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(Sh! This is a new Hug Page. You can find the old one here)
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I don’t have any friends and my only friend I have is being mean to me. I’ll name the friend Sandpaw. Sandpaw is constantly teasing me for what I say or do. Sandpaw lies to the teachers and the teachers think I’m doing the thing she is. I’ve noticed the teachers are keeping an eye on me for something she is doing. She also thinks she is better than everyone else. Sandpaw considers people ether dumb or smart and she considers me dumb. I always say um when I speak so I sound like “I am ummm going to target after school.” Other than that I get average and high average grades . I want sandpaw to be a better friend but, Im not going to tell on her or anything. I just hope I’m not going to get in trouble for something that I didn’t do. Again, I don’t have any other friends so in lunch Im going to sit by myself and stuff like that if sandpaw doesn’t stop. I’ve given sandpaw like 100 second chances between 4th grade and now. Sandpaw steals all my ideas and I’m forced to do something else. Sandpaw is becoming a lying machine. Lying to me, her mom,and her teachers but, her teachers think she is an perfect angel. I’m going to take advice from a friend I don’t consider my friend that much any more because she moved a long way from where I live now. Different states. She texted “don’t be with people you don’t want to be with.” She is the only nice friend I used to have. I feel sad every day when I come home from school. Other than sandpaw, everyone in my class makes fun of me but, I don’t care because they are not my friends. So now the only friend I have is one that lives in a different state.
I’m really sorry. I know how it feels to be alone. But having no friends is better than having toxic friends. Sandpaw doesn’t sound like a good friend, and your faraway friend is right. She’s dragging you down. Good ways to meet new friends are to take it slowly, talking to people who seem friendly in classes, and joining clubs and extracurriculars. Saying “um” doesn’t mean you’re not smart, it just means you’re thinking as you speak. Everyone does it. 🙂
🌊 Queen of Canon Correcting🌊I’m sorry <3 *huggles* Sandpaw sounds like a bit of a toxic friend. True friends don't tease you or lie about you all the time <3 I think it might be good to try and make some new friends if you can, because Sandpaw doesn't sound like a great friend 🙁 <3 I know it's really hard to try and find new friends, but a good way is by joining some clubs because you'll meet a lot of people who share similar interests 🙂 I'm sure there are a lot of other people who would like to be your friend!!
And don't worry about saying "umm" or anything like that – they're mostly just filler words that everyone says unconsciously. They don't make you dumb at all!! Most people say them out of habit or because they're trying to think of how to continue their sentence. For example, I say "like" a lot. It's perfectly ok and doesn't make you sound dumb at all <3 <3
I’m so sorry Sandpaw is being such a jerk. 🙁 I think that it would benefit you to break away from Sandpaw. She’s caused you more harm than good and it’s better to have no friends than bad friends. I completely understand how you feel about being lonely. I don’t really have any friends except for one that I can only email. And don’t worry about saying “um” when you speak. It’s something most if not all people do and it does not reflect in any way how smart you are. Like Birchy said, joining clubs are a great way to make new friends with similar interests. I hope you feel better soon! *hugs* <3 <3 <3
Running for SW!!Remember my homeroom teacher who had a baby a little while ago? She won’t be coming back to school for the rest of the year (but she’ll be back next year), which means we will have a sub to replace her. The class thought it would be one of the usual subs who we had had many times before, but this new sub came in instead. She has no idea how to work Google Classroom. She doesn’t do warnings or behavior reports or anything like that if you talk, she writes your name on the whiteboard and says she will call your parents and asks if you want to have lunch with her (even if you’re simply asking someone what the homework was at the end of class, which happened to one kid). If anyone talks, she will spend ten minutes straight lecturing the kid who talked and the whole class about how you shouldn’t talk during class and all the punishments she says she’ll give and other stuff like that. Basically the whole seventh and eighth grades really hate her. Every day we need to complain about her to each other. To make sure she or any of the other teachers don’t know that we’re talking about her, we change her code name each week (since her last name starts with ‘pi,’ we give her code names that start with ‘pi.’ last week was Mrs. Pistachio and this week is Mrs. Pizza 😛) So on Monday she gave us this website we were supposed to log into so we could see our grades anytime we wanted instead of having to wait for the end of each quarter to see them, and literally nobody in seventh or eighth grade had an A. I usually get A’s in social studies, but apparently I had “two missing assignments” that I had actually turned in and I got a C. The situation was the same for a lot of other people. Today I showed her that I had turned in both assignments as well as lots of other people, and she got mad at us because we didn’t show her on Monday (we didn’t because most of the seventh and eighth graders were doing that yesterday and Monday and it was really hectic) (she marked it in the grade thing that I had turned in one of the assignments, but forgot to mark the other one in so I have a B- now). What’s almost worse is that she will take points off your homework/classwork/tests if you don’t word it exactly how she wants you to. Today a few kids were passing back our social studies tests back that we had taken a few days ago, and my friend Echopaw was sitting in front of me and one of the kids gave her my paper to hand back to me. I saw that she had marked something off so I looked at the question that I had gotten wrong and I just had to stop and stare at it. The question was “Why was the aqueduct system important to Rome?” and I wrote “The aqueduct system brought water to the city.” Mrs. Pizza wrote “fresh” in red pen and put an arrow in front of water. And marked the question wrong. Because I didn’t put the word ‘fresh’ there. Echopaw asked me why I looked so horrified so I showed her and she had basically the same reaction as me. She showed me hers and she had gotten points off because one one question that asked something like “How are Caligula and Nero different from Tiberius and Claudius?” and she put something along the lines of Caligula and Nero abusing their power and being evil while Tiberius and Claudius were good rulers and didn’t abuse their power. Mrs. Pizza wrote “details?” next to Tiberius and Claudius and marked it wrong. Two of my other friends, Redpaw and Shadepaw, had the same question marked wrong for basically the same reason. And the next one is just ridiculous: one of my friends in the other seventh grade class, Moonpaw, showed me her test and the question asked “What were Augustus’s accomplishments?” and she had written “he created a pro. army” and a few other things and Mrs. Pizza circled the word “pro.” and wrote “write out the whole word” and took a point off. I told my parents and sister about her and they don’t really believe me that she’s that bad, so I just need to complain to someone. We all have to deal with her for about two more months. I can’t wait.
Unrelated, but this year went by so fast, and there’s only two months left of seventh grade. Next year is eighth grade. Eighth grade is the last year at my school. After eighth grade is high school. All of my friends and everyone in my grade is going to one high school except for me and a few others. I’m so scared of what will happen because I’m terrible at making friends and I won’t know anybody there and none of my friends will be there and the same thing happened to my sister and she barely ever sees her friends from my school anymore.
She doesn’t sound all that great. The best things you can do are complain to your principal about her, and try to learn her tricks so you can pass the class. I’m really sorry, Darkie. *huggles*
🌊 Queen of Canon Correcting🌊I’m sorry your teacher is being so strict 🙁 I hope she starts to listen to you and your classmates about your test answers or assignments *hugs*
Also, I’m sorry you’re worried about high school. Is there any way you can try and stay in contact with your old friends once you switch schools? Like texting or calling each other? I know it’s not the same as seeing them in person every day, but at least you’ll still be able to talk to them! 🙂 And if you guys are really close friends, then I know you’ll all try your best to continue talking to each other as much as you can <3
For making new friends – a lot of people in high school are also new, just like you! Don't stress about being "the new kid" because tons of people are new when they start high school!! You could try joining clubs or sports teams for things that you're interested in to make new friends? You'll be able to meet tons of people with similar interests as you 😀 I know at the start of this year I barely knew anyone outside my grade, but I did tech for my school's musical and made friends in the grade below/above mine, too 🙂
And yeah, high school can be scary, but you also get a lot more freedom to pick your classes or what clubs you want to join, so I promise there are upsides, too!! 🙂 <3
I’ve had similar experiences with a teacher. She wouldn’t teach the class, and I got so fed up with it i wrote an entire essay about why everyone hated her on the desk. The principal asked to talk to me about it, but he didn’t regard how much Everyone hated the teacher, but told me I shouldn’t vandalize. I would say go tell another teacher who will relay everything you’ve said to the principal, and maybe get her replaced. You could also get a petition going and have everyone who hates her sign it.
I wouldn’t stress about high school just yet. I knew a good 20 people going into my 1800-people high school, so I can’t quite relate, but from what I see most people make friends okay, even the shyest girl I know. There will be so many people, and so many people that you can make friends with.
Hugs!! ❤️
wildflowers ~I’m so sorry you have to deal with that teacher, Darky. She sounds awful and the reasons she has for docking points is so stupid. The best advice I can come up with is tell the principal about what she’s doing and make sure you mention the reasons she’s taken points off. And is it possible for you to switch to a different teacher/class?
I just started high school this year, and it does seem really scary at first but I promise it’s not so bad. 🙂 Do you have your friends’ emails/phone numbers so you can stay in contact with them? When you go to high school I highly recommend joining clubs/teams to make new friends. If it’s something that interests auditioning for school musical/play might be a good idea too. *hugs* <3 <3 <3
Running for SW!!Oh great. The school is having a retreat. And to go, you have to sign a form. The form is due today, except my parents didn’t sign it. Do you know why? Because they didn’t want me to go. And the worst part is that they didn’t even tell me they didn’t want me to go. They just ignored the form. I knew about the retreat, but I didn’t know about the form because my parents got it on email and didn’t tell me. I know they saw it because they always check their emails. So I had to watch the other kids in my advisory hand in the form while I was confused. And this is not the first time it happened. There was a beach party last summer and my parents didn’t tell me about it because they didn’t want me to go, I had to hear about it from my friend. I’m just so upset and so betrayed because this keeps happening. If they didn’t want me to go, they could’ve just told me, but like before, they just didn’t tell me. When I go home today I’m going to ask them to sign it, but I’m worried it will end up in an argument like the time with the beach party. I’m super sad and upset and betrayed like I said before. Please help me. I asked my friends for advice, and they are both super worried for me. I really want to go to the retreat, but now I’m worried I can’t and I’ll miss out. I’m also worried that I’ll start crying when I tell my parents, because when I’m crying my dad tells me what an spoiled, lazy, useless child I am. (My best translation). Hugs and advice needed!
I need sirius help.Nvm it’s just they didn’t know they had to print it feel free to ignore this
I need sirius help.Ok mods feel free to delete my past three comments here and this one because I solved the problem and I don’t need advice anymore (if you can, can mods do that?)
I need sirius help.We sure can. 🙂
Ambition and strong coffee.Another quote: “Though you cannot go back and start again, you can start from now and have a brand new end.”- Unknown
If it's stupid but it works...I hate everything. I’m crying. Why does everything suck
Subscribe to Pewdiepie.I’m sorry <3 I hope you feel better *hugs*
hugs ❤️❤️❤️
wildflowers ~hugs <3
I need sirius help.aww <333 hang in there… we're in this together 🙂 *huggles*
*inspiring song lyrics*Infinite huggles and some cookies for you! 🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪
I’m sorry. <3 I hope you feel better soon *hugs* <3 <3 <3
Running for SW!!wheeeeeee i’m back sorry I haven’t been able to pop in… 🙁
surgery went well, and now i’m in physical therapy, expect to be there for another 3-5 weeks.
swelling has gone down and my body is adapting nice the the metal, the doctors say.
so yay! 🙂
I’m glad your surgery went well <3 <3 <3
That’s great, Ivy! It’s wonderful to hear that things are getting better <3
step into my candy store 🍭Yay! That’s awesome!!
wildflowers ~Yay! <3
I need sirius help.ahhhhh yay!!! I’m so happy for you 🙂
*inspiring song lyrics*I’m so glad you’re feeling better! *huggles* <3 <3
....I’m so glad you’re feeling better! Hang in there! Hugs!! 🙂
May StarClan walk your path!It’s good to see you again Ivy!!! 😀 <3 I'm so glad your surgery went well! <3 <3 <3
Running for SW!!I need a hug 🙁
Running for SW!*hugs* <333
*inspiring song lyrics*Foxie hugs are always open ^^
*DELIVERS MANY HUGS*
Sweet Sixteen 4/10/2019 💝*hugs* <3
*hugs* <3
I need sirius help.I hope you feel better soon Bracken *hugs* <3 <3 <3
Running for SW!!Soooo what happened was Violetpaw knows I like her, and now she’s not talking to me…. :,(
Running for SW!Oh, I’m sorry, Bracken. *hugs* <3
I need sirius help.Oh no! I’m so sorry 🙁 Give it some time, and hopefully things will begin to heal between you two. She might be confused, and sometimes avoiding the issue is the easiest thing to do. Wait a little bit, and maybe her feelings – and yours too – are clearer. *huggles*
step into my candy store 🍭I’m sorry <3
I’m sorry Bracken 🙁 *hugs* <3 <3 <3
Running for SW!!Hello Hug Page! So, I think Swooppaw (My Crush) likes me back, He got a bit defensive when another friend Smallpaw and Smallpaw’s Crush Flowerpaw ((Smallpaw is bisexual)) said that another boy, Acornpaw, liked me. So yeah, That’s the good news, Time for the bad news.
Warning : The following topic has been edited to be more appropriate, But could still be triggering
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So, Acornpaw was kinda in my inner circle of friends, but according to my close friend Darkpaw, He stared at her…Chest area and didn’t stop when she told him she was uncomfortable, then, a couple weeks later, Acornpaw is staring at me in the same way he did to Darkpaw, And my other Friends, Stonepaw, Lilypaw, and Lapispaw said that he stared at them too, Then, yesterday at lunch, Acornpaw was pressed up against my guy friend Eggpaw
while he was sitting next to Milkpaw, A blind student.
I need hugs…and maybe advice.
You need to tell a trusted adult about what Acornpaw is doing. I’m so sorry he’s making you and your friends feel uncomfortable and I really hope he stops. *hugs* <3 <3 <3
Running for SW!!