The Hug Page

The Hug Page is here. Because, even in a brand new blog, we still need hugs.ย This is still the best place to come if youโ€™re feeling sad and need a hug from BlogClanโ€ฆ

tumblr_mt70botJg81qc4uvwo1_500[image description: gif of a brown bear sitting down and raising its arms with a smile and blushing cheeks. “FREE BEAR HUGS” is written at the top with a red arrow pointing down at the bear. “chibird” is written on the bear’s leg and in the bottom right corner]

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  • This is quite irritating.
    My neighbor, who I have known for over a year now, has found a new group of friends and decided to completely ignore me in the process. Not so much as a glance comes my way, and one, she sits across from me in English class and two, her locker is right next to mine. Whenever I’m near her, she just sits there with a blank face devoid of any expression or busies herself in talking to one of her new-found friends. I’d understand if this new group were those stuck-up “popular” kids, because I get peer pressure, but they aren’t even those kind of people. So how in StarClan’s name does she think that even after seeing each other every single day and being my next-door neighbor she can just ignore me, brush me off her pants like I’m some unwanted smudge of dirt?
    Sorry about the ranting, it’s just becoming very frustrating. Advice on how to deal with her would be extremely helpful ๐Ÿ˜€
    Thanks a whole bunch!๐Ÿ˜€

    • I’m so sowwy. *hugs*

      I’m not a big expert in the friendship department, but maybe try talking to her? If she still wants to act like that, just blame it on the horomones. You don;t have to be friends with her. I can see how her disrespect is irratating, but perhaps she’s going through something and is really hurting. Just continue hanging out with your other friends, because if she doesn’t want to be your friend anymore, it’s only her loss. It’s not a loss to you if you don’t get to be friends with someone who is behaving like you don’t exist. Maybe in time she’ll realize what she’s doing. Like I said, talking could always help. ^-^

      • Thank you, Silver! I tried talking but she just ignored me around and talked to someone else. Oh well, time to start ignoring her now ๐Ÿ˜ You’re advice was extremely helpful though, thank you very much! ๐Ÿ˜„๐Ÿ˜„๐Ÿ˜„

    • Aww, I’m sorry. I wish I had some advice, but I personally have never been through that. I hope you can resolve it soon!

    • I would suggest telling her how you feel. Express your feelings, it may be that she the thinks you don’t wanna hang out any more.But if she still treats you in such a way, she obviously doesn’t deserve you. There is only so much you can do, the rest is up to here. I hope things work out for you *HUGGLES*

      • *hugs back* Thank you Gecky! (BTW I really love your Halloween name) I tried talking abut she ignored me…I think I’ll just avoid her now. Thank you for the advice though, it helped me a lot!

    • If she treats you like that then she doesn’t deserve to be your friend, Aster! I’ve been dumped by many friends for a different crowd too, so I understand how you feel. One of them was a neighbor too. She still won’t talk to me to this day.
      Anyways, if she won’t talk to you even when you try to fix this, it’s her loss. You don’t need friends who hate you — it’s your turn to brush this off. It hurts, but I promise you that it hurts even more to hold onto a friendship like that.

  • Guys, I really don’t get the Gravatar thing…I want to get a profile pic really bad but…Gravatar needs an account or WHAT??!!

    • Go to the gravatar website and press sign up. You will have to enter your email and then upload a photo. Make sure you give it a G rating or it won’t show up here.

  • Me and my sister have rabbits (four, altogether) we couldn’t watch over them this week, so my Aunt and Uncle took care of them. I don’t blame them for her escaping though, since they are pretty smart (another one figured out how to open the cage door) but I really hope we can find her. Luckily, since they live at my Grandparents campground, a few kids are looking for her. If anything happens to her, I’ll be devastated, she has the sweetest face and a really sweet temper. There’s a stray cat up there, I hope she doesn’t kill the rabbit.

  • oh my
    deadpaw has to be so annoying
    at a point where i gave her dead- as a prefix
    shes such a cheater and makes PE games almost not fun
    she seemed a bit rude to exclude me from a team excercise
    and lies and tells me to switch team because she wants her friend of her team
    too bad shes in my class in PE to ruin it (at least i walk a mile or more to home which wears off my temper)
    and 6th graders still saying the joke that offends me to a point where im irritated and mad for hours even if it wasnt said directly at me a lot
    okay rant over yey

    • I hate partner groups….. if they don’t want you there then they make sure to let you know. I’m sorry that she makes your PE experiences miserable.

      People can be really mean. And it does hurt when someone else is made fun of for something that describes you too. Just ignore them. They don’t know how awesome you are.

    • Don’t let these people bother you. Especially Deadpaw. I’m sorry they are so rude to you ๐Ÿ™ They don’t deserve to be your friends. But blogclan will always be here for you <3

    • Aww, I’m sorry, Lup. Maybe you can talk to your PE teacher about Deadpaw’s behavior. *huggles*

    • Do you have a guindance counsleor you can talk to about? He/she might be able to help you

      • Aw, I’m sorry Lup. ๐Ÿ™ Stay strong, things get better. Try talking to a school counselor or tell a teacher. *huggles* *sends virtual pies* โค๏ธ

  • mph it’s the middle of the night, and I’m struggling with thoughts about how bad my life is right now. It’s making me cry and I feel like no one cares about me, even though I know people do. I don’t want to end my life or anything, but sometimes I just wish it wasn’t so bad ๐Ÿ™

    • Aww! I’m sorry. Just remember, everyone does care for you, and even though you are going through some tough times, it WILL get better. My mom always says life is a roller coaster. Right now you are at the bottom, but you will be rising to the top soon!! *Huggles*

        • Aww, I’m glad I could help. I love that saying, because even on some really bad days, I can remember that it won’t last forever, and that soon I will be on the top again. ๐Ÿ™‚ *Hugs again*

    • Awww!!! Icestorm!!! *Huggles* remember, you can’t have a rainbow without rain.

    • *Huggles forever* I hope you’re feeling better now. We all care about you and your family cares about you. *Huggles again*

    • Aww don’t say that i have it the same way but blogclan allways helps me and we Care about you *huggles*

    • People do care about you, Ice! I don’t know anything about your family and irl situation, but we care ๐Ÿ™‚ Remember that however hard your life is, there are always people who have it worse for you. You could be homeless and starving and sick and dying and have nobody who cares about you. That’s not true. *huggles*

    • I know how you feel, but you can get through this. We all care about you so much, and no matter how life pushes you down,we know you can get up. You are strong Icy, don’t let anything make you think otherwise ๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿ’™ *huggles*

  • Oh my god…
    a earthquake alert for day till Tuesday.
    I’m scared of every single sound that isn’t voice
    I think Kestrelpaw said 7.3 but it shows 1.06
    Ugh, I’ve never experienced huge earthquakes :\

    • Ooh!!! Be careful! I’d be freaking out if there was just a minor earthquake near my house!

    • What? What? What? :O better go google that because I’m pretty sure you live in my state and Califorina is prime for earthquakes anyway

      *huggles* whatever happens, it’ll be okay. We’re in this together <3

      • Lup, I researched it. There’s risk of a major earthquake in Southern California near the Salton Sea and Los Angeles calculated due to a stream of smaller quakes in that area recently. The latest one was yesterday and it was a 5.7. One source says the increased earthquake rate has diminished slightly. The expected day for this major earthquake is tomorrow, like you said, and the expected rate is around a 7. *huggles tight* Be careful, stay safe if you live in that area.

    • *Hugs* Stay safe Lupinepaw!! *Gives a basket of kittens* Maybe this will help take your mind off of it?

  • This isn’t a big deal or anything, but posting here always makes me feel better.

    Saturday night, I had a fever, but I woke up yesterday and was fine. Tired, but fine. Today I have a sore throat, and it doesn’t help that I’m feeling very emotional and sad and irritable, which I’ve been feeling basically at some point every day for the past three days ๐Ÿ˜› (Low blood sugar. Don’t mess with me when I’m hungry ๐Ÿ˜› )

    I’m rambling and don’t know where I’m going with this, so I’m just going to stop here. ๐Ÿ˜›

  • So I live on the east coast of Florida, and Hurricane Matthew is supposed to slam us on Thursday and Friday. I’m a little bit nervous. I’ve only lived in FL for about three years and there has never been a hurricane… (Also this may make our homecoming game a little damp ๐Ÿ˜› ) The eye is getting fairly close to where I live.

    • Ooh, that would be scary! I live in that general area by you, (Southeast America) so I know what you are feeling, but luckily I’m far away from the shore so we only get really bad winds. Well, stay safe, and good luck! *Huggles*

    • Oooh! Scary!! Stay safe! (I feel like I’m saying that a lot now) *Huggles* I hope it doesn’t hit you to hard!

    • *Hugs* My family goes to Sanibel Island, FL every year. Last time we were there there was a tornado warning going of (my sister was terrified)
      We stay at a condo by the beach, and once a hurricane hit it, since it was on the top floor the only bad thing that happened was a coconut flew through one of the windows.

  • Welp, I’m evacuating my house tomorrow because of the storm (It’ll be a Category 4 when it comes around. AHHHH). It’s hitting us Thursday around 1:00ish. They canceled school in my county for the rest of this week.

  • ugh everything is just really irritating me at the moment!
    i keep crying (which really isn’t a surprise i cry alot) and then if i’m at school and i am upset or frustrated everyone thinks i am going to/or am crying, which might not seem like much but it can really hurt.
    also some people are annoying me and i don’t wanna say who but.
    everything just seems to be going really bad recently and, well it just isn’t that great. i am trying to keep happy but it is not that easy

    sorry just wanted to let out some pent up feelings y’know?

    • Aww! I’m sorry you are having tough times. I know, I hate when people are being annoying. It sucks. Like I said to Icestorm, my mom always says life is a roller coaster. You might be on the bottom right now, but soon you will be soaring up to the top!!!!! ๐Ÿ™‚ *Hugs*

    • Awwww sorry too hear that *huggles* hope its going better soon

  • Hi my nickname girl is actually Cat coincidence that I read Warrior Cats and then I fell out of a tree lol I’m ok though

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