The Hug Page

The Hug Page is here. Because, even in a brand new blog, we still need hugs. This is still the best place to come if you’re feeling sad and need a hug from BlogClan…

tumblr_mt70botJg81qc4uvwo1_500[image description: gif of a brown bear sitting down and raising its arms with a smile and blushing cheeks. “FREE BEAR HUGS” is written at the top with a red arrow pointing down at the bear. “chibird” is written on the bear’s leg and in the bottom right corner]

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  • Is it okay to have a crush on a fictional charater!?
    (You’ll have no problem figuring out who it is)

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  • Am I the only one has mood swings a lot? And thinks about death everyday? And feels like I have a different personality?
    …. Yeah that’s normal. I’m just overeating.

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    • The different personality thing is COMPLETELY normal!
      Stormy: I don’t know about that…
      Sea: Oh shut up!

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      • Ha. My other personatily is a bit evil…
        BUT THATS COMPLETELY NORMAL! AM I RIGHT? hehehehe…

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    • Well I think everyone has mood swings when possessed by the puberty demon (yes cypress I’m going to call it that from now on) I had a friend who though of death constantly and the puberty demon could cause the different personally thing. So yeah…. Thats normal

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    • MY MOOD SWINGS

      me; i love you sis

      sister; aw i love you too

      me; whatever stop talking please

      mom; we can’t get chick fil a today guys

      me; okay thats fine mom 🙂 !

      *later*

      me; aND THIS CHAIR WOULDN’T HAVE FALLEN IF WE HAD GOTTEN CHICK FIL A THIS IS ALL YOUR FAULT MOM

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  • Guys, this is weird. I have a really intense pain right above my left eye, like I’m getting repeatedly punched in the face. What the heck, I mean,I haven’t hit my head or anything like that.

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    • Maybe a muscle spasm? I have those all the time, although they never really hurt… maybe you have something under your eyelid? Try eye drops and or put a cold rag on the area. That should help…!

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        • Painful! 🙁 when I had a rat she has a big cage a little bit shorter then my bed, and it was about six inches away, so one night I fell out of bed and scraped my face up against the metal as I fell. It hurt 😟😛

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  • This is kinda weird for me to admit, so I’m using a dif. name.

    I know in my mind I’m a girl, and so far, biologially I’m a girl, but I’m wondering:

    Maybe I’m NOT a complete girl bioligally. So far, I don’t look to girl ANYWHERE really. So yeah, and I’m kinda, um, hairy-ish.

    I dont really need a hug, I need advice. How do I tell what I am? I used to be told by someone I know that I prob. have too much testosterone in my body, cuz I’m kinda boy-ish. But I dont wanna be.

    Srry if ur disturbed by this mssage.

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    • I can’t tell you what your biological sex is. But I know that gender is something only you can determine. If you know in your mind and heart that you’re a girl, then that’s what you are. If you don’t feel entirely like a girl, then maybe you aren’t. It doesn’t have to do with your body, it’s about how you feel. It’s up to you, and of course BlogClan is here if you ever want to talk. 🙂

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  • I started school today, and I haven’t seen any of my friends all summer. But when I tried to talk to them, they acted like they didn’t know me. I was at summer camp all summer, and it seems like my group of friends is trying to push me out. I need a hug 🙁

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    • Aww *hugs* That really sucks. Try talking to them, see why they’re acting like that. Of course, if they completely shut you out, talk to others and make new friends! You’re amazing, remember? And BlogClan is always here for you 😀

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    • That’s mouse-brained! one of my friends just started ignoring me one day too, and now were not friends. The thing is, this is really hard, but try to find new friends and if your former friends want to be friends with you again, accept it. You can also ask them why theyre not talking to you.

      *Hugs* and *Purrs*, Shadowpaw

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  • Ok, so this isn’t a huge problem. Everyone has it and I really can’t complain. But I start school in a week, and… No thank you.

    It’s just I’ve started worrying more about courses and marks and career paths (I’m getting up there in grades ah), and I’ve been having more bad/school related dreams, and I recently noticed I’m being less confident already. Ugh, school.

    *hugs* for everyone starting school, and more hugs for anyone ALREADY in school. 🙂 (And if you do like school, that’s amazing and try and stay like that as long as you can 🙂 )

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  • Okay guys I’m kind of worried.

    My jaw’s been locked since yesterday and I can’t get it to open (I have relatively bad TMJ) It feels very strained and it hurts when I try to open it. I researched some exercises I can do to help it but so far nothing’s been working and IT HURTS AND I CANT OPEN MY MOUTH WIDE ENOUGH TO EAT GRAPES ;-;

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    • Oh no! Something like that happened to me before. I just sort of massaged it for a bit. I would say keep trying the exercises and tell your parents if you haven’t already. If it’s really serious you might need to go to the dentist. *hugs* I hope it gets better soon!

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    • *Hugs* My sister has glasses! You can go to a special glasses store and find a pair that totally rocks! Then you can get in with your prescription

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    • THIRD DAY IT’S STILL LOCKED

      I’ve tried everything, I’ve been massaging it and I used the heat method thing. My mom has TMJ (as does her mom, yay) and she said going to the dentist is basically useless, and that they just tell you what you already know. My jaw’s been locked before (actually, almost every morning) but never for this period of time. There’s also no cure for it, as surgery is very risky and it eventually doesn’t make things any better. So I’m kiiiinda nervous because mine is already kind of bad so yes

      I CANT YAWN

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    • OMG REALLY? I’ve been having the same problem! It’s like when I’m eating, my jaw locks on one side and hurts so much when you eat…😩

      I have just been ignoring it, hoping it’ll go away…
      I hope you can fix it because I know that it hurts a lot!

      -Hugglez-
      -Frosty 💗

      PS, I have no idea how to fix it, so I’ll look online and tell you if I find anything 🙂 )

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      • There’s no cure >.<

        You can't cure it fully, but if you avoid eating gum and beef jerky (tough things that would cause your jaw to strain more) then it'll subside and it won't pop as often. People suggest going to the dentist but they can't do anything about it except tell you what you already know – that surgery won't make it better, it'll make it worse in the long run, and not to chew gum and whatnot.

        TMJ IS AWFUL OKAY

        I hope yours doesn't get so bad omg

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        • Mine’s only getting worse, I thought it was just a one-time thing but now whenever I eat, my jaw locks on the right side. Also, if I open my mouth too fast it locks as well and hurts like crazy!

          NO CURE?! D: That means no caramel and everything chewy? NOOO! I don’t think mine is as bad as yours because it never stays locked for longer than 10 minutes. I found something on the internet that may help you? I’ll try it myself:

          “The best essential oils to relieve TMJ include peppermint oil, frankincense oil and lavender oil. Peppermint relieves pain, frankincense reduces inflammation an lavender relaxes the tense muscles. Mix 1 drop of each oil with 1/4 tsp of coconut oil and rub onto the area of pain.” -Dr. Axe
          Here’s the site where I found it: https://draxe.com/tmj-treatment-home-remedies/ <—- there are a bunch of other tips for what to eat and not to eat, other natural remedies that will soothe the pain, etc.

          I hope this helps you!
          *Hugglez*
          -Frosty

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  • I HAVE NEWS
    I’m getting glasses. I don’t like how any of the ones at the eye doctor look, and I know I need them, but I really don’t want to change. I need some advice, and a hug

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    • *hugs* I don’t have any good advice, but I’m sure you’ll get used to them. And at least they’ll be helping, right? 🙂

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    • I know the feeling! If I could change anything, I’d make myself have better eyesight! I also have enormous glasses which make me look UGLY.

      Here’s my advice. As much as you and I hate change, it happens and cannot be stopped. You need those glasses. And do know, good people aren’t going to judge you because of your glasses. They will care more about you as a person rather than your appearance. Unless they’re mean people then you need to steer clear of them.

      And here’s my hug! *Huggles*

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    • I’ve worn glasses since the second grade, and my advice for you would to be get glasses that fit and are comfortable. Also, make sure you keep them clean so they don’t get smudgy. And if you REALLY hate them, consider getting contact lenses! I have contact lenses for the pool since I do competitive swimming.
      And look on the bright side, now you’ll have no trouble reading and seeing the board in school!

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    • I know that feeling!! I looked for a while though, and found a pair that was SO me!!! I hope you will find that pair soon! Good luck! 🙂

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    • *Hugs* that would make me feel EXTREMELY self conscious. If people are mean to you about them, ignore them and try to just go on with your day. (Try to think of funny Warriors moments) But, in all people will soon get used to you. Remember, if you feel really bad or bullied, tell a counselor or your parents

      Best of luck, Shadowpaw

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    • AHHH *squeals*

      GLASSES

      OKAY I LEGIT JUST GOT A NEW PAIR LAST SUNDAY

      HERE IS SOME ADVICE

      I don’t really like changing glasses frames unless there’s a specific frame that I’ve been looking for. So here is my advice to you.

      1) Has your frame been discontinued, like my old one? If it hasn’t, then you could order them and have the eye people put the new lenses in those frames. And if your current glasses are in good shape, then you could have them put the new lenses in that pair.

      2) However, if yours have only one arm to them and are currently falling apart (like mine were), and they have been discontinued, then you can look for something really similar to them. They have a huge selection at Lenscrafters, and that’s where I got my current glasses. It’s a bit pricy there though, I almost choked on how expensive some of the frames were.

      3) You can also research glasses frames that you might like/always dreamed of wearing. I got a completely different style of glasses than I had last time, and I didn’t think I was going to just because I wanted to stick with my old style (like you said), but then I took a chance and I got a different pair of glasses. So far I really like them 😀

      SO THERE IS MY ADVICE

      I HOPE IT HELPED

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    • I bet you’ll look awesome in glasses! My advic is to get some like Harry Potters then draw a lighting scar on your forehead, then grab a stick and go around to everyone you see and yell ‘Lumos!’

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    • I wear glasses around the house only but they make life so much easier! In public I wear contact lenses (LIFE-SAVERS!!!) because, I’m not comfortable wearing glasses in public.

      If you want to try contact lenses I really recommend them! Whatever YOU feel comfortable with, glasses or contacts, you should use them! It does’t matter what anyone thinks of your glasses (one day most everyone’s gonna have them 😜)

      Good luck! And -Hugglez-
      -Frosty

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    • I know that feeling! I had to get glasses but all of them were awful, so I just chose a random one. And getting used to glasses is kind of easy of you don’t think about them. *hugs*

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    • Well you can always get contacts, or look for glasses frames you like online, I’m not an expert on glasses, but I’m pretty sure it’s the prescription lenses that really matter, not the frames. I personally think glasses look really cool and are nothing to worry about! *hugs*

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    • To everyone who helped me with getting my glasses:
      THANK YOU SO MUCH
      you guys helped a ton
      Also, my mom took me to a different place to look at some more, and I found some great ones. So thanks a lot! 😀

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  • Glasses aren’t that bad. I’m sure you’ll find some that fit your taste. You could also get contacts but from my experience, glasses are a much easier option. I know this might not help, but you’ll find that you won’t even notice your glasses are there after you wear them for a while. Good luck! *huggles* <3

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  • Ok, word of advice for everyone: Don’t wear yellow at the pool. My sister has this mermaid tail thing you swim with, and it has bright yellow in it. I was wearing it and sitting on the wall when a HUGE wasp came up and stung me THROUGH THE TAIL. It hurt. A lot. So, I looked it up, and bees are attracted to yellow. Now I have this big, painful, itchy bee sting on my ankle…

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    • Oh, OUCH!! At least you didn’t lose half of your limb like Berrykit/Berrynose! My brother and little cousin got stung by some yellow jackets, and they were painful. To tell the truth, that’s my worst nightmare, because ive never gotten stung by a bee or wasp or anything.

      *Hugs*, Shadowpaw

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  • Me: *gets le call on le phone from le friend*
    Me: *answers call*
    Me: *get another le call on same le phone from same le friend* ME GUSTA
    Me: *switches to caller*
    Me: *switches back to other call*
    Le phone: *hung up sound*
    Me: okay then, *le calls other friend*
    Other friend: *hangs up*
    Me: Hello darkness my old friend…

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  • Just search up Pink Female Crowntail Betta Fish on images, and it’ll pop up…she was a pale pink fish with red fins and tail

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  • This isn’t a big problem, but I’m just kind of sad over it.

    So I was going to have a sleepover with my niece until Sunday, and we were going to a science museum and we were going to do all this fun stuff. She got here, but then my sister came and picked her up because of some trouble my niece had gotten into, I won’t go into detail. So now I’ve got all these fun plans and nobody to do them with, and I’m just feeling generally sad.

    So. . . Any of you want to come and have a sleepover with me? 😛

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    • Aww I’d love to do that, unfortunately I can’t :P.
      Sometimes plans don’t work out, maybe next time you see her you can do that! Until then, you can get even more exighted!

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    • I’m sorry Icy. I really wish I could have a sleepover with you but sadly I can’t since I probably live really far away from you. But if that does happen, be prepared to see a fangirl at your door! 😛 Sometimes things don’t always work out like you planned, but don’t worry, there are many other opportunities coming. *huggles* <3

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    • I’d love too <3. I'm sorry your niece got into trouble, but you could always get together once it blows over.

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    • OF COURSE I WANT TO HAVE A SLEEPOVER WITH YOU ICY 😛

      And you can always save the plans for next time, right? Or add to them and make even better plans 🙂

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