The Hug Page

The Hug Page is here. Because, even in a brand new blog, we still need hugs. This is still the best place to come if you’re feeling sad and need a hug from BlogClan…

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  • Hi. I know I don’t talk much on here, like at all. I’ve been off of BlogClan because I’ve been really depressed lately, but honestly this website makes me so happy idk I just wanted to tell everyone on here that they’re wonderful and whatnot. <3 <3 <3

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  • So school starts back for me next week and I’ve been bullied,but the last year wasnt bad but I’m sorta just well, worried.

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    • Don’t worry, if your a year older than I’m sure less people would bully you. Besides, all they want is to do is “achieve” something because they are good at nothing , but bullying.
      🙂

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    • I’m sure they won’t bully you again. I’ve been bullied, but never by the same person two years in a row.

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    • If you get bullied, tell an adult! I know for me at least telling adults and parents things like how you feel and what’s going on may be a bit awkward, but trust me they can help! Don’t worry about what those other kids say whether they are rude about your appearance, your personality, your family or anything else. Everyone is their own person, and no one is the same. Good luck! 😉

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    • It’s natural to feel worried. But don’t be! That may be easier said then done, but focus on getting ready for school and spending the last days of summer doing what makes you happy. When you’re at school, stick with your friends and people who make you happy. If people do bully you, tell an adult and try not to react to them. In time, they’ll get bored. But that doesn’t mean you should spend your time worrying. There’s not much you can do about it until it actually happens (if it even does). 🙂

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    • Don’t be worried! I’m sure it will be fine, and if it’s not, just remember the bullies are only doing that because they feel bad about themselves, misery loves company….. We’re here for you. 🙂 huggles!

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    • um
      I don’t know if I can help because- *slaps self as not to reveal secret* nvm, huggles anyway! have a cookie

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    • Icy, I’m so sorry. Hopefully they won’t bully you this year, but if they do you should probably tell someone like a parent.

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    • Don’t worry- I’m starting middle school, and I am a bit worried about bullying, but remember, nothing bad will happen with the bullies if you have your friends by your side! Don’t let bullying get you down, they’re just insecure babies!

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  • I got into a fight with my mother and it’s all over now, but I’m feeling awful and in hindsight, I sounded pretty rude. I feel rotten and I’m crying over things that are already done and over with. I feel ill – probably because of being so upset – and I just want to hide. This is all rather pointless, I suppose, as I’ve already apologised and she’s forgiven me, but I can’t shake it.

    This was rather hard for me to post as I’m always quite secretive with my feelings/problems, but now that I’ve said something about it, I feel a bit better, oddly. Thanks, BlogClan 🙂

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    • Try not to dwell on it. People forgive and forget, and I’m sure since your mom has forgiven it’s probably not as bad as it seems.
      *Dumps a truckload of hugs on you*

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    • Don’t worry, it happens. I also am a bit mad at my mom for something that I shouldn’t be mad at, but it’s not something I feel like sharing. Anyways, talk to her about the way you feel. I bet she will assure you that it’s ok. Maybe try doing something nice for your mom to make up for being rude. Make dinner one night. Run her a nice, warm bubble bath for her to get in after a long stressful day of work. Don’t worry, I’m sure you will get over it soon. 😃

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    • Aw, Icy, I get in fights all the time with my parents then feel super upset and come to you and everyone else. If you need us we’re here <3 I hope everything is better now 🙂
      *huggles*

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    • I’m so sorry, Icy! Like Lakeshimmer said, try not to dwell on it. I’ve got a bad tendency to dwell on things and it makes it so much worse than it already is. Try drawing or reading, anything to distract yourself with. Listening to calming music always helps for me. Either way, I hope you feel better soon 🙁 *hugs and hugs and hugs and millions of hugs*

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    • That happens to me, too, when I’ve been in a fight. I get really sad. Maybe you can do something to take your mind off of it? Or talk to your mom and tell her how you feel. *huggles* 🙂

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    • I fight with my mom all the time. And it sucks. We all say things we don’t mean to say when we’re mad. But if you’ve already apologized, there’s no need to dwell on it. Get a distraction. Maybe you could go bake with your mom or play a board game with her. If you still feel rotten, talk to her. She’ll understand – I bet she had fights with her mom, and she probably feels rotten too – she’s just better at letting it go. 🙂

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    • ICY AAAAHHH YOU ARE UPSET?!?!?! I MUST COME TO YOUR RESCUE!!! *BAT SIGNAL ACTIVATED* I LOVE YOU, NEVER FORGET THAT, AND DON’T WORRY EVERYTHING WILL BE OK IN THE END AND IF YOU EVER NEED A SHOULDER TO CRY ON, I’M HERE. I HAVE A HANDKERCHIEF WITH YOUR NAME ON IT!!! AND COOKIES THAT I STOLE FROM SANTA!!! 😀 *HUGGLES FOREVER* <3 <3 <3

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    • *hugs* I get into a ton of fights with my parents, so I know how you feel. It usually takes a bit, but you forget about it.

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    • Aw, hugs Icy, its all over now so just try and keep youre mined off of it. Hope you feel better soon!

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    • Well if you already apologized there’s not much else you can do besides forgive yourself. Feel better soon, (cookies help with forgiveness so here you go!) 🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪

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    • Aw, your mom has probably forgiven you. I totally get how you feel. Hope you feel better Icy! <3 *huggles* *gives pie*

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    • Oh Icy I’m so sorry 🙁 It’s really hard to fight with your parents, but I think everyone else has already given the best solutions. I really hope you guys work things out, and I’m always here if you wanna talk <3

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    • don’t worry about it, especially if shes already forgiven you. *huggles and passes cookie*

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    • Icy I completely understand. I argue with my dad a lot, and I try so hard not to fight with him. I know that even though you’ve been forgiven you still feel bad, but trust me, your mom has forgiven you. Like other people have said try to do something to take your mind off it, and if you need to talk, we’re here for you

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    • I fight with my mum sometimes too, and it can get me down. Try talking it out, it works for me in any fight!

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  • Aww. I’m so sorry! That happens to me also. When I get in a fight with my good friends or family I feel really bad, even when it’s done with. I agree with Sunnystripe you should totally talk to your mom, and tell her how you’re feeling. After I’m in a fight I listen to music, and some songs really help. Hope this helps! *Gives huggles and cookies*

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  • I’ve been going to an acting camp that is making me miserable and my parents won’t let me quit because it’s expensive. Anyways, I was planning on faking sick tomorrow so I searched it up. My brother looked at my search history and saw and told my parents and now I feel really guilty. 🙁

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    • aww brez I was at acting ccamp last week and I had to wake up at 5 only to be hated and bullied by the other kids there. I think I might know ho w you feel but i’m not going to be sure because you probably hate sympathetic people. BUT *huggles and passes extreme cheerfulness cookies*

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    • Aw *huggles* Just tell your parents that you’re completely miserable and that it isn’t fun. If they don’t let you quit, come get me and I’ll yell at them 😉 <3

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    • I’m sorry Breezy 🙁 That’s not fun at all. Just tell them that you really don’t want to go, and if you’re really desperate you could try to pay them back? *hugs and millions of cookies*

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    • If you hate it that much, don’t feel guilty! Try to find someone nice at your camp, at it will make the camp more bearable.

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    • Aww -huggles- Keep pushing your parents. Tell them that you’re completely miserable at that camp. Tbh faking sick is really hard, boring, and doesn’t work that much 😛 But if you do keep having to go to that camp, make the most of it! Is there a certain area that you love? Focus on that 🙂

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    • I don’t know what an acting camp would be like, since I’ve never been (though I love acting) but last year I went to an orchestra camp and my best friend went as well. My so-called best friend left me alone at the lunch table to go sit with her “new friends” who didn’t want me there. I totally know how you feel! Try making friends! And you may want to hide your computer from your brother if he’s been looking in your personal stuff, which isn’t ok. I’m sending lots of hugs your way!

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  • UGH
    SHE IS DRIVING ME BONKERS
    she lives at our house (NOT my sister) and shes just like, ok im younger than you so you have to treat me NICELY (chinese culture thing)
    shes like all sweet in front of my mom then the instant my moms gone shes hits me HARD worst of all no one willl believe me because shes like 9 and im almost eleven
    plus shes like real selfish and a pain and she complains WAY TOO MUCH and I don’t even know why im drawing fairies for her. no one believes me when i told them she punched me in the bathroom. ALSO she as the little mermaid in the show she ought to be a good actor, but no. I, a MINOR character is demanded perfection whike she just has to say words. I HATE HER SO MUCH BUT AT THE SAME TIME SHES GOOD FOR PRANKS. only after weve pranked my sis she tellls her that shes real sorry and it was my fault and then my sister goes round and punches ME and calls me stuff a seven year old shouldnt know about in chinese and goes all puppy-eyes on my mom AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA ITS DRIVING ME CRAZY AND AS IF I DONT HAVE ENOUGH ON MY MIND
    in case you dont know who Im talking about she is my sis’s ‘friend’ and she lives at our house to go to camp.

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    • Aww, my brother is like that sometimes……… But he’s okay! 🙂 anyway, I’m sorry!! And you speak Chinese? That’s awesome! Anyway back to your problem, maybe try to hide a camera somewhere in your room and when she punches you, you can show the adults the video and they will believe you? Anyway here are huggles and cookies!!! 🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪

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      • Aw, I’m sorry Streamy. 🙁 Maybe do what Wavey said and try to film her hurting you? Try talking to her and making her understand bullying is not the answer. If all else fails, tell an adult so they can take care of it. I hope things get better! *huggles* <3

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    • I’m really sorry 🙁 Like everyone says, try filming her, and you can always talk to me if you need it <3

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    • Yep, I know how you feel, having a 9-year-old sis at home. My parents think she’s soooooooo PERFECT! She is always outshining me in swimming, and even though I’m a straight A student and had the lead in the school musical, she’s better. But I still love my sis, even though she is annoying and won’t fall for any type of prank!

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  • SOMEONE HELP ME STOP CRYING FOXO IS LEAVING THE WIKI AND IM NOT EVEN TRYING TO HIDE THE FACT THAT IM NOT STOPPING MYSELF CRYING. REAL LIFE COMES FIRST I KNOW BUT STILL I CANT AND HE TOLD ME HE WAS FORCED BUT…………………………………………………………
    I SCREENSHOTTED THE CHAT WE HAD-
    [Deleted by Flo: I’m not sure Foxo would want the PM to be public]
    AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA
    JUST
    HELP
    PLEASE
    I CAN’T BE BOTHERED TO TYPE MY NAME. ITS LIKE THE WORLD IS AGAINST ME OR SOMETHING. IM NOT GOING TO PRETEND STUFF ISNT HAPPENING IN REAL LIFE

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    • I’m sorry, whoever you are. Honestly (I talked with Foxo for a bit) I think he’ll come back. He says stuff like that a lot and I think he’ll return. I’m sorry *hugs*

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    • Aw, please don’t feel that way. 🙁 The world is not against you, I promise. It may seem that way sometimes, but it’s really not true. I’m sure Foxo will come back after he realizes what he’s missing from BlogClan. Sometimes all you can do is keep hoping for the best and hold back the tears no matter how much it hurts. Just realize things will get better and keep on keeping on. Much love <3 <3 <3 *hugs*

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  • One of my friends is really depressed and was diagnosed with BPD, so I’m really worried about her and we don’t even like talk a whole lot anymore because her mom took away her internet (mine too sort of rip). We’re really good friends and I can’t see her so I’m really stressing about this and really sad about it too so just hugs pls

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    • Awww, when you do see her give her lots of hugs from us! And here’s a special hug for you!! (Here’s a secret cookie) 🍪

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    • I’m sorry, Dapple *hugs* I have some friends going through similar stuff too, and I rarely get to see them either 🙁

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    • I can’t talk to her at all, no. I’m thinking of sending her a letter (her long-overdue christmas present is inside) but I’m not completely sure. Thanks for all the hugs guys 🙂

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    • Aww I have a friend like that too 🙁 The best thing you can do is let them know you’re always there for them if they need to talk. *hugs*

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      • The thing is though, there’s literally nothing I can do. I can’t see her IRL, I can’t talk to her over internet, and I’m still deciding on the letter because I’m pretty sure her parents hate me, and there’s no guarantee that they won’t just read it then throw it away and not tell her about it. I don’t know what’s going on with her, she might not even be with her parents right now. She could be living with her grandparents. And the one person that I could ask is hated by her and I don’t even see him (and I’m relatively sure he hates me). I’m throwing such a pity party for myself but I hate not being able to do anything for her. I dream about her all the time, dreams where I get to see her irl and talk to her irl then I wake up and I know it’s not gonna happen anytime soon. My parents don’t even want me talking to her and I’m just really sad right now. >.<

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        • That’s a really tough place to be in, Dapplepaw. I will keep your friend in my thoughts and prayers, in the hope that sometime, in some way, you can see her soon. But about the letter, it could be worth a shot. Maybe they do tear it up, but maybe they don’t. And if they don’t, maybe it could be just what your friend needed. 🙂

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  • Is it a bad thing that I`m happy the official boards went down? I`m feeling kind of really guilty about that. ;-; Someone`s video on it (ahem Moonkitti) actually led me here though, so yay. 🙂

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  • Two days ago I woke up to the news that one of my schoolfriends had passed away… We weren’t close, but I respected her a lot and she was so talented and kind and clever. It’s hard, I miss her 🙁

    It still feels like it’s all a lie, and she’s going to tell us that she made it all up and she’s still here. I didn’t say anything sooner because I was hoping it would be a lie or a prank or a joke but it’s not, it’s really happened.

    I just need hugs right now

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    • I’m really sorry Ferny. Death, whatever the circumstances, sucks, and is a fact of life. Lean on your friends who were also friends with this person. Comfort each other. Do things that make you feel happy. -huggles-

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    • *hugs* I’m sorry, Fern. I don’t know what to say to comfort you, but you and the family of your friend will be in my thoughts and prayers 🙁

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      • *hugs back* Thanks, Hobbit, I’m sure she’d appreciate that a lot and it means a lot to me too 🙂

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    • Oh no! That’s terrible! I’m so sorry, I can’t imagine how hard it would be to lose someone who you knew….. I’m sorry here are some huggles!
      *Huggles* 🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪

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    • I’m so sorry Ferny. Just know that we love you and I’m sure she knew that you cared for her. *huggles*

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    • I’m so sorry!!!!!! That’s terrible, I can’t even imagine… 🙁 Death is so terrible. 🙁 One of the horses at my stable, Rumples, one of my best friends, passed away a while back and I still miss him like crazy. He was a great friend, and I’ll never forget him…I will keep you and her in my thoughts and prayers!!!! Blogclan is always here for you!!!!! -Thousands of hugs-
      <3, Frosty

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    • I’m still can’t express how sorry I am for you’re loss Fern 🙁 Please send my condolences to the family, and know that I’m always here if you need to talk <3

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  • I know how you feel Fernpaw (fall). My Great Grandma past away in February and I stopped coming to blog clan just before that because my dad hate social media and had almost found out. I felt lost because I couldn’t come onto the best site in the world. Then my Papa (grandpa) died on Sunday July 24 and my grandma’s friend died two days after. I have had so much death in my life it feels like a dream. …no a nightmare. Except for the fact that I away know when I am in a dream. I am giving you a big hug. Will you return the hug for me?

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    • I’ll return all the hugs 🙂 I’ve had a lot of death in my family too this year, as well as the friend I was talkng about, my Great Uncle a few weeks ago, my grandparents’ friend a few months before…

      It’s horrible, and I hate this year, it’s like a horrifying slow motion trainwreck. I only hope that it gets better for everyone 🙁

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      • I hope it does too. Thanks for returning the hugs, it means a lot to me. Hug hug hug! 👭👬👫why is there no hug amoji?

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