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  • Today I went to school and me and my dad were the first ones there cause he teaches there, and then a went out side a while later to find some kids and teachers huddled in the parking lot. Apearently a school in my area had its roof collapse because there was so much snow so school is now canceled for today and tomorrow which means I won’t have any school this week 🙁 because I was sick Monday then Tuesday and Wednesday weresnow days, and now the schools have been shut down for two school days and the weekend for the district to check all of the school roofs. The schools roof collapsed when no one was in the building thankfully. But it was a school where a ton of my brothers friends go to. 🙁

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  • I broke my wrist today and it has to be my right arm and I can’t write anything with my left so that’s a big problem I just hope my cast doesn’t immobilize my thumb because there’s no way I’m writing then 😞

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  • Hi guys.
    I need a hug please.
    So, this is going to be a full-scale, major rant. Stick with me, okay? <3

    Most of this is gonna be about art. The other stuff is a bunch of other worries, etc.

    So, Lately, I have been really struggling with my art. A lot. I was on a fabulous roll for a long time, and I was really improving, and all of the sudden ~ bam! I started getting art block, I started feeling bad about my art style ~ etc. It just all happened so fast and I don't know why, because i hate it. I really do. Art is my favorite hobby, and I really love it so much. It means a lot to me. So let me just list my issues I have now. Any advice would be MUCH appreciated.

    Stress:
    I have been feeling super stressed and anxious with my art lately. Not too much in other parts in my life, I mean, there is still a bit of that stress, but mostly in art. I have so much to do art-wise, and I hate when it piles up on me and I can't really have FUN doing art anymore. I just don't like going to draw something and being like "oh no, I have to do this-and-that!" That sucks for me. There really is nothing more I hate then that. And yeah. Stress sucks. It just makes already bad things worse.

    Art-Block:
    This adds on to my stress. On top of having a bunch of art projects I have to/want to do, I have ART BLOCK. And man, do I hate art block. It is one of the worst things I experience in my day-to-day life. I love drawing so much, and it is my passion. But when I have art block, it almost feels like a punishment. Like I am somehow being punished because now whenever I pick up a pencil, my thoughts and ideas don't go onto the canvas, and I end up being frustrated. I know this sounds really not-bad, but it is. It sucks. And I hate it. So much. I am trying to write a book, and design characters, but now that I have art block, I can't and I end up crying with frustration.

    Being Self-Conscious about my style:
    And now, as well, out of Nowhere, I am super self-conscious about my style and I am not very happy with it anymore. I think that is mainly because of anatomy. I feel like I have stayed in my comfort zone for too long, and I really suck at anatomy. And I hate that too. I feel comfortable with my cat style. That's all good. But my anatomy with humans really is awful, and I hate that. I just feel like I need to improve a lot more, but I really am scared to try because I know I will end up being upset.

    and this is going to be the biggest rant.

    Living in This Tiny rental:

    UGHHHHHHHHH
    I seriously hate this place so much. SO MUCH. GRRR!!!!!!!!!
    It is really small, broken, and depressing, plus everyone in my family is stir-crazy and arguments and fights are common, daily things. Plus, I hate this place so much. It saps all the creativity and joy out of me. I am always the positive one in my family, but now, I really am struggling to be positive. I haven't seen my best friend in… oh wow. I can't even really remember. It was probably 3 months ago. And that makes me want to cry. I miss him so much. I really do. He was really special, and I do not want to let him slip out of my life. I refuse to let that happen.
    And, as well, the neighbors are rude here, our dog, Lucy (DISCLAIMER: SHE IS MUCH BETTER NOW DO NOT WORRY ABOUT HER) has not been well, and the owners of this rental are super rude.
    And I know this is going to sound bratty, but right now I just feel like my life is on hold. EVERYTHING that I want to do, my parents reply with "In 3 weeks when we move, you can do -so-and-so."
    IT IS SO ANNOYING!!!!!! I want to live now, not in 3 weeks. I have been getting so bored because half of our stuff is packed, and I can't freaking stay active. I have been so lazy, and SO TIRED, all the time, and I hate it. Before we moved, I worked out 9 times a week, for an hour each time, and I was super fit and happy. I didn't rely on the internet or youtube to keep me happy. Now, here, I am so weak, I can't even do 2 pushups, and I really miss working out.
    Plus, I am ALWAYS tired here. I don't know why. I haven't gotten the BEST sleeps, but not the worst!??! I am just always so drowsy and lazy.
    Yeah. I am just really unhappy right now. I have many blessings, and there is a lot of good stuff happening too, but after being so positive for so long, I just had to rant.

    Anyway, If you guys have any advice, please give it to me. I would love to hear long, long comments, That would make my day. <3
    Again, sorry to rant. ILY guys and I will see you later. <3

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    • Wavey! I’m so sorry you feel like this! For stress, try taking deep breaths and imagining yourself where you want to be, doing what you want to be doing. Think about doing your art not like a chore, but an activity. If you’re having trouble getting your ideas on paper, close your eyes and imagine your ideas on paper in your brain. Then transfer those ideas out of your imagination into reality. And also, your style is amazing. Nobody id perfect, you might not be perfect with humans but with cats you are great! It’s okay to be in your comfort zone, if that’s what you like doing.
      Okay. About the rental. I know you hate it and your family is cranky and you can’t see your friends. That is horrible. But I do have advice- imagine yourself in a better place. Or, imagine that you are a warrior cat being held hostage in a Twoleg den. Take your time imprisoned here to investigate. Maybe you’ll find something really interesting hidden in a corner.

      Remember that you can always rant here and let out your feelings. Everyone here loves you! <3 <3 <3

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        • Yay! Also, it was actually a typo when I wrote id instead of is when I was saying that nobody is perfect. I guess the typo proves my point!

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    • Hi Willa <3

      • I'd say art/writing/any creative pursuit is difficult to deal with. Inspiration doesn't always come to you. It's fleeting. It's a river. Great things happen. Awful things happen. You can create a masterpiece every day. You can go for months without picking up a pen. But, if you love art, stick with it. Yes, you will have to be patient. Yes, it is going to be frustrating. But you will continue to improve, and art will make you happy in the end.

      • Style is something a lot of artists worry about. Some worry they emulate other and aren't original. Some think their originality will never be good enough. I would suggest reading from many different sources and looking at varying examples of art. Be open. Absorb everything. You will leave a personal streak on the things you create, and your art will become an amazing mirage of willowness (IT'S A WORD MAYBE).

      • Have you ever spent this much time on the internet before? It tires you out more than you would think. It also prevents you from falling asleep. Try taking breaks from the internet. Disconnect. Do push-ups and sit-ups on the floor of your rental. Sprint down the street. Don't eat processed foods, because chemicals have the tendency to make us agitated and lethargic. You're a positive, amazing person. Try to make the best out of the situation. Like I said before, be open. Beauty can be found in everything; even tiny, barren, rental homes.

      Good luck. BlogClan is always here if you need to talk, and you can PM me on the wiki at any time! I hope things get better soon, and three weeks flys by!

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      • Hi Cyp <3

        * Thank you so much!! This really, really helps!!!! Like, the quote "Inspiration doesn't always come to you. It's fleeting. It's a river" That is amazing. Literally that sentence made me feel inspired to draw again. Like, If it is ok with you, sometime soon I want to use that quote in a drawing. ^w^ And I do love art. Very much. It means a lot to me, and I will never give up on it. <3

        * Aaa thank you again!!!!!!!!! (Willowness is a word in our world 😉 ) I got in a long chat about art styles with my adult/rl artist friend (She is an art teacher) and she told me some similar stuff ~ like telling me I should experiment, and try new things like abstract art. 😀

        * No. Not really, and I know it can tire people out. I have been making an effort to be on the internet a little less, and draw, or read, etc more. Thank you so much. <3 You're right, I should look at the positive stuff in this rental. 😀 Also, my coach's new gym has opened, and it is AMAZING. I will be able to get my workout fix there, and punching things really does help stress, or anxiety. 😀

        Thank you so much again, Cyp. Your comment really helped me. <3
        And yes, I know right after the rant, but I started drawing in my sketchbook, and my Art Block has been vanquished! 😛

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    • Sometimes I literally cannot draw or paint and I get so worked up about it. Other times i can draw something and it looks perfect. Try not to draw over a long period of time, do it in short bursts when you feel creative. The first thing I draw in a picture is always the best thing. I do art GCSE and it drives me crazy when I cant paint something simple like an orange. Try doing something different to make art such as making a collage or something. At least your only staying where you live for 3 more weeks, try to do stuff somewhere else until then!
      Hope I helped.

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      • Thank you so much!!!!!!!! This really helps, I loved feeling like I was understood, because sometimes i cannot even draw a cartoon dog. 😛 And yes, I know right after the rant, but I started drawing in my sketchbook, and my Art Block has been vanquished! 😛
        And also, I will try doing some other types of art styles soon to experiment. 😀

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    • *Hugs* When you feel stressed, you could read, listen to music, and you could go for a run. I hope everything gets better!

      (I have a dog named Lucy too!)

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    • I’m so sorry! *huggles* I wish there was something I could do or advice I could give that would help. 🙁 Hopefully things will get better soon.

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    • I’m sorry Willa!
      First of all, you ARE NOT A BRAT. We love you, and you’re amazing! So is your drawing! There’s nothing wrong with your style; it makes up who you are. And for the art blocks, you can always come to BlogClan for ideas! Also, something that works for me is to try to forget about it, and then BAM!, the idea comes to me! I hope that works! Lastly, you shouldn’t be stressed! I know I’m probably going around in circles, but it’s your favorite hobby! Enjoy it, and relax! Don’t force yourself into anything either.
      Okay. I hope that helped! May StarClan light your path, and huggles find you wherever you are.

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  • Oh, Willowpaw! You might be close to starting your period. I mean, I was the same way before and after. You should definitely take time off and just do settling things. Possibly reading or listening to calm music. I’d guarantee Enya music and books like Warriors. Whatever makes you happy and not tense. You could also have nice talks with your family. Talking to my mother always helps.

    Anytime you want to fall asleep, I’d recommend thinking about a made up character and imagine it going through hard times. It really helps me slip into a nice sleep. Another thing you can do is eat chocolate. It helps your hormones and also is delicious, But don’t gorge yourself with junk food. Eat healthily and make time for chocolate. Dark chocolate is best.
    I hope the best for you Willowpaw. *Huggles*

    I hope you find this information helpful!♥♥♥

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  • You should also try to scrapbook with them. It is fun to reflect on good memories. Also you should make a happy box. Fill it with stuff you like. For example, your personal scrapbook, books, notebooks, a sketchpad, pencils, art supplies, and whatever is special to you. And hey, don’t worry about your art. That has nothing to do with you. You are way better than what your hand can do.
    There is nothing wrong with where you live. You can do a lot of talking to your family and just ignore what is around you. I guarantee that your family will feel much better to know that you are okay with the place. But I am not telling you to lie. I hope you and your family figure things out.

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  • One of my parents new year’s resolutions was to have more parties and our first one is to night and believe it or not as crazy as I am I get really nervous around a lot of people that I don’t know and there are a lot of people coming my friends are coming my block is coming & my parents friends are coming and that means a lot of little boys running around the house with nerf guns HELP MMMMMMMMMMMEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!!!!! I love parties but not with people that I don’t know . Please send me some comments & hugs as soon as possible 🙂 *hugs to all*

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    • I had some neighbours who threw GIANT block partys at their house so i can definetly relate. And guess what! I was the ONLY girl there! So here is 101 on how to survive.

      Okay so nerf guns? Boys will only shoot at you if you are on the grass in the back yard, so keep away from running around in the backyard!

      So the block partys i went to had so many people i didn’t know. I just stayed around the hosts and people i did know and trust me, You’ll get a lot of gossip when they talk to people! So it won’t be boring! 😀 And ussualy it will help you not be nervous!

      Most inportantly, Just have fun -hugs- it will turn out great if you just enjoy your self! 😀

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      • Thanks so much the party went great well I think after the movie was done I heard someone say “Wrestle time!!!” And then I ran for it and went up stairs and ate a lot of chocolate!!! 🙂 Then the adults wanted us to sing some songs then we had a dance party then everyone went home!!! 🙂 -Fro

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  • Okay, okay… I really need to talk right now.
    and the
    So i am moving school and its making me really stressed. All my friends will be staying and i don’t know how to be myself at this place. Ussualy im fun and make everyone smile but i’m so worried i won’t be able to at this place. It just makes me uncomfortable being alone around so many people. (Someone said there are 25 PC classes!) I do have 1 family friend who will be there but i don’t know if she’ll even come down. Im so nervous right now i REALLY need a hug! I’ve never liked change much and im just so stressed! I recently went on holiday but school kept worrying me when we were travelling, meeting relatives in the car. -sigh- I met up with one friend and she kept talking about it’s never going to be the same again and pretty much said we cant be friends. But me being said: No! Of course we’ll be freinds trust me! 😀 YAY! FRIENDSHIP 4EVA (And slowley crying inside) Please guys i feel so alone.. At least i have you internet friends :D!

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    • as a person who has moved all over the united states, I have one piece of advice, you’ll be fine, trust me. You will make new friends it will be like going from the forest to the lake, you’ll go and you will make new friends and blaze new trails just like the warrior cats did.

      Good luck,
      Moonshine

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  • Ugh. My mom has been in a bad mood all week. The $500 automatic cat litter box broke, so now I am going to have to figure out a way to earn enough money to replace it within a few months, or the cats are being gotten rid of. Also, my mom wants me to spend more time with my cats, but I’m so busy I never have time, and I do love them, and want to spend time with them but ugh… I feel really guilty because they were meant to be my cats, but I was at school and stuff, and my mom would carry them around and feed them wet food, and all that stuff, and they bonded with her, and pretty much hate me. I know I probably sound very selfish, and childish, and stuff right now. I honestly feel like a complete jerk.

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    • *hugs* Maybe if you try to spend time with them in any free time you get, they might like you more? I’d recommend getting a regular litterbox. They don’t break, and it only takes a minute to scoop it.

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    • *hugs* I’m sorry. It’s not childish! I have this cat who used to prefer my mother over me and I was super jealous at first. What you should try is play with them any chance you get. Pet her, get her toys to play with, and try treats. If they’re not that old, they can learn trick like dogs do. Cuddle them as much as they like (not you). After a while, they’ll probably start looking forward to seeing you more than they do for your mom. Another thing is to care a bit more for them. You be the one who feeds them, you be the one who gives them water, and (even if it’s a bit icky at first) you be the one who cleans their litter box while the automatic one is broken. If you guys do it, brush their fur. If it’s allowed, let them sleep curled next to you or something. ^^

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      • My cat is obsessed with me. If I take off my sweatshirt she will run across the room to go and lay down on it, she is really old and I dont want to move her so I get another cat hair filled sweatshirt from my closet

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    • *hugs* I’m sorry, Cinder! For raising money you could try babysitting or petsitting if you have the time?

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    • Yikes! Well, it’s not too late! Spend time with your cats now. (I sound like a commercial 😛 ). *huggles* bad moods happen to everyone. It’ll pass 🙂

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    • I am sooo sorry! I hope your cats don’t have to be gotten rid of! I have had that happen to me- I mean mom and dad have threatened to give away our cat! 😱 Also, i don’t think you are being childish! Good luck! And may Starclan light your path

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  • There’s a husky wandering around my house and ever since I saw it chase my former neighbor’s cat I just started to get rather nervous and moody. I just don’t want it to chase my cats and possibly kill them or attack my chihuahua blergh this is the reason why i dislike huge dogs

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    • *Huggles* does the dog have a collar? If so, find its people(I really hate the word owner) are return it. Most large dogs are very sweet towards people, but if your going to approach it to check its collar and see who to return it to, don’t look it in the eyes, don’t look scared, and hold out the palm of you hand, for it to sniff, maybe bring some treats to give to it. Keep your cats inside till its returned. If it doesn’t have a collar, take it to your local Humane Society, you could call them to pick the dog up, or take the dog yourself. I hope this helped!

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    • Geez, that’s scary.*hugs* Are your pets outdoor pets? If so, maybe you can convince your parents to let them be indoor pets for a while.

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    • Oh, yikes! Does the husky belong to anyone? If not, you should call the animal shelter, so it can find a home away from chasable cats. Everyone wins! 😛

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  • My throats been sore for weeks now, and it’s killing me! Okay, not really, but it is SO painful and it’s hard to sleep, eat, drink, and swallow! I just want it to go away.

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