The Hug Page is here. Because, whoever we are, we still need hugs. This is still the best place to come if you’re feeling sad and need a hug from BlogClan…
[image description: gif of a brown bear sitting down and raising its arms with a smile and blushing cheeks. “FREE BEAR HUGS” is written at the top with a red arrow pointing down at the bear.]
(Sh! This is a new Hug Page. You can find the old one here)
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International suicide hotlines
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Argentina Suicide Hotline: 902 500 002
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Switzerland: 143
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Venezuela Suicide Hotline: 0241-8433308
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A note from BlogTeam: From now on, we will no longer moderate comments on the Hug Page that go into specific detail about events. Instead, commenters will post in a vague manner, such as “I’m having a bad day, I could really use some hugs”, and other BlogClanners are welcome to provide comfort and support. This change is not because of any specific event or person, but because it is extremely difficult to mitigate questionable comments and determine what parts of certain comments are suitable to moderate, as well as making sure that replies with advice are in no way harmful to the original poster or others. If you ever feel like you need advice about a serious situation, you are welcome to reach out to BlogTeam, because your health and safety is our top priority. However, no one on BlogTeam is or has ever been a mental health professional in any way, and all we can do is provide advice. We implore you to always reach out to a trusted adult or hotline (listed above) about a situation that worries you. You are still welcome to come to the Hug Page if you need any hugs or comfort from your BlogClan peers, but the cause of your distress can no longer be explained——no matter the situation. Thank you so much for understanding <3
I have to write this big bioagrapy poject that is due on monday and I have to do it all weekend. Wish me luck cats of blog clan!📝 Sorry Sundance the video was restrickted for me I bet it was great!
Good luck, Fro! *hugs* You’ll do great!
Howdy, everyone!!! Here are today’s RTOTDs:
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I hope your day is going well!!! 🙂
My fish is dead.
I don’t know what to say.
Just that I lost a fish and that I just want hugs. He’s going to be buried soon in a caramel box because it’s his size, plus he was a sweet fish.
RIP Finny
2014-2017
May you find a good place in StarClan
This edit in the memory of Finny. {speedy mod is here}
Awww. -Hugs-
RIP Finny
I’m sure he’ll be happy in StarClan’s lakes and rivers.
Remember all the good memories you have of him
*hugs* I’m sorry, Stoaty, losing a pet is always hard 🙁
Three years is a long time and I bet he lived a happy life <3 Hopefully you feel better soon
I know how you feel. My pet died last year and I had had her all my life. Hope you feel better soon and maybe your fish had a happy life (they probably did)
I’m so sorry Stoaty. If you look back to the previous hug page, my fish died too on 2-10-17. I feel you Stoaty. 🙁
Oh no, I’m so sorry! *huggles* Caramel is appropriate :3
I’m so so sorry, Stoaty. *huggles* I’m sure he lived a great and happy life. <3 <3
I’m sorry, Stoatkit… My fish died too a couple years ago. It was really sad, especially when my dog ate his body. I hope you feel better! And may Finny be safe and wet in StarClan.
I’m so sorry. Rest in peace and love, Finny. *Huggles*
Oh no, that’s terrible Stoatie! I’m so sorry 🙁 I bet that Finny had a wonderful life and treasured every moment with you. I hope you feel better! *huggles infinite times* <3 <3 <3
Sorry Stoaty 🙁 Rest In Peace Finny. Hope you feel better soon 🙂
I’m so sorry, Stout. May StarClan light Finny’s path. *hugs*
-hugs- I wish him a good path to StarClan. 🙁
Aw, Stoaty, I’m so sorry. *huggles* I’m sure he loved you and was so happy to have been able to spend his life with you. <3 <3 <3
Sorry about not having RTOTDS yesterday, hopefully I’ll have time but I’m not sure of there will be RTOTDs today. If not, I’ll make sure you guys get bonus ones!!! Have a great day!!! 😀
RTOTDs are back, and there are two bonus ones!!! 😀
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I hope you all liked them!!! Have a fantabulous day!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
OMG THAT PUG IS TOO CUTE
meme:
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The third one is the best.
I am very sad. My beloved dog, Chloe, died a few weeks ago. R.I.P Chloe 2007-2017.
Oh no, Maple, I’m so sorry! *huggles* <3 <3
*huggles* Losing a pet is horrible and I’m so so sorry <3
Pets, stop dying, you’re causing to much pain! *hugs* I’m really sorry, Mapleleaf.
Oh no, I’m so sorry for your loss! *huggles* 🙁
Loosing a dog is really hard. My dog Jessie died a couple of years ago and it was horrible.
Chloe lived a long and good life.
*hugs*
Oh, I’m sooo sorry! Losing a pet can be so hard!
Immegration problems
*Huggles* I fell ya
Relatable
Romance….. ugh. Way too confusing and just, scary.
So, I have a crush on this girl. ^^ And um, she asked me out. I’m not comfortable being in a relationship and I’m not ready to tell people irl that I like guys and girls. So I told her no. She was really upset and I felt so bad. Currently she’s under the impression I’m straight and she’s hurt because every girl she asks out ends up straight. Welp, that all happened Friday. I thought our friendship was kind of destroyed, but it seemed just fine. We talked like normal and I figured everything was okay. And then she asked me out again today. I told her no again. And then my friends started shouting that I liked her and I got really embarrassed. She asked me out right if I was straight, and all these people were watching, so I told her yes. And then my friend started yelling at me, telling me I shouldn’t lie and I was hurting her etc. etc. and demanding, very loudly, I tell her I’m bi. Even though he knows full well I’m not telling people.
The girl’s really heartbroken, and people are asking me if I’m gay now and I just feel like everything’s a mess and I don’t know what to do.
Okay, slow down.
First of all, talk to the girl, privately. Explain the situation and maybe offer to go on a date, but not make it an official thing, if that makes any sense.
Talk to your friend, tell them that what they’re doing is not okay. Is this the same guy who’s been causing you grief? If so, it might be time to find some new friends if he really just isn’t listening to you.
When people ask you, change the subject. If they’re persistent, tell them you’re not comfortable with your sexuality yet, and if that’s too much, leave.
*huggles* I I know it’s tough, but it’ll get better.
Thanks, Wavey. I’ll try that.
Wow, i’m so sorry you have to go through this Silverpaw! 🙁
It shouldn’t matter if your straight or Bi, If your not ready, then tell her. At my school, it doesn’t matter if you are anything. Although this one time, this guy was wearing leggings, and this immature guy, lets call him Oscarstorm, said ‘he’s gay’. Ugh. Anyway my advice would be:
Don’t be afraid of fear! In fact i have a video here that i watched which i think might help you 🙂
Wait , can’t access it, just go to youtube and search up’ storybooth bisexual’. I think it could/might help you 🙂
It’s not really the people I’m surrounded by at school I’m super afraid to tell, it’s my family. And because they could mention it to someone from my family, I just don’t really tell people.
*hugs* I have no advice for romance, I’m really sorry Silverpaw. I hope things get cleared up.
If you’re not ready to tell people yet that’s ok. Not everyone if comfortable with their sexuality so don’t feel pressured to come out to everyone if you’re not ready. If your friends are demanding you come out you need to talk to them and tell them you aren’t ready and they need to respect that. And talk to the girl and tell her privately what your feelings are. Good luck! ❤️
Thanks! I’ll do that.
Aww, Silver, I’m so sorry. I don’t know how to help you, because I am single ( XD ) and I’m straight. I hope everything turns out okay, listen to the other’s advice, they all made good suggestions. -huggles-
^^ They do have pretty good advice. I guess we could be single together 😛 Thanks for the hugs!
I think it would be best to explain the situation to your crush. I know of many bi people who date in secret, because I live in a homophobic place. The underground gay network, I guess :p
Tell your crush you like her back. You can be dating, but if people ask, just say you’re friends. Good luck <3
^^ Thanks for the advice.
Aww Silver, I’m so sorry!
It’s fine if your not ready to tell people, and it’s fine if your bi. Talk to the girl, and maybe explain the situation, and talk to your friends who shouted that stuff out if you feel like you need to, and tell them your not comfortable with them sharing your personal information. Hopefully this thing will just blow over, because it doesn’t matter if your bi 🙂 *Huggles*
I’m so sorry, Silver! I don’t think it was right of your friends to start yelling/trying to get you to tell people you’re bi if you’re not ready. Maybe explain to the girl privately why you said no when she asked you out. I hope everything gets better, and just remember that there’s nothing wrong with being bi, and that I’m always here for you 🙂
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Hey guys!!! I can’t believe it’s already Valentine’s Day-time sure does fly!!!!!!! Here are today’s RTOTDs:
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Today I tried to do some Valentine’s Day themed pictures, and I hope you liked them! Have a great day!!!!!!!!! 😀 <3
my gift to everyone. note: watch ALL of it. 🙂
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-ZOiX6cIT8o
I would’ve watched all of it if I hadn’t forced myself to look away from the screen! XD
Check this out!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6o2mExUTII4
I love it, Moon! Pusheen is amazing, and she’s even my avatar! Thank you for posting that video!!! 😀 <3
PUSHEEN CAT YOU ARE ALSO MY AVATAR.