The Hug Page

The Hug Page is here. Because, even in a brand new blog, we still need hugs. This is still the best place to come if you’re feeling sad and need a hug from BlogClan…

tumblr_mt70botJg81qc4uvwo1_500[image description: gif of a brown bear sitting down and raising its arms with a smile and blushing cheeks. “FREE BEAR HUGS” is written at the top with a red arrow pointing down at the bear. “chibird” is written on the bear’s leg and in the bottom right corner]

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  • I’m really nervous. I have an Orthodontist appointment on Friday and I’m assuming they’ll be putting me in braces soon. 🙁 My sister got hers last year, and she says it only hurts when they first put them on and when the wires are tightened. Still, I’m really scared. What if they actually hurt a tooth or my gum in the process?

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    • I was nervous when I got braces on too, but I survived! Yes, braces can be kind of sore, but most of the time they’re fine. And remember: orthodontists are professionals. They’re good at what they do, and they have put braces on hundreds of times. If they do hurt your tooth or your gum, you will heal or they will fix it, no need to worry. Chances are, you’ll be just fine!

      Good luck, although you probably won’t need it. *Huggles* 🐱

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    • HERE IS A VERY TIGHT FLUFFY BEAR HUG TO YOU SINCE YOU NEED ONE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
      *asks the bear at the top to hug Creampaw*

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    • It’ll be fine-I have many friends who got braces and were a bit worried at first-but they said it was no biggie. I can’t really give you any advice given that I’ve never had braces, but the orthodontists are professionals, so there’s not really that big of a chance you’ll get hurt. Good luck even though it’ll probably go well! *huggles* *Gives DON’T WORRY IT’LL BE FINE pie* 😀

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    • I’ve never had braces, but I complercomplertely understand your fears. From what I hear, dental accidents are very rare, and I’m sure you’ll be perfectly fine. *hugs*

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    • I have braces, and I can tell you that yes for a few days they will hurt but after that you can barely tell they’re there. I’m sure it’ll be ok 😀

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    • You’ll be fine. Orthodontists are trained in this field and have done it a bunch of times. However, people do make mistakes, but I’m sure that they can fix it. I have braces right now and yes, they do hurt at first, and they do hurt when the wires are tightened, but it doesn’t last, and you’ll get used to them soon. It is pretty scary at first, though 🙂 -hugs-

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    • Don’t worry Creampaw 🙂 The braces don’t hurt at all when they put them in (but the glue tastes like crow-food :P). after that they will be a little sore for a few days but you get used to them. I’m 2/3 done with braces and the worst pain was the first week 😉

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    • I know exactly how you feel. I have an orthodontist appointment on July the 6th and I’m getting braces one week later. It helps to research how braces are put on and the basics of how they work. When it comes time to get them on you’ll have an idea of what they will do. Picking the colors for the rubber bands is pretty fun too, I hoping to get rainbow colors on mine! 😉

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  • This may sound really weird, but about 2 months ago I had a nightmare about my headteacher, then I started dragging 3 other teachers into it, so now I’m absaloutly terrified of 4 of my teachers. I can’t help it, and now I always daymare about them. Today we went on a school trip to an old castle with dungeons with my headteacher and a few other teachers, I was in my headteacher’s group. This may sound weird, but I noticed she was an expert on the torture items (handcuffs and stuff) and then she faked to lock us up in a cell where it was pitch-black and 10 people died (one was a child) because of suffication and then she pretended to lock us in another one. 🙁 I can’t help it but thinking about it actually helps me sleep, I scare myself to sleep (if that’s even possible)… 🙁

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    • I had an issue similar to this a while back, so I know what it’s like. Keep reassuring yourself that it’s not real and try to think of something else, the memory will eventually fade if you stop thinking about it. Listening to an audio book at night might help too. Good luck! 🙂

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  • I found my crush’s Instagram. I haven’t seen her for almost a year tho and I don’t know what to do?????? Help pls

    Also hope all of you guys are having a great summer so far :3

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  • Arghhh I’m going to Boston and need to go on a plane. This is my first plane ride and I’m kinda scared. I know by the time this is modded I’m most likely going to be on the plane or in Boston already. Just argh

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    • It’ll be okay, Gold! Planes can be really fun. Have fun in Boston! **huggles* You’ll be okay 🙂

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    • Eek! I don’t know how to tell you this without saying where I live but there is a tiny possibility we could bump into each other during your visit. XD You’ll be fine on the plane. Don’t worry! Take off is kinda fun anyways. 😉

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    • It’ll be great!

      Although, make sure you constantly pop your ears during take off and landing, otherwise they’ll hurt.

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  • As some of you may know, I had a bone marrow transplant almost two years ago because I had a form of leukemia with a 80% reoccurrence rate. Everything went fine and I’m more than two years cancer free but next weekend I have to go up their for my two year follow up and if everything is clear than I won’t have to go back for another year. But…I’m freaking out. I don’t know why because I’ve gone up there every 6 months for the past 2 years and I’ve never been this freaked out. I think it’s because I’m worried that I might have relapsed which is stupid because I’ve shown no symptoms and I’ve had blood work done within the past week that has come back negative for anything. Am I being crazy? Am I just making a bigger deal out of this because it’s a big milestone? I just want this stupid appointment to be over so that I can enjoy the rest of my summer. Ugh.

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    • Now I am not going to be sympathetic, because I hate sympathetic people. They act like they know how you feel when they don’t and they can’t. You are not being crazy. You are worried about a legit disease that could possibly be infecting your bones and blood. If you have been good so far, then you’re most likely perfectly fine, but you have every right and reason to fear. Relax and take a breath. This is an important milestone, so you’d be crazy to not worry, but you can’t change the results. Be at peace with yourself and hug a tree. I’ll be hoping for you.

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    • That’s a legitimate reason to worry. 🙂 Russet, NEVER beat yourself up about how you feel. <3 You aren't being crazy. It's perfectly normal to be stressing over something like that! I'd be pulling my hair out and running around in circles and freaking out, haha. I hope everything turns out A-okay. You'll be in our thoughts!!! BlogClan is cheering you on!!! 😀

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      • I don’t exactly want to pull out my hair because I’ve been there and done that. 😂 And thanks for being so supportive!

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    • I copletely understand. Just keep reminding yourself of that the facts all point to your complete health. Try taking your mind of it by doing what you love, like writting or drawing or whatever. I really hope this goes well for you <3 <3 <3

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  • Haha so guys you know how I took that plane ride? Well I fell asleep and as we were landing, I woke up. I looked out the window and screamed “We’re crashing!” I thought we were doing a nose dive 😛

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  • I need hugs… My sister is being a jerk to me, and I didn’t do anything. We were talking, and I got her mad by saying she worried about her nails like my mom worries about poison ivy. She yelled at me, telling me never to compare her to my mom. I asked if we could do a craft, wanting to clear the tension. She replied automatically with a ‘no’. I hadn’t even said the word ‘craft’. Then I said I would make a craft, and she cut me off again at the same time. Then all I said was ‘I’ and she said no, right away. I’m really angry, and I don’t even want to talk to her.

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  • Ughh
    I’m so inactive in this page. Hugs to everyone.
    Bleh
    I wish I was eight year old or younger still.
    Horrible memories.
    Just whenever I focus on the sky and clouds.
    Still feeling guilty for not remembering Father’s Day…
    Bleh, there should be an aunt / uncle / cousin / brother / sister day.
    I have no idea why I’m just spacing this out, but seriously.
    A day in May has to be so sad ever since 2013.
    Any tips for taking sad songs in mind off? It just gives me a horrible memory of the past… and I couldn’t ignore it for three years.

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    • hm… just sing PINK FLUFFY UNICORNS DANCING ON RAINBOWS WITH PANCAKES ON THEIR HEADS!!!!!!!!!! AWESOMENESS!!!!!! JOKING! try thinking of really happy songs. if that doesn’t work, then I don’t know.

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  • well this isn’t something big, but yesterday (or should I say today?) my family and I arrived 3 in the morning in san Francisco. why? because-
    our first flight, in which we would take to Houston then go to San Francisco got delayed because of a ‘computer problem’ and we had to come back at four. which meant we couldn’t get our second flight. then the second, direct, flight got delayed because of an engine problem. to TEN O’CLOCK! WHAT! because when we got there we had to pick up the rented car, drive to where we’ll stay around about 2o’clock in the morning. but on the plane I couldn’t sleep AT ALL because I was worrying about what if suddenly the oxygen system failed and we had to put on masks and we were all asleep?!?! so I stayed awake for 5 1/2 hours and after when we got there I still couldn’t. so i forced myself to, and got about 2 hours of it. seriously. and now I HATE MY STUPID PHOBIAS/WORRIES/WHATEVER! my mom told me to get the stupid food voucher from the front desk (before the second flight) but I couldn’t because I was freaking scared! but she doesn’t know and I can’t tell her because she’ll laugh and not bother and I don’t even know if I do, its just plain stupid and annoying!!!!!!!!! now I’m going to try and get some more sleep

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    • Fear sucks, no matter how irrational. While obviously you can’t always just get over your fears, thinking things through logically can help you see why you don’t really need to be scared. Remember to always breathe, it’s oddly easy to forget to do that. ^^ There’s a technique called grounding that can help you calm down. Find five things that you can see, four things you can touch, three things you can hear, two things you can smell, and one thing you can taste. Also, I don’t know your mom, but I find it a bit hard to believe she’d laugh and not care. Even if you don’t want to, I suggest you do. If she does laugh and not bother, then there’s no harm done. *Huggles* Have a good time in San Fran!

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    • Streampaw, I just took a flight and was terrified. I told everyone about how I screamed that we were nose diving and stuff. It’s okay to be scared. *huggles*

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    • Aww -huggles- I’m sure that your mom loves you and won’t laugh at you. A lot of people are scared of flying or talking (not sure which one). Delays suck and can be annoying and energy-sucking, but things happen. All you can do is make the best of it. 🙂

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    • Strampaw, your mom won’t laugh at you if you tell her, only try and make things better. Delays are no fun whether you like flights or not but there isn’t much you can do… Unless there is a problem with the plane’s system I’m sure the oxygen system won’t fail. Just take a deep breath and don’t think about what could go wrong with the flight, just think about how much fun your going to have on your trip! Now that your in San Francisco, relax and enjoy the city! 😀

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      • the flight was delayed by a computer system thing at first and then an engine problem second

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  • My dog just bit my lip a few hours ago and it really hurts and stuff… I don’t know if it’ll get infected or anything, and I’m scared something really bad will come out of it.

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