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My dad just cancelled something that I was super excited about. I was looking forward to it for a while but now I’m really upset. I don’t want to seem like a crybaby but I did cry because of it.
Hugs please?
*hugs* You are not a crybaby! I would cry too trust me. *HUGGOS*
Hugsssss*** Does he know you were rly excited? Maybe you could ask if there’s another opportunity?
HUGS Dawnpaw! You are not a crybaby!
*hugs hugs* You are not a crybaby for crying, it’s completely normal and valid <33
*hugs* It’s totally normal to be upset! Is there a chance you could reschedule?
I’m so exhausted and so tired.
Trying to keep a balance on my emotions as well as school has felt near impossible, I broke down for no reason and most time spent in school was just wishing to go home. I always do really well in school—but I’m always stressed and it feels even harder right now to put energy into it.
I want to feel better, to not be stressed, and I’ve reached a point where handling things is so hard to do.
I know I’ll get there at some point, to a day where I am calm again—but it’s hard to see, as of now. I would appreciate some hugs. I hope this isn’t too heavy, and that you all have been doing well 💙
huggos***
HUGS Clo! That’s sounds hard! I’m sorry!
Sending hugs Clo <333
*hugsss* I hope you’ll feel better soon, Clowny <33
*hugs* Hope you feel better soon <33
Mods please moderate this!
I feel asleep at about 11:00 last night, I’m just not getting used to my bed, even though it’s been like two years, I just can’t sleep in my room and bed quickly. I woke up pretty groggily and not in the best mood which was an amazing start to the day (not!).
Recently my friend has been through the loss of someone special to her, which I don’t want to talk about but let’s just say hello’s weren’t that happy.
And we have so much homework- especially Arabic we literally had a test even though it’s our first day back!
I’m just so tired and my emotions are flowing out of control. Take this morning when i couldn’t do an art project. I tried a million times, then i got mad at myself and finally i started crying silently. Eventually the teacher helped me but nobody else, not even my bestie seemed to care!
And right now my self esteem is super low, I’m at the point of actively hating myself. Would everybody just mind using a few words, critical or kind to describe me? I know this might be more suitable for the polls page but honestly i just need to know the blog’s true opinion of me and i think that fits into this post.
Also please excuse the terrible punctuation, usually I pay attention to my punctaution but rn I can’t be bothered
Hugs/cookies/advice?
HUGE HUGS TO ANYONE WHO NEEDS THEM!
And sorry for bothering you guys
*hugs*
I’d say you’re a really nice and sweet person, just a bit too insecure <3 (I do not mean this mean at all, I just want to say that you shouldn't be so hard on yourself <3) Please don't dislike yourself because there are so many people who's days are made better by you!
Aww thanks Fallowpaw! You made me feel way better about myself than I’ve felt in about a year! ily! /plat
*Huggos!**
1. I have pretty bad sleeping problems every now and then and they are not fun! I hope they get better for you
2. I hope your friend recovers from her loss
3. You’re not terrible!!
My words to describe you 😉
-kind
-welcoming
-caring
-amazing
Thanks Wolfy!
no problem!
*hugs*
All of that must suck 🙁 When I find it hard to sleep I take deep breaths but it may be more than that
When we reach this age we just need self esteem and stuff, anyway you are nice helpful, eager and sometimes funny 😛 About the self esteem thing, I find it helpful to have confidence in yourself ‘cause everyone deserves to. Nothing from the outside (things that happened, other’s thoughts) directly determine who you are, they are just references 😛 🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪
Aww thanks Roses!
*hugs*
and cookies *🍪🍪🍪🍪*
Thanks Lionpaw!
From what I’m seen of you, you’re a sweet, considerate, and genuine person. Don’t be too hard on yourself — remember the quote in your own name. Failure is the biggest step to success!
*hugs*
Thank you Reedough! That quote was actually made by a friend when I was a little hard on myself but I haven’t thought about it for ages thanks for reminding me!
*hugs hugs*
Don’t be too hard on yourself <3 Bad days like this happen, I promise they'll get better! In the meantime, I believe that you are a caring, honest person on the blog. You're rly kind and loyal, and I think the whole blog appreciates that <33
Ty Shrubsy! You guys are making me feel like a celebrity!
Np Iva!
*HUGSS* dw Iva you’re an amazing, kind person, and the blog loves you
Tysm Jacki! The blog always makes me feel bettter!
*hugs* You’re a very kind, caring and positive person, and your replies always help people feel better on the hug page. Keep the quote in your name in mind, and I hope you feel better soon <33
Ty Redfawn! I love to feel like I can help someone feel better!
Hugs! I’m sorry, but I wish I knew Arabic, that is so cool! My favorite song is in Arabic (C’est La Vie, Khaled) but that doesn’t matter right now. Also, you aren’t bothering me, I’ve been looking for an excuse to comment. Based on your comment, I think like 6 words to describe you would be:
Empathetic: To begin, you show deep empathy for your friend who is going through a tough time, indicating your caring and compassionate nature.
Resilient: Despite facing difficulties with sleep and emotional struggles, you continue to push through your day and tasks, demonstrating resilience and determination.
Honest: You openly share your feelings and struggles, showing honesty and authenticity in expressing yourself.
Thoughtful: You take the time to consider how your post might affect others, asking for moderation and being considerate of the readers’ experience.
Supportive: You offer hugs, cookies, and advice to anyone who needs them, indicating your supportive and kind-hearted nature.
Self-Aware: You acknowledge your own emotions and state of mind, showing self-awareness and a desire to understand yourself better.
Thanks! If you like, I can teach you some basic arabic if you press on my name, and click on my chatting page! The words you gave really helped me understad myself a little better, Poppylight, ty!
I hope everyone’s doing alright <3
As most of you know, i joined drama a month ago. It's safe to say i'm not really enjoying it??? I was not prepared to get such a huge part (I'm Mr. Duvall in Mean girls. Ok, maybe it's not the biggest part, but it is to me lol) and i'm super overwhelmed because i have no idea how i'm going to memorize my lines in time, and i can't help but feel like all the other lead parts don't like me because i'm so inexperienced for my age. My friends aren't helping very much (they're just saying I only got the part because I'm an 8th grader and the directors have bias, which makes it 100x worse. I want a part because I deserve it sobs) And my parents are just telling me to practice more. I also tried out for dance parts and got rejected for every one (because I thought I was good at dance, but apparently not). Doesn't help that the only dance part I DIDN'T audition for, everyone who auditioned got in.
So in summary it's not nearly as fun as I thought it would be :C
HUGS! I’m sorry Foampaw!
*hugs*
You def deserve that part, Foampaw! If you’re not having fun or you’re being bullied, you should talk to someone you trust. Also, have some cookies! * 🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪*
(they can be chocolate chip or gluten free or whatever you want them to be!)
*huggos*
I’m sorry that you’re not enjoying theatre, Foamy. I’d suggest talking to a trusted adult about any issues. It’s not okay for your friends to tell you that you only got the part bc you’re in 8th grade. If your parents are bugging you, it’s okay to tell them to stop. I hope theatre improves for you 🙂
*hugsss* I’m sorry Foamy, that sucks :/
*hugs* I’m sorry you’re not enjoying it as much as you though you would, that sounds really disappointing. Could you ask some of your friends or the nicer people in drama to help you memorize your lines? They might have some tips. Hope it gets better for you soon, Foamy <33
Recently I came out to a selective amount of my friends that I identified as non-binary, but I still haven’t told my parents because they don’t really support it so I don’t know what to do about this…should I tell them or not?
HUGS Fir! I’m afraid I don’t have any advice but the blog will always support u!
as a nonbinary person I suggest no. Being nonbinary can be hard to explain to many people, especially if they aren’t open-minded when dealing with the general LGBTQ+ community, if they aren’t showing active support to the community I strongly suggest staying in the closet.
I second this! (Sending hugs, Fir <333)
*hugss* I’m not an expert on the subject, but I think it depends. Would it be safe for you to come out? Maybe speak to a counselor about it? Remember the blog always supports you <33
Hugs**
I’ve been in that same position before; this guy in my friend group told us they’re non binary and I told my parents. Not everyone’s parents are fine with the same things, but if you tell your parents and they’re upset or smth, why should you stop being friends with your friends? I say you should tell them, or not. I think you could go either way.
Wishing you luck whatever you do!
Hi Wolfpaw, I think you probably meant well here, but please do not reveal this sort sensitive information to people. Your friend could have been seriously endangered by this.
Fireflypaw, you don’t have to come out to anyone if you don’t feel comfortable doing so. Best of luck!
what Birchfoot said, that’s not really your information to tell, Wolfy. I’ve been on the other side of this stuff before and it ended up being very uncomfortable.
Please ask your friend next time or let them tell other people instead. 🙂
*hugs* I’m very sorry to say this, but it probably wouldn’t be the best idea. If they don’t support the LGBTQ+ community, it’s better not to risk them treating you worse because of it.
I’m not an expert, but I would say do not if you’re not comfortable or they’re not supportive. But in the end it’s completely up to you. Sending many hugs ♥
*hugs* If you don’t think your parents will support you, then I’d recommend not coming out. But maybe you could bring up non-binary people in general and try to educate them a bit, and see if they’re supportive then? Unfortunately, a lot of people are opposed to things that they just don’t understand.
*hugs*
first of all, I’m also on the nonbinary spectrum (I’m pangender) so I understand how it feels to be a closeted genderqueer person. I think that no matter what you decide to do, remember that your safety should always come first–you said that your parents aren’t really supportive of the LGBTQ+ community, so if you think that could become an actual threat to your physical, mental, or emotional health then I strongly suggest you don’t, or at least wait a bit more to come out. I personally am also closeted (I’ve also come out to a few of my friends) although I’m not really sure what my parents’ thoughts on the LGBTQ+ community is so I really do understand that it can really suck to stay in the closet, but again if you don’t think that your parents would support you coming out then please don’t feel like you have to. coming out is a process and I understand that it can be hard, but please remember to prioritize your safety!! sending many hugs your way <33
HUGS I am a trans person I’ve only came out to four of my friends and they support me my mom knows I am trans and she supports me but I am not going to tell my dad because he is transphobic so if you can see tell tale signs that they might be non-binaryphobic I won’t tell them it may also be hard to explain wish you the best sending you hugs
Not nonbinary, but LGBTQ person here. I wish I didn’t have to say this but it’s probably better to stay in the closet. I personally had a very bad coming out experience to my parents and it has made my life much harder. Then again, if you’re prepared for a possible bad reaction and you have a support system then it might be easier. Just do whatever feels best for you <3
Sooo my sister’s sick with a fever that keeps coming back and I’m worried my friend (Marshpaw) can’t come over. We don’t do school dances so we just hang out that day but now that my sister got sick from her bf Jewelpaw who got sent back to school barley a day after she recovered from her own flu. Also a friendly reminder to stay home a day after you recovered from your sickness in case you don’t pass it on unknowingly.
Hugs plz ^^
*HUGS*
*huggos* Whatever is happening, I hope you feel better soon Ryry <33
*huggles*
Hugs
*Huggssss*
Also cookies 🙂 🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪
Hi guys! I have a problem, which I guess explains why I’m here, but whatever. I have this friend who we will call Foamtail. You see, Foamtail was born with a special mouth, one which always needed exercise, so it just runs and runs and runs, until after the 30 TIMES IT’S TOLD TO STOP RUNNING, IT YET RUNS! Especially in math class, I swear, Foamtail just says the most random words loudly, like 30 times a minute. He’ll say something like, “ice cream” or “rubber duck” and it’s SOoooo ANNOYING. I tell him to be quiet. I also tell him that instead of the math he has to do, he should focus on finding the INVERSE OPERATION OF WHAT HIS MOUTH ALWAYS DOES!
Anyways, can I just have some hugs/cookies, or especially advice.
-Yours,
Poppylight
Hi Poppy, I’m sorry it’s distracting for you in class – I imagine it’s very difficult to focus on your work!
If this boy seems to be blurting out random words all the time, he might have a condition called Tourette’s Syndrome (this might be a useful reference page if this is the case: https://tourette.org/about-tourette/overview/faqs/ ). If this is the case, then he sadly can’t control his actions; however, if it’s getting very difficult for you to focus on your work, it might be worthwhile chatting with the teacher about some alternative options. Maybe either you or him could move to a different room if you have to do independent work, or perhaps you could bring some noise-cancelling headphones.
If he seems to be just doing this to get a rise out of you, then I am very sorry! I imagine it would be very frustrating in your position 🙁
Can I have some hugs? I’ve been feeling soooo lonely irl even though I have a pretty big circle of friends, so it doesn’t even feel like I should feel lonely. Also it’s tech week and Im a little dead rn :’) It kind of feels like happiness is actively running away from me and each day is just so exhausting
Plus I’ve been feeling incredibly insecure about my appearance so theres that too