, but they are fantastic! Of course shoot for A’s but don’t flip if you get B’s because it isn’t the end of you life. You should love your life, it is a gift. Hugs
The leaves are already fallingI understand how you feel. I usually always get As, but Bs are the end of the world. Besides, the B isn’t the overall grade, you can always try to bring it back up.
sʜᴏᴡᴇᴅ ᴜᴘ ᴀᴛ ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴘᴀʀᴛʏOn Monday my mom has a meeting with my math teacher on my progress. If my mom so much as SUSPECTS that I am being “lazy” with my work, she will be mad and I will be in trouble. And my dad will be, too! But what if my mom finds out I am doing badly and punishes me even though I’m trying? What will I tell her? I’m panicking! And she wants me to get an 80 on my test which I know I can’t do and she will think I’m lazy. And if I tell her I’m struggling, she will be mad as well since I’m not going to math help… even though my teachers assign me work during that time. I’m doomed, I say. DOOMED!! I haven’t had school for a week and I am so, so tired and stressed and alone. WHY CAN’T MY MOM BE MORE SUPPORTIVE??!!
Where in StarClan is your confidence, Bramble?! *hands barrel of confidence*
There, now, You Are STRONG! You CAN DO This! You are not doomed, you WILL get a good score ’cause you are AWESOME. And if you don’t, which is highly unlikely, you did your best and BlogClan will be proud and that’s all that matters. You Can Do This. *Hugs*
Well first off, your parents should NOT be putting pressure on you to do good in school. If anything, it makes it worse. And second, why dont you try telling your mom how you feel? I know this isnt the easiest thing to do, trust me, i know, but itd still be good to try.
And your not doomed, BlogClans always here to support you! ^^
Larkie-ba-Darkie... idkAs someone once said, “Life is a storm. It might be a hard storm, but it is a storm you can survive. You have a choice: you can either stand strong against the wind and rain, or you can let it sweep you away forever.” *hugs*
He’s adopted. -ThorSo today I was at girl scouts and everything was going fine until it was time for us to go home. I texted my mom to come pick me up, and waited to leave. That was when I realized something. My ENTIRE girl scout troop, that is right the entire thing, twelve other girls, was going out to get ice cream. And I wasn’t invited. I was the only one who wasn’t. The only one. Now it wasn’t this alone that irritated me. It has happened before. Most of the girls in my girl scout troop are part of the same friend group, they hang out outside of girl scouts, and do stuff like that. I have my own friends to do things like that. What irritated me, and hurt me, was the fact that they didn’t try to hide it. Before they at least had the decency to do it discreetly, to try to not let me know they were doing this. I figured it out eventually, but still. But here, these girls that I have know since kindergarden, (And for context I am in 7th grade) blatantly did not include me in a fun activity with people I am friendly with.
I was fuming, and hurt.
When my Mom found out, it did not go over well. She was furious, and strait up asked me if I wanted to quit. I said no, because I liked the activities enough to put up with these girls. But my Mom than asked me if it was Ok if she emailed the troop leader. I said no because I didnt want to escalate it further, but am still really hurt and just need hugs.
P.S: I have also been wondering if that this continues to happen, maybe I should quit. Advice on this would be greatly appreciated.
*hugs*
break scouter-"ITS OVER 9000"I’m so sorry that happened 🙁 Have a hug. *hugs*
that sucks :C I’m sorry for what happened. Huggless*
sʜᴏᴡᴇᴅ ᴜᴘ ᴀᴛ ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴘᴀʀᴛʏOh, Cinderpaw, I am so sorry. Do you have any friends in your troop you can confront? Maybe you should have your mom email your troop leader. If it hurts you that much you should do something. If you don’t enjoy the troop, quit. Weigh the goods and bads, you can make a decision, I know it.
*Hugs*
The leaves are already fallingWell, first, thats not nice of them. But i understand. And its good of you to not want to escalate it further. I know people that would just to get ‘revenge’ and to stir up trouble.
And no, i dont think you should quit Girl Scouts! If its something you love doing, who cares what other people think? i dont wanna sound insensitive or anything, but dont waste your time trying to be friends with people who dont want to be friends with you. Trust me, it save so much effort and emotional pain down the road. As long as its what you want to do, dont let anything hold you back!
Larkie-ba-Darkie... idkAww I’m sorry, that’s happened before to me. Once all of my friends were invited to a party, and I wasn’t. That is really mean of them, and I would also be hurt
A message for everyone;
Hello all! I just wanted to tell you that you are awesome! Don´t let others say anything else about you! If they do, then they are just jealous!!! Remember, your an amazing person, and you wouldn´t have the life you do if you weren’t good enough to have it!! Everyone is here for you here, whether it be a small issue or a big one! We are all human, so if you have a problem, feel free to tell us all about it. No human being on this planet is perfect. We all mess up sometimes. Your loved by everyone, whether they tend to show it or not. Lastly, Hugs to everyone who needs them most! *Huggsssss*
Remember to stay safe out there, and you got this!!! <33
You were born to shine! :)aww thank you! <3
Reply with Halloween name!*HUGS!!* That’s amazing advice 😀
This is a very small problem compared to everything else on here but I need to get this off my chest. So.
My friend’s (I’ll call her Musicpaw) birthday is on Saturday and she asked for something Hamilton themed. Turns out our friend group needs extra credit for Theatre in school so we said we would put on play except online at a crowded role-play game with a chat that we put every song into. That instantly tumbled a million terrible things into my head: What if I mess up? What if I forget something? What if I type to slow? What if I give my friend the worst birthday ever? I’m getting a headache from it and to make it worse we also decided to put the little hidden details in one of us is even going to play ‘the Bullet’. Thankfully Musicpaw gave us the roles that fit our personalities best so one lucky break. But, we have to get onto a zoom call with each other to eat breakfast and talk and wish Musicpaw happy b-day. Then more things popped up in my head: What if I don’t get up in time? What if I miss everything? What if I have to do homework and miss it? I’m trying to blow through my homework but it’s more like plowing through snow just to get stuck in drifts every five seconds. My teachers are giving me no straight answers for what is happening on Friday so that slows me down on homework and adds to stress. I’m wondering if I should say I can’t make it but that’ll make it harder on my friends and then Musicpaw will have a terrible birthday. Some advice would really help.